Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic Gals, in your Mind, What's the difference between a Slut & a Whore?
Posted 07 Dec 2011 15:10

Thanks ladies!

I chatted with some friends here after their posts and I quickly realized that I did not word my question in the right manner.

I was trying to understand how other gals felt about being called a slut or whore duing sex.
Many of you have stated your feelings about this and I thank you!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Can You Teach The Fine Art of Fucking?
Posted 07 Dec 2011 10:07

Abso-Fucking-Lutely!

Sex is an art! and therefore it is ever growing, changing, evolving.
It has no end except the limits of your imagination.

There are so many different ways to do it and enjoy it!

There are many seminars and smaller classes in things like tantic and sensuality and don't forget resorts for adults that have similar themes and intimacy classes as well.

It's about time for a full sex school! There are too many bad fucks out there! LOL

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Would you have a threesome? or an orgy?
Posted 07 Dec 2011 09:59

Yes and I have.

In fact, there are few friends here I would love to get into more with!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic My girlfriends obsessed with this website
Posted 07 Dec 2011 09:58

How is she after she goes on the site? Does she use it to get her in the mood for sex? Or as a replacement for sex? You need to talk to her about why she does it. Maybe she got bored with what you were doing before. Maybe you can both go on Lush together.

Talk to her!!! Communication is so important.

What Nikki said!!!

Topic The Sex Toy Double-Standard- is there one, and why?
Posted 05 Dec 2011 13:22

I was never into sex toys until after I got married but I can share some thoughts from my perspective on this.

I have heard from guys that are dating gals and when they discover some toys as mentioned, in their "girlfriends" nightstand or wherever, they feel they have "competition" and may be a blow to their egos! At least from what I see, this probably applies to many men as they think that once they start "servicing" the needs of a woman on a regular or frequent basis, there is no reason for their girlfriends to need or have the toys to satisfy themselves! The guys think they are always horney and therefore they can give a gal all the sex that they want! But I believe there are a great many of us here that do not believe this to be true!

In many of my friends and myself, we have bought the toys as a safe way to experiment and add different elements of pleasure to our sex play! Yes! Sometimes it is a deal where a woman can be a size queen and take that monster 3-ft dildo and flog herself with it, but it starts out as the fantasy and may a need for some that can't find what they want or need!

Another way to look at it is if there is a couple that are madly in love with each other but one person cannot perform adequately or at all! But there is a way they both can enjoy the experience together with a little variation. Then in this situation maybe the dildo is needed as a substitute but both are involved in the sex play and they both share in the pleasure.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic After being married 27 yrs my wife is not intrested in is sex, ?????
Posted 05 Dec 2011 13:11

T-rex,

I can see how it will be difficult to get her to go to a therapist or some sort of counseling since she may not see your situation as a valid need for outside help. But if you can start talking to her about your desires and that you feel your needs are being ignored, at least you can open the door to find out her feelings about the situation and if she has any thoughts or concerns in a similar area.

The hardest thing is going to be if you both can discuss the situation and then if you both are willing to help each other out! It will at least take some communication and common acknowledgement of what you both perceive. Then, if you can take this to someone who can help you both, it will be more effective as long as you both are open minded and willing to work together to resolve and grow!

I hate to say it but I have heard many examples similar to yours where the male feels ignored and the female feels bothered or is being demanded of too much sex. Just getting together to recognize her thoughts and feelings first to identify what the situation is will give you more indications on what direction to take to resolve your frustrations.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What can I do?
Posted 05 Dec 2011 12:05

Talk to him and discuss your concerns. I bet if anything, he wil express his desires for you even more and you will have a fantastic time together!

With sex as well as love, communications makes it a better experience!

Like poizenivy stated, get working on some kegel exercises! They do work! I've had 4-kids and to this day, it is still like working out the most important muscles, (besides your brains!), that will give you and your lovers much more pleasure!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic After being married 27 yrs my wife is not intrested in is sex, ?????
Posted 05 Dec 2011 12:01

Congratualtions on being together for this long! That is a testimate to your love or efforts towards each other!

I suggest you seek out some intimacy for couples counseling. You may also look at some retreats or resorts that deal with older couples anr how to reignite the spark and intimacy in your marriage!

You're never to old to learn new tricks in love and intimacy!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Are females attracted to Musicians more than normal people?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 16:04

I have to agree with an earlier poster in which they stated they more attracted to musicians in classical music. For me it is musicians that are clean cut, actually play an instrument and are not the long hair rock and roll types.

Something about musicians being in tune with the vibes of a woman's sexuality makes them more attractive to me!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 02 Dec 2011 14:05

Interesting profile and would love to see her dance!

Topic Gals, in your Mind, What's the difference between a Slut & a Whore?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 13:27

Susan,

I'm sorry you feel this way about this thread. In hindsight, I could have worded it differently.

I was trying to figure out other women's feelings about this in the context that poizenivy replied.
Being called a whore or his whore during sex as opposed to his slut. And what other women's feelings are.

Thank you to the others who have posted their replies!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Guys, In your opniion, What is the difference between A Slut & A Whore??
Posted 02 Dec 2011 11:03

Not at all Lafayettemaster!

Thank you for posting.

it is like when people say they love to have a lady on their arm and a whore in the bedroom.

I'm just trying to get a feel of what guys and gals think of this.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Guys, In your opniion, What is the difference between A Slut & A Whore??
Posted 02 Dec 2011 10:59

Thanks guys!

