Forum posts made by 1zratedgal

Topic Women and Porn
Posted 22 Nov 2011 14:27

YES!!! I watch it!

With it being freely found on the internet these days, it's less of a hassle to go out to an ABS and have to deal with finding what I'm feeling interested in and not enjoying the selection! Online offers the clips and the hot stuff and not so much of the other crap.

Although I was used to the old days when we rented tapes and the actors were bad and the stories were somewhat interesting and the people weren't all plastic! I do love the older Porn!

The modern stuff is not as interesting and more in your face with harsh or rude actions, IMO. I much prefer to watch amateur couples and real people anymore. To me, the last of the good stuff was probably from the late 90's to the early part of 2000.

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Your Feelings ?
Posted 22 Nov 2011 13:46

Zoe, I see a pattern here to your posts!

I enjoy the feeling of being with another woman regardless of if her boobs are the same or larger than mine! If they have perky or puffy firm nipples, than it's even better!

Smaller boobed girls tend to be more obsessed with my larger boobs and I love the feeling of mashing them or rubbing mine against their hard nipples!

I love the feeling of being together boob-to-boob!
But there are other positions too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic massage
Posted 22 Nov 2011 13:42

I've had many massages for muscle and tension releases and found so many varied techniques that are not supposed to be sensual, but become erotic because I am so relaxed.

There was a few times that at some specialized spas and resorts, where the persons were trained or learned the proper techniques in providing female pleasures. And I enjoyed the varied applications of the different massuesses who did the work on me.

However, I have found it rare that a man is able to fully understand the subtlty and the degree of touch required to fully provide a true sensually erotic massage. Not to knock most men, but the women who do it are more aware of the nuances and the relaxed way to apply the right pressure, and where, to allow a woman to let go and relax and let it happen!

I found one woman in Northern California that was not actually intending to do sensual or sexual massage but had such an ability and technique, that it was so natural for her. She was able to wipe away the constraints of time and allow the patient to fully relax and enjoy the experience and let it linger on. As a plus to her abilities, she found that the techniques she was studying was benefitting from the sensual techniques and allowed her to be a more effective massuesse for the general clientel!

As for the awareness of a massuesse touching sexual areas, it really depends on them to make the person comfortable and then it is not an issue. Of course, if you are horney and anticipating the touch in a positive way, then it is all too easy to become aroused when they touch you there!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Lubrication
Posted 21 Nov 2011 19:48

Do you want exact measurements? Cos this one time, at band camp, I sat on top of a pint glass and it was like half full by the time I was done!

Bambi, That was awesome! Hugs

Seriously, to the original poster, I's all relative. Some women are very juicy and others are only slight.

Of course your pre-cum helps too!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Could I have brought her a better first time experience?
Posted 21 Nov 2011 19:45

Like many women, I did not have a positive memorable 1st time experience. It was more the pressure of having sex to please the guy I was with.


Being that you are caring and thinking about her pleasure, seems like you are putting her experience above yours and that is commendable!
I would say that the trauma and fears of the first time along with the pain, could be difficult for her to block out. But since you two have had sex again since that first time, as long as you both take your time and continue to be nurturing and caring, I think she will relax and enjoy the experiences and eventually get to the point of letting herself relax and get into the positive physical sensations.

Remember that the sex is more mental for women! Even though there are more nerve endings in our vaginas, it is still a new experience and until the mind relaxes and enjoys the experience, she will never mentally and emotionally allow herself to to enjoy the sexual side of it! It's basically a huge mental block!

Be patient, discuss it normally, not clinically, and just be loving, compassionate, and supportive, and it will all come together!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic having an affair with a married man
Posted 21 Nov 2011 19:32

Unless you hear it directly from her lips, Don't do it!

I can only come from her and they be in an open marriage to be acceptable!

Kisses,

Steph

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 21 Nov 2011 16:10

Being around Lush and finding so many interesting, sexy and like minded people!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Tease him till he cum's
Posted 21 Nov 2011 16:06

Beckey,

I can't do just a hand job normally without a little mouth action!
And if I can get my mouth on it, I have to use my boobs too!

So with that said, it depends on the situation!

Sometimes it's fun to just drive him to lose control and cum all over!
Then he's rock hard again soon and can keep going until I get off a few times!

Other times it is fun to push him to that edge and then he takes me and fucks the hell out of me!

Either way, I still win!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Grinding?
Posted 21 Nov 2011 16:03

Bella is absolutely right!

Knowing that you are getting hard from me on your lap moving around is such a thrill!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Love, Sex and Intimacy...
Posted 21 Nov 2011 10:02

I have had sex with a man, been made love to, and simply fucked. They're all different with different levels of intimacy and I really think all those levels vary from person to person.

And I know I would enjoy seeing you in every situation described above and a few in my dirty mind as well!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Caught looking at your breasts!
Posted 20 Nov 2011 18:23

suzeq,

It sounds like you and I share similar feelings about our boobs!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sister-in-law
Posted 20 Nov 2011 13:00

I thought I posted on this thread...

There is but only a few situations I can honestly see or say where it could be appropriate to make the move on your S-I-L...

But as others have stated, if you are asking, I can tell you are NOT in any of those situations!

Don't screw up your family!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Is the mature lady better or is it a myth?
Posted 20 Nov 2011 12:55

Awesome Mare24!

