About Notenough
Biography

Hello! I am here to meet and greet. Maybe make some nice conversation. I am just a friendly person, but I'm not a push over. I can be a bitch when neccessary. I'm a big beautiful woman so if you dont like the larger size ladies then "bye-bye". I love to laugh and have a great time. Laughter is the key to happiness in life. Sometimes I am quiet and sometimes I enjoy being around people. Please don't ask me to cyber. I am tired of meaningless relationships and cybering is right up there for me.

Name:
Cassie Notenough
Date Joined:
16 Sep 2010
Last Visit:
21 Apr 2014
Sex:
Female 
Age:
43
Sign:
Taurus
Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
Orientation:
Straight
Location:
In the woods near my cabin, Ohio, United States
Interests:
I like swimming, biking, hiking, camping, and fishing. I like just about anything that is outdoors. Due to a car accident I cant do as much anymore. I also like quiet times with someone special just relaxing or watching tv. I hope some day I will find someone that will make all my fantasies come true. I have grown since I first came to Lush. I have the answers I was seeking and a wonderful group of friends here.
Favorite Books:
Murder by numbers. Mysteries.
Favorite Authors:
Robin Cook, James Patterson, Patricia Cornwall
Favorite Movies:
Transformers, Serendipity, Sweet Home Alabama and many more
Favorite Music:
Rock n roll. Classical
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Latest Forum Posts
Topic: Afraid to orgasm
Posted: 25 Feb 2013 20:54

The vagina and rectum are only separated by a thin membrane. It is not uncommon for some women to have this sensation. I would ask do you have constipation? This may mean your "lower" bowels are not completely empty. Also, some women have hemorriods which also causes more pressure in that area. What we often suggest to clients that you try a different position. Female on top or side lying positions help. If your partner is on top it adds extra pressure on the digestive system and the bladder thus causes the feeling. The reason it seems to get worse during an orgasm is because your muscles are contracting. Yes, some of the muscles that are used during bowel movements. This is why some women will poop when having a baby not to mention the pressure on that area. Try to relax. If you are just going into sex without adequate foreplay and relaxation your are tensing up. That will make it more likely. Get online and research more, plus you also need to learn more about your own body. The more you know the better sex will be so find a good book and begin reading. I hope this helps...

Topic: Lesser of a Man because he helps around the house??
Posted: 08 Feb 2013 14:15

I think if a man helps around the house, he is more of a man. There is something about a man that can help around the house that just says so much. I also think its sexy when watching a man cook or when a man comes into the kitchen just to help with the dishes. ;)

Topic: Do you like to have your neck nuzzled?
Posted: 20 Nov 2012 18:30

I love to have my neck and shoulders kissed or nipped lightly, tongue action only if its not a creepy sloppy wet tongue..ewhhhhaaa and just a little of it. Too much isnt sexy (yes, I had a guy do that. Creeps me out to this day!!)

Topic: No longer sexy..
Posted: 31 Oct 2012 18:53

I saw your post and thought I would just say that it isnt you. My ex done that to me and I thought the same thing. Found out he was cheating, now that doesnt mean your BF is doing the same thing. My ex was bipolar and refused to take his meds. maybe your guy just likes to have his ego stroked. believe it or not some men tend to need to feel that a woman desires them. Try talking it out and not arguing. If that doesnt work then seeing is believing. Show him wheather it be being a carbon copy of him. But make sure you are reading the signs right. I can not really say since I dont know his age or anything about him. Ex: occupation, stressors in his life, things like this. Some men are just plain wore out after working at some jobs. My friends hubby works construction. When he comes home he just wants supper and a nice comfy bed. Look at the broader side and weigh in all possiblities.

Topic: I have a question I hope you ladies will answer for me and a friend
Posted: 17 Oct 2012 19:56

You definately aren't the only one that likes to. I enjoy it very much and I'm sure the guy does too ;) I have to agree I love the feel of it and I love to touch!!!

Topic: Affair wanted
Posted: 14 Oct 2012 19:56

Ok, let met set the record staight, I am not an ass. The way I set it, the selfish thing to do would a divorce. See that way the money I set aside for the kids' college fund would to child support, and I wouldn't be there to take the kids to school in the morning, or take the them the dentist or band practice, or school rehersal, etc. For the sake of the children I'm staying in the marraige. The selfish thing would be to leave.

Incidentally, I was there with my wife when her father and helped clean out her grandmother's apartment when her grandmother had to go into a nursing home. I als listen to her when she complains about "so and so" at work. Yet despite my support support groups etc,. she still hides sweets like an alcoholic hides booze.

Imagine your significant other 75 pounds overweight, often stinky with gas, and poor knees, and kids who need your daily love and attention, and look me in the eye and try to tell me I'm ass. I'm just human.


WOW. You say you are not selfish...Let me break it down for you my dear.

"The way I set it, the selfish thing to do would a divorce. See that way the money I set aside for the kids' college fund would to child support, and I wouldn't be there to take the kids to school in the morning, or take the them the dentist or band practice, or school rehersal, etc."

