Forum posts made by aaannn

Topic Blow Jobs
Posted 11 Dec 2013 12:04

If she isn't actually trying to get him off with her mouth, but only to finish in her mouth, then i can't see it as a blowjob. Jerking off as she is bobbing her head is completely different

Topic Quiz: What Aphrodisiac Are You?
Posted 14 Mar 2013 22:29

I''m Milk chocolate as well

Topic Should obese people be classified as disabled?
Posted 07 Mar 2013 02:35

I don't wish to appear insulting to those who are obese through no fault of their own - they are in a small minority.

As someone who isn't a qualified person to make this call, I highly doubt you should be trying to give a ballpark range of who is worthy of your respect for being incidentally fat.

Obesity is a serious issue, it effects us all on a global level.

I'm sorry, but to me this is like someone saying that they're against gay marriage because it'll ruin their own personal relationship with his/her spouse. How does someone else being fat really cause harm to you? It doesn't. End of.

There doesn't seem to be enough being done about it. Education is the key... Kids should be taught about nutrition in classes. They should be told that being 100 Kg at the age of 16, is incredibly unhealthy. Have after school fat camps if necessary.

As someone who went through the US education system, I can assure you that education is not the key. They teach about calorie intake, output, and the food pyramid not only in TV shows for kids, but they also start putting it into the curriculum about 6th grade. And guess what? It doesn't stop people from getting fat because honestly, how many people don't know that being obese is bad for their health? I can assure you that almost no one above the age of 7 is gonna think that it's a good thing. Not only that, but most of the time, people don't even know the difference between being obese and being fat, even if they are the ones spouting off how simple it is to lose weight, because all it is is someone eating all day, non-stop.

Being obese could be caused by someone eating only one meal a day; some people are still obese even after working out for three hours for 5 days a week (if you want to fight me over the facts of my life, please try me), and a lot of the times, it's caused by stress, or because it was actually passed down to them from one of their parents

... putting them up for ridicule and for entertainment value like that, is obscene

well, Pot, meet Kettle....

Back to the original question: as CoopsRuthie said, if they can't perform the functions, then yes, they are disabled; otherwise, they aren't.

Topic Ok to breastfeed someone else's baby?
Posted 14 Jan 2013 08:19

The idea doesn't really bother me. At the end of the day, breast milk is beneficial for the kid. Knowing that nannies in the medieval times would breast feed a higher ups newborn, I don't really see the big no-no about it; if it wasn't found to be bad then, I dont see how it would change now unless you count chemicals in which the breast feeder puts in her body. If that's what she's worried about-- that the baby sitter is drinking or eating something harmful-- then isnt she implying that the baby sitter's kid is also in danger?

Maybe she felt as if she was being replaced? Or that she was trying to steal her child and that's why she thinks her friend was over bounds? I know that that's what I would be worried about.

Of course she may just be over-reacting because the kid is her responsibility and she wants everything to be in her control to diminish variables and ensure that she's a fitting parent.

Topic Hotel California!!
Posted 03 Nov 2012 01:25

I used to think about it when I was younger, but I even think about those having sex whom I wish would never take their clothes off; those tend to stand out in my mind moreso than the few who manage to turn me on.

Though it does stay on my mind, I don't really want to join in on the historical cum-list

Topic No longer sexy..
Posted 01 Nov 2012 02:07

Maybe he just has something on his mind? Or, he may feel that you're more interested in sex than having a relationship with him? The more you come hard at him, the more you might be driving him away; at least, that's the way it seems.

I suggest having a real heart-to-heart talk with him and finding out the real problem since he's the one you're in a relationship with; I know you've tried talking to him before, but I think you need to remind him that communication between the two of you is what's gonna keep the relationship going and that right now the relationship needs a bit of communication. Sometimes, people need that to snap them back into reality from whatever is distracting them.
And honestly, a lot of guys aren't that interested in sex. Maybe your bf is like this? I know a lot of guys who were never really into being intimate, but has he always been this way? If so, then why are you expecting him to suddenly change?

