About HampshireSub
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I used to think of myself as a switch, but have now come to realise that my sub side gets stronger and stronger as time goes by. For that reason i now class myself as a sub only, and am happy with this. I do not consider myself to be looking for a Mistress or Domme as such, but would certainly like to meet / chat to one and we can see what develops. Whilst I have fantasized continuously for many years about being dominated, I have yet to experience it for real - something I hope will change soon enough. i confess to being somewhat nervous about taking my first steps, and find myself envious of those who seem to launch themselves into this world with abandon. I am 6 ft 2 and broad shouldered, though unfortunately the waistline has expanded enormously over the past few years ( something that I am now working hard to reverse). For those of you who require your subs to be well endowed - that certainly is not me - the opposite in fact. . Anything else you wish to know, please ask, i will give 100 % honest answers to all questions. Thankyou for reading, and your time

Name:
HampshireSub
Sex:
Male 
Sign:
Virgo
Relationship Status:
Single
Orientation:
Bisexual
Location:
Portsmouth, Great Britain, Hampshire, United Kingdom
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04 Mar 2011
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Topic: Jerking without Cumming?
Posted: 22 Jun 2014 07:58

I prefer to cum when i jerk, however as a sub i have often being in the control of a domme who will not allow it. I find this incredibly frustrating of course, but also enjoyable in a bizarre way. Thankfully without a full time Domme, i am not always in this state, but the women i have played with online have often kept me this way for a fews days or a week. Lovely

Topic: Guys not wanting to admit they have been or are bi-curious
Posted: 22 Jun 2014 07:52

I have not tried as yet, but over the last couple of years having had an ever stronger desire to be forced by a dominant woman to suck another man, and swallow their cum. I find the idea very humiliating yet incredibly arousing. Ideally I would want the woman to be there to witness my cocksucking, but it is not an essential part of the craving. I do think about being taken anally by a man too, again only at the instruction of a Domme.

Topic: have you ever had, or own a penis pumper/butt plug
Posted: 22 Jun 2014 07:48

I posted some time ago on this topic, but time to update i think.

On the instruction of a Domme i was chatting to on lush i bought a penis pump and have used it now several times. It took a couple of goes to get used to working it, but now i confess to loving it. Being far from endowed it made a nice change to look down and see something looking a respectable size between my legs. Several women i have chatted to here have had me use it whilst chatting since then, and i still love to do so. They tend to make me use till my cock starts to sting a bit from the stretch and also the rim of the pump container gets sucked into my body till it hurts ( no bad thing ). I have not used on my own as yet, only under instruction.

I still use a butt plug occasionally, but tend these days to veer towards a full dildo of varying sizes being inserted instead.

Topic: have you ever had, or own a penis pumper/butt plug
Posted: 22 Jun 2014 07:48

I posted some time ago on this topic, but time to update i think.

On the instruction of a Domme i was chatting to on lush i bought a penis pump and have used it now several times. It took a couple of goes to get used to working it, but now i confess to loving it. Being far from endowed it made a nice change to look down and see something looking a respectable size between my legs. Several women i have chatted to here have had me use it whilst chatting since then, and i still love to do so. They tend to make me use till my cock starts to sting a bit from the stretch and also the rim of the pump container gets sucked into my body till it hurts ( no bad thing ). I have not used on my own as yet, only under instruction.

I still use a butt plug occasionally, but tend these days to veer towards a full dildo of varying sizes being inserted instead.

Topic: Questions and Answers on a BDSM online Relationship
Posted: 08 Jan 2013 15:16

1. Are you currently or have you ever been in a D/s relationship online? Yes in the past, but sadly not at present

2. If you have, have you ever had or given daily “homework, chores, requirements, things to do” set by your Dom? Yes, that is an aspect i adore

3. If so, such as what? (Like photos, videos, leaving daily messages, keeping a journal, wearing or saying certain things.) wearing lingerie under clothes and photos in public places to prove, toilet use controls, masturbation control, to send messages at exact pre-arranged times, daily thoughts on being a submissive, certain humiliating tasks daily with photos to prove - god so many things

4. Are you punished if you misbehave? (If you are, how? Spankings, timeouts, apology letters, sexual things taken away.) Deep heat to the cock ( god that is awful ), belts to the arse, chastity, lack of communication with Mistress for a set time ( not good ).

5. Do you have sex with your D/s? If you do, how do you find it easier? (Cyber “typing”, Voice “phone, Skype, or any other means of voicing.” Cam? Pictures?) sometimes. Text if they are Uk based, cyber, long drawn out e-mail conversations, occasionally on phone ( not a great fave of mine )

6. Do you let it be known you’re in a D/s relationship? Online - yes i do, I am proud of it.

7. Are you required to put it on your profile? Not to date No, though i have done out of choice before

8. Are you allowed to add friends at your own will? I have been yes

9. Can you private chat (online messages or pvt messages)? So far yes thanfully

10. Are you allowed to whisper? Yes, i was when in an online relationship

11. Are you in a D/s that is strictly just you and your D/s or do you have real world people your with?. I see a Domme from time to time in real too

12. Why do you have an online D/s? Because it satisfys a craving that i have not filled in a permanent real time relationship to date. I am uncertain if i would still persue if i was in a long-term relationship in real

13. How long have you been in the Lifestyle? - As a Dom for about 8 years, since freeing my sub inner self about two

Topic: Do you like a girl that watches porn?
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:52

I love a woman who enjoys porn. In the past i have watched porn with ex girlfriends and enjoyed it.

I have also spent many a long hour chatting to women on here or other sites whilst we both watch the same porn movie. It is great to know what she is doing, how it is affecting her as we watch. I also find that some women reveal much about themselves when recommending a bit of porn for you to watch. Eg they may never admit to wanting to use a strap-on on a guy, but then they send you alink to a clip of a woman doing just that, and they tell you it is turning them on

I use Fantasti.cc - the best porn site i know as it draws from most of the other big porn engines, plus has chat, mail, friends function as well

Topic: Golden Showers......
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:39

Personally I adore Golden Showers / Watersports in many ways. Being peed on, toilet control, drinking mine or others - once you get past the initial shock at the thought of it, then it is a wonderful thing

Topic: Do you cum? x
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:33

Not every story will make me horny or want to cum, but if the imagery is good then I often cum reading stories, or whilst writing them

Topic: Ambition over love?
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:29

I am not sure what the answer is to be honest.

I suspect he is genuine in what he says, but does not yet fully understand the urges of the heart / mind / groin.

I am not sure it will benefit him in the end either, after all without love, romance or sexual desire much of the world's greatest music would never have been written. To make music of any sort requires your soul to be in it, and i suspect a soul without love, will be a soul that makes dire music.

I am sure when the time is right for him, he will find his thoughts changing

Topic: If you COULD suck your own dick....?
Posted: 01 Jan 2013 09:23

If i could suck my own dick i would have drowned on all the cum years ago.......

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Carrie was 18, and the most shy girl I had ever known, butalso behind that shyness, as kinky and dirty as anyone I had chatted to. For the last few months she had been coming out of her shell more to me online, and had become my Mistress, and we were due to meet for the first time. It was not the first time we had been due to meet, but the previous times her nerves had got the better of...

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