About Elling50

I am a happily married man with children and grandchildren. I have a passion for good erotica, especially stories involving adventurous wives and couples. I have for the the first time written a couple of stories here on lush.
The picture is not of me. For personal reasons I cannot make my Lush activities public knowledge. I am also older than the picture - 63 years old. The picture is of a famous author. Quiz: who?

Elling Norman
Relationship Status:
Reading, movies, music
Favorite Books:
Life of Pi, Game of thrones, Les Miserable, Utvandrarne (Moberg swedish),
Favorite Movies:
No country for old men, Fargo, One flew over the cuccoos nest, Avatar, Matrix,
Favorite Music:
Rebekka Bakken, Mahler, Beatles
Date Joined:
07 Mar 2013
Last Visit:
20 Jul 2014 (4 days ago)
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Latest Forum Posts
Topic: Thoughts about a threesome
Posted: 15 Apr 2014 21:11

If my wife wanted a threesome, I would definitly want to try it. She does not, so it will never happen.

Topic: Do you want your woman to fuck others?
Posted: 11 Jan 2014 21:56

I saw a statement that 90% of men wanted their wifes to be hotwives, and that all woman wanted to be one. I thour I should test this scientificly with a lush poll.

Topic: Would you like to be a hotwife?
Posted: 11 Jan 2014 21:53

I saw a statement that 90% of men wanted their wife to be a hotwife, and all women wanted to be one. I thought I should take it to a scientific test, the lush poll.

Topic: Do you write real life stories, fiction, or a mix of both?
Posted: 15 Oct 2013 09:41

The characters are true enough and some of the actions and then we goes into fantasy land.

Topic: Would you meet someone from Lush in person?
Posted: 26 Sep 2013 10:44

There are some very nice people here on Lush I would like to meet in person, not for sex or romance, just for a chat and a beer or something. They live far far away and I do not think it will ever happen - but who knows.

Topic: In need of some bedroom advice and help
Posted: 25 Sep 2013 02:05

I think it is very common to be unable to have orgasm just by intercourse without direct clitorial stimulation. Can it be possible for you to not be so dependent on the penetration? He can give you orgasms with his mouth and fingers, perhaps some anal play or toys, and then penetration as a conclusion for his orgasm. And perhaps just jacking him off or giving him orgasm with a blowjob.

The anxiety of performance from his side can make the whole situation worse. If you give up on goal of penetrative orgasm, it may be more easy for him to enhance his performancee due to reduced anxiety.

There are also some techniques for him; start stop, where you masturbate him almost to ejaculation, and then squeezes hard at the penis root to stop it, several times. This can enhance staying power. Sex therapists can give advice.

Topic: What is your experience with affairs?
Posted: 20 Sep 2013 04:33

Then, I think I'd have to ask just what does love mean to you?

Love to me means emotional connection, beeing there for each other, a commitment to the relationship, mutual honesty.

I am not a jealous type. I read the wife lovers stories with pleasure. If my wife had sex just for the physical pleasure or heat of the moment, I would want to know, and hope that it was good for her. And as long as she still loved me, it would not be that big a deal.

I know she does not feel the same way, and that me having sex with others would damage our relationship, so I do not cheat. But I still think that the great fixation on the sex act as the great cheat in our culture, might be damaging. It make people let go of otherwise good relationships, get too hurt when there was no intention of hurting, and creating lies and dishonesty, because the truth cannot be tolerated.

Topic: First Erotic Story Feedback for Last Night In Vegas
Posted: 09 Sep 2013 21:17

Yes I read it. And it is a story category that I love.

I missed more on the backgound of the characters. Why they were in Vegas? Had there ever been talk about swinging between them? Was there any build up of sexual tensions during the stay or on that night? The descriptions of the sex acts was good, but the ending was abrupt. And what about after? Did this change their life or attitudes in any ways.

I know some are most interested in the descriptions of the sex acts, but for me it is important to get to know some more on what brought these acts on.

But a nice start. Keep working.

