Forum posts made by ban

Topic would you pose for nudes ? artistix or personal?
Posted 28 Feb 2011 02:48

Haha well I'm working on my portfolio and now I need to look at nudes!

Topic would you pose for nudes ? artistix or personal?
Posted 26 Feb 2011 12:38

This is just general curiosity.

Topic are you a lush addict ?
Posted 26 Feb 2011 11:34

Are you or not and what makes you so addicted ?

Topic Why oh Why do people hurt themselves again and again in bad relationships?
Posted 23 Feb 2011 13:14

Ya I see your point DD and I agree too. But doesn't change I want to slap the people for not doing something sooner .... Sigh

Topic Why oh Why do people hurt themselves again and again in bad relationships?
Posted 23 Feb 2011 10:00

Oops slight quote error ...sorry about that

Topic Why oh Why do people hurt themselves again and again in bad relationships?
Posted 23 Feb 2011 09:55

Ive recently heard a couple friends go on about how their "other" is so shit and not treating them well etc
yet they continue to surprise me by staying with them and taking more abuse (please note when I say 'abuse', I dont mean in the physical aspect)

I see people continue their ways and their torment.... for WHAT ?? the possibility of change??

you'd be surprised at how many people stay in relationships and take more the the physical kind of abuse as well. the reasons are varied - sometimes they feel trapped, often their are self esteem issues, often the emotional ties are so strong that they find it hard to break them - it's possible, btw, to love someone so much that you'll weather the abuse, or look past it, and how many of us think that we can, given time, fix the abuser, be the one who breaks the pattern that he's developed, cure him/her? having been in a classic situation of a physically abusive relationship, i KNOW how easy it is to stay with a person, despite how bad it gets - it's often delusional, but then, we a delusional species.

Yes we are a delusional race! Why because instead of take the bad and moving on we continue to do the same thing over and over again. (Excuse and angry tone) but do we do what's right ? No! We do what feels easier and what's easy to explain. Makes me furious because I'm powerless to help or do anything other than watch.

Topic Why oh Why do people hurt themselves again and again in bad relationships?
Posted 23 Feb 2011 09:45

I get that's it a scary if not daunting feeling of being single to start again. That is a bit of a frightening experiencen to those who are in something for sometime. But that is no reason to punish and abuse yourself worth by someone else. To receive emotional and physical abuse is not worth it in my opinion. I'd rather say take that step and starting again, than have your spirit broken and be unhappy. Not saying to you bdsm'ers this not something you should do. No those of whom are subjected to someone elses abuse need to wake up and stop it. Makes no sense to me why people justify it. (Excuse the emotional involvement here)

I'm just a single guy what do it know.

Topic Why oh Why do people hurt themselves again and again in bad relationships?
Posted 23 Feb 2011 06:56

Ive recently heard a couple friends go on about how their "other" is so shit and not treating them well etc
yet they continue to surprise me by staying with them and taking more abuse (please note when I say 'abuse', I dont mean in the physical aspect)

I see people continue their ways and their torment.... for WHAT ?? the possibility of change??

Topic Favorite websites not named lushstories.com
Posted 23 Feb 2011 06:51

http://www.realprincessdiaries.com/

This is one of my favourite blog-type sites that I keep going back to. It's run by a professional escort that writes articles on her sexual experiences and how to fuck like a pro!

Who can resist such educational articles as:

- Gangbang 101 - A Guide to Doing Your First Gangbang
- Throat Fucking
- Preparing for your First Anal
- Enemas and More on Anal Sex
- How to Eat Ass/Rimming
- Dirty Talk - Aural Sex
- Strip Tease - How To
- Lap Dance - How To
- Slapping During Sex
- Not-so-Straight Girl's Guide to Picking up Chicks
- Kegal Exercises
- Hair Pulling During Sex

Even someone who thinks that they are already sexual superstars can learn some new tips and tricks on this site. They are very well written.


bwhhahaha that is absolutely brilliant. Dancing thats an awesome reply honestly lol!

Topic Things that piss you off
Posted 23 Feb 2011 06:46

The couple that came to my work today. While the wife was in the very next room, the husband told me he wanted to fuck me with his "12 inch cock". So nice, what an asshole!

ok that could also count to piss me off......

Topic Things that piss you off
Posted 23 Feb 2011 06:45

Severely ignorant People!! Can't Stand em nor can I handle them going around not being aware of whats happening!

Topic what is the true beauty of a woman?
Posted 12 Dec 2010 09:08

I've changed the original question. Its been asked before .

Topic what is the true beauty of a woman?
Posted 12 Dec 2010 08:01

As a photographer I see things differently, but I want to know what the perception is?

Topic When was the last time you had sex? [BE HONEST]
Posted 12 Dec 2010 06:53

And to all that got it recent..........evil bastards !!!!! Lol

Topic When was the last time you had sex? [BE HONEST]
Posted 12 Dec 2010 06:41

3weeks ago monday sigh.....it was good..... And possibly my last for a bit haha

Topic what makes for a really great blowjob?
Posted 12 Dec 2010 05:26

Well to answer amber's first query, I personally havent cum from a blowjob. Make no mistake though I loved every second of every one I have ever gotten!

