Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic What would you do if you visited a Beach to discover it was clothing optional
Posted 14 Mar 2012 20:47

Did a small hole in the sand then lay face down and look at the sights.

Awwww!!! Only a small Hole? I was hoping you would have more if I bounced by in front of you nude...

LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 14 Mar 2012 20:29

A Lot of Kissing and A Lot of Fucking, 'cause she wants to experience a lot more! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What do you do to stay fit?
Posted 14 Mar 2012 19:43

Lots of Sex! Seriously!

But mostly drinking a lot of water, walking a lot everyday, and trying to eat right!
Eating good stuff along with a few treats but in small portions, several times a day with lots of fruits and veggies.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 14 Mar 2012 19:39

Fuck!

Cause she looks like fun!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Help me feel sexy again
Posted 14 Mar 2012 19:27

Shadowcat,

The fact that you are trying for your lover is already a plus!
What you feel for him is the desire to please him. And that is something you should be proud of!
You are SEXY for giving him your love and yourself!!!

Mentally, and possibly emotionally, you are disconnected and that is a natural situation with your diagnoses.

as others have already suggested, I would pursue couples or sensuality therapy for the two of you.
Just be sure to speak to the instructor / director of the program before hand to let them know what your situation is and what you are trying to seek from their assistance. A good instructor / director will let you know if their program applies to you or they would refer you to someone else who specializes or can help you!

Best of luck to you!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do you get enough.....!
Posted 14 Mar 2012 19:13

A Kiss, or the Art of Kissing is so missing in most of the erotic foreplay these days!
Everyone is so rushed to get right to fucking!

The act of kissing is patient, slow, tender, tantalizing, arousing, erotic, building, anticipating, sighing, breathing, soft, firm, lingering, tonguing, licking, brushing, barely touching, tingling, wet, assertive, varying pressures, confusing, communicative, sensual, mental, juicy, tantalizing, breathtaking, heart pounding, mind blowing, and many more descriptions.

But it will make me WET if done properly and if the person takes their time to make me entice and savior the moment!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic what are you drinking?
Posted 12 Mar 2012 22:52

A pitcher of Midori Kamikaze's...

Topic Religion and Sex...Can they Coexist?
Posted 12 Mar 2012 20:39

iceman and lafayettemister, I believe you both stated what I was trying to say in which the bible was written by men and with all the changes over the years, what is true to the original form and changed by the persons interpretations.

In any case, I believe lafayattemister has put my mental dilemma into terms that make sense. Or at least make sense for ourselves and our friends who exchange lovers freely and still live with Christ in our hearts. We are doing it willingly without betrayal to our marriages. Like he said, it may be our way to justify it but with everyone being consenting and knowing who we are with besides our spouses.

The weird thing is that this conversation has come up frequently with those we are playing with since we all are part of the same church and are active members. We may be ignoring the Bible, the Commandments and any other scriptures but we are not out hunting for others to convert to our ways.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Lactating Lesbians!
Posted 12 Mar 2012 20:31

Ummmn! I think I may qualify as one!

But I would also love to see others!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 11 Mar 2012 22:22

Lauralee is a very unique and interesting lady who I would love to sit down and chat with!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sexy Water Pictures...
Posted 11 Mar 2012 22:19

WOW!!
That last one above is absolutely beautiful!

And I KNOW how great it feels to have my boobs float almost weightless in water~!
Maybe that is why I love being around water so much!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 09 Mar 2012 22:22

The name above is how I often feel!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Religion and Sex...Can they Coexist?
Posted 09 Mar 2012 22:21

I thank all you others who have stopped by and posted your comments!

Clum, I understand where you are coming from as my Hubby and his family were raised in the Buddhist influences. But I believe you are missing their main focus. In which one is supposed to strive to achieve "Enlightenment". However I do agree with your viewpoint about us not being good Christians. I thank you for your comment and viewpoint!

