Forum posts made by dancing_doll

You need a lot of jelly in the trunk to do tricks like these.

My little white girl booty was not designed for twerking so I'll have to stick to stationary 'tooching' and maybe a bit of grinding (situation appropriate). If I tried to pull off these moves, I would just look ultra lame.

A MMF threesome is a HUGE deal for someone who has only ever had one lover.


Technically my #2 and #3 guys were in a MFM threesome (although I had been fooling around with #2 for a very short while leading up to that). Obviously that's not the norm for most girls, and after the fact it had a lingering 'mindfuck' on me for a while since it had been an unplanned/unexpected experience. My first anal too. And there was a DP. Pretty crazy thing to do looking back on it, but hey - it's a good memory overall and no regrets (now). But yeah, you do need to have the right mindset going into something like this, so to the OP - if she's on the fence or just doing this to try to please you, then it's best to back the pressure off. Not every woman needs (or wants) to have this experience, so leave it up to her to decide and initiate setting things up. If she's wanting to explore her sexuality and experience other partners, then this could be a safe way for her to do that while in a secure marriage with you. With proper communication, you can both make the right call. :)

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One of my pet peeves is people who poke me or message me or send a chat request the very moment I log on, when I just want to find a dirty story to read.

So basically I let myself get pissed off because (a) people like talking to me and (b) because people can't read my mind. Which makes me a complete idiot.

I really shouldn't post when I wake up in bed with a hangover. Though I guess that's better than waking up on the floor with a hangover.

Try clicking on 'away' or going 'invisible'.

How about these spots. It looks like they have a nice selection of nudie hot springs.

http://phoenix.about.com/od/nude/Nudists_and_Naturists.htm


Or I guess you could always try to grab a seat at the Jodi Arias Death Penalty circus.

It's not hard to drive in heels.

The most important piece of advice, however, is this - if the stem of your shoe heel is covered in leather, fabric or any kind of embellishment other than something very hard and durable, you run the risk of fucking up the back of that heel with repeated driving because of the angle of the shoe and direct-scuffing when manipulating the pedals. Be careful. I've wrecked some really beautiful shoes doing that. :(

Extroverted (E) 53.66% Introverted (I) 46.34%
Intuitive (N) 62.5% Sensing (S) 37.5%
Feeling (F) 70.97% Thinking (T) 29.03%
Perceiving (P) 74.29% Judging (J) 25.71%

Your type is: ENFP

ENFP - "Journalist". Uncanny sense of the motivations of others. Life is an exciting drama. 8.1% of total population.

Why am I not surprised that we're the same? lol

I MUST remember to ask for this when I go in for my brazilian on Saturday. Can I choose what shade of pretty petal pink I want my bumhole to be?

Of course! In fact, it's recommended to take a photo in so they can colour match it specially.

I prefer my asshole to have a more 'innocent' and 'fresh' look so I tend to go for something in a delicate virginal shade. Fools 'em every time.

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I voted for Hardcore because it encompasses multiple elements I enjoy, really opens the door to sexual creativity and I'm more likely to find a few kinky surprises or different ways of unleashing the uninhibited. There tends to be a more 'raw' sexual vibe to these stories as well.

Right behind Hardcore in terms of personal favourites would be Reluctance - they often involve complex story lines, psychological intensity and dominant guys (or gals). This is usually the right mix to keep me intrigued.

ooo... you know it makes me all hot and bothered when you get like that- need a wingman? we could enroll together.

Totally! I'm thinking we both pledge the sorority and go into undercover-bitch mode and fuck it up. We'd have her in a straightjacket by spring break. :)


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(ps. this plotline would make a great teen flick movie!)

If I went to this school, I would make it my life's mission to fuck up this girl's shit. It would be so fun (and so easy). That girl is strung tight.

I'm ENFP.

I remember taking the test three years ago (there was another thread on here about it buried deep in the forum trenches) and went back to check and yep, I was ENFP back then too, so at least it's consistent. lol


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I like a guy who acts normal, is chill, funny, flirty and self confident - and doesn't lay the romance and chivalry thing on too thick. In other words a good guy but one who doesn't come across like he's trying too hard. It should feel natural, not like an act and not like you're trying to sell me something I don't know if I want just yet.

I'm not interested in an abuser, a d-bag or an ahole with attitude. At the same time, don't show up with two dozen roses, lay yourself out like a doormat, act so polite and cautious that it feels like a job interview or start relationship-planning when we're only two drinks into knowing each other.

In the beginning, it's all about keeping it fun and intriguing but pacing out your expectations.

I love the plot synopsis on this one. Congrats on getting published! I wish you much success. :)

Happy Birthday Mazza!

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This is typical stuff for me that I try to keep stocked in my kitchen/fridge...

