Obviously water, especially if you can remember to drink while drinking. But for when I forget I keep bottles of coconut water on hand, one bottle with vitamins before bed, one with advil when I wake up, and I'm usually set to go again!

OH! I would totally do all 3 again, although will do a lot to avoid going through the pain with the nipples again! :P

I've had my lip pierced, my nipples pierced and just this week got the VCH.

My thoughts:
lip - not painful, I was laughing at my friend making faces at me in the corner while still having the giant needle sticking out of my face. It looked badass and I miss it, but a lot of work places won't accept it (only reason I don't have it anymore). Did nothing for my sex life whatsoever

nipples - holy jesus OUCH. painful as hell. SO WORTH IT. I had almost no sensitivity in my nipples before them, now I do, and it's amazing. I also hate how I look without them now, they become a part of you I think. Improved my sex life since nipple play finally felt like something to me

VCH - hurt super bad for a total of 4 seconds, 2 while the needle went it, another 2 when the jewelery went in. It's still not fully healed, so I haven't been able to take full advantage of it yet, but I think it's going to be awesome. Personally makes me feel sexier.

Hope this helps. :]

Sorry if there is already a thread on this, I don't know how to search for that. This may not be the most statistically thorough place to ask, but I was wondering what the guys here think about genital piercings. I've had my nipples done for years, and just had my vertical clitoral hood piercing done this week. I know I love it, so it wouldn't really matter what any guy thought, but I'm still curious as to your thoughts on the subject.

I have the same problem, except I wall up for no reason at all sometimes, so much so that the only thing that will break it down is a direct order. Luckily He knows when to push me and order it, and when to just give me a little bit of space. I agree that a bit of reflection period could be a good thing, but if it really worries you, maybe you could ask for the same? To be ordered to be back in the present? Just my , good luck!

Interesting analogy. Not sure if that holds true for me though. I hate roller coasters, and really anything where I don't have total control... other than my relationship. lol. That's probably because it's the one place I feel safe giving up total control though. hmmmmm... .

There are men's only gyms. You can Google it and find them in different cities. There are gyms which cater to gay men, and gyms which cater to body builders and boxers. That's fine with me.

The issues of the Augusta National Golf Club are different.

The Augusta National Golf Club only allows male members. The CEO of IBM is a woman. Previous CEOs of IBM, which is a sponsor of the Masters Tournament, have been offered memberships in the Augusta National Golf Club. Does Ginny Rometty deserve the same consideration that previous CEOs of IBM received? Is business carried out at the Augusta National Golf Course? Do women's careers suffer because they aren't allowed to join the club?





^ This. Sometimes exclusivity is discriminatory, sometimes it's not. The golf club situation is discriminatory for the reasons mentioned above. A gay male club is not, a women's only gym is not, as this is done for the feeling of safety it brings to it's members, not to cut a certain demographic of people out.

Thank you... I spend the majority of my week alongside around 80 horses - my hands are simply not going to be beautiful and manicured and always 100% clean. My nails break off the second I so much as TOUCH a horse, acrylic nails lift off as soon as I try to do up a girth round a plump pony's belly, dirt gets under nails, nail polish becomes chipped, I get lots of scratches and cuts on my hands/arms, my hands are tough on the underside...

The reality is, sometimes I get home, have dinner, do coursework, take a shower and....bam... it's bedtime. I still have chipped nail polish from Tuesday the boyfriend just rolls his eyes and gets over it.

Edit: I forgot to comment on a pedicure. I have one thing to say about this: BAHAHAHA. To elaborate: No....it's just not going to happen. Trimming and filing off sharp edges are about as far as I go with regards to toenails. Hardly going to spend ages tarting them up only to go sling some muckers on (whacking great big boots) and go trek around mud again.

I agree, I work outdoors with a variety of large and exotic animals. My nails flake off to all hell, so I try to keep them painted, but this chips and peels within a day, and I generally only have time to do them once or twice a week. I do clean them every day, and my feet are clean too, but both my hands and feet are calloused, with chipped polish, and generally some bruises, scratches and abrasions. Are we to be faulted because we don't work somewhere doing something where we can keep them looking perfect? I agree with the cleanliness aspect, but if you're that turned off by a woman having less than perfectly manicured nails I have a feeling we would have very little in common anyways. I play rough and dirty in more ways than one.

I don't know why you would bother with running only once a month, that almost seems more dangerous, as you may try to push yourself too hard. Start slow, the couch to 5k is a good place to start. My biggest recommendations to avoid as much of the joint issues as possible is good shoes that fit your foot and style, there are stores that will actually video how you track your feet and help you find a great show based off of that, your arch, the type of running and on what surface. I also think that having had a coach for a couple years when I started running helps me out now, as I track my feet properly, and land my weight in the right place to help avoid injury. I run every other day, mostly due to time restraints to be honest, but it's probably a good idea to give yourself a break too. Hope this helps.

I know this is under Ask the Guys, but I have to put in my for what it's worth anyways.
I did not go looking for someone older, but instead fell into a relationship with someone I had known for a few years and always had great conversation with, who happened to be older. I think he would agree, he didn't go looking for someone younger, but we click on several different levels. Yes, he is teaching me plenty in the bedroom, but has also admitted that I'm more open and willing than any other women he's been with in a long time, so my inexperience in that department doesn't seem to be a deterrent for him. With the rest though, I'm traveled, educated, and have had more life experiences in my 24 years than some much older people, so to automatically exclude someone purely based off of age may keep you from a really good thing. I will admit, most women in my age bracket are more immature, don't know what they want in their life, are more into the party scene, etc, etc, but that's certainly not all of us! I guess what I'm saying is, age shouldn't be the end all be all in either direction, it may give you an idea, but your stereotypes may keep you from something wonderful if that's all you base your opinions off of.

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