LittleBambi, thank you for your post! Yes! I am surprise as I was thinking that I would stir up a pot with a lot of controversy and with this being an open forum, I was expecting many comments that would show how volatile and difficult people would find the subject. It wasn't started to have comments that were unbiased. It was to get the opinions and experiences from the members who have a bias or conviction and to hear their viewpoints. I was not looking to form a new choice, decision or conclusion, but rather to see how others live with a sexually active lifestyle and also with their form of religions coexisting.
Thank you for your post!

Eviotis, I think you have a good perspective and really got to the heart of the issue, Live it but don't look for an escape clause! Thank you for your comment!

Nikki, Thank you Sweetie! I enjoyed how clear and distinct you put it! I feel the same way! Maybe I and our friends are kidding ourselves! But we are continuing our support of others and keeping our faith in the Lord!

Flirtygirl! You Nailed it! Thank you! Thank You! THANK YOU!!! We are living a contradiction and sinning each day. We do not need to worry about the judgement of others but rather the Lord himself. And we are breaking one of the commandments willingly and trying to justify our lives and services to the Lord by thinking of all our good services to him, offsets our sins. Like Nikki stated, we are just fooling ourselves. I truly appreciate you posting your comments!

aalily, You put it in simple terms and I wish it were that way! But life is not so simple. Thank you for commenting!



THANK YOU All for your posts!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic a womans figure in question
Posted 06 Mar 2012 00:51

I love my body!

If I could change something, I would keep my height but make my legs longer.
Otherwise, everything else is in pretty good shape! If I may say so myself!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic caught him trying
Posted 06 Mar 2012 00:47

It wouldn't be normal if he didn't try!
I too love my sleep and really need it!
But if I don't get a good workout before, then I tend to be restless myself!

Sometime Hubby may be working late and I get tired earlier so I will turn in but he will come in and we get our night time workout together before settling off to a restful sleep. But then, I sometimes wake up late or early and get online and work myself up again and wake him up!

Oh Well!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic safe word
Posted 04 Mar 2012 22:10

Taking Sprite's post a step further, it also applies to couples and people in the lifestyle or swinging and swapping parties...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Religion and Sex...Can they Coexist?
Posted 04 Mar 2012 22:08

I thank you both for posting your comments!

Frankly, I am surprised this topic has not raised more posts to this thread.

Chefkathleen does point out some very basic and simple contradictions to our choice of lifestyle and how we believe we are adhering to the teachings of Christ while performing adultery and living a deviant lifestyle.

GypsyChild seems to take a similar viewpoint or attitude that we do. In our situation, our morals may not reflect the true teachings of Christ and we are bending what we believe to allow us the sinful pleasures we indulge in.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Religion and Sex...Can they Coexist?
Posted 03 Mar 2012 10:16

Some friends and I were having a conversation amongst ourselves that sparked our interest in others opinions.
We all have different backgrounds but have found ourselves gravitating to a modern Christian Church.
This church is very relaxed and not super strict like the Catholic church I was raised in.
My other friends have similar experiences growing up as well and we all enjoy the relaxed atmosphere.

With that said, we also share an open lifestyle and have many other friends we play with.
Some of us gals, feel the contradiction in what religion states as opposed to how we live our sexual lives.
We are women and men that enjoy sex with others but we choose to live our lives in service of Christ.
In the mainstream, this would be a sin. But in our world, we choose to ignore the opinions and ideals of the rest of the religious society and live with this contradiction.

I would like to hear from other Lushies and know what your opinions are on this.

Can my Hubby and I still be good Christians while enjoying sex with others?

What was your religious upbringing and how does it affect your sex lives?

Thank you!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Display Pic
Posted 27 Feb 2012 22:19

Honestly,

I look at their profiles and if all they have is pics of their dicks, then I feel they have nothing to offer.

If there is no substance and something interesting besides a pic of their cocks, then I move on.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 26 Feb 2012 23:44

His name is how I feel most of the time! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Mother's of Lush only
Posted 26 Feb 2012 23:43

If you put aside anything sexual, do you have a strong foundation of a relationship with this girl?
Are you able to provide a future together and support the child?

Depending on how young you two are and also how mature she is, it could be something that is on her mind.
The sex may be great and You love her but she may be questioning a lifetime commitment.

