About Ravyn

I am a very strong willed woman and I have a mind of my own and lots of opinions about lots of things. I tell it like it is when I'm ready to tell it. I can also be shy and reserved.

I am a mother of 2 amazing kids whom I love more than life itself. I was married for 28 years and am now learning to live my life as a divorced woman. My life is undergoing significant changes and I have just this year returned to school majoring in Criminal Justice. Above all that, I am a woman, a woman with needs, wants and desires and I am not ashamed of any of them.

I am submissive. Am I submissive to anyone who asks? No I am not, so don't ask. I have kept this part of myself hidden for many years and I am done hiding. The thought of giving that one special man complete control is intoxicating. It's not something that I will ever just "do" and its a desire that starts at the very core of who I am and a very strong need that I am no longer ashamed to show.

One can learn so much just through observation and paying attention. If you wish to get to know me it takes time and yes.....work. Am I worth the time and effort? Only time will give you that answer.

The avatars and backgrounds I use are NOT me but merely pictures that I like. The black and white gallery photos are also NOT me.

PLEASE UNDERSTAND that I am straight I am NOT into women!!! If you and I have not chatted in the chatroom or ... forums - please DO NOT send me friend requests - I will delete your request.

GUYS***I am NOT interested in cybering so please do not ask. I am here to chat and write stories....not to get you off.

I have been on Lush for over 3 years now and a moderator for over 2 of those years. This is an amazing site and a wonderful community.

As a Chat Room Moderator I will gladly talk to you in private if you have a question or a site related issue you need taken care of. I will NOT however, help you cum, suck your e-cock, use a strap on in your e-ass, give you access to my e-pussy or anything else.

Relationship Status:
Bend, Oregon, United States
My kids are my number 1 priority and I love them more than anything. I enjoy Reading, I love to cook especially for those whole enjoy to eat, I enjoy reading and writing erotica. I love BDSM, straight sex, oral, masturbation, anal and some voyeurism stories
Favorite Books:
I love to read, and I like most all books except Sci Fi.
Favorite Authors:
Danielle Steele, Nicholas Sparks, Rick Riordian, Stephanie Meyer, JK Rowling
Favorite Movies:
Twilight, New Moon, The Blindside, Road House, Dirty Dancing, Pretty Woman, The Notebook, A Walk To Remember, Any romance movie lol, action is always good too.
Favorite Music:
Classic 80's Rock and Country.
Date Joined:
25 Apr 2010
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Latest Forum Posts
Topic: Howdy all, newer member here.
Posted: 04 Jul 2014 13:23

welcomes Hope you enjoy the site.

Topic: Tit Fucking
Posted: 01 Jul 2014 20:22

Titties are for sucking and playing with not for fucking in my opinion. It's just sorta awkward and not all that stimulating really.

I would have to agree.

Topic: What is considered cheating?
Posted: 01 Jul 2014 20:21

Cheating comes in many forms, oral sex is cheating if you are physically and emotionally involved with another.

Topic: Is something wrong?
Posted: 15 Jun 2014 13:29

I been living lifestyle for about 2 years, learning about it for longer, I am a dominant, but I dont enjoy the idea of being mean rough and Hurting a submissive for no reason, If broke rules or was disobedient , then Id punish them appropriately, but All I seem be seeing is girls looking for dominants to beat and hurt them willingly. Something is very wrong, because beating a sub for no reason isnt what a true dominant should do. Any Advice? I been searching for ages and lack of good fortune starting to annoy me

Keep in mind within the BDSM lifestyle there are many forms. The latter 2 letters, SM are the sadists and masochists. That is where your question seems to stem from. Not everyone into the lifestyle are into the S&M portion. The key is to never judge anyone (and I am not saying your are, this is just more of a general statement) for what they may need or want, if its not for you that's perfectly fine, just look in other areas of the lifestyle for a suitable partner. Key is communication and even more so when talking this type of lifestyle. Communication and limits should be first and foremost in all relationships and never be afraid to state what your limits are as a Dominant or a submissive/slave/babygirl.

Everyone has different wants and needs and others may not understand them. This lifestyle is not or should not be about abuse or beating, and as you said its not what a true Dominant should do. Its not something any true human being should do, man, woman, Dominant or otherwise. You don't have to be mean and rough. If the only girls you are finding seem to lean towards the S&M lifestyle then my advice is to keep searching. Are you just looking for a submissive or are you looking for a relationship that builds on friendship and moves towards a D/s one? There are many questions you can ask yourself that may aid you in what you are ultimately seeking. Just be honest in who you are and what you want and expect the same in return. You might try going to a Munch in your area and meeting like minded people.

Good luck and I hope you find what you are looking for.

Topic: Are you on Fetlife?
Posted: 12 Jun 2014 14:27

Yes I have been a member there for a few years. It's a completely different site than Lush. I prefer Lush for the chat as well as stories. Fetlife is great for being able to connect with others who live close to you as well as the obvious thing being the fetish part. I've read on both sites and Lush authors can't be touched in their talent. Fetlife is more tolerant of the fetish one may be into whereas Lush members are a little more conservative. Two completely different sites who for some like myself satisfy different needs in different ways.

