Topic what are you drinking?
25 Mar 2013 13:24
Water with a squirt of MIO Cherry Blackberry.
(I'm obsessed with MIO and the new Crystal Light Liquids).
Topic What's it like to get your arsehole bleached ?
25 Mar 2013 08:06
You need to avoid lightening formulas that contain Hydroquinone. There is some controversy around it being a carcinogen and it was relied upon during the early days of anal bleaching because it's a very fast and potent lightening agent. There are gentler formulas that take several weeks (self-application) to see the desired result. Many salons will bring you in to show you how to apply it properly for an initial session and then will provide you with the product and send you home so you can apply it yourself over several weeks until you're happy with the colour. It's probably a healthier/safer bet to do this rather than the harsher chemicals used for faster effect.
Topic The Walking Dead
24 Mar 2013 19:27
Omg... Merle. I always figured he would end up redeeming himself in the end but that final scene was just so jarring and emotional!
Topic Hurry! Get your tickets now before it's too late!
24 Mar 2013 17:48
This woman must be eating money for breakfast. She has such a gift for supernatural hokey romances. Thing is, I'm jealous as hell - I can't hate on her. She's found a winning formula and is milking it to the max. For that alone, she has my respect (and envy).
Topic UFC 158 George St Pierre vs Nick Diaz
24 Mar 2013 17:43
Yes I've tried, but finding one that also works on a phone is exceedingly difficult. I've gotten a few to work in the past but several of the sites were closed. I posted this leading up to the fight, I watched part of the main event after it was posted on YouTube and I heard that it was disappointing compared to the fight leading into it. More bark than bite, but yeah 45+ for less than a few hours a gamble. if it was 10-20$ I wouldn't mind but when you get into the 40-50-60 ranges it should be a monthly deal. Not a one night thing, that's about the cost of Showtime and Encore monthly, for that price I'd rather have Californication, Dexter, and my movie channels.
I always watch the free ones, I'm glad they've finally started showing freebies every few weeks, I believe the last one was number 6 when they debuted the flyweight division. I finally have a ufc weightclass
I was excited for this one because I haven't seen gsp fight in a fair amount of time so I bought into the hype, I should know better after getting aliens: colonial marines.
(I doubt many will understand that reference though.)
I agree buz, most people only know the old big names like silva, evans, rampage, liddell... no one knows the new guys, who don't follow the sport with a magnifying glass. I'm guilty of it as well to some extent.
I PM'd you the links I know of. Not sure if they work on a phone though. I totally agree about cost. They could probably make the same amount of money and markedly increase their fan base if PPVs were $20.
I don't necessarily follow with a magnifying glass, but I know all the key up-and-coming players and lesser known fighters. Thanks to the guy(s) that first got me into it, I can definitely hold my own. The dirty bets along the way also offered incentive for me to know my stuff as well. I like to win. :)
Re GSP - his previous fight with Condit was actually more exciting/intense than this last one with Diaz. I love the guy but am used to seeing him win decisions. His really dynamic period in the sport seems like it was before my time unfortunately. He is still extremely entertaining to watch but I was really hoping to see him finish Diaz. There's a different mindset when you're defending a title as a longterm champ though... an element of caution always factors in. He's so good that he can afford to be more strategic with his gameplan.
Topic Do you like a vocal man?
23 Mar 2013 07:24
do you like it when he moans and groans, perhaps even talking dirty to you amongst his moans and groans?
Perfect. Dirty talk and moans/groans are definitely the way to go. I really dislike it when a guy is silent. It feels awkward. I try to encourage and initiate dirty talk and vocalizations but I've had partners before that just do a little groan at the point of climax and that's it. It's always a disappointment if a guy is uncomfortable with letting loose and really getting into it - I find it often correlates to the uninhibited quality of the sex as well. The quiet guys just aren't as much fun.
