About HampshireSub

I used to think of myself as a switch, but have now come to realise that my sub side gets stronger and stronger as time goes by. For that reason i now class myself as a sub only, and am happy with this. I do not consider myself to be looking for a Mistress or Domme as such, but would certainly like to meet / chat to one and we can see what develops. Whilst I have fantasized continuously for many years about being dominated, I have yet to experience it for real - something I hope will change soon enough. i confess to being somewhat nervous about taking my first steps, and find myself envious of those who seem to launch themselves into this world with abandon. I am 6 ft 2 and broad shouldered, though unfortunately the waistline has expanded enormously over the past few years ( something that I am now working hard to reverse). For those of you who require your subs to be well endowed - that certainly is not me - the opposite in fact. . Anything else you wish to know, please ask, i will give 100 % honest answers to all questions. Thankyou for reading, and your time

Date Joined:
04 Mar 2011
Last Visit:
12 Apr 2014 (4 days ago)
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Portsmouth, Great Britain, Hampshire, United Kingdom
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Topic: Questions and Answers on a BDSM online Relationship
Posted: 08 Jan 2013 15:16

1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes in the past, but sadly not at present

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes, that is an aspect i adore

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) wearing lingerie under clothes and photos in public places to prove, toilet use controls, masturbation control, to send messages at exact pre-arranged times, daily thoughts on being a submissive, certain humiliating tasks daily with photos to prove - god so many things

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Deep heat to the cock ( god that is awful ), belts to the arse, chastity, lack of communication with Mistress for a set time ( not good ).

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) sometimes. Text if they are Uk based, cyber, long drawn out e-mail conversations, occasionally on phone ( not a great fave of mine )

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Online - yes i do, I am proud of it.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile? Not to date No, though i have done out of choice before

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? I have been yes

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? So far yes thanfully

10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes, i was when in an online relationship

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?. I see a Domme from time to time in real too

12. Why do you have an online D/s? Because it satisfys a craving that i have not filled in a permanent real time relationship to date. I am uncertain if i would still persue if i was in a long-term relationship in real

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? - As a Dom for about 8 years, since freeing my sub inner self about two

Topic: Do you like a girl that watches porn?
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:52

I love a woman who enjoys porn. In the past i have watched porn with ex girlfriends and enjoyed it.

I have also spent many a long hour chatting to women on here or other sites whilst we both watch the same porn movie. It is great to know what she is doing, how it is affecting her as we watch. I also find that some women reveal much about themselves when recommending a bit of porn for you to watch. Eg they may never admit to wanting to use a strap-on on a guy, but then they send you alink to a clip of a woman doing just that, and they tell you it is turning them on

I use Fantasti.cc - the best porn site i know as it draws from most of the other big porn engines, plus has chat, mail, friends function as well

Topic: Golden Showers......
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:39

Personally I adore Golden Showers / Watersports in many ways. Being peed on, toilet control, drinking mine or others - once you get past the initial shock at the thought of it, then it is a wonderful thing

Topic: Do you cum? x
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:33

Not every story will make me horny or want to cum, but if the imagery is good then I often cum reading stories, or whilst writing them

Topic: Ambition over love?
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:29

I am not sure what the answer is to be honest.

I suspect he is genuine in what he says, but does not yet fully understand the urges of the heart / mind / groin.

I am not sure it will benefit him in the end either, after all without love, romance or sexual desire much of the world's greatest music would never have been written. To make music of any sort requires your soul to be in it, and i suspect a soul without love, will be a soul that makes dire music.

I am sure when the time is right for him, he will find his thoughts changing

Topic: If you COULD suck your own dick....?
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:23

If i could suck my own dick i would have drowned on all the cum years ago.......

Topic: have you ever had, or own a penis pumper/butt plug
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:21

I have yet to experience a penis pump i have to admit, but i have certainly tried butt plugs and dildos. I adore having a plug in, especially if I am then made to go out and about with it still there

Topic: Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:18

I would have more of a problem if she did not treat me rough - i adore it

Topic: strap on
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:14

Without a doubt one of my favourite things to have done to me, such an amazing feeling, such a sense of submission. I adore it. To give a woman the power to do this to me is heavenly

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Carrie was 18, and the most shy girl I had ever known, butalso behind that shyness, as kinky and dirty as anyone I had chatted to. For the last few months she had been coming out of her shell more to me online, and had become my Mistress, and we were due to meet for the first time. It was not the first time we had been due to meet, but the previous times her nerves had got the better of...

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