Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Topic Which Is Thee Most Realistic Lesbian Sex Scene In A Movie?
Posted 28 May 2014 09:11

My vote goes to Black Swan as well, but the movie 'Chloe' had a great scene between Amanda Seyfried and Julianne Moore. That whole movie was extremely erotic - from the eye contact to glimpses of exposed skin to the way the storyline developed.

Angelina Jolie had a good one in the movie Gia, but it was more of a montage sequence - still, that scene up against the chain-link fence was memorable.

Topic Elliot Rodger kills 6, injures 13 others. Is it rape culture, guns or something else?
Posted 27 May 2014 18:58

I hear a lot of people saying "someone should have known he was about to go nuts because of his social media posts and done something". Who is to say that the next Elliot Rodger isn't one of those despicable people posting their support for him on Twitter? Shouldn't they *all* be followed up on and checked out?

Unfortunately the 'god-complex' and extreme narcissism this guy exhibited reminds me a lot of a homicidal stalker I once had to deal with - complete with manifesto and anti-woman 'blame it on the blondes' sentiment - and i am again reminded of how lucky I am that, despite threats, he turned it on himself without taking me with him.

Really this is a matter of mental illness either going unrecognized or ignored - by his family, peers, teachers etc. And yet it's become such an acceptable part of our culture that it just doesn't register with the right level of alarm anymore. All those Twitter comments... we are conditioned to just shake our heads and shrug it off because social media has become an acceptable playground for disturbed people. And yet this guy had all kinds of red flags going on - that his family was aware of - and yet they chose a very passive approach to the whole thing. They tried... but clearly they didn't try hard enough. Maybe we need more education about mental illness in general for our society so that we understand the gravity of the situation when someone like this begins acting out. There should be more provisions to 'force' someone into treatment when they exhibit certain red flags - no more of this 'well we can't force him, it's not ethical' - yes, the law needs to change so that these people *are* forced. This guy was a ticking time bomb. He didn't just wake up one day and go nuts - he'd been planning this for a very long time.

Aside from the cultural education component and more awareness about mental illness (and I'm talking about narcissistic personality disorder, borderline personality disorder, psychopathy, antisocial behaviour etc), I still think that the gun culture and general availability of guns contributes to this kind of spree killing. I don't want to start another gun debate (I've done that in spades already), and yes I know someone can kill with knives or search out black market weapons 'if they really want to' - but making it so easy for anyone to load up on ammo and guns *does* impact the potential for an unstable person to see this as the ultimate solution and max the damage, thinking they are going out in a blaze of glory as some kind of hero of the underdogs. And - the vile support these people get from other social misfits just makes me absolutely sick and shows just how deep the decay and cultural pathology is growing.

Topic Whats best a quickie or long all night
Posted 23 May 2014 06:07

I like both as well as the nice hard (moderate length) session followed by sleep. It also depends on what else you have going on in your schedule and if it's at night, whether you have an early morning or busy day.

I was with a guy once that liked going alllll night. Like to the point where at times I would wake up and need to pee but would debate bothering to get up because if I did, I knew when I returned to bed, he'd be hard and ready to go again. The first couple of times it was hot and exciting and I didn't mind the bleary-eyed fatigue the next day because I was running on sex-drenaline (often happens with new partners - who needs caffeine?!)... but after a while, it was just too much. I was only getting 2-3 hours of sleep and the non-stop sex nights continued by him following me into the shower - *after* the shower - trying to get out his door. It sounds all hot and intense but I don't want it like that every single time I see the person - especially during weekdays. On a weekend - it's a whole different story.

For me the ideal is to vary it up - sometimes you just want a hot quickie , other times a nice session for a few hours, and on a weekend the all-nighter can be perfect.

Topic What is the longest story you have written?
Posted 22 May 2014 14:30

My 'The Bitches in the Basement' novel was around 55K words. Part of that novel was posted on Lush at one point.

As far as what I currently have on Lush, it would be West Coast Games - which comes in at around 27K. I'm working on the prequel to this using a different character's perspective, and I expect it to roughly be around the same length. Then I plan to publish both as a combined eBook.

Topic Do you prefer to read 'gold members' more than others?
Posted 22 May 2014 14:24

It has zero impact on what I read.

Topic All About Nails - General discussion board (Brands, trends, maintenance tips...)
Posted 22 May 2014 14:23

'What Filter Should I Use' nail wraps by NCLA (looove these).

And... this is a cool way to wear white for the summer with a little metallic crescent showing underneath (use one layer of metallic underneath and then white on top). You could also do this with a neon for a more subtle way to wear a bright colour. Kind of like a reverse french-mani.

Topic Happy 106th Birthday, Java ~
Posted 21 May 2014 16:21

Happy Birthday, lovely lady!

Hope you have a fantastic one! :)


Topic Does this happen to you
Posted 21 May 2014 07:55

I would recommend buying something like this and having it on hand just incase. Pepperface has a wide range with different colours and even rhinestones - easy to clip onto something or put on a keychain. Also - try to vary your routine/path and the time you go out for runs. You don't want to be overly predictable incase you are being targeted over days/weeks. Too many creeps out there.