23 Mar 2013 06:18
OMG! You have to try one. Im not saying that Twinkies are really that special, although they are right up there with White Castles when it comes to quenching the "munchies" crave. But you cant go through life saying you are a Twinkie virgin!
I haven't been to a White Castle either. lol. But we don't have them here.
Twinkies have always been around but my mom was very anti-junkfood growing up, so I always had healthy snacks. When I was able to sneak off and buy sugar on my own, I always went for the the hardcore candy.
21 Mar 2013 19:22
I have honestly never eaten a Twinkie in my life. When I tell people this, they always seem shocked. Isn't it just spongecake with whip cream or something? I've never understood why they're so popular.
Topic Happy birthday Rumpleforeskin
20 Mar 2013 05:07
Happy Birthday! Hope you have a fun one!
Topic How do you let someone down "easy"?
19 Mar 2013 17:37
"I've really enjoyed getting to know you, but I just feel like the chemistry is off between us and that we'd be better off as friends."
This happens all the time. This is what the early dating stages are for. You might be attracted to someone - go on a date and realize you can't stand them. Or you might be lukewarm about a guy, and after a date or two, things click and you're hooked. What everyone is looking for is that unique spark or chemistry - there's no guarantees. Anyone who has dated more than a handful of human beings knows this intrinsically as well and won't fault you for it or make you feel guilty. Chemistry is a two-way street. It's not a big deal. Just be honest and pleasant about it. It's up to him if he's interested in forging a friendship though. A lot of people don't find much incentive in the 'friend zone' thing if they're really focused on finding a relationship. Others see dating in a more casual way and might welcome expanding their casual social circles.
If you've realized it's not there with this guy, then let him know sooner than later. Trust your instincts. At the same time - it's only been two dates, so don't sweat it. :)
Topic Would You Do a Master/Slave Relationship?
19 Mar 2013 15:52
No. I like some aggressive dominant/submissive intensity and roleplay sometimes, but it's more 'in the moment' interplay and strictly sexual. Sex is really the only place where I find any kind of power-exchange exciting.
A 'lifestyle' or relationship focused on BDSM elements would not appeal to me.
Topic Most of the stories written are.....
18 Mar 2013 08:53
about women married to men with a five inch cock and finding that 10 inch cock, the one cock that will fill her up. I guess if its a fantasy to have a big cock then size matters, right?
For cuckold/humiliation themes, yes that's a pretty standard storyline. It's more of a niche sub-genre though, not really the norm.
Topic Poor Boyfriends
18 Mar 2013 08:45
I guess once.
For about two weeks leading up to me breaking up with a BF, I was hooking up with another guy (pretty regularly). My BF was out of town for one week and then I avoided him for the week he got back until I could break things off. I never slept with him again after I'd started up with the new guy though.
Topic Brush up to get a feel?
18 Mar 2013 08:39
There are certain clubs and events that are so packed that you're literally crushed in a sea of people, moving across the floor. I expect body contact at these places. But having said that - you guys make it so obvious sometimes. The upper body rotations like a broken sprinkler system as the guy pretends to look around so that it allows his upper arms to bounce across my breasts over and over again. The times when a guy will push into me more than he needs to and then move up and down to feel my boobs against his back as I'm trying to get by. The little hand sweeps across the ass that you know aren't accidental because it's palm out. Unfortunately when you're trapped in these crowds, it's impossible to avoid. But yes, we know when you're doing it for a cheap thrill.
A full on grab or squeeze is another thing though, and I've confronted guys on that one. The reactions range from mumbled apologies and embarrassed grins to the guy literally pretending to go deaf-mute and staring up at the ceiling with a dumb look in avoidance while his buddies laugh at him for getting caught.
I can't say I've ever done these purposeful brush-by/push-against moves with a random stranger. If there's a bit of flirting or interaction already going on (or there's about to be), then it's just part of the tease and for sure I've done that. I wouldn't get anything out of doing it just for the sake of some kind of body contact with a guy I'm never going to talk to though. There's no point. For the most part, I suspect girls don't really work the same way as guys on this one.