Miscellaneous:
Eggs
Cheese - aged cheddar and a bit of goat cheese or a french triple cream/soft-ripened
Baby red potatoes
Kashi Go Lean Crunch cereal
Plain yogurt
Blue-cheese stuffed olives
Wasa (swedish crispbreads)

Protein/Meals (confession - some of this I get pre-made):
Tofu
Tiger Shrimp
Salmon
Chicken
Occasionally I'll get turkey bacon

Fruits and Veggies:
Lemons and Limes
Strawberries
Bananas
Green Apples
Pink Grapefruit
Lettuce - romaine and mixed spring
Spinach
Raspberries and/or blueberries
Red Bell Peppers
Cucumber
Baby brussel sprouts
Mushrooms
Avocado
Vine-ripened Tomatos

Liquids:
Crystal Light Liquids - a couple of squirt bottles for home and to throw into my purse
Metro Mint Water - couple of bottles
Blue Gatorade
Skim Milk or Soy milk
OJ or grapefruit

Snacks:
Luna Bars - various flavours for on-the-go snacks
Soy Nuts
Unsalted Almonds
Dried Mango
Lime and Salt microwave popcorn (mini-bags)

Dessert/Sweets:
Skinny Cow Ice Cream sandwiches and sometimes I'll get the Fudgesicles <-- best low-cal indulgences ever!

The answer to the question depends a lot on demographics asked.

I would say about 80% of the girls I know married for status. Status wasn't the only factor, but it certainly meant the guy was a good catch and came with a lot of perks that allowed them to quit their jobs and go shopping. It's not like these guys aren't attractive or good guys in all the other important ways, but I'd say it was more about financial security and future baby-making benefits than about true soulmate kismet type connections. In fact some have even told me this straight up. That's not to say that they would have been better suited to a "Charlie the Custodian" type either. Just that if you're in the market for marriage and babies, the guy's status and genetic perks are probably going to factor in (to some degree) when you're looking for potential prospects.

It matters a lot less when these aren't your immediate goals - eg. if you're divorced & dating, looking for short-term fun, are not marriage-minded or don't want kids and a white picket fence. Then you can go for the hot broke bad boy, mature soulful guys or the sensitive unemployed artist types and say status means nothing as long as it's 'true luv'.

It also depends on how desirable the female is - if she has more options, she's more likely to be choosey about what she's looking for in a guy, whether it's in the looks, status or $$ department. This may influence who she gives the time of day to as far as dating/sex.

I'm not applauding or criticizing this outlook either, by the way. People want different things in life and have different expectations - I don't think it's about grandstanding about virtuous choices. People should do what they want if it makes sense to them and keeps them happy.

Accents vary a lot, even within a country.

In general though - I like South African, English, Irish, Australian, French - so, I guess the typical ones people find sexy or alluring.

South African is probably my fave of all of them, partly because I had this unrequited lust for this instructor I had once - tall, broad shouldered, athletic and gorgeous with this sexy South African accent. I kind of hung on his every word.

Technically bisexual. Although mainly when drunk.

In terms of relationships and emotional involvements though I'm basically straight.

To continue to improve my writing skills, to entertain others, to turn them on... and oh yeah, to make a gazillion dollars in eBook sales.

This is a difficult one to answer, because you used the words " I think my boyfriend wants me to be more of a slut" and I'm not sure if you're basing this solely on him looking at slutty looking girls, because in all honesty - most guys (and even a lot of women) will have their eyes drawn to provocatively dressed girl. Looking and/or noticing doesn't necessarily mean that he wants you to act or dress like that though.

If, however, he's told you he'd like to see you get in touch with your 'inner slut' and you want to keep things monogamous, then really all this boils down to is role play.

Basically this is covered by three main areas: outfit, dirty talk, and assertiveness.

1. Outfit
I don't know what your go-to sex outfit consists of at the moment but if you're mostly a lacey lingerie and sophisticated silks kind of girl, then to get the slutty-girl look, you probably need to 'dumb it down' for lack of a better word. Again - this will depend on personal taste because versions of slutty looks vary widely, but it probably involves a bit of a cheaper look. Think Britney Spears in her prime. Maybe ultra short skirts or 'skirtinis' or tight super-low rise jeans or shorts, crop tops, tight tanks, shiny/strappy things. The options are really all over the map so you might want to just pick something you like as a surprise (to start with) or shop together for new outfits. Check out online stores like wickedtemptations.com or even some lines on Fredericks of Hollywood might work. Or you can just create something yourself - especially if you're thinking of dressing like this in public. Pretty much if you keep it tight and/or skimpy, it should fit the bill. Obviously make sure you're comfortable with whatever you're wearing though. If you're not comfortable or feeling sexy then it will affect points #2 and #3.