Topic Ever had something said during 'dirty talk' that offended you?
Posted 20 May 2014 13:45

Yes, baby talk. It turned me off like a bucket of ice-water. I actually faked feeling sick and went home and deleted the guy from my phone. It was a casual relationship (dating + sex) for around two months - but ugh - I just couldn't get over it. Maybe it sounds like an extreme reaction, but it just crushed any desire I had for him.

Topic ONE NIGHT STANDS... good or bad?
Posted 17 May 2014 18:56

They can be both good or bad, depending on your mindset going into it. There's nothing wrong with casual sex or having a bit of fun. If you're going to guilt-trip over it, then I think it's best to avoid. It's not for everyone. Having said that, I think everyone should at least give into a hot vacation fling at least once. It's like the gateway one-night-stand... just try it... ;)

Topic Have you ever fucked two different people in a day?
Posted 17 May 2014 18:47

Only twice that I can remember (not counting threesomes).

Topic Dream Woman
Posted 17 May 2014 18:41

Lana Del Rey.

Topic Change of heart
Posted 15 May 2014 13:53

You probably should have exchanged pics before making plans to get together. Not doing this implies that your connection is strong enough to take precedence over looks, and the pic-exchange was just a trivial detail... which in most cases, it isn't. :p

Having said that, it's not a crime if you're not attracted to someone. I don't think you need to tell her this explicitly. I know many people prefer being upfront, but if you're not interested, cancel the date and say your schedule got busy and your time commitments might be tied up for a while. Then just fade away. OR you have the option of going to the movie as friends but making it clear upfront or shortly thereafter that you think she's a great girl but the chemistry is off.

I don't know if this was a casual online thing (assuming so), but if you haven't made any major investment in it, I don't think you need to do a full "this is why I'm not into you anymore" breakdown. I think most people will understand the person changed their mind or something came up or maybe you met someone new that you're more into etc. This kind of thing happens all the time with online stuff and blind dates. As long as you're not leading her on or giving her false hope, I think you're in the clear. No need to beat yourself up about it.

Topic Level of Detail?
Posted 14 May 2014 07:38

I like detail but it has to feel natural to the narrative. Think about the story, rather than the laundry list of fast details - they should be woven into the narrative, rather than taking a break from the story to fill a paragraph with what someone looks like.

Also - if it's a first person narrative, it makes sense that as your character is seeing others, they will notice and/or react to what they look like. They will not know a woman's cup-size at first glance, nor would a woman know the length of a guy's penis, so I prefer to opt for descriptives rather than specific 'sizes'. Breasts can be full, pert, modest, there can be a swell of cleavage... this is the better way to give a descriptive rather than "Lola dropped her bra and I gazed at her 34D breasts with medium sized pink nipples."

In a first-person narrative story, describing what your main character looks like may be a little more tricky. I dislike stories that take a break from the plot or use a basic-intro tactic like "I have blonde hair and a hot body, with 34C breasts and a shaved snatch," all in a single paragraph. If you can work details into a story in a natural way, it's far more effective and it will come across as less elementary-writing. If it doesn't feel right, then leave it out - the reader will create an image in their mind based on the personality/feel of the character. I don't need specifics - my imagination will fill in the blanks based on the vibe of the character.

To give a quick example - in my story series, West Coast Games, the only character that really gets well physically detailed is the female because it's the way the main character sees her and first becomes enamoured with her. It's written from a male first-person POV, and to me, it would have felt unnatural and vain for the guy to be detailing his own good looks. It would feel similarly awkward if he was to detail what his two male friends look like in any lingering way. I kept the details brief and related to the action, only when I felt I could weave things in without making the narrative feel cheesy. I try to bring the characters to life with the story and then let the reader fill in the blanks.

Topic sexy tattoos
Posted 12 May 2014 10:46

Topic Review: Tommy Gunn Penis Extension
Posted 12 May 2014 09:50

I thoroughly enjoyed this review! icon_biggrin

Actually, I've always wondered how these things work, so this was pretty educational.

And by the way, even myself was surprised at how big a 8+ inch dick looks for real , especially when accompanied by a proportionate girth. I'd be curious to learn how many women really stumbled across a penis that big. I just verified, and only 1/300 men have an 8-inch penis, 1/2500 for 8,5-inch. I really pity men who possess such an appendage; I'd take my 6-incher anytime over such an abnormality!

This point especially is bang on, and similar to what both myself and female friends have said when we actually see six and eight inch dildos. They're bigger than you think, especially considering the number of guys that think (or claim) their dicks are 9 inch+ (just not as common as people say). Even seven inches is pretty big, assuming it's an accurate measurement.

Posted 09 May 2014 14:14

Happy Birthday, John! occasion7

Hope you have a fun one! :)

Topic Only oral sex relationship
Posted 08 May 2014 12:29

No. I would get bored. Fast.