Topic UFC 158 George St Pierre vs Nick Diaz
18 Mar 2013 07:44
Unfortunately it takes ages for fights from recent PPV cards to make their way to regular television channels and they're pretty strict about copyright take-downs if people try to post fights later on youtube, for example.
Over the past year or so, I think they've been pretty good about showing a lot of free fight cards on television on FX and Fox with bigger names though. Some of them are pretty decently stacked. I think that helps gain more fans, who then, after being hooked will feel compelled to shell out the $ for PPV, but in the meantime it gives the sport more visibility and nice freebies for fans.
Topic Too Slutty
17 Mar 2013 10:49
To me, there's nothing 'too slutty' as far as sexual acts, attitudes and roleplay goes (that goes for both men and women). Not everyone is sexually compatible and people are into different levels of sexual exploration and not all of it is 'classy/pretty'. That doesn't make it bad - it just means it's on a different energy and intensity level. If it's providing sexual pleasure and release and is consensually enjoyed, then anything goes. Just like human personalities - people's 'sexual personalities' vary widely. As long as nobody becomes overwhelmed or bored with their partner(s), then it's all good.
Even as far as 'promiscuity' goes - if a person is staying healthy (protected, taking care of themselves) and it's not become a point of sexual addiction where it's negatively impacting their lives, then I don't have any issue with it. The only time it becomes an issue is when someone is maliciously 'playing' someone to get laid. If everything is up front, there's no commitments or false promises - then who cares. It's just sex. It can just be for recreational pleasure too. Our biology would attest to that, despite all the social conventions and meaning we've attached to it.
Topic UFC 158 George St Pierre vs Nick Diaz
17 Mar 2013 06:38
I think the co-main event turned out to be more exciting than the main event on this card, but loved seeing GSP get that well deserved win.
PPV is way too expensive, agreed.
Have you ever tried the free live online streams? They're worth checking out, especially for some of the weaker cards.
Topic Marmite: YES or NO?
16 Mar 2013 09:09
I haven't tried marmite, but I have tried vegemite back when I was in Oz. It is definitely an acquired taste and not one that I think I'd be able to easily acquire...
If marmite is similar, then I think my tastebuds will take a pass.
Topic high heels
15 Mar 2013 14:46
About 4.5 inches, without. They are very sexy for sure. You can do a beautiful 'delicate' looking sandal or a sleek stiletto heel that can feel very glam.
Most of the good shoes have at least a bit of a stacked platform base though (thank god). They are much more comfortable and I think they often look better too. I dislike the super heavy platforms though, where you look like you're wearing heavy clogs with heels. It's all about proportion.
Topic High School Phone Pics = Sex Offenders for Life?
15 Mar 2013 13:01
There's a lot of inferring going on with the circumstances, ie: the boy even being a "boyfriend" of the girl. That was never stated.
Actually, that's not an inference - that's a fact, as per the article that I quoted above.
News Article ]
Students said it all started when two teenage girls sent naked photographs of themselves to their boyfriends using a Snapchat app, thinking the images would be deleted within 10 seconds, 1010 WINS’ Eileen Lehpamer reported.
The circumstances surrounding why the pics were sent isn't known (whether they were requested/coerced or proactively sent). Either scenario is possible though. Regardless, you're looking at a lapse in judgement by the girls at best and some level of relationship peer pressure at the worst. Both are common stuff when you're in high school. They're already suffering in spades for their social mistake and don't deserve further blame.
Edit: For the record, I don't believe the boys should have a 'sex offender' label either.
Topic Announcing: "No Mercy", by Jake Malden (Jaymal)
15 Mar 2013 11:44
I've been an instant fan from the first story I read of Jaymal's when I first came to Lush. He's always set the bar extraordinarily high. Congrats, Jake! :)