So in your opinions, can a woman who acts like a whore, be sexy and desireable? But not accept money or favors?

And would it be a situation where you call a woman you are fucking a Hot Whore, acceptable?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic My last orgasm was...
Posted 02 Dec 2011 10:14

Just a few moments ago after reading a particular good erotic poem!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Placing your hand on your partners genitals as you fall asleep together
Posted 02 Dec 2011 10:03

Hubby likes it when I hold or touch him. We just have to communicate that it is not for sex since he will always get hard instantly! There are few times when we do it after sex but the other times, I like to play with his balls and it will relax him even though he gets hard.

Sometimes, If I'm in the mood, I'll just lay my hand there and feel him get hard then go down on him and suck him off or give him a quick tit fuck and then we'll fall asleep together

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:58

This may have already been posed since there are so many pages.
But to have the ability to edit posts in the forums would be nice.
Maybe it is there and I don't understand it but there are times when I see a spelling error I made or to clarify a thought that didn't read right.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What are we doing right now.
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:54

Just posted two threads and chatting with a couple of friends!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Guys, In your opniion, What is the difference between A Slut & A Whore??
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:52

This will also be posted in the Gals section but I would love to hear the Guys opinions on this!
In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!

So Guys, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Gals, in your Mind, What's the difference between a Slut & a Whore?
Posted 02 Dec 2011 09:49

This will also be posted in the guys section but I would love to hear the girls opinions on this!
In the heat of the moment, I love to be or act like a slut! I hate being called a whore but there are times that I know I can act like one!

So Gals, what is your thoughts as to the differences between the two?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Shaving A Girl's Pussy
Posted 01 Dec 2011 13:07

laserdude almost sounds like my Hubby!

We shave eachother regularly as a form of foreplay and intimacy for us both!
We always get to enjoy the benefits afterwards!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Forum Game: Sexy Chain
Posted 01 Dec 2011 12:56

Nibbling!

Topic Pierced nipples
Posted 01 Dec 2011 12:01

I've wanted to have mine pierced for awhile.
when I was younger, my nipples were inverted and I thought it would help them pop up more.
After I had kids, they got bigger and more pronouced but since I have such large boobs, they are perfect for my size now.

Still, I would love to get some of the cute jewelrey, chains and dangles they have!

And that girl in the pic posted by Buzz has me Going!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic "hi baby im hard for u wanna taste me..." as a pick up line
Posted 01 Dec 2011 11:45

The original message was lacking any creativity in my opinion. I much rather have some sense of humor and common reference like the Flintstones party situation.

I'll admit to being a slut for sex! But I am a professional business woman too and if I receive an anonomous IM or PM, with a crass sexual message, it's a turn off!

If it is someone I don't know and they "test the waters" by trying to see if I'm in the right frame of mind with some small talk, then I might react favorably to them. But most times, I will just delete!

Now if it is a friend and it is someone I can identify with, then it will probably be a different matter.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 30 Nov 2011 16:33

Her Nic is very appropriate for a site of sensual stimulations!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Fuck or Pass
Posted 29 Nov 2011 23:44

I'd give Slutpuppy a try!

If she's willing to take it from an older woman!

Fuck Yeah!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Do women dislike or resent the use of the slang "Cunt"?
Posted 25 Nov 2011 12:05

Generally, I dislike the word. But sometimes there are times that when I hear another woman in the heat of the moment, yells out to her partner to fuck her cunt, then I find it sexy!

Some stories or written prose using the word cunt can be erotic and very arousing!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Swingers Lifestyle
Posted 24 Nov 2011 21:07

Dollandhercowboy,

I'm trying to understand the root of your question...

Are you asking people in standard relationships their opinion of people in the lifestyle?

Or are you trying to get a "picture" of people who participate in the lifestyle, from their own opinion of themselves?

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Why women want enlarged (fake) tits?
Posted 24 Nov 2011 21:02

Even though it is hard to believe, at 51 years of age,
<-------------------------THESE ARE REALLY MINE!!!!

And I don't need them any larger!
They are HEAVY, they SWAY and BOUNCE when I DON'T WANT THEM TO!!!

But they are pleasurable to have and as poizenivy stated, if they do head south, I'm not oppose to getting some work done!
But more of a reduction and Lift!

As for women who get theirs done, it doesn't make them FAKE!!!
The gals that go for overly large stripper tits are the ones that are unrealistic!

Those that get a nice size and makes them feel better about themselves, Go For It Girls!

Like my good friend above stated, women wear make-up! It doesn't make us fake!
It's YOU guys who can't take us women behind ANY tits seriously, are the fake ones!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Fucking a younger guy
Posted 23 Nov 2011 14:03

Speaking from my perspective, I would not pay attention to you if you could not hold an intelligent coversation with me about anything!

You need to tap into what interests the woman and get her mind attracted to you!
It's true some don't want a lot of small talk and just want to fuck.
But you have to be able to get their attention, not just physcially but socially as well!

I know a few girlfriends that as MILF's go for the younger guys that are less experienced, timid, shy and awkward, and enjoy being the older and more sexually experienced person to rock a young guys world!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Suggestions for good "stripping songs"?
Posted 22 Nov 2011 15:00

Cathy,

A few fun ones I found are on the Burlesque Soundtrack with Christina Aguilera. In fact a lot of her songs, slow, upbeat are good too! Also like some of the Pussycat Dolls stuff but then I can also find some country ballads and other songs to dance/strip to that just depend on the mood and the effect you are going for!

Kisses!

Steph