Topic Ladies: What’s your take on thongs?
Posted 08 May 2014 12:27

They make up at least 75% of my panty-wardrobe... maybe even closer to 80%. I just find them the most comfortable (feels like I have nothing on) and they're ideal for no VPL. For those that find them uncomfortable - try the Hanky Panky low-rise lace ones or the Victoria's Secret equivalent (which is basically a rip off of Hanky Panky but slightly lower quality, albeit cheaper-$ too). They are the best brand/style of thong. It's all about the fabric and the cut.

Topic Do you like 69 ?
Posted 08 May 2014 12:22

Yes - whether it's me on top or the guy on top, it's definitely hot and a lot of fun where you can really take your time and get into the back and forth.

I'm not a huge fan of the standing-69. I was having sex with a guy that was really into this for a while (fbuddy) - he liked holding me upside down for both finger-fucking and tongue. It's intense in a good way at first, but hard to concentrate and the angle has to be 'just right'. I definitely prefer it horizontal.

Topic Dating sites???
Posted 07 May 2014 12:54

I know quite a few people that are using Tinder for dating and hook-ups with good success rates. It's location specific and also tied to a person's facebook so you can see if they're for real.

Topic Favorite Pizza?
Posted 06 May 2014 16:47

Thin crust Margherita Pizza is my all-time fave.

Otherwise, I like veggie and pineapple combos (eg. vine tomatoes, green peppers and pineapple is one I regularly get).

Topic What is your favourite item of clothing to wear? Any type of attire, but only one thing.
Posted 06 May 2014 16:07

Skinny jeans - distressed, vintage wash, dark rinse - love them all. They're kind of a wardrobe staple for me because I can dress them up or down, they look hot with flats, stilettos or boots and they make my ass look great. :)

Topic Ginger, Honey and Lemon, Great for the Males
Posted 06 May 2014 15:50

I make the ginger, lemon and honey tea when I'm sick or sometimes I drink it cold as part of a cleanse.

I also candy the ginger pieces. Candied ginger is great with brie and crackers.

You can also use the leftover ginger for... uhmm.. nevermind. clown

Topic Men who are openly misogynistic
Posted 06 May 2014 11:22

I assume they are uneducated and inexperienced with life outside their own flawed bubble, or that they have been deeply scarred and fucked up by their past relationships with women. Possibly a little of both.

They can be open about it, but it doesn't mean I have to listen. And I don't. :)

Topic Your favorite category to read/write a story on LUSH?
Posted 06 May 2014 09:13

On this site, I tend to pay more attention to the author than the category. Like others, I enjoy a well-written story, so I have my favourite authors whose styles I'm drawn to. I do like stories with interesting characters, a bit of edge, sex that feels a little 'different' or inspired. And I love really dirty stories or ones that are a bit psychologically bent or twisted. If I had to pick, I probably enjoy hardcore, straight sex, anal, reluctance and cheating stories the most.

There are categories I tend to stay away from, just because I tend to not find them that interesting (First Time, MILF, older/younger, Fetishes, Supernatural, formal BDSM/Master stuff). If it's a talented author or someone whose work I already enjoy, I'm willing to go along for the ride, however. For example, I'm usually not drawn to romantic fare or poetry but Liz routinely writes stuff that makes me swoon over how she weaves words. Like her poem Genesis - by content alone - so not me - but it's one of my favourite pieces of writing on this site.

Topic What word always makes you smile when heard and why?
Posted 06 May 2014 05:18

"Pamplemousse" - it means grapefruit in French. It's just a fun word. Even saying it makes my lips and tongue happy.

Topic Not scoring and commenting on stories.
Posted 05 May 2014 07:24

I try to send out thank-yous to comments because it's a nice way to acknowledge support and connect with readers, especially if I don't know them well. I particularly try to stay on top of this when a new story has first come out. I don't have a perfect record - it can be very time-consuming and when I'm busy, things may slip or I may forget. It doesn't mean I'm not grateful or appreciative of the comments or that I haven't noticed them. Quite the opposite.

At the same time, I don't send out mass PMs asking people to read, and I don't pressure friends. I don't want anyone to feel obligated, or for them to feel like they're doing me a favour by reading/commenting. If they choose to - I'm thrilled. If they don't - that's ok too.

When I vote/comment - I don't expect anything in return. If I'm reading and enjoying something, you (the author) have done me a favour by entertaining me. In lieu of money paid in the way of an eBook or money thrown into a tip jar or hat - a comment is my way of thanking you for sharing your work.

Topic To have or not to have.
Posted 05 May 2014 07:07

Smooth is sexy. It shows muscle definition better and just gives the male body a (visually) cleaner look.

Topic Why do I keep reverting back to wanting to wear panties and polishing my nails?
Posted 03 May 2014 16:00

Maybe you're just a straight cross-dresser?

I wouldn't say any of what you said leads me to think you're bisexual, unless you're actually fantasizing about sex-acts with a guy. Being pegged by a woman or sucking her strap-on is more about being submissive to a woman (sexually). Guys may be interested in those activities but have no desire to be with a guy or experience those sex-acts with an actual cock. Of course, it might be the gateway to same-sex experimentation - curiosity can evolve over time, but I wouldn't worry about it - just do what feels right. :)