Forum posts made by dancing_doll

When I start having recurring fantasies about him being run over while crossing the street, then I know it's probably over. If the fantasy involves me being the driver of the car running him over, then for sure it's a slam dunk - time to break up.

Or sometimes it's a little more subtle - like I stop enjoying sex and intimacy or find myself feeling indifferent about his presence in my life. If you're just going through the motions, there's no point.

Congrats, Daisy!

This looks like a very tasty read. I've always enjoyed your poems and wish you much success with this! :)

The idea of it turns me on quite a lot and factors into some of my fantasies.

I've had a threesome with two guys before, but both wore condoms so I have not experienced this in reality.

And so - here's the only issue - a bunch of strangers coming inside me without using protection isn't the safest kind of sex to have. Yeah, I know - I'm killing the fun kink factor here.

I do love the idea of it in fantasy and in reality if there were certain assurances that I knew sexual histories and that they had been recently tested, it could be game on if the situation was right.

Check out #3: http://www.cracked.com/article_20164_5-hilariously-bad-ideas-that-actually-solved-huge-problems.html

LOL... This is pretty funny.

I prefer smaller breasts, myself, but perkiness and shape is much more important than size. That being said, all other things being equal, I'll probably go for the A or B cup over D or E.

I asked the readers on my blog the same question and I've been collecting the answers here: http://liquidmatthew.wordpress.com/2012/12/01/japanese-bra-size-chart/ So far, 554 people have rated their favorite breasts out of a series, so if you want to check out the distribution, feel free. NSFW, obviously, due to the breasts and all, but it's interesting to see what people chose.

The Japanese bra sizes do indeed look quite a bit different than North American standards. Based on the survey - the most popular cup-sizes are F and H sized cups - which to me looks like something around a C or D cup based on what I'm used to. Interesting.

You can always stick with the traditional....

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But this is the BEST kind of Birthday candle to blow!

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Happy Birthday beautiful girl! Wishing you much fun on your special day! XO

I just received this comment on my story, The Blue Room, and had to share. I'm still swooning a bit. Totally made my day. :)


"I truly love the concentric circles that ripple out from the initial introduction of The Blue Box. Your subtle attention to elemental themes that bridges each seemingly unrelated story arc is brilliant. First arc: Adult couple in a cookie cutter hipster martini bar blanched by dull, ambient electronica burning yet another Saturday night. Second arc is bridged by secret desires of things blue in both parties; both needing a queen's gambit to move into or around the next phase of monotony. His Blue is dark, manipulated and devious. Hers, The Light Blue Box, is a commitment to eternity. The decision of submitting to his kink or walking out determines two possible futures. The final Arc, her unwitting reaction to his placement in a pre-established game of sexual roulette bathed in Dark Blue Shadows. He loaded the gun with blanks to force how far she would go to get her slice of Blue Heaven. It echos of "Mrs Dalloway", as the bells peal, answering each other across London. In the final arc, they both win; he in his quest to push her latent boundaries, and she, rising in her discovery of denied shades she always knew were there to cement an unspoken bond. The reality of how that dynamic crystallizes is what makes it believable, cinching it all together very succinctly. You definitely know your craft; pulling what seemed to be an abstract meta-story into clear, concise meditations on power exchange and trust in contemporary relationships. You set the bar out of reach for some; yet a challenge to rise to for others. Beautiful One!"

How come so many people in Russia drive around with cameras fixed on their dashboards?

Cool videos.

That would be scary as hell if you were in close to the point of impact.

I think more things like this will be happening going forward - it's all blind chance where these things end up landing in the universe. Earth isn't exempt from damage if we're in the way. I heard another massive asteroid is going to be zipping by earth later today as well.

NB The guy with the biggest smile.

LOL... I love the diverse range of sizes.

have you ever had a North African cock, Ashleigh? ;)

Nah, I prefer local cock.

If it looks and performs like a cock, I'm sure it's more about just ticking off a new country on the sex-map. Some women like the idea of an international sampling of men - after all, maybe North Africans have some new sex tricks up their sleeves. The Vuvuzela looks like it could be fun in a few different ways.

Also - perhaps you're just selling it well. Like "hey, have you ever had a North African cock" *wink wink* at the bar would definitely get a grin out of me at the very least. If you can fine tune the sales pitch about all the superior features and benefits of your cock, you might get some takers - just out of sheer curiosity.

At first I just thought this guy was stupid for mistaking a bombshell for a burglar (I don't know what she looked like but she was a model) but now it looks like he's not going to pass go or collect 200$ if they charge him with murder.

Yeah, she was definitely not burglar'esque at all.

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The latest is that the police have no idea where the burglar theory came about but that it was surprising to the police when they heard it in the media. There were no signs of forced entry and they were the only people at his house. Apparently neighbours had heard loud arguing coming from the house leading up to the shooting. I'll bet the 'mistaken identity' thing was put out by family or maybe just spread by fans not ready to deal with the reality of the situation and wanting to find some kind of reasonable explanation for how it could have happened.