It's a number of things that you should consider and bring to him in conversation. Just remember to come from a place of hurt and not from a place of aggression and accusations.

Topic Affair wanted
Posted 12 Oct 2012 22:13

Wow, you're a dick. Just divorce her if you don't care for her. Better to do that than put your entire family through shit and have them resent you later on in life.

Topic Do women dislike or resent the use of the slang "Cunt"?
Posted 11 Jul 2012 23:08

i see nothing wrong with the word-- words hold no meaning until we put context to them. Even if someone uses cunt to try and degrade me, I don't mind it because it's like saying the word "bitch." Nothing worse or less than that, honestly.

Topic ACLU to represent Ku Klux Klan group
Posted 06 Jul 2012 20:39

I wonder if those pointed hats will fall off when they bend over to pick up trash along the highway?

Knowing the KKK, they might just use a couple chain gangs. They don't have to worry about their hats then!

Topic Do women like men with nice asses?
Posted 05 Jul 2012 03:12

I have to admit that I don't unless that's the only thing I can see

The ass is right next to feet in my books

Topic Would you be turned off if you were stronger than your man?
Posted 04 Jul 2012 22:41

I don't mind being stronger. In my current relationship, I think we're at the same strength-- or at least close to each other. To me, dominating isn't an important part of sex, because I'm lazy so that kind of effort just doesn't seem necessary to get off. But because I get hyped up when I feel like I'm "one of the boys," or just strong enough to give them a run for their money, I'm positive that I would get turned on by being stronger for a little while.
As for the arm wrestling... I can imagine getting turned on from the competition, but not being already in the mood and then wanting to arm wrestle. I hope that makes sense >.<

Topic Caption requested
Posted 03 Jul 2012 18:40

Is there any color I'm missing?

How many do you think I can take at once? ;)

Topic Story Categories and Amounts
Posted 29 Jun 2012 19:17

Lesbian- 3
Incest- 14
Love Poems- 6
Crossdressing- 1
Masturbation- 4
Group Sex- 1
Exhibitionism- 2
Fetish- 1
First time-1
Love story-1
Bisexual- 1

Wow lol I didn't think I had did that many. I know I like to try to my hand at different genres but damn !

Topic Fifty Shades of Grey
Posted 19 Jun 2012 22:23

Actually, it's a fanfiction of Twilight... The author even admits that she doesn't even think it's very good

"He tongued at my chocolate starfish before thrusting three fingers between my quivering butt cheeks and wiggling his fingers around like he was searching for something he dropped inside of my ass.”

50 Shades of Gray

Topic Do chicks dig scars ???
Posted 07 May 2012 18:57

Scars are pretty cool looking in general. The only thing that makes a scar disgusting/ a turn off is if the scar was from self-harm. Everyone has a history, but there's no reason to be turned on by the extreme hurt they had way back when.

Seeing the making of scars isn't sexy either...

Topic Magic trick.... with a difference
Posted 18 Apr 2012 22:32

For those who really don't know how the trick was done: she had a skin-colored cap on her right thumb where she could fit the scarf in. That's why her hands keep coming together when she walks away

Topic Pads or tampons?
Posted 11 Feb 2012 21:47

I love pads!!! It's so much easier for me haha Tampons are fine and dandy but they bother me a lot for some reason..they just aren't comfortable as pads

Topic How many partners have you juggled at one time?
Posted 09 Feb 2012 13:50

Roughly 4, including a couple and two men, irl. But with everyone going on and off, I've had about 30

Topic The worst thing a guy has done on a date with u?
Posted 30 Jan 2012 09:45

The rudest thing a guy has done to me while we were on a date would have to be when I was on the first date with this couple. The last time they had seen me, I hadn't brushed my hair in any other way than a bun, no make-up, drabby clothes--- i was not prepared to pick anyone up. Unfortunately, he noticed that I put make-up on and had my hair shining and everything, which he says. "You've gotten hotter since the last time I saw you. Oh, you wore make-up? {Turns to gf of 7 years} Why didn't you wear any make-up?" And then continued to call me the "new, shiny" toy/thing the rest of the day.