I can understand the hormonal changes and how it affects her mind but also the impending responsibilities can be stressing her and she may not see you being supportive, but instead asking her to give up her freedom.

You can be an attentive listener to her and try to be supportive in all of her needs as well as anticipating those to come.
Try to talk to her in small segment or steps to let her know what kind of ideas you have about your future together.
Make sure you share with her and engage her thoughts and feelings about the plans together, otherwise you will make her feelings and ideas seem insignificant and seem like you disregard what her opinions and desires for her future are.

It will be a roller coaster with her emotions but just try to be understanding and also help her with the development of your child as her pregnancy progresses!

Good Luck to the Three of You!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic On Top
Posted 25 Feb 2012 21:42

A lot of times, I loose control and just grind and pound onto my guy and make myself crazy on his cock!
Hubby knows how to drive me crazier and will arch himself up and then hold me at the end or just where his cockhead touches my lips!
He will hold me there and let his cockhead tease me and make me want to pound down on him even more so!
It gets annoying at times but it also keeps me up on top longer!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Mutual Masterbation
Posted 25 Feb 2012 21:33

Jordyn,

You brought up some great memories and fun times with your post!

I've had many fun times when I was younger that was similar to what you described and even more since then!

One of the best events was with a couple of people sitting together but we didn't have condoms. Our friends were in the next room fucking like crazy and making the most wild and loud noises and getting us all hot and bothered! Seeing the guys cocks get hard and them trying not to rub them just got me going and we all started to masturbate together! I loved seeing them shoot their cum with their dicks out of their pants! It was funny watching them shoot it towards me and some did land on me!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic clitoris foreplay
Posted 25 Feb 2012 21:28

A good lover will pay attention to it.

A great lover will be gentle, and take their time to get to know it, tease it, caress it, lick it, suck it, flick it with their tongue, and make love to it! Without paying too much attention to it!

It is a very sensitive and easily aroused part of our bodies. But it is not to be overused and abused...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic to the bi or lesbian ladys
Posted 22 Feb 2012 19:47

A very interesting question!
But my experience has been what was comfortable for me.
So it may not apply to everyone.

Cross dressers to me are not committing fully to their sexual orientation.
Whereas Trans-sexuals are making a big step towards the change but sometimes stop in the middle of the process.

I have found Trannys very erotic and able to offer more fun than what we would think possible.
Some may be strange but there are few that have been very stimulating and exciting to be with!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Ever fantasized about your sister's husband (Brother in law)?
Posted 21 Feb 2012 22:43

Nope! NO WAY!!!

Both of my sisters married losers the first time!
The second time around, neither of them seem to be living life much!

At least my oldest sister admitted her attraction to my Hubby!
It was so much fun to see him show what a real man can do for her pleasure!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Would you ever be the one girl in a bukakke?
Posted 20 Feb 2012 19:13

No. Not my thing.
Only like cum on my body and not on my face or hair

Kisses!

Steph

Topic do you actually like to cyber
Posted 20 Feb 2012 17:06

I think Jenni and Bunny said it best! We need that connection beyond descriptive words to make the experience more intense and meaningful!

I need an interactive person that is descriptive as well as imaginative and can hold a decent conversation that is responsive to what I am saying with them!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic men masturbating for women
Posted 20 Feb 2012 12:59

When it's in the right situation, and both people are using it as foreplay, it can be super HOT!!!

Nothing like knowing a guy is turned on by you and seeing him grab his cock and stroke it for you.
I watch his actions and reactions to learn what feels good for him so that I can do something similar later!
But knowing he is making himself hard and thinking of fucking you is so HOT!
Then when he makes himself cum! OH YES!!!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic long inner labia
Posted 19 Feb 2012 21:30

I don't have one of that description but a few friends do and I rarely if ever have heard of a guy complaining about a gals anatomy!
Most guys just want to fuck and normally that's fine!
But if they are hung up about the appearance of our sex, then they shouldn't complain if we don't like the looks of their wimpy dicks!

Kisses!

Steph