Topic: What does Bi-curious really mean?
Posted: 09 Sep 2013 21:07

My definition would be very literal; you think about the possibility of have same sex sex, but have never done it.
You definitly seem bicurious.

Topic: What is a cuckold?
Posted: 06 Sep 2013 06:28

That is for you to decide, if you're the husband of the cuckolding wife.

I was more after what is usually understood by the word. Does the word cuckold imply humiliation, or any man whose wife have sex with others with his knowledge and concent? (including swingers and open msrriages)

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Stories Published By Elling50
Old love

in post orgasmic bliss I stretch out to touch her feel her face with wrinkles around the mouth and eyes cup her empty breasts that has fed our children caress her abdomen with the scar where our firstborn came out let the fingers slip down to the place which have given us so much pleasure there are unspoken and unfulfilled fantasies sexual thrills never experienced but...

Added 15 Oct 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 5 | Avg Score 5 | Views 341 | 4 Comments

A nude beach and then a nude resort

This is a sequel to ”I was so careful” where my wife discovered my reading erotica and watching ”dirty” pictures on the Internet. I had been so afraid. I thought that this discovery would make her mad at me, or even worse – despise me. But instead it opened up a communication around our sex life that we had never had before. We had sex more often, and she took initiative, which had...

Added 18 Mar 2013 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 21 | Avg Score 4.74 | Views 23,147 | 7 Comments

I was so careful

I was so careful to cover my tracks. On my iMac I used Safari as my default browser, and it was Safari I had on my dock. But I had also hidden away a Chrome browser, not sticking to the dock. I activated stealth mode. On my Chrome I had open stories from Lush, pictures and even small videos from xhamster, pages with information on swinging. Stuff I did not want my wife to know that I read...

Added 16 Mar 2013 | Category Wife Lovers | Votes 25 | Avg Score 4.43 | Views 9,789 | 12 Comments

Friends Comments
Friends Comments
Posted: 01 Jan 2014 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
Posted: 24 Dec 2013 09:29

Elling, wishing you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year

Posted: 18 Nov 2013 04:24

Missing you!!

Posted: 17 Oct 2013 16:21

Sorry, forgot the pic!

Posted: 17 Oct 2013 16:20
Hi Elling
Thanks for reading "Anniversary Album" and taking the time to vote, and for your wonderful comment
Posted: 17 Oct 2013 11:08
Thanks for the add. Even Cherubs need a break every now and then...

Posted: 15 Oct 2013 05:56

Thank you so much for reading and commenting on Perfucktory!

I’m glad you enjoyed it, thank you for taking the time!


Posted: 10 Oct 2013 03:12

Thank you very much for reading my wee poem, Close To Me.

I’m glad you enjoyed it. Thank you so much for your comment!

Posted: 07 Oct 2013 19:07

Posted: 25 Sep 2013 15:53
Elling! You didn't like Claire and Julie? They're just flawed characters making human errors in judgment and living with the consequences
Thanks for reading and commenting, my friend!
Posted: 22 Sep 2013 08:59

Posted: 18 Sep 2013 18:29
Just wanted to say, thank you for being a friend......Kinky Becky style

Love you.

Posted: 10 Sep 2013 03:29

Thank you very much for reading my story, Em, Can I Watch?.

I’m really glad you enjoyed it and thanks so very much for your comment, you’re too kind!


Posted: 09 Sep 2013 01:29
Thanks for your generous comments on Bonnie and Mel, Elling. I appreciate the support as always!

Posted: 04 Sep 2013 01:55
Thanks for your comments on "Surprise First Swap". Glad you enjoyed my story!
A pleasure as always, Elling.
Posted: 02 Sep 2013 11:26

Posted: 02 Sep 2013 01:35

Thank you so much for Reading and commenting on Shaving Grace.

I appreciate you taking the time to do it!

Posted: 30 Aug 2013 01:52
Thank you for reading, commenting so kindly and scoring so generously on my 'Moths to a flame' story. It is very much appreciated xxx

Posted: 28 Aug 2013 02:37

Thank you so very much for reading and commenting on Are You Coming Up Soon?

You are very kind!
Posted: 24 Aug 2013 16:42
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