Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic Gals, in your Mind, What's the difference between a Slut & a Whore?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 13:27

Susan,

I'm sorry you feel this way about this thread. In hindsight, I could have worded it differently.

I was trying to figure out other women's feelings about this in the context that poizenivy replied.
Being called a whore or his whore during sex as opposed to his slut. And what other women's feelings are.

Thank you to the others who have posted their replies!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Guys, In your opniion, What is the difference between A Slut & A Whore??
Posted 02 Dec 2011 11:03

Not at all Lafayettemaster!

Thank you for posting.

it is like when people say they love to have a lady on their arm and a whore in the bedroom.

I'm just trying to get a feel of what guys and gals think of this.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Guys, In your opniion, What is the difference between A Slut & A Whore??
Posted 02 Dec 2011 10:59

Thanks guys!

So in your opinions, can a woman who acts like a whore, be sexy and desireable? But not accept money or favors?

And would it be a situation where you call a woman you are fucking a Hot Whore, acceptable?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic My last orgasm was...
Posted 02 Dec 2011 10:14

Just a few moments ago after reading a particular good erotic poem!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Placing your hand on your partners genitals as you fall asleep together
Posted 02 Dec 2011 10:03

Hubby likes it when I hold or touch him. We just have to communicate that it is not for sex since he will always get hard instantly! There are few times when we do it after sex but the other times, I like to play with his balls and it will relax him even though he gets hard.

Sometimes, If I'm in the mood, I'll just lay my hand there and feel him get hard then go down on him and suck him off or give him a quick tit fuck and then we'll fall asleep together

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:58

This may have already been posed since there are so many pages.
But to have the ability to edit posts in the forums would be nice.
Maybe it is there and I don't understand it but there are times when I see a spelling error I made or to clarify a thought that didn't read right.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What are we doing right now.
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:54

Just posted two threads and chatting with a couple of friends!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Guys, In your opniion, What is the difference between A Slut & A Whore??
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:52

This will also be posted in the Gals section but I would love to hear the Guys opinions on this!
In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!

So Guys, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Gals, in your Mind, What's the difference between a Slut & a Whore?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:49

This will also be posted in the guys section but I would love to hear the girls opinions on this!
In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!

So Gals, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Shaving A Girl's Pussy
Posted 01 Dec 2011 13:07

laserdude almost sounds like my Hubby!

We shave eachother regularly as a form of foreplay and intimacy for us both!
We always get to enjoy the benefits afterwards!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Forum Game: Sexy Chain
Posted 01 Dec 2011 12:56

Nibbling!

Topic Pierced nipples
Posted 01 Dec 2011 12:01

I've wanted to have mine pierced for awhile.
when I was younger, my nipples were inverted and I thought it would help them pop up more.
After I had kids, they got bigger and more pronouced but since I have such large boobs, they are perfect for my size now.

Still, I would love to get some of the cute jewelrey, chains and dangles they have!

And that girl in the pic posted by Buzz has me Going!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic "hi baby im hard for u wanna taste me..." as a pick up line
Posted 01 Dec 2011 11:45

The original message was lacking any creativity in my opinion. I much rather have some sense of humor and common reference like the Flintstones party situation.

I'll admit to being a slut for sex! But I am a professional business woman too and if I receive an anonomous IM or PM, with a crass sexual message, it's a turn off!

If it is someone I don't know and they "test the waters" by trying to see if I'm in the right frame of mind with some small talk, then I might react favorably to them. But most times, I will just delete!

Now if it is a friend and it is someone I can identify with, then it will probably be a different matter.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 30 Nov 2011 16:33

Her Nic is very appropriate for a site of sensual stimulations!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 29 Nov 2011 23:44

I'd give Slutpuppy a try!

If she's willing to take it from an older woman!

Fuck Yeah!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do women dislike or resent the use of the slang "Cunt"?
Posted 25 Nov 2011 12:05

Generally, I dislike the word. But sometimes there are times that when I hear another woman in the heat of the moment, yells out to her partner to fuck her cunt, then I find it sexy!

Some stories or written prose using the word cunt can be erotic and very arousing!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Swingers Lifestyle
Posted 24 Nov 2011 21:07

Dollandhercowboy,

I'm trying to understand the root of your question...

Are you asking people in standard relationships their opinion of people in the lifestyle?

Or are you trying to get a "picture" of people who participate in the lifestyle, from their own opinion of themselves?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Why women want enlarged (fake) tits?
Posted 24 Nov 2011 21:02

Even though it is hard to believe, at 51 years of age,
<-------------------------THESE ARE REALLY MINE!!!!

And I don't need them any larger!
They are HEAVY, they SWAY and BOUNCE when I DON'T WANT THEM TO!!!

But they are pleasurable to have and as poizenivy stated, if they do head south, I'm not oppose to getting some work done!
But more of a reduction and Lift!

As for women who get theirs done, it doesn't make them FAKE!!!
The gals that go for overly large stripper tits are the ones that are unrealistic!

Those that get a nice size and makes them feel better about themselves, Go For It Girls!

Like my good friend above stated, women wear make-up! It doesn't make us fake!
It's YOU guys who can't take us women behind ANY tits seriously, are the fake ones!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Fucking a younger guy
Posted 23 Nov 2011 14:03

Speaking from my perspective, I would not pay attention to you if you could not hold an intelligent coversation with me about anything!

