Topic does sex feel better without a condom?
18 Feb 2014 06:40
I feel it makes a huge difference. I'm on the pill and the guy I'm seeing and I are exclusive so he doesn't wear a condom with me, but whether I'm on the pill or not, if I sleep with someone I don't really know he must wear a condom. It feels so much more intimate without a condom to me, I enjoy sex a lot more. Plus you don't have to awkward fumbling around with condoms, you can just dive right in, so to speak. :P
Topic Breastfeeding in public
18 Feb 2014 06:33
Using breasts for their primary purpose? How terrible! Ha ha.
For me this picture just about sums it up:
http://upload.lushstories.com/820696662-feminism breast feeding.jpg
It's absurd to me that a woman should be judged for feeding her child, as though people have forgotten that the function of breasts is to feed a baby.
Topic who honestly likes to give blow jobs
15 Feb 2014 10:51
Of course. If I don't like doing it then I just won't. I know to say no if I don't want to do something or I feel uncomfortable.
I enjoy giving blowjobs because I like giving pleasure to my partner, it turns me on to know that he is enjoying it, and I like the action itself. It's a very intimate thing and I really like that.
Topic Have a slight Obsession for Game of Thrones??
14 Feb 2014 07:18
Game of thrones the seconde time is still better then many other shows the first.
P.S.: You might have noticed. It's more then a slight obsession.
Haha yeah definitely, but I've already watched all of Game of Thrones three times... I really don't think I should do it again!
Topic golden showers
13 Feb 2014 15:46
Not something that hugely appeals to me, but if my partner wanted to then I wouldn't really have an issue with it.
Topic Have a slight Obsession for Game of Thrones??
13 Feb 2014 15:44
Definitely... I haven't allowed myself to watch the trailer for the new season just because if I watch it I'll end up watching all of the current episodes again...
Topic Rough sex and your tits
12 Feb 2014 08:17
Yes, I enjoy all that, but there has to be a little care... Someone once bit my nipples so hard they bled and the rest of my breasts were covered in painful bruises. That wasn't sexy, it was just horrible!
Topic Where do you meet your sex partners?
10 Feb 2014 15:50
I usually meet people through friends, either on nights out or at festivals. I don't usually just go for some complete stranger, usually it's someone I've been introduced to by a friend. Never had a "random encounter", I don't think I would trust someone enough if I'd just met them in the street or whatever.
Topic How do you feel better after a bad day?
09 Feb 2014 13:01
Talk about it to the girls I live with over a drink. As students it's not hard to persuade them to have a drink (;
That or a bath, music and an early night usually.
Topic how do you break up with someone??
08 Feb 2014 17:11
I broke up with someone for the first time about 4-5 months ago now. For quite a long time I had known things weren't right for me but I tried to kid myself it was ok. It wasn't anything he had done I just didn't feel the same, and so it was really hard to find a way to "let him down gently". To make matters more complicated we were long-distance.
He had cottoned on to the fact I wasn't happy with the relationship and made me tell him what was going on, we chatted briefly over Skype and I explained I wasn't happy so we had a "break", then met up I think the following week. I knew I had to break up, but because I felt so bad I had tried to make it seem like I hadn't known this for definite for a while. That really didn't help things.
After all that I wish I had just been straight with him as soon as I realised, would probably have stopped a lot of hurt which I feel bad about, but I suppose we all have to start somewhere.
Topic do you go for older guys?
08 Feb 2014 17:03
At age 19 guys my age often aren't hugely mature, particularly at my university with girls at a high marjority, around 75% girls. I guess for some people it seems like 'easy pickings' on a night out.
They're a lot of fun to hang out with but I can't say I'm particularly attracted to them.
As for older guys, I'm only just considered an adult, so someone who is 10-15 years older than me seems a little strange, but guys who are maybe 5 years older or so, in their mid-20's feel about right. Not too old for me.
Topic Ladies, does looking at pics of a guy's cock do anything for you?
08 Feb 2014 16:56
Looking at a random penis does nothing for me. Particularly when that's all you see. If I'm seeing someone and I see his then it's a whole other story, definitely gets me aroused. When it's a picture it's better to see the full body.
Topic Ladies,do you like a man who cooks for you?
08 Feb 2014 16:51
I love cooking, but it's always a nice treat when he cooks for me, especially as he actually knows what he's doing in the kitchen, woohoo! :P
Topic What are you listening to right now?
08 Feb 2014 15:09
Fm Einheit & Gry - Princess Crocodile. Oh and there are some foxes screeching in my neighbour's garden acting as an accompaniment... Lovely.
Topic "would you fuck me? I'd fuck me."
08 Feb 2014 15:02
"You know how you said before, how your parents use you to get back at each other? Wouldn't I be OUTSTANDING in that capacity?" - Bender, The Breakfast Club
Topic Naughtiest place youve had sex
08 Feb 2014 13:29
I've given head under a blanket whilst his roommate was watching tv across the room, had sex and given head in the woods near my flat, and in a park at night but we were cut short, nearly got caught. Had to run for it. Oops!
Topic Revealing Clothing
05 Feb 2014 16:40
straights wear sexy clothing TO be SEEN and appreciated by MALES.