You say if you get a divorce that the money you put aside would go for child support instead of the college fund. Well let me clue you in on some facts. Fact, if you actually do this then the judge would order it to continue.

You say that you wouldn't be able to be there for the children. I know many parents that still work together. I know one father that comes to the mothers house and takes the children to school Comes to the practice sessions. A divorce wouldn't stop that unless you were abusive and would need a guardian enlighten.

You then say that ," I was there with my wife when her father and helped clean out her grandmother's apartment when her grandmother had to go into a nursing home. I als listen to her when she complains about "so and so" at work. Yet despite my support support groups etc,. " THAT WHATS MARRIAGE IS ALL ABOUT!!!!

"She still hides sweets like an alcoholic hides booze."

With your attitude and statments, I'm not suprised. " I wonder if you every give her a word of encouragement...I seriously doubt it. I read your words and its all about you. How about really looking at yourself. You seem to thank she should still have a great body after having kids. Well it doesnt work that way. Instead of support you put her down. Eating disorders are no different than an alchoholic. I bet you were constantly reminding her that if she ate something or too much that she would gain the weight back.

I have seen people (men and women) with the same attitude. What it really comes down to is you are afraid if you divorce its not you who will find the happiness. You are afraid she will find the happiness.

"Imagine your significant other 75 pounds overweight, often stinky with gas, and poor knees, and kids who need your daily love and attention, and look me in the eye and try to tell me I'm ass. I'm just human. "

I dont have to imagine it. He is overweight more than 75 lbs and did does have gas, he has poor knees and yes, we do have a child that needs love and attention. I WISH HE HAD MANY MORE DAYS TO BE FARTY, STINKY, IN HIS RIGHT MIND, AND NOT DYING.

You got one thing right. Yes you are human and a very selfish one at that. I suggest you be thankful that you have a wife with bad traits and all. I'm sure you are not without faults. Trust me, your not. No one is without faults.








Topic: Affair wanted
Posted: 13 Oct 2012 22:09

Ok. This might get deleted but hey its worth a try. First, its not about you. If your wife had the gastric bypass surgery and has foul gas (not that your guess smells like roses) then something is wrong. She may need to change her diet and she could add beano. Also it sounds as though she may need to add a probiotic to her diet. By the way, if it doesnt stink then something really bad is wrong. I worked in a hospital and came across some really bad smells. I have yet to vomit over gas. I think you need to look at your own self. Im sure you are not perfect....from your post I would say far from it.

Topic: do you like your partner to suck your tits or just caress them?
Posted: 09 Oct 2012 20:26

I love massaged and a gentle tongue action with light sucking. Nothing to rough.

Topic: My wife and my figure drawing class question?
Posted: 01 Oct 2012 19:50

I think you need to do what your heart tells you. You know your wife and only you and your wife can decide what is best. I would give the suggestions that Chefkathleen made a try. When someone is not an artist they dont realize that everything becomes lines. I dont know about you but I know as an amature artist I was concentrating on getting the drawing just right instead of thinking "that dude is... or that girl is.... Drawing becomes about dimensions, lighting, shading, and depth. You might also tell her....yea she is young and all that but I want a girl who is my gift, not for everyone to see. Everyone can see a naked body but not everyone can see the body I love. I know in my class I had to practice drawing. Ask her to be a subject. Make it fun. Draw her if or when she takes a bath or maybe while she getting dress. You can fill in the details as they come about and suprise her. I know I would love it. Show her that our bodies are not suppose to be perfect. Sometimes as we age/or have kids we gain weight. so what. That person that you fell in love with is still inside and she needs to know that. I know having my car accident and not being able to run 5 miles a day tends to let you pack on the pounds. Tell her and show her that its not the body that is sexy but how you carry yourself. If you feel sexy then you will look sexy. Society and especially the media says we are suppose to be super thin, but we live in the real world. I would rather be overweight and happy than to be slim and miserable.

Topic: drinking urine
Posted: 30 Sep 2012 21:13

Yes, It can be. You are drinking ammonia, urea acid. Think about it. It is a waste product. You are putting waste in your body and back into your kidneys concentrated. You will damange your kidneys if you continuously do it. Trust me, dialysis is not fun.

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Have a wonderful birthday
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Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
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Posted: 21 Apr 2013 07:43
Beat of wishes for you - indulge your Sweet Tooth ...
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Posted: 14 Feb 2013 17:04
Not even a rain shower will dampen our warmth ...

... and right now there is a cool, damp shower outside.
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Posted: 08 Feb 2013 11:32
Really liked our chat - deep, at times; Thanks
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Posted: 04 Feb 2013 02:11
Thank you for a night to remember.
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Posted: 06 Aug 2012 02:52
Thank you , you are a very special friend, xxxxx
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Posted: 10 May 2012 10:42
Hey, Cassie... thanks for adding me to your friends. Let's chat real soon! Steve xoxo

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Posted: 08 May 2012 21:46
I love the pictures!!
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Thanks for the Birthday wishes.
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