If its legal and you started flirting with me then away we go

If you like to dress up and fuck while still in costume as long as the costume turns me on then yes

Wanting to please my partner so they feel as much pleasure as I can give them

Age shouldn't effect anything if your virgin then that's fine whether your 18 or 40, it's a choice you made or the opportunity hasn't arisen for you. If a man wants to be with you then he will be understanding and help you to experience the joys of sex.

When you talked did you explain how much you want to enjoy the whole foreplay and sexual experience and you feel that him giving you special oral attention is part of it.
We all like to feel pleasure and the more we have during sex the better the sex becomes.

As already said, try to find out why and then from there try to help alleviate the tension.
Take things slowly and include every sensual touch you can, make sure she knows whenever she wants to stop you will and allow her to set the pace

It's not what they really look like, it's more how they feel to the touch

I had the snip about 15 years ago. What I can remember is they cut the tubes so the sperm can not get through but the fluid they travel in still flows out.

Most definately

Fuck