You need to tap into what interests the woman and get her mind attracted to you!
It's true some don't want a lot of small talk and just want to fuck.
But you have to be able to get their attention, not just physcially but socially as well!

I know a few girlfriends that as MILF's go for the younger guys that are less experienced, timid, shy and awkward, and enjoy being the older and more sexually experienced person to rock a young guys world!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Suggestions for good "stripping songs"?
Posted 22 Nov 2011 15:00

Cathy,

A few fun ones I found are on the Burlesque Soundtrack with Christina Aguilera. In fact a lot of her songs, slow, upbeat are good too! Also like some of the Pussycat Dolls stuff but then I can also find some country ballads and other songs to dance/strip to that just depend on the mood and the effect you are going for!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Women and Porn
Posted 22 Nov 2011 14:27

YES!!! I watch it!

With it being freely found on the internet these days, it's less of a hassle to go out to an ABS and have to deal with finding what I'm feeling interested in and not enjoying the selection! Online offers the clips and the hot stuff and not so much of the other crap.

Although I was used to the old days when we rented tapes and the actors were bad and the stories were somewhat interesting and the people weren't all plastic! I do love the older Porn!

The modern stuff is not as interesting and more in your face with harsh or rude actions, IMO. I much prefer to watch amateur couples and real people anymore. To me, the last of the good stuff was probably from the late 90's to the early part of 2000.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Your Feelings ?
Posted 22 Nov 2011 13:46

Zoe, I see a pattern here to your posts!

I enjoy the feeling of being with another woman regardless of if her boobs are the same or larger than mine! If they have perky or puffy firm nipples, than it's even better!

Smaller boobed girls tend to be more obsessed with my larger boobs and I love the feeling of mashing them or rubbing mine against their hard nipples!

I love the feeling of being together boob-to-boob!
But there are other positions too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic massage
Posted 22 Nov 2011 13:42

I've had many massages for muscle and tension releases and found so many varied techniques that are not supposed to be sensual, but become erotic because I am so relaxed.

There was a few times that at some specialized spas and resorts, where the persons were trained or learned the proper techniques in providing female pleasures. And I enjoyed the varied applications of the different massuesses who did the work on me.

However, I have found it rare that a man is able to fully understand the subtlty and the degree of touch required to fully provide a true sensually erotic massage. Not to knock most men, but the women who do it are more aware of the nuances and the relaxed way to apply the right pressure, and where, to allow a woman to let go and relax and let it happen!

I found one woman in Northern California that was not actually intending to do sensual or sexual massage but had such an ability and technique, that it was so natural for her. She was able to wipe away the constraints of time and allow the patient to fully relax and enjoy the experience and let it linger on. As a plus to her abilities, she found that the techniques she was studying was benefitting from the sensual techniques and allowed her to be a more effective massuesse for the general clientel!

As for the awareness of a massuesse touching sexual areas, it really depends on them to make the person comfortable and then it is not an issue. Of course, if you are horney and anticipating the touch in a positive way, then it is all too easy to become aroused when they touch you there!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Lubrication
Posted 21 Nov 2011 19:48

Do you want exact measurements? Cos this one time, at band camp, I sat on top of a pint glass and it was like half full by the time I was done!

Bambi, That was awesome! Hugs

Seriously, to the original poster, I's all relative. Some women are very juicy and others are only slight.

Of course your pre-cum helps too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Could I have brought her a better first time experience?
Posted 21 Nov 2011 19:45

Like many women, I did not have a positive memorable 1st time experience. It was more the pressure of having sex to please the guy I was with.


Being that you are caring and thinking about her pleasure, seems like you are putting her experience above yours and that is commendable!
I would say that the trauma and fears of the first time along with the pain, could be difficult for her to block out. But since you two have had sex again since that first time, as long as you both take your time and continue to be nurturing and caring, I think she will relax and enjoy the experiences and eventually get to the point of letting herself relax and get into the positive physical sensations.

Remember that the sex is more mental for women! Even though there are more nerve endings in our vaginas, it is still a new experience and until the mind relaxes and enjoys the experience, she will never mentally and emotionally allow herself to to enjoy the sexual side of it! It's basically a huge mental block!

Be patient, discuss it normally, not clinically, and just be loving, compassionate, and supportive, and it will all come together!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic having an affair with a married man
Posted 21 Nov 2011 19:32

Unless you hear it directly from her lips, Don't do it!

I can only come from her and they be in an open marriage to be acceptable!

Kisses,

Steph

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 21 Nov 2011 16:10

Being around Lush and finding so many interesting, sexy and like minded people!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Tease him till he cum's
Posted 21 Nov 2011 16:06

Beckey,

I can't do just a hand job normally without a little mouth action!
And if I can get my mouth on it, I have to use my boobs too!

So with that said, it depends on the situation!

Sometimes it's fun to just drive him to lose control and cum all over!
Then he's rock hard again soon and can keep going until I get off a few times!

Other times it is fun to push him to that edge and then he takes me and fucks the hell out of me!

Either way, I still win!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Grinding?
Posted 21 Nov 2011 16:03

Bella is absolutely right!

Knowing that you are getting hard from me on your lap moving around is such a thrill!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Love, Sex and Intimacy...
Posted 21 Nov 2011 10:02

I have had sex with a man, been made love to, and simply fucked. They're all different with different levels of intimacy and I really think all those levels vary from person to person.

And I know I would enjoy seeing you in every situation described above and a few in my dirty mind as well!

Kisses!

Steph