With this you are saying that the purpose of women is to appease men, there is no regard for her brain or abilities in the real world. I don't wear tight jeans or a low cut top with the intention of attracting males, far less to please some man I pass in the street. If I am in a relationship with a man it's a different story, the dynamics change because there is mutual respect and abilities and personality are valued.
you KNOW what to expect ...WHEN YOU PUT THEM ON!
Should we expect this though? For example, would you want your daughter or sister to be merely seen as a sex object, which is at the moment what you seem to be inferring about women. I don't want to live in a world which sexualises and objectifies women no matter what they accomplish, which if you look in the media is exactly what you see.
Topic General Opinion About Men?
05 Feb 2014 16:21
I wanted to give a real and informed answer to the best of my ability, it's quite long and may seem to go off topic a little, but stay with me, sometimes I find it difficult to refine and word my thoughts and ideas! Just to clarify, this is not a commentary on all men, nor am I saying that women are squeaky clean and guilt-free of this, but it is a brief(ish) opinion which hopefully answers the question in relation to stereotypical male attitudes towards women which have been influenced by the media. I'm sure there will be people who disagree, which is fine. This is just one point of view.
I believe that through media input our society has influenced many boys and men to become emotionally illiterate due to the constant message that to be a "real man" you must be tough, "masculine" - whatever that's supposed to mean-, and without emotional expression. Of course I am not a man, and I do not speak for all men with this comment but I know many men who simply cannot talk about their emotions, or mock those who can and do talk about emotion and feeling. Women are guilty of this too, I'm not saying this mockery is one-sided, I am saying it's unhealthy.
I believe that as a consequence of the media's influence many people believe that men are only interested in women for sex, and self gratification, in my experience this really isn't the case. I'm only 19, spare me, I'm not hugely worldly-wise! However, I think it's almost an expectation that men, starting at a young age, are solely interested in women for sex. I believe that we are all heavily influenced by media to believe this is the case and we are actively encouraged to think this way. Advertisements for beer, cars and almost anything aimed at men usually involves a beautiful girl, scantily clad, which objectifies her in order to sell a product. Then, take a look at adverts which aim to sell products for women, it's all about appearance and changing yourself, in order to attain the "perfect guy".
I think that our society puts so much pressure on every individual that it's hard to think. I am a feminist, I believe in equality between men and women, yet even so I find I make judgements on others based on attributes which really shouldn't be an issue. We all do it, and it's incredibly hard to stop doing so. Relating this back to your question, I think that many men don't realise that they objectify women because it's so easily done. From making a quick comment about a woman's beauty or body, to wolf-whistling at her, to shouting sexual comments at women in the street, and this is an influence of the media. The message that "It's ok to wolf-whistle women, they like the male attention, that's what they crave." which in turn provides the idea that men only think with sex in mind.
I'm sorry if this seems badly thought out, I'm very tired and like I said, I find ideas hard to refine sometimes, Also, I send apologies for the fact that it was a bit long, but well done if you made it to the end!
Topic Revealing Clothing
05 Feb 2014 15:27
I wear what I want to wear. I don't wear clothes specifically so that guys look at me in the street, I'm not an object for the pleasure of others. I wear clothes which I like, I find flattering on me and make me feel good.
Of course sometimes objectification occurs within a relationship where one person wants to please the other by looking, dressing or acting a certain way, but as long as it's a two way street and not a constant stream, I think that it can be healthy.
Topic Have you ever sent naked pictures of yourself to someone other than on Lush?
05 Feb 2014 15:18
I've never sent naked pictures to a lushie. I would much rather send them to someone I know that I can trust! If the person I'm seeing asks for naked pictures and I trust them enough then yes, I like to send them. Not going to send naked pictures to a stranger on the internet though...
Topic does size matter??
05 Feb 2014 15:13
See! Might not be Ann Summers, but still
Topic Women in public w/o bra - opinion?
04 Feb 2014 05:09
Depends, if I'm wearing something like a halter neck top then I don't feel there's much point in wearing a bra. More hassle than it's worth. I don't need lots of support, the blessing of small boobs! :P Though having said that, normally I do wear a bra
Topic phone sex
02 Feb 2014 14:18
I prefer sexting or using video chat to phone sex. With sexting I can word myself better as I've a little bit longer to think about it, and keep him in suspense. Though using video chat is definitely the best (apart from when it freezes, awkward), you get the visual aspect of it which is fun. Watching them and seeing their reactions... Fun stuff. (;
I only sext the person I'm seeing or in a relationship with. Sexting strangers or cybering over lush or whatever just doesn't do it for me. When it's someone I know and have already had the intimacy with it's easier because you have a mutual understanding, plus it actually turns me on! Sexting a stranger just seems a bit too fake and generic.
I love sending messages at slightly inappropriate times to him, like when he is at work and we're seeing each other later... Give him something a little more interesting to think about!
02 Feb 2014 06:11
There's a mirror perfectly placed in his bathroom, I love watching his face as we have sex, he seems to like it too (;
01 Feb 2014 08:53
If a person requests to be my friend and they have more than two words in the request I'll check out their profile and then more than likely accept. However if we don't talk then I'll delete them. Which is why it appears that I have added many people but my friend list is pretty short.