Absolutely not.

I'm not a fan of anal. I can't imagine anything being hotter than vaginal intercourse between the two.

Intelligence.

If I could pick more than one thing, I'd add creativity and a man who's articulate, but all of those things tend to go hand-in-hand.

I LOVE receiving them, especially when it's an unexpected surprise!

Once while blindfolded, my lover placed a new pair of nipple clamps on me. It led to some of the hottest sex ever!

Has your partner indicated how he/she wants you to be more dominant? Does it involve BDSM or just being more aggressive? Has he/she mentioned anything specific that he/she would like?

Start out slowly, pay close attention, and see what things he/she gets excited about and enjoys. In your spare time when you're not distracted and have the time to talk and possibly follow up with some sex play, pull out some erotic photos, videos or stories on the spicier side and ask, "What do you think of this?" Better yet, flat out ask, "What would you like me to do that will really turn you on?"

Responsible partners entering BDSM relationships will go over a checklist of things they have done, would like to do, and things they would not like to do (hard limits). It sounds unromantic and very impersonal, but it will help you gauge how far you can take things.

Good luck!

It really depends on the mood between me and my partner. There was one night when the tension built up for about an hour of rough and wild sex followed y a break and went back for more. There have been times when it was an entire evening of touching, holding, exploring and finding every magical way to have intercourse.

There's a guy I've had my eye on. I would love to have an entire evening of tantric sex with him.

What makes me squirt is all about the man I'm with. He has to know what he's doing and he has to be aggressive.

It doesn't happen all the time, even if the sex is great. I've had it happen as many as three times in one night when I've soaked the sheets all the way through the mattress pad.

It depends on my mood. If I'm in a down and dirty mood, it's either Closer by Nine Inch Nails or Dirt by Depeche Mode. If I'm in a really sultry mood it's either In Your Own Sweet Way or Nuit Sur Les Champs Elysees by Miles Davis.

I love to gush! I only wish I could do it every time. I was on the brink several times this weekend and it just wouldn't happen.

“Get your suit on, let’s go for a swim.” Going out for dinner was definitely what I needed to straighten out my head or maybe George just fucked with it more. Hours ago I was just about ready to ask him to take me back home and that he not contact me again. The roller coaster ride I was on with him had me frightened one moment, floating in ecstasy the next moment, and then blissfully...

Added 14 Jan 2013 | Category BDSM | Votes 6 | Avg Score 5 | Views 1,251 | 3 Comments

I woke up the next morning on Christmas Eve smelling like cream soap and Rick’s musk. We spent the evening before in the shower trying to clean various forms of sugar, syrup and other stickiness off each other, but there was no hot water heater big enough in the world that could accommodate the kind of good, clean fun we had gotten ourselves into. I lay in bed half awake and half dreaming...

Added 06 Jan 2013 | Category Novels | Votes 2 | Avg Score 5 | Views 370

Rick and I avoided any kind of drama we feared our kids might put us through if they knew we were seeing each other. In fact, Kellie, by way of Brandon, provided him with all kinds of information about me in order to pull off some unexpected surprises. He bought gold circle tickets to see Diana Krall. He sent me a basketful of candles that I lit all over my room whenever he came over for...

Added 01 Jan 2013 | Category Novels | Votes 2 | Avg Score 5 | Views 829 | 1 Comment

I was laughing all the way into the next afternoon. I couldn’t remember a time I’ve had so much fun with a man, not just in bed, but as a person. In fact, I think I had forgotten how to have fun, at least on the level that I did as a kid and a teenager. But unlike teenagers, the fun was much more exciting, and so was the sex. While I was in my office, I could hear Brandon and Kellie talking...

Added 26 Dec 2012 | Category Novels | Votes 4 | Avg Score 5 | Views 848 | 2 Comments

I got home from Black Friday shopping the next afternoon and found a long florist’s box with a big red bow on the dining room table. I was just about to open it until Brandon ambled down the staircase. “That just came for you,” he said. “I didn’t know you had a boyfriend.” I told him that I didn’t, and then he asked, “So what was that weirdness between you and Kellie’s dad about yesterday?” ...

Added 16 Dec 2012 | Category Novels | Votes 3 | Avg Score 5 | Views 918 | 1 Comment

Even though my son Brandon was nineteen and in his second year of college, he still liked to alternate the years he spent holidays with me and his dad. This year was my year for Thanksgiving, and since my parents were in Sarasota for the winter, Brandon and I were left to fend for ourselves. Or so I thought. “Hey, Mom,” Brandon said to me when he came in for the holidays. “I know we...

Added 09 Dec 2012 | Category Novels | Votes 6 | Avg Score 4.83 | Views 1,209 | 1 Comment

It was early rush hour in Detroit. The afternoon glare was just an annoyance to most of the people on the freeway heading west on the way home. As far as I was concerned, I knew I’d have another three hours of sunshine, and I was happy about that. And I was about to get happier. I touched his name on the contact list of my phone and hoped he would pick up. He did. “Hey, babe, how is...

Added 02 Dec 2012 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 7 | Avg Score 4.71 | Views 1,944 | 2 Comments

This story is a followup to A Masterful Seduction by the Book  and  Masterful Surprises . All George told me I needed for the weekend was casual clothes, a bathing suit, and beach sandals. I assumed sunscreen would be important … and my hair dryer, a brush, toothbrush, toothpaste, dental floss, makeup, shampoo, soap … Before I knew it, my carry-on suitcase was packed to the gills....

Added 25 Nov 2012 | Category BDSM | Votes 6 | Avg Score 4.5 | Views 2,114 | 2 Comments

I got an email from George as soon as I got home. He said he had a wonderful time. He even admitted to be smitten, which I thought was an odd word to use considering that our first date went way beyond either one of us had intended. What was I thinking in agreeing to let him tie me up in his dungeon and get off in front of him in the way that I did? And why didn’t I get pissed off when...

Added 18 Nov 2012 | Category BDSM | Votes 9 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 2,669 | 3 Comments

It had been forever since I had time to spend an afternoon wandering through a bookstore. I could have downloaded a book with a push of a button, but there was something I really missed about thumbing through pages and trying to decide what I was going to take home to read. Plus, I needed to get out of the house even if I didn’t have any intention of interacting with anyone except for...

Added 14 Nov 2012 | Category BDSM | Votes 16 | Avg Score 4.5 | Views 2,118 | 7 Comments