Good for you girl!

Kisses!
Steph

Topic who honestly likes to give blow jobs
Posted 20 Nov 2011 12:42

I agree with Molly but I also love the feeling of the power I hold over a guy and that I can make him lose his control and he has to shoot his load!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Lezzy big breast issue !!!
Posted 20 Nov 2011 11:37

Zoe,

It depends on the sensitivity and the physiology of your nipples.

Mine do get really hard as they are already thick!

I sometimes can rub mine against my girlfriends clit and get her off!

And then afterwards, we both like to lick them clean and taste her juices!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Thigh Split Dress Delemma
Posted 20 Nov 2011 11:28

My favorite! Is seamed stockings with lacey bands at the thighs and my special french pearl stranded thong!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic hand on head?
Posted 20 Nov 2011 11:27

Maybe not forced or just a gentle persuasion if there is the desire!

But the best is when he is about to cum and he holds me there as he arches his back and moans!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Can you feel it.
Posted 20 Nov 2011 11:25

Are you serious???

I guess you never paid attention to female anatomy in school!

There are more nerve endings in a woman's vagina that almost any other part of the body!

Of course we can feel it and many of us LOVE IT!!!

Topic Lezzy big breast issue !!!
Posted 20 Nov 2011 11:23

Your post is a little difficult to read but if you are asking for some added breast-to-breast fun, there is one thing my girlfriends and I like to do...

We have a couple of nipple chains and toys that we use that when we attach them, we are connected to eachother and love the way it feels to have one person move and it pulls on the other!

we also have some other breast play fun with suction toys and other fun!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Pierced?
Posted 20 Nov 2011 11:20

In another thread, I stated I've wanted to get my nipples pierced.
I used to have inverted nipples but they have since "popped-out" after pregnancy and a few fun times!

I love wearing nipple ring clamps and have often wondered about getting the chains that connect to the pierced bars and other jewelery!

For now, we play with clamp on toys and accessories...

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sex furniture
Posted 19 Nov 2011 18:15

Playsit,

The exercise balls aren't necessarily the most comfortable in all situations but they can be good for some adventurous sexual positions. If the woman is fairly flexible, and is able to arch her back freely, it can be a good way to relax and lay back for oral or to be done by two guys at the same time!
Of course it is good for the standard doggy position!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic What body type on men do you favour?
Posted 19 Nov 2011 18:02

I don't go for the overly muscular types unless a particularly cute one catches my eye.
I usually like seeing a fit swimmer type or volleyball type build!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Bukkake
Posted 18 Nov 2011 16:32

I don't know if this qualifies but I love to have my boobs covered in cum if we are with a group.
Something wickedly sexy about having that much cum to coat me!\

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Inverted nipples?
Posted 18 Nov 2011 15:32

For those that know me, yes I have huge boobs but inverted nipples ,I do wish i had stiff outies and have thought of getting nipple piecings to keep them from inverting

Have often considered that too! But since I am such a wimp about pain, and I love the sensitivity of my nipples now, I haven't done that...yet!

I have talked to others who have had it done and those that did have inverted nipples are about 50/50 on the results.

I love the rings and chains but since we can use the clamps, I just use them with a combination of the rings to make them pop up more!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Caught looking at your breasts!
Posted 18 Nov 2011 15:15



Guys are guys, boobs are their kryptonite. They can't help it.

That is so true! LOL!

But I have no issue with it now. I used to hate my boobs being so big when I was younger, but I love them!

I have seen when a confident and secure guy, takes a good lingering look, purposefully, but not like a leacherous stare, and I enjoy it. But like Nikki stated, if they go out of their way like a young guy who has never seen a set of boobs. Those are annoying!

But I have been known to flash a bit more if someone I find attractive or the situation is right and let them see the girls! LOL!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic what is the first thing you would do??????
Posted 18 Nov 2011 14:42

Besides call my Hubby? Probably sign the ticket if I have not already done so.
But I would call an attorney and our accountant and go over our finances

Kisses!

Steph

Topic nudity in the house
Posted 18 Nov 2011 14:40

Everyone is usually naked at our home. Unless we ahve company or other people, clothes are left aside most of the time

Topic Who is your favorite movie character ever?
Posted 18 Nov 2011 14:38

Kay Parkers role in any of the Taboo series...


Kisses!

Steph

Topic Tantric Sex
Posted 18 Nov 2011 10:30

We've visited a few "holistic" retreats and have experienced a few group sessions dealing with the art of Tantric Sex. It is very eye opening how much more you can get connected to your body and mind and experience a completely different sexual climax!

I just wished there was more time we could spend learning and trying the different techniques!

Kisses!

Steph

Topic Sex furniture
Posted 18 Nov 2011 10:27

If you are talking about the fabric covered foam wedges or Triangles, those are great!

If you are looking at other options, try a large exercise ball or one of the smaller balance balls with the rim around it! If you are thinking "WTF", use your imagination and be creative with your partner!

Also, we found a store that had retro bean bag chairs and extra bags of beans to refill. Our friends got a couple of chairs in various sizes and added more beans to make the shapes larger and firmer. Those helped in various positions as well!

Now if you are thinking about Sex Sling Swing Chair... Just make sure it is fastened well to a solid beam in the ceiling!d'oh!

Kisses!

Steph