I agree with Jack though - at a certain level of achievement/success, we just don't expect stuff like this to happen. On some level it's like - wow he's famous, idolized by his country, an Olympic athlete, he's got a ton of cash and has dated a string of models and is a bit of a playboy on the scene. He had everything going for him. Most guys would look up to (and covet) that kind of lifestyle and now he's gone from glam to total rock bottom and a possible life sentence in the slammer. It does shock us more because the fall from grace is so much more profound than the 'average criminal' or sketchy guy that might commit the same crime.

Try to balance character development with action. I find that I get bored if there's a massive amount of backstory about a character that's all laid out for me on a silver platter before I've even gotten into the storyline. Have the character do something or interact with people. Similar to how we might meet a stranger at a party, we'll pick up on the way they talk and behave and make certain deductions and assumptions. We'll get to know them through the action of the story. At certain points in the plot, it might make sense to explain or elaborate on a character's behaviour or motivations by sharing some personal history or pertinent personality details. As long as the story flows and keeps the readers interest, you're good.

Personally I like to learn about a character along the way. It keeps them mysterious and a little more intriguing. When it comes to creating a flesh and blood character, I have always preferred the "show the reader who they are, rather than tell the reader who they are" philosophy.

Why is this so shocking to anyone? Because he was in the Para-Olympics? Because he was an inspiration? Beloved? Sad yes, but shocking?

He killed her than made up a lame excuse figuring he was above the law like the rest of the Celebriminals(yes I made that word up!) normaly do. If he wasnt famous or a double amputee, would it even be news?

BTW, wasnt OJ beloved?

When pretty and/or successful people die or kill, it always makes the news. Society somehow believes they are infallible and exempt from the horrors of life.

Technically though - Oscar was a pretty big news story at the London Olympics. We even had a thread about him in the Think Tank:
http://www.lushstories.com/forum/yaf_postst24796_Oscar-Pistorious-Double-amputee-Olympic-sprinter.aspx

Murderous athletes, slain models, sexy female defendants on death penalty trials - this is the kind of stuff the media lives for.

We want our heroes to inspire us but the expectations often exceed what they can ever live up to. Especially when egos and fame get in the way.

Of course Nike immediately pulled their advertising featuring Pistorius.


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Pretty ironic and creepy to say the least.

May every breath you take today feel like a thousand shards of glass filling your lungs. May the memories of leaving me laying there that night infest your every waking moment like acid poured into a raw and open wound. You are a worthless pathologically narcissistic piece of shit without remorse or mercy or any shred of human decency. I regret stepping in and saving your life that day. It should have been your existence that was snuffed out instead. You fucking deserved it and more. And I hope it fucking haunts your days like an infection without a cure.

I'm not a great fan of Valentine's Day. Honestly I can't stand it. So what if your better half feels the same way about Valentine's Day as me?

To be honest - I would be thrilled. I am very anti V-Day.

I would not be totally convinced that you're exclusive if you know what I mean. The 'hanging with my friends' things seems like a cop-out or at the very least a sign that he sees you as more of a casual thing at this stage.

Even if he's legit with his buddies tonight - Thursday night - typical boy's night - V-day atmosphere in the bars. A good night for guys to be hitting the scene and playing. I would not get too emotionally invested in this guy to be brutally honest. Been down this road before. Have fun, but proceed with caution.

So much for being an 'inspiration' to all.

This is awful news.

I find it hard to believe that you'd be able shoot someone in your own home, thinking they're a burglar without actually physically catching a glimpse of them before you decide to pull the trigger - four times . He shot her once in the head which requires decent aim so how could he have not recognized his own girlfriend's head/face? I mean she was an FHM model with long blonde hair. What the fuck, Oscar?

Yet another domestic violence situation leading to another V-day tragedy as far as I'm concerned. Very, very sad.


How ironic that Reeva Steenkamp had retweeted this message the very day before she was killed.

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my ex.

Make sure you save room in the pot for mine!

for VD this year, i want to spend the day cooking up new recipes with Dancing Doll. and no, that's not a veiled reference to sex. we have some very similar tastes in the kitchen.



Keeping with our V-Day 'Red' theme - blood orange margaritas and cherry-glazed back ribs should be added to our menu options.

Hi Tammy,

Welcome to Lush!

Yes, it's par for the course on the internet, especially those sites that specialize in erotic elements. I'm not sure if you've tried going Invisible but: Go to 'Accounts', then 'Online Status', then choose Block All (invisible). This will allow you to surf the site without being visible to your friend list and other users. You won't be constantly inundated with cyber-requests and creepers. You can still black-box message people of your choosing. Or you can just hit the 'away' feature. I don't think I've been 'visible' on Lush for at least a year and a half. lol It's just easier this way - you will get to pick and choose who you interact with and when. Close friends know they can BB me anytime and I'll get back to them if/when I'm around.

