Topic The "Oh Bollocks" Thread.
15 Oct 2013 14:03
Oh bollocks! Just dropped my right earphone in my tea!
Sometimes I prefer to say 'Big, fat, hairy balls' rather than bollocks. I like to mix it up (:
Topic Do you enjoy oral sex as much as penetration?
02 Sep 2013 15:36
If I had the choice I'd take penetration over oral, when I've had an orgasm from oral sex I want more. I don't feel completely satisfied until I've had full sex!
Topic Keep it in or pull it out?
07 Aug 2013 14:54
When he's on top I don't want him to pull out straight away, I like to stay together for a couple of intimate minutes, but after that I wanna move around a bit, get comfy or clean up if necessary. A cuddle or sleep after some great sex is lovely, but I wouldn't want him inside me an entire night! That to me is just unnecessary hassle...
Topic Let's Talk About Dreams
06 Aug 2013 11:41
Your nightmares that you can't remember are called "Night Terrors" or Sleep Terror Disorder. What happens is something that you are visualizing in deep sleep instigates your instinctual fight or flight response involuntarily and you become scared and panic trying to get away from whatever you saw. Some of the potential causes that I can figure out are ... genetic, too much caffeine, fevers, lack of sleep, medication and/or drugs, anxiety, phobias, post-traumatic stress disorder, stimulants before bed, jet lag, sleeping somewhere new, stressful life events or changes (like marriage) and something touching you in while you are in the deepest part of your sleep, non-REM sleep (rem=rapid eye movement). Apparently the longer you stay in non-rem sleep the more terror you feel during the episode.
While most children outgrow it by the age 10, it is still possible for adults to experience them.
Thanks for the insight, it's very interesting. I have two younger sisters, both of whom seemed to suffer from night terrors in the past, it was always very difficult to wake them and they would scream when you tried to comfort them. - Pretty scary the first time I saw it!
Topic How tall do you want your man?
05 Aug 2013 12:12
Height doesn't matter to me all that much, three guys I've been involved with were at least a couple of inches shorter than me! It didn't really bother me, I suppose I prefer a guy who is taller than me but in all honesty I don't have any issues going out with a short-arse :P
Topic Is This Totally Crazy?
05 Aug 2013 06:10
Wow, I couldn't even get to 10th 'rule'!
No 7. Read her a bedtime story... What, is she a five year old?
Topic Physical Insecurities
03 Aug 2013 16:09
I was incredibly insecure up until fairly recently, the past year or so I've gained a lot of confidence and I think being on this site has helped with that in some ways, I've become more aware of myself. Before then I was very selfconscious. It wasn't that I thought there was something wrong with my body or myself, or even that I disliked how I looked. I was indifferent in those respects but I had zero confidence and I'm not entirely sure why. But lots of confidence now in every aspect of my life, and I'm far happier!
Topic Let's Talk About Dreams
03 Aug 2013 15:39
I didn't used to remember many of my dreams but nowadays I seem to dream most nights.
I have had 2 nightmares repeatedly throughout my life, sometimes they will happen two or three times in one night if I wake up. I couldn't describe them no matter how hard I tried! They're very strange and from what I remember about them in the morning they aren't actually scary. They just panic me for some reason. All I remember from one of the nightmares is simply a featureless face moving back and forth. I've dreamed of that since I was very little.
My best dreams are those in which I relive a past memory, that or the flying/swimming dreams. One dream I remember, I was diving off a cliff into a pool, when underwater I thought I couldn't breathe until I realised it was just a dream, and from then on could control what I did, was a lot of fun!
29 Jan 2013 05:47
I find it completely ridiculous that a person would feel that way, let alone voice that feeling! Breastfeeding is natural, to most people (I would hope) not in the slightest bit offensive, and is indeed what I plan on doing when I have children no matter the thoughts of the father/partner.
Topic Do you enjoy being eaten out?
08 Dec 2012 14:45
I have been with one too many men who are too focused on making their woman orgasm... And much too quickly. They need to relax and have fun with it as well. It's hard for the woman to relax when their man is rushing them. Just take it slow, focus on putting your woman in the ultimate state of pleasure. Oh, and god forbid, don't just sit there and focus on one damn area. Just because a woman's clit is generally her most sensitive spot, does not mean it is the only spot you should be licking and sucking... Explore, taste every inch of me, suck and lick on my labia, taste the inner walls of my vagina. I want my man bringing me to the edge of orgasm and then teasing me for a bit, building up the tension, making me feel unbelievable ecstasy and then bringing me over that edge and down from my sexual high. ;)
Couldn't have said it any better!
Oral is something I used to be far too self conscious to enjoy, now I love it, even when I don't orgasm from it, I love the feel of a tongue moving over my clit, mm... (:
Topic cock or tongue ?
05 Dec 2012 17:10
I agree with most people on this forum, size really counts for nothing! What you do with it is soo much more important! Irritates the hell out of me when a guy assumes he's great in bed because he's a wee bit bigger than others!
Topic Do you like your ass being licked?
04 Dec 2012 12:18
Yeah, I like it a lot, it's so different and gets me pretty hot (: I haven't been able to cope with anal sex before but I really like a little play.. I've no problem with kissing my boyfriend after he's done that to me either, nor should I if he's prepared to do that to me! Though saying that, I haven't returned the favour yet...
Topic Name That Movie Quote
21 Nov 2012 05:18
"At least you'll never be a vegetable - even artichokes have hearts."
Topic would you ever pee on your bloke????
21 Nov 2012 05:13
I wouldn't go out of my way to do it, though if I were asked I'd accept if I knew my partner really wanted it, having said that I'd have to think whether or not I'd wanna be peed on, it's gotta be fair! :)
Topic Eating your own cum?
18 Nov 2012 12:24
I have no problem with this what-so-ever, I like the taste but don't regularly do it, not sure why! I mainly do it because I know it turns on my boyfriend :) He does the same for me, and like others have said we shouldn't expect our partners to do what we won't.
Topic If you could speak any language which would it be? And nice phrases in that language?
17 Nov 2012 13:23
I speak French and am currently learning German and Spanish at univeristy, which I love! To that list I'd like to add Italian and I wouldn't mind learning something completely different like Swahili or Russian, I love speaking to people in foreign languages, and I really can't wait to go on my year abroad in 2 years time! My children won't have a choice about learning languages! Mwa ha ha haaa! ;)
Topic How many girls ejaculate at the point of orgasm? It's not a myth.
16 Nov 2012 11:20
The first time I squirted I didn't know what had happened, I was so embarassed! At this point I was very shy and found sex intimidating, I didn't do it again for a long time after that. But I'm far more confident now not just when it comes to sex, and I'm a little more knowledgable about what my body can do! Anywho, my new partner recently worked out how to make me squirt and it is truly amazing! I can do it fairly easily when masturbating but through sex or with him touching mw it takes a lot longer, but it feels incredible when it happens, I'm often left shaking for a while! Mmm (:
Topic Would you have a threesome? or an orgy?
12 Nov 2012 04:34
Something I definitely plan on doing preferably sooner rather than later, just gotta find another girl that wants to join in!
Topic Older Men and You
09 Nov 2012 11:39
Yikes! Another guy out to ruin my reputaion.
so you're saying he was 28, but going on 8. head up! there's better out there and you never know.
Perhaps there is, but at the moment I'm quite happy with what I've got, he's almost 2 years older than me, I think I'm better off with people closer to my own age right now (:
Topic Ever masturbate to fall asleep?
09 Nov 2012 10:12
Sure, from time to time when nothing else is working. Takes me a good half hour to drop off after though, unless of course I'm really going for it! Hee hee :)