Topic: BDSM Gangbang
Posted: 26 May 2014 18:10

Is desiring a bdsm gangbang good?. Please share your experience ladies....... Guys your views are also important

Whatever floats your boat :)

Topic: Alright Guys, Fantasy Time! A GORGEOUS Female Sex Slave
Posted: 09 Apr 2014 16:53

{notta guy~}

Independant, strong minded, intelligent and free-willed, confident in and of themselves persons can STILL have fantasies of having a sex-slave or being one! annnd great to have experienced "the ultimate orgasm/multiple"s! Hellllooooo. lol Of course! XD


Topic: Happy Birthday Callisto!
Posted: 15 Feb 2014 20:53


Topic: what are you drinking?
Posted: 12 Feb 2014 21:49

Fireball whiskey

Topic: Collared submissives
Posted: 11 Feb 2014 13:20


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Stories Published By Ravyn
Lost and Found

To be lost and looking for Him hurts like no other Longing to feel His leather around my wrists To be lost and praying for Him everyday Needing to feel His shackles around my ankles His strong hands molding the clay Someday hoping to find my way Will I feel His strength, His love? Like a lost lamb in the woods My love cold like the morning frost Waiting to feel the heat...

Added 27 Mar 2013 | Category Love Poems | Votes 14 | Avg Score 5 | Views 741 | 10 Comments


What did I do, why did you leave me? Of all the moments in my life, you were the best surprise   You are deeply imbedded in my heart and I long to look into your eyes I pray to feel your touch but know I never will   We talked and loved deeper then I thought possible I love you with all my heart You broke my heart You were my wish You were my desire You were my hope I think of...

Added 10 Jun 2011 | Category Love Poems | Votes 19 | Avg Score 4.63 | Views 1,106 | 10 Comments

A Night with Jose Quervo

I have spent most of the day getting the back yard ready for my little surprise. Since it will be dark when you arrive home to me, I strung up some lights all around the gazebo that surrounds the back porch and hot tub. I purchased some tiki torch lights; I positioned them so they are just surrounding the hot tub. The sky is clear and the stars are shining brightly. The moon is lighting up...

Added 04 Feb 2011 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 20 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 3,134 | 11 Comments

The Halloween Fraternity Party

Before I could get the front door unlocked my cell phone rings. My arms are full of bags from my day of shopping. Rushing inside the house and setting things down I reach in my pocket for my cell phone and see that my girlfriend Julia is calling. I can’t believe it she wants me to go to a Halloween fraternity party with her and her daughter tomorrow night. Do I dare go? I can’t believe I...

Added 12 Oct 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 42 | Avg Score 4.95 | Views 10,756 | 25 Comments

Afternoon Delight

It’s 10 o’clock; I have two hours to prepare my little surprise for Noah. He is always home around noon for lunch and today he’s in for a nice afternoon. I want to show him how much I love him and desire him. This little encounter today will be all about his pleasure and desires. I start by putting some clean crisp white sheets on the bed, and place a few candles around the bedroom....

Added 27 Sep 2010 | Category Oral Sex | Votes 32 | Avg Score 4.97 | Views 12,706 | 21 Comments

Belle's Weekend Adventure

Driving up the mountain road with top down off the jeep the wind blowing through my hair as the radio blasts out so loud it can be heard over the roar of the tires against the hot pavement. The temperature topped 100 degrees today my skin shinning from the tiny beads of sweat forming on my skin and the bottom of my sundress whipping in the wind under the steering wheel. There’s a fair amount...

Added 13 Sep 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 23 | Avg Score 4.95 | Views 5,458 | 17 Comments

Who's Really In Control?

It was a quiet evening, slightly warm but nothing too unbearable. You were sitting in the living room doing some paperwork and there was music playing in the background. I was in the kitchen preparing some food for the special evening I had planned. The aroma from the kitchen wafted throughout the house. The water was coming to a boil on the stove for the pasta, and the homemade sauce...

Added 07 Aug 2010 | Category Oral Sex | Votes 22 | Avg Score 4.85 | Views 6,898 | 19 Comments

Cassie's Burning Desire, Part 2

The work day is finally over and I can’t wait to go home and take a nice long shower. It has been a long week and I am so glad it’s finally come to an end. I have not been able to think of anything but my night with Jacob. It has been 2 weeks since our last encounter. I replay that night over and over in my head making myself so wet just at the thought. Each night there has been a note taped...

Added 13 Jun 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 19 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 5,048 | 16 Comments

Cassie's Burning Desire

Cassie finally puts aside her inhibitions and seeks pleasure in its most physical sense and meets the man she’s secretly been longing for . It’s after 1 am and I just finished taking a nice long hot shower. Wearing nothing but a towel I find myself sitting in my bedroom with a glass of wine looking out my bedroom window and staring at the nighttime sky. The moon is shining so bright,...

Added 19 May 2010 | Category Straight Sex | Votes 50 | Avg Score 4.89 | Views 8,376 | 32 Comments

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