The cyber thing is popular with some people and not popular with others. When I first came to Lush, I basically just deleted messages like that. If it's a rude intro or over-aggressive intro, it definitely does not require any explanation. Just ignore them or block if they are persistently annoying. If it becomes harassment or something beyond this, please let me or any other moderator know so action can be taken.

While I am flattered that so many people find me attractive, I feel that any one-on-one sexual roleplay with anyone other than my husband is a form of cheating. Since I'm new here I am interested in other women's opinion on this. Am I out of line being uncomfortable with such activity on a site like this?

I think whether cyber is cheating is a gray zone for many people. Some don't call it cheating unless a physical barrier has been crossed. Others feel that cyber and online interactions can constitute emotional or psychological cheating. There are married people here who cyber freely and randomly, others who develop online relationships irrespective of their marital status, and others that just want to talk about sex with people in a general way that doesn't necessarily imply that they desire any level of intimacy with the people they're talking to. There are also married people here whose spouses know and encourage them to explore recreational cyber (or do it together). Only they can determine what cheating means to them and more importantly whether it matters to them in a moral way or whether they ultimately fear (or care) about getting caught. Every relationship is different. My feeling is that if you know it would bother your significant other if they found out, it basically constitutes cheating.

The whole cyber dynamic is actually a very small part of Lush. It's just that it's usually the most immediately noticeable because the offers often come pouring in right away. Try going 'invisible' for a few days - enjoy the stories, the forums and meet people that can carry a conversation and you'll get into the groove and start having fun on your own terms. :)

Size is always better, anything under seven inches is a.waste of time, if he cant hit the.bottom,, a waste of.time,,oh its cute...yes he cheats on me, but it soooo big, just neec a guy with.a.porn stars cock. That good enough? Again just my experiences.

I already said that size matters to some degree, so we're in agreement there.

Let me guess, you have a small one too. Life really fuckered you up, didn't it.

Hell yes Im conflicted. I want to be fulfiled and happy, I was ecstatic when I thought I had a chance. I knew she was dating other guys, didnt care, we were by no means exclusive. It was HOW she did the last bit, she.knew she was wrong for whatever reason. I dont claim my issues are more than anyones, especially a rape victims, All I wajt is one of that damn gender to admit why they do this to me and others like me instead of using lines like, everything happens for a.reason, she is out there if youre patient, you need to change ypur atmosphere and change your outcomes, maybe youre just aiming too high, all that crap and just admit ”yeah , giys like you are fun to torture”.

You've been going on about this ad nauseam for over a week, insulting an entire gender in almost every single post throughout the forum under the passive-aggressive guise of being emotionally wounded because some chick you liked picked another guy instead of you.

Nobody's advice is right or helpful so let me summarize it all for you:

Give up on women. Seriously. Join a monastery. Explore the world of men. Maybe you'll have better luck with your own gender. As you have said over and over again - you will never have a happy relationship. Accept it and move on with your life. Cheers.

Yes those attacments do wonders for the ego lol. Still not matching what I have heard, been told, etc. but youre experiences are different so I cannot invalidate them

What have you been told?

In parallel camps - both Rick and the Governor appear to be going a little nuts.

What do you think of Rick's decision to drop Daryl from the group because of his unwillingness to leave Merle? Good decision or bad decision?

Would you make the same decision as Daryl for your blood kin - even if they were a-holes like Merle or would you stick with your new group/family?

Do you think Rick should let Tyrese's gang and Michonne stay at the prison to fortify their numbers incase of attack by Walkers, scavengers or Woodbury revenge seekers OR is trusting any outsiders at this point a recipe for disaster?

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Meh. It's an outdated figurehead of Catholicism. I'd wish him well in his health (or whatever else is going on in his life), but to me - Popes are pretty interchangeable.

Yes, size is an issue to some degree. We're not talking about an 'average size' here. We're talking about a dick that is medically defined as a 'micro penis'.

I have been with a guy with an undersized dick before. One that when you reach into his pants, your reaction is "oh no..." Did I still have sex with him. Yes. Was the sex mind-blowing. Nope.

Since intercourse mainly involves some variation of thrusting, it is my opinion is that yes, size is an issue when dealing with extremes at both ends of the spectrum (micro and extra large).

The original dildo comment is accurate. No company is going to be bulk manufacturing things that are not selling. Show me the woman that goes into the store and would prefer to opt for the 3 inch dildo rather than the 6 inch dildo. Seriously.

Some women don't care as much about the thrusting bit and may be perfectly happy with orgasms through oral and manual stimulation. Or you may just get pleasure out of the intimacy involved in being with someone you're really into. If all else fails, I think there are 'attachments' you can use to add that extra length/width.

Check out www.deadyourself.com to turn yourself and your loved ones into a walker from The Walking Dead. You can pick from an assortment of zombie teeth, eyes, backgrounds and other gory stuff. It's such a fun app. lol