Topic Mother's of Lush only
26 Feb 2012 23:43
If you put aside anything sexual, do you have a strong foundation of a relationship with this girl?
Are you able to provide a future together and support the child?
Depending on how young you two are and also how mature she is, it could be something that is on her mind.
The sex may be great and You love her but she may be questioning a lifetime commitment.
I can understand the hormonal changes and how it affects her mind but also the impending responsibilities can be stressing her and she may not see you being supportive, but instead asking her to give up her freedom.
You can be an attentive listener to her and try to be supportive in all of her needs as well as anticipating those to come.
Try to talk to her in small segment or steps to let her know what kind of ideas you have about your future together.
Make sure you share with her and engage her thoughts and feelings about the plans together, otherwise you will make her feelings and ideas seem insignificant and seem like you disregard what her opinions and desires for her future are.
It will be a roller coaster with her emotions but just try to be understanding and also help her with the development of your child as her pregnancy progresses!
Good Luck to the Three of You!
Topic On Top
25 Feb 2012 21:42
A lot of times, I loose control and just grind and pound onto my guy and make myself crazy on his cock!
Hubby knows how to drive me crazier and will arch himself up and then hold me at the end or just where his cockhead touches my lips!
He will hold me there and let his cockhead tease me and make me want to pound down on him even more so!
It gets annoying at times but it also keeps me up on top longer!
Topic Mutual Masterbation
25 Feb 2012 21:33
You brought up some great memories and fun times with your post!
I've had many fun times when I was younger that was similar to what you described and even more since then!
One of the best events was with a couple of people sitting together but we didn't have condoms. Our friends were in the next room fucking like crazy and making the most wild and loud noises and getting us all hot and bothered! Seeing the guys cocks get hard and them trying not to rub them just got me going and we all started to masturbate together! I loved seeing them shoot their cum with their dicks out of their pants! It was funny watching them shoot it towards me and some did land on me!
Topic clitoris foreplay
25 Feb 2012 21:28
A good lover will pay attention to it.
A great lover will be gentle, and take their time to get to know it, tease it, caress it, lick it, suck it, flick it with their tongue, and make love to it! Without paying too much attention to it!
It is a very sensitive and easily aroused part of our bodies. But it is not to be overused and abused...
Topic to the bi or lesbian ladys
22 Feb 2012 19:47
A very interesting question!
But my experience has been what was comfortable for me.
So it may not apply to everyone.
Cross dressers to me are not committing fully to their sexual orientation.
Whereas Trans-sexuals are making a big step towards the change but sometimes stop in the middle of the process.
I have found Trannys very erotic and able to offer more fun than what we would think possible.
Some may be strange but there are few that have been very stimulating and exciting to be with!
Topic Ever fantasized about your sister's husband (Brother in law)?
21 Feb 2012 22:43
Nope! NO WAY!!!
Both of my sisters married losers the first time!
The second time around, neither of them seem to be living life much!
At least my oldest sister admitted her attraction to my Hubby!
It was so much fun to see him show what a real man can do for her pleasure!
Topic do you actually like to cyber
20 Feb 2012 17:06
I think Jenni and Bunny said it best! We need that connection beyond descriptive words to make the experience more intense and meaningful!
I need an interactive person that is descriptive as well as imaginative and can hold a decent conversation that is responsive to what I am saying with them!
Topic men masturbating for women
20 Feb 2012 12:59
When it's in the right situation, and both people are using it as foreplay, it can be super HOT!!!
Nothing like knowing a guy is turned on by you and seeing him grab his cock and stroke it for you.
I watch his actions and reactions to learn what feels good for him so that I can do something similar later!
But knowing he is making himself hard and thinking of fucking you is so HOT!
Then when he makes himself cum! OH YES!!!
Topic long inner labia
19 Feb 2012 21:30
I don't have one of that description but a few friends do and I rarely if ever have heard of a guy complaining about a gals anatomy!
Most guys just want to fuck and normally that's fine!
But if they are hung up about the appearance of our sex, then they shouldn't complain if we don't like the looks of their wimpy dicks!
Topic Would you or have you ever been with/dated someone in a wheelchair?
19 Feb 2012 21:27
Why wouldn't I?
The wheelchair is what they are in. Not who they are!
Some great people have disabilities and are fantastic lovers as well!
They are great friends too!
I have never officially dated someone in a wheel chair but I have no problem being with someone in one.
09 Feb 2012 23:44
Won't work for our neighbors. They are at least a 1/4 mile away!
That's why we all have telescopes to watch eachother! LOL!
Topic Suction toys/Pumps
09 Feb 2012 23:00
I've got industrial nipple / boob suckers and also some clitty suction toys.
Lots of fun when I'm alone and with friends!
09 Feb 2012 22:57
My boobs are huge but very sensitive and super easily aroused!
Ticklish? Yes! But also very quickly aroused!
Oh Mazz! Those are just beginner toys!
You need to cum out my way and try our super sucker!
Topic Watching your partner have sex
09 Feb 2012 22:52
I thought I replied to this but here goes...
I enjoy watching some other gal have sex with my guy!
I know what he does and how he feels and to see someone else experience him is a super hot turn on for me!
It drives me crazier and makes me want to climax so badly too!
Topic Is It So Hard To Believe?
09 Feb 2012 22:49
It's really not hard for me to believe!
