Once made love in an small airplane (on the ground in the hangar). After we were one I notice we knocked the fire extinguisher off its rack.

No, but he took responsiblity for the gamble. If the guy the shot had just been a well-to-do farmer, or even worse a local cleric, then his chances for re-election would been hurt and more importantly American prestige. The outrage in the Muslim world would be been enormous.

It is likely that Obama's speech in Cairo, an outreach to the Muslim world, helped set in motion that led to an informant coming to the CIA. (A very unpopular thing to do in his part of the world).

Men who cheat are considered by women as "scum" or worse. However, let's look at history:

Presidents who cheated and their accomplishments:

Eisenhower; Victory in Europe (actually he cheated while a general, not President, but still a cheater
Kennedy: Space program
Johnson: Medicare/voting rights acts (ok Vietnam too, but the Republicans were very much
in support).
Clinton Lowest deficit, eight straight years of economic growth

Presidents who didn't cheat and their "accomplishments"

Nixon Water
Carter Highest inflation ever
Reagan Largest peacetime deficit until that time
Bush Sr. Even larger deficit
Bush Jr. Worst economy since the depression.

Presidents who didn't cheat and their accomplishments:

Ford Nice guy, healed the nation after Watergate
Obama Got us out of the recession, saved the auto industry, got Bin Laden.

After reading your second post I will admit I do feel a bit more sympathetic to you but I think cheating on your wife will only make matters worse.

I think the best thing you could do is get into some sort of joint counciling. There are various health and emotional reasons that could have caused your wife's weight gain. Your wife is more aware of her weight gain than you are. If the two of you got counciling she might address any emotional issues she has and get things under control.

I admittedly don't know your wife's side of the story but I am not going to jump onto the "Let's all abuse Hasabrain for being stupid and selfish" bandwagon. You need help, not abuse.



Thank you. If my wife was disabled by cancer or an accident I would stay by her. I might glance at other women, but that would be it. However, whether I've been good to her or not, she is responsible for what she puts in her body whether it is drugs, alcohol, or junk food. as if she did drugs or alcohol.

As to the poster who suggested there was an underlying thyroid or other problem, that has been checked over twice. She is seriously low on Vitamin D, but that is because she doesn't get in the yard (and sunshine) much anymore. She used to be quite good in the garden (you make take that both ways).

I am not asking for permission to cheat, just understanding, especially from the women of the enormous expense in being legit and getting a divorce. It just doesn't seem fair that she is the one with weight problem, but if I divorce she gets the kids and the house (I won't seek custody and have the kids have to change schools).

One last thought, we bought the house with $30000 my mother gave us. Dad worked hard for his money before he passed away. . which makes it doubly painful if she gets the house.

I'm going to keep this poll going for awhile, but do post suggestions for future topics for a repeat of "The Eiffel Tower Game."

I'm going to keep this poll going for awhile, but do post suggestions for future topics for a repeat of "The Eiffel Tower Game."

I would say that 99% of women over 25 have tried anal at least once, but about 75% of women in total have tried it once; and that 50% have had it in the last six months :)

Wow. The height of the Eiffel is not clear.

I would guess 40% (tried) and 5 % (often).

Here is more of the story:

About seven years my wife had gastric bypass surgery. Just last year we paid off the $20,000 ($20,000 that could go have gone to the kids' college fund if she hadn't been 200 pounds overweight!). She lost a good deal of weight, but has gained, conservatively 75 pounds back.

I have been her through all surgeries afterward, been with her when her mom died, listened to her when she got a new boss she didn't like etc. I have been emotionally supportive to her. When I've needed support, sometimes she has been there for me, other times she hasn't.

I am an active dad and a "modern" husband. I'm usually the one that takes the kids to the dentists and to school in the morning. She handles the doctor's appts and the clothes shopping. If she cooks, I clean up. If I cook, sometime she cleans sometimes I do. I do all the yardwork and 50% plus of the inside chores. I am better to her than a lot of husbands.

Last Christmas we bought an expensive exercise machine. . The model she wanted. She has used it twice. I use it 2 times a week plus go the gym once a week (or more). I'm not a perfect physical speceim, but I'm not completely out of shape either.

Why, if I'm a good to her and good to myself, do I have to take the financial hit? IF she had to take the financial hit, which only seems fair to me because I'm not the one with the weight problem, I would divorce her today.

If I cheat and get caught, dhe won't tell the kids. I changed too many diapers, helped with too much homework, went to too many open houses (she only made to about half of them) for her to turn the kids against me.

Sometime ago, I posted how I wanted an affair, because I no longer found my wife physically attractive (she is easily 75 pounds overweight). Someone advised to "grow a pair" and get a divorce. So I spoke with a lawyer and here's the breakdown:


600 Child support (alternative weekends, alternate holidays, two weekdays/mo)
300 Alimony
400 Extra cost in medical insurance (Women have more health problems than men, so
I am on her policy and get $400/mo cash as my employer doesn't have to pay for heath coverage)
100 Extra tax (lost of deduction for children/home mortgage interest)

1000 Rent in my new place
100 Extra commuting costs (I could pay less if I moved closed to work/kids, but my rent would
be higher).


2500 Total or $1250 "a ball"

No absolutely no. I can't imagine receiving or giving pleasure that way.

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