Points to note:
The girl needs to enjoy it! Not be made to just give it, she needs to enjoy the sensation of pleasing me. Know she has ultimate power over me for that time.
She needs to feel the rush of having my cock in her mouth and her tongue sliding up the shaft.
My helmet is hyper sensitve but I've notice that if she sucks slowly it feels right.

I like the girl enjoying and want her to. I feel better and more aroused knowing the girl is so into that she knows that I'm enjoying her mouth. Having her look at me and keep eye contact makes it even better!!!! Let her talk how she likes it and how she likes how she makes me her.
This is a mutual thing. If a girl doesn't want to give it then I won't force, but it won't stop me from pleasure. Hehe even if I can cum . I will make her ! I enjoy going down on a girl, so if the blowjob is given ill return the favour with enthusiasm!!

Topic if you partner (m or f ) cheated on you would u break or do something to get them back? eg sleep wit
Posted 11 Dec 2010 07:31


Bwhahaha well fucking said!! Gotta love a strong spirit!! Nice
One and stick to that!!

Topic if you partner (m or f ) cheated on you would u break or do something to get them back? eg sleep wit
Posted 11 Dec 2010 06:20

Catnip that's a very honest and I appreciate it. I'm not judging or condeming, if he means that much then things worked out. If the relationship was open and both sides knew about the otheres doings, would that be accepted if the main couple wanted to stay together?

Dontholien you more forgiving than me I guess. But its not a bad thing. U just willing to trust more, trust lose with me is a serious problem. It takes a lot to gain it back.

My thing is that from what i hear in my little associations, comparing it to my thoughts... Its unsettling to see how people get hurt so much. Maybe its just my experience lol. If didn't feel for the girl I'd tell, rather truth that hurts than a lie that hurts even worse.

Topic if you partner (m or f ) cheated on you would u break or do something to get them back? eg sleep wit
Posted 11 Dec 2010 01:22

Fair enough, but I don't like being used and burned.communicate, talk make an effort to atleast be honest.

Topic if you partner (m or f ) cheated on you would u break or do something to get them back? eg sleep wit
Posted 10 Dec 2010 16:58

See this is where lines of perception get blurry, personally I'd know its over. Once bitten twice not gonna happen again. Maybe in time over conversation but if cheated I'd step away. I won't be left to wonder what went wrong.

Topic if you partner (m or f ) cheated on you would u break or do something to get them back? eg sleep wit
Posted 10 Dec 2010 16:05

I agree with you, if not for personal pride but for my own mental stability loi. Its true tho, ending up stooping down to them is as bad and pointless. Makes you cheap and makes whatever you believed in pointless. Now don't get me wrong , I'm the least likely to be a relationship type. I'd prefer to play the field and live casual. But if committed ( and yes I can mean mentally ahaha love can be insane) then I'm loyal to that girl. If she decides that cheating on me is in the cards, then that bridge is history.
I don't trust cheaters and I won't be you. Reason for this topic is that I actually have heard the 'revenge talk' quite a bit in the encounters I've come across. So now my curiousity is out!!
If I fuck around then I do it free and mutually.

Topic if you partner (m or f ) cheated on you would u break or do something to get them back? eg sleep wit
Posted 10 Dec 2010 14:47

Its like some of the 'caught cheating' stories. Character goes and does something to get back...or just break up? I want to see how many and what the reactions would be!

Topic i hate not remember the lyrics to songs i like!!!! argh come on why be so hard??
Posted 10 Dec 2010 14:30

Haha I agree with lois, somtimes its funny to wind em up. But its so flipping annoying when u think u know how it goes!

Topic Do women masturbate when reading Lush stories?
Posted 10 Dec 2010 01:16

I love random some of the topic got, gotta love creative thought!

Topic Would you ever fuck your closest (opposite sex) friend, knowing that is as far as it will go.
Posted 09 Dec 2010 22:35

Ok rephrase I'm close to mine as ever! Of course we best friends lol

Topic Would you ever fuck your closest (opposite sex) friend, knowing that is as far as it will go.
Posted 09 Dec 2010 22:33

I'm best friends with mine, most of my other female friends I would do in a heart beat, her ....I'm just happy to be around!

Topic speaking of dirty panties....(was a request in the pics section)
Posted 08 Dec 2010 23:53

Just avoid laundry places haha!! Was helping someone and when she weighed her bag it spilt, lol her strings, laces, see-throughs, cashmere, naughties....all of it...I was grinning like an idiot hehe

Topic i hate not remember the lyrics to songs i like!!!! argh come on why be so hard??
Posted 08 Dec 2010 23:44

Its not so much about memory with me as tone, I remember the sound rather than the words. But I would just like to keep the lyrics handy lol

Topic i hate not remember the lyrics to songs i like!!!! argh come on why be so hard??
Posted 08 Dec 2010 13:08

I love music and listento every thing but the annoying fucking thing is....as much as I love a song I just can't replay the simple fucking lyrics ..... Come on how bad is that!

Topic What would be your song to describe your life ( montage...)
Posted 08 Dec 2010 13:01

If you could have one of those epic movie montage playing your life...what would be the song...what would reflect, who you are Now...or were , your choices and just basically what suits you..??