I am a happily married man with children and grandchildren. I have a passion for good erotica, especially stories involving adventurous wives and couples. I have for the the first time written a couple of stories here on lush.The picture is not of me. For personal reasons I cannot make my Lush activities public knowledge. I am also older than the picture - 63 years old. The picture is of a famous author. Quiz: who?
The characters are true enough and some of the actions and then we goes into fantasy land.
There are some very nice people here on Lush I would like to meet in person, not for sex or romance, just for a chat and a beer or something. They live far far away and I do not think it will ever happen - but who knows.
I think it is very common to be unable to have orgasm just by intercourse without direct clitorial stimulation. Can it be possible for you to not be so dependent on the penetration? He can give you orgasms with his mouth and fingers, perhaps some anal play or toys, and then penetration as a conclusion for his orgasm. And perhaps just jacking him off or giving him orgasm with a blowjob.The anxiety of performance from his side can make the whole situation worse. If you give up on goal of penetrative orgasm, it may be more easy for him to enhance his performancee due to reduced anxiety.There are also some techniques for him; start stop, where you masturbate him almost to ejaculation, and then squeezes hard at the penis root to stop it, several times. This can enhance staying power. Sex therapists can give advice.
Then, I think I'd have to ask just what does love mean to you? Love to me means emotional connection, beeing there for each other, a commitment to the relationship, mutual honesty. I am not a jealous type. I read the wife lovers stories with pleasure. If my wife had sex just for the physical pleasure or heat of the moment, I would want to know, and hope that it was good for her. And as long as she still loved me, it would not be that big a deal. I know she does not feel the same way, and that me having sex with others would damage our relationship, so I do not cheat. But I still think that the great fixation on the sex act as the great cheat in our culture, might be damaging. It make people let go of otherwise good relationships, get too hurt when there was no intention of hurting, and creating lies and dishonesty, because the truth cannot be tolerated.
Yes I read it. And it is a story category that I love.I missed more on the backgound of the characters. Why they were in Vegas? Had there ever been talk about swinging between them? Was there any build up of sexual tensions during the stay or on that night? The descriptions of the sex acts was good, but the ending was abrupt. And what about after? Did this change their life or attitudes in any ways.I know some are most interested in the descriptions of the sex acts, but for me it is important to get to know some more on what brought these acts on.But a nice start. Keep working.
My definition would be very literal; you think about the possibility of have same sex sex, but have never done it. You definitly seem bicurious.
That is for you to decide, if you're the husband of the cuckolding wife. I was more after what is usually understood by the word. Does the word cuckold imply humiliation, or any man whose wife have sex with others with his knowledge and concent? (including swingers and open msrriages)
OMG! So, let me get this straight. "I fucked her but I make love to you" is the the balance of what should be considered when a SO has crossed the boundaries of an exclusive relationship? Seriously? Or "I must tell you something, at this conference I attended, I met this man, one thing led to another and we had sex. I will never meet him again and I love only you"Women have sex outside of marriage almost or just as much as men.If my wife stopped loving me or wanted to leave me for another man, I would be devastated. If she had a fling and was open about it and still loved only me, I would not let that ruin our relation. But it would need open communication. Lying and deception will be very damaging to a relation.I do have a strong suspicion that this would not be the same the other way around, that my wife would get very hurt if I did this, and that it would have a negative effect on our marriage (she would not leave me though, I think). I dont want to hurt her and I want our relationship to stay good. Therefore I have never cheated and never will. But I still wonder, What is the big deal? Why do we let the sex act be so important in a question where deception, lying and emotional involvment with other would be the real dangerous issues.
Cuckolds knowingly and willingly allow their wives / partners, to have sex with other men. Must there be humiliation?
What is cheating? Is it about the sex? Deception and lying destroys trust that is very important in a relationship. Affairs compete with the love and attachment in a relationship. But should one be more overbearing with just sex outside the primary relationship? Sex that is just for physical pleasure? Sex that is the result of a moments heat, but not a sign of losing love with your significant other? Or will extramarital sex always be a disaster that will destroy the relationship if discovered?
in post orgasmic bliss I stretch out to touch her feel her face with wrinkles around the mouth and eyes cup her empty breasts that has fed our children caress her abdomen with the scar where our firstborn came out let the fingers slip down to the place which have given us so much pleasure there are unspoken and unfulfilled fantasies sexual thrills never experienced but...
Added 15 Oct 2013 | Category Love Poems
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This is a sequel to ”I was so careful” where my wife discovered my reading erotica and watching ”dirty” pictures on the Internet. I had been so afraid. I thought that this discovery would make her mad at me, or even worse – despise me. But instead it opened up a communication around our sex life that we had never had before. We had sex more often, and she took initiative, which had...
Added 18 Mar 2013 | Category Wife Lovers
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I was so careful to cover my tracks. On my iMac I used Safari as my default browser, and it was Safari I had on my dock. But I had also hidden away a Chrome browser, not sticking to the dock. I activated stealth mode. On my Chrome I had open stories from Lush, pictures and even small videos from xhamster, pages with information on swinging. Stuff I did not want my wife to know that I read...
Added 16 Mar 2013 | Category Wife Lovers
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