2. Dirty Talk
I'm guessing he wants something girly, submissive and hyper-sexual here. Dirty talk should feel natural but really you can drill it down to creative breathless ways to do 1. ego-stroking and 2. telling him what you want . The latter is part of point #3, but really a lot of guys just want a girl to tell them explicitly what they want, how they want it and why they want him (specifically) to give it to them. I use a lot of dirty talk in many of my stories and in general I would suggest reading erotica to maybe pick up tips of verbiage you can use if you're not already a dirty-talker type. If you want to get advanced with it, you can also role-play various 'slutty' scenarios while still keeping things monogamous. For example, he can come home and maybe you're waiting for him in a hot little outfit and then pin him down on the bed and tell him all about this fictitious slutty afternoon you had where you fucked a couple of guys in a bar bathroom or started rubbing yourself under your skirt while you had a bit of a public audience - or whatever... be creative. Keeping it mind it's fictitious so you're the storyteller here but if you like the 'idea' of playing with others while still staying monogamous - shared fantasies are really the way to go. Again - if dirty talk isn't your forte, read some erotica to get ideas or talk to your boyfriend about what your mutual fantasies are.

3. Initiating sex and being more assertive
Showing off your inner 'slutty girl' really just means a girl who is extremely comfortable with her sexuality. Some guys say they want a girl to be more slutty because they want the girl to take the reigns of control in a way and not wait for the guy to do all the seducing and initiating of sex, position changes etc. Maybe you want to try a bit of public teasing, a BJ or handjob in the car when you're out, walking out in front of him while he's bored and watching tv dressed in a slutty outfit and sitting and grinding on his lap and telling him all the dirty things you want him to do to you. The reason guys often look at the 'skimpy dressed or slutty girls' is that they give the illusion of being free and confident in their sexuality. That might be all he wants from you so if you find you're usually the type to let him initiate sex or control the pace, maybe switch things up and surprise him. Maybe try exploring some sexual areas that you haven't already gotten into. Again - erotica is your friend here when it comes to research. For example, I have a great 'how to' guide with a lollipop in my latest story. :)

Lastly - as others have said - don't do stuff you're not comfortable with, but since you said you're both happily monogamous then really this isn't about losing 'dignity'... it's just about consensual role-playing within a relationship. If you're typically a lace panties and scented candles kind of girl, it could be that he just wants to try something a little dirtier and wants to see you more uninhibited/raw in your sexuality. Nothing wrong with that if you're willing to explore. Have fun!

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Congrats to all the winners and players!

Some guys are down with it, some guys are not... But yeah, I consider it a turn-on for sure. I like the uninhibited quality and I also like cum-play in general, so it's definitely a bonus if the guy isn't freaked out by his own jizz.

Congrats, Laurindo! This looks like a fun and kinky read! :)

The major hurdle is in finding the other guy for the threesome. Sounds easy, but if she's picky and you both want to feel comfortable with the guy and the situation, then it might take some time and effort.

1. Set ground rules. Find out what she wants to do and what her limits are. Make sure the other guy knows these things up front.

2. A blindfold (for her) during the early stages of touching, licking etc might help ease her past the awkwardness (if she feels any) and allow her to concentrate more on the sensations and feelings and what's turning her on. She can take it off later - or maybe she wants to keep it on and keep it a more sensory experience - physical only - without the eye-contact and perceived intimacy of being with another guy.

3. If you're wanting to try a DP - practice first with a dildo while you're having sex with her so she has a bit of experience with what it feels like.

4. Most importantly - reassure her. She has had limited sexual experience and her main fear is probably going to be that you will experience some kind of intense jealousy in the moment or that maybe you will hold it against her at some later date. She will need to feel very reassured by you that you find it kinky and an adventure you can have together and that it isn't going to change the way you see her in a negative way.

Someone gave me a couple of these recently. They aren't my favourite thing and I wouldn't wear it with a skirt because ya never know. There is a light underwire in them and they are shaped. If you didn't know what they were you could almost mistake them for a headband. They aren't that uncomfortable but I don't really like the look of them and don't see any real practical benefit to them either (other than as a discreet bottom for the tanning salon or private balcony/backyard tanning).

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. In fact thinking about him doing it turns me on. And sometimes we do it together.

This.

You could try creating a 'friends-only' photo album and put them in there. If someone doesn't want to see cock pics, then they can just avoid clicking on the little thumbnail leading to the album.

I actually don't mind cock pics as long as they aren't the extreme close-up disembodied appendage type. If you show some of the body too, the level of the eroticism of the photo changes. They can be sexy. And... if that's you in your avatar, then I think you will definitely get some clickers.

I suggest a new Badge called Legendary Stories for 100,000 views.

Buz is the trailblazer for the new badge. I just noticed it on my profile! It's interesting to click on it - there are quite a few Lushies that qualified!