Leiza,

Sorry I didn't see this thread sooner and had a chance to give you my opinions and experiences.

I am glad you found the answer for what hopefully works out best for you and your Hubby.

Kisses!

Steph

Another factor here is that the "Wife" may desire just a little attention. Not sexually but just enough interest from another man to be sure she still is attractive and "has the goods" to be desirable and sexy! She might just need validation and feels her husband might not be paying attention to her so her ego needs a little boost.

Another thing is that you could be a part in their fantasy. If she can get your attention and maybe let her husband know and possibly see it, it could be just a fantasy of theirs and it is a minor roleplay or fantasy for them.

Finally, it could be a jealousy play for her to use and entice her husband to fuck her more.

But be very careful about going for it!
You might have to move out of the neighborhood if you do get her in yours or her bed!

Kisses!

Steph

Okay, I'll Bite....

So what is he into or what are you thinking we should do to make him and you feel better?

Kisses!

Steph

Hell Yes!

It gets me ready for the next volley!

Kisses!

Steph

Mandy,

I love wearing them, when I can find one that fits and supports me well!
That being said, it is harder for larger breasted women to find nice and sexy shelf or demi cup bras that don't look like industrial support frames covered in lace!

I also like low cut corsets or bras where the cups can be tucked under. Although they aren't the most comfortable that way, they sure make the "Girls" stand up and get attention from guys and other gals too!

Kisses!

Steph

Have a very nice silk "gunny sack". Will you cum over and try it on? Prove your point to me?

Oh Tina! You would probably be even sexier than me in that as your attitude is totally HOT!
But you know I'm right either way!

Kisses!

Steph

Not to sound conceited or egotistical but, I could wear a gunny sack and attract others.

It's not my clothes or lack of material,
It's not my figure or the way I show it off or not.

It's my attitude and how I project myself that gets me the most attention!
If I'm happy and smiling at anyone, it shows well.
If I'm angry or frustrated, than I come of bitchy and a real ball buster

But if I just be myself, I'm told I have a certain twinkle that makes people wonder and also gives them the impression of my mischievious side that can be alluring.

Kisses!

Steph

The posters above are right. Take it from someone who has been in the lifestyle practically 30 years now!

We have many friends who are very active in the lifestyle and were never interested until being introduced to it.
Usually it was at the urging of the wife and the husband kept the desires to himself until it was brought up and discussed.
This is the key thing! Open and Honest Communications!
If you don't have it to begin with, you will never have a successful and lasting experience in the lifestyle!

Another situation we have seen is when a Husband and wife roleplay themselves while watching porn or reading stories together and they discuss the fantasies and eventually decide together to check it out. From there, they can search out local clubs and open members nights and just find a group to meet with and see if they have the right chemistry.

If this is just your fantasy and you are talking to us on a forum about it, I see you not having the communication that is so necessary to have a great and lasting experience with your wife.

Kisses!

Steph

I can only imagine how wicked Sherry would look into a guys eyes while driving him crazy!
But then again, I guess I would do the same! LOL!
Kisses!

Steph

It is a touchy political subject to many but I think it should be allowed.

Being a woman who is BI and married to a wonderful sharing man, gives me a different perspective than others.
On top of that, we share a girlfriend who has lived with us for many years and we feel she is more than family.
Not unlike a so called marriage of threesome with Porn Actress Nina Hartley and her Hubby and girlfriend. But we haven't attempted to make our union a legitimate marriage with the three of us.

Kisses!

Steph