I'm seeing more younger people enter into pacts to keep their purity until marriage or later.
Even though it goes against my lifestyle and pursuits of pleasure, I believe these people are happy and leading good lives.
Check out this program for young people called Silver Ring Thing and you may get an idea of why this is becoming more prominent!
Topic why do you like cum????
09 Feb 2012 22:34
I never analyzed it.
I believe it is my reward or gift for making a guy feel really good!
Or sometimes it is something of a gift from a girl for making her guy feel good!
But in in any case, I know I did something hot to be rewarded with a cum shot!
Topic is it too much? is there too much?
09 Feb 2012 22:32
Okay, I hardly ever wear panties or thongs unless I have to.
For example, a public beach or club.
But there is never enough lingerie to have and choose for the right occasion!
When I choose to wear a thong, it is usually one of my favorite pearl strand thongs that ride up just where I like it!
With that said, I have well over 150 bras of different varieties and styles.
Does that make me a bad girl?
Only when I want to be!
Topic Small Dicks
09 Feb 2012 22:27
Nothing wrong with a small cock!
Some of the best lovers make up for their lack of size by other techniques and skills.
One of the hottest things I've ever seen was a girlfriend who was scared of anal but a small dick made her mad for it!
The lucky guy was in the right place and had the right stuff to rock hers and my worlds together!
Topic have you or would you ever do ass to mouth like in the movies
09 Feb 2012 21:05
Like DD, I might do it when I am properly prepared and want to give a guy something a little "extra".
I love anal but not all the time.
And I enjoy doing A2M when I want to really get dirty and blow a guys mind and his load!
23 Jan 2012 00:25
I am a frequent massage client and almost always get aroused!
But I know it is different for guys!
Do your homework and research a qualified, licensed massage therapist!
Start with a good simple Swedish Massage for relaxation.
You can work your way up different techniques and styles until you find one you prefer.
Hubby and I sometimes will seek out a therapist who is adept at Deep tissue massages. This can be painful for many but for people with severe knots or circulation problems, it can be bliss! But not a frequent technique!
Set up a meeting with a potential therapist and discuss what you are seeking.
They should discus what parts of your body need attention, weather you will be fully nude or not, and what your comfort level is.
They will also talk about the oils or lotions they use and how you should prepare for a session.
If it works out and you are comfortable, book an appointment.
It is entirely up to you if you want to be fully naked or still wear your underwear. A good massage therapist will work to your comfort level.
Don't be afraid to tell them what feels good, or not and if more pressure or attention is needed in a certain area, or less. The more feedback you give them, the better experience you will have!
Finally, if you don't make a big deal or get overly embarrassed about an erection, a true professional therapist won't either. They've seen them and it is very common if you really think about it! It's because they are doing their job right and freeing up the blood flow from other areas!
As long as you are not looking for something sexual, you should be fine.
Topic Do you like to be solicited for casual sex by strangers in bars?
23 Jan 2012 00:01
In a fantasy world/porn film - the guy is hot, successful, amazing in bed, and its completely safe to wander off with him to god knows where without even exchanging numbers first.
In the real world - the kind of guys that solicite girls for sex are creepy, slimy, think they're gods gift and are most likely crap in bed. Oh, and they usually cant take no for an answer.
It would be nice if everyone could be that open about casual sex and not mind being asked for it that frankly but they're not, and i wouldnt go for a guy who just asked straight out, without even asking for a number first, no matter how hot/confident/rich he was. You dont know what you're getting and its not safe.
Basically, chat girls up all you want but ask for numbers, chat a bit, and be prepared for it to take a little longer than 'wanna fuck?'
I have to agree with MMonroe...
As a person in the lifestyle, many people think we live the "free for all" sexual attitude but it is a more responsible group of people that are a pool of friends or like minded individuals who can enjoy other partners without fears and stress...
The fantasy of casual sex is always there but the reality and the consequences are more scary!
12 Jan 2012 12:53
Oh Hell yes! It is a great turn on to see yourself and the person(s) you are with in action! It takes a 2nd place to making a lot of noise and hearing some really hot and sexy moaning and screaming but the two can go hand in hand or cock in kitty! LOL!
Topic Let's be nicer/friendlier to newbies?
12 Jan 2012 12:38
I'm still realtively new here, even though I've probably shot my mouth off in threads and chats.
But I do agree that I have found this place a little more active and fun than the last site I used to hang out at!
But I did notice that besides the friends who introduced me to lush, it took a little effort on my part to make connections and get "accepted".
I think it is important for all of us to acknowledge and welcome someone new on the forums and especially the chats! There are some cliques but if we are more accepting and greeting newer people, I would not doubt we would see more interaction throughout the day!
12 Jan 2012 12:18
I would suggest a couple of ways to approach it while playing, but why not just ask her about her thoughts with anal foreplay? Sex is so much better if you can talk to the person you're with and let them know your thoughts and desires, then being able to know the limits and act upon them!
If you cannot find a tactful way to approach it casually, then when you go down on her, you can also take a well lubed finger and lightly rub and touch her around the area past the perinium. Gently stroke in large circles and then decrease and close in until you can lightly touch her hole but not enter it and watch her reactions.
If things are favorable, you can dart your tongue lighty past her slit and approach her from underneath and pay attention to her reactions and go from there.