Topic red head or not???
Posted 30 Jan 2012 09:33

I don't prefer any hair color over the others. I can say that I prefer hair though.

Some men just look good, some don't-- hair won't save them from my lack of interest. Hair only adds highlight to the features I already like.

Topic Lush "etiquette"
Posted 25 Jan 2012 09:26

I would suggest that you separate the stories here from the authors. Don't assume that because someone has written a hot story, they're prepared spend their Lush time getting you (a perfect stranger) off privately.

Read a members profile. Respect it.

This goes along perfectly with what I'm adding in-- Don't assume you know someone based off their stories, forum posts, or anything else. The only acceptable place to truly learn about someone is in their bio. Especially if you're calling the person a "sex addict" when the person you're accusing might not be a sex addict. Many people are extremely open about their virginity-- some have it in their usernames while others simply state it. Never assume anything and then throw it in someone's face as if you're right.

Another one is: If you open a chat randomly, have the decency to start out with a "hello" before continuing.

All of the above and in addition, if you post a story and write about it in your status, I don't see the need to send an email and then an online message directly asking me if I have read your story.

Couldn't have said it better myself

Topic I feel like getting a bit racial.
Posted 24 Jan 2012 22:44

Preference doesn't mean that one is simply eliminating all other options, but that one is liked more.
i.e. "I prefer black men because I like them more," is different than "I prefer black men because they are the only thing I like," is that "like them more" still shows that you like other races; this point in the topic being is that "preference," along with its connotations, are being grossly misjudged and construed.

That being said, if Summa would like to actually provide how she defines racism, the conversation would probably go better. Seeing as how most people don't like to be shot down randomly for something they don't see the same on, the majority of people will turn to a definition; this was already done, however, and it was not corrected by Summa, the one who brought up racism blatantly. My question is this: where are we supposed to look to find what racism means according to Summa? As of now-- and, yes, I've read this entire thread, through-- Summa is the only person who has yet to provide a definition of racism while shooting down every example and definition that has been given. At this point, it's equivalent to a math teacher (Summa, in this case) telling everyone (the rest of lush) is doing an equation incorrectly without showing the students why, how, and/or where they are messing up. All this leaves is headache and anger. Expecting everyone to magically agree with you about racism without knowing how you're defining it is quite a feat that leaves everyone to direct their anger towards you when you are the one who brought the accusations to light. It's ridiculous to believe that people will randomly side with you on a subject/topic when you are not fully explaining it to them.

In the traditional views, this thread is not racist. In the view of Summa, whatever that may be, it is.

That being said, I prefer nothing. I'm used to white men only because they pursue me more often than anyone else-- including gender, not even touching on their sexuality. Do I think that they're better? Nope. Do I prefer them? Nope. Am I used to them? Yup.

Topic How long does it take you to write a story?
Posted 13 Jan 2012 09:44

If I'm really interested in the story that I came up with, I'll write it in an hour, give or take, and those are all my Busy Daughter stories. My last story took 4 months to write just because I wouldn't sit down and write it out. It just depends on how quickly one writes. I'm one who doesn't do drafts, because I recheck what I've written as I'm writing constantly. It's actually a hindrance haha I'm sure mine would be much better if I were to actually check mine over >.>

Topic Announcing our Winter Break Competition Winners
Posted 02 Jan 2012 22:13

Congrats to everyone!

Topic Your Favorite Quotes
Posted 01 Jan 2012 16:55

Fashion is a form of ugliness so intolerable we have to change it every six months.

F in English? You speak English!

Weather forecast for tonight: dark.

Drawing on my fine command of the English language, I said nothing.

Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist.

The very existence of flame-throwers proves that some time, somewhere, someone said to themselves, You know, I want to set those people over there on fire, but I’m just not close enough to get the job done.

Don’t bother just to be better than your contemporaries or predecessors. Try to be better than yourself.

The healthy man does not torture others. Generally it is the tortured who turn into torturers.

Topic Would you gals do this for your guy???
Posted 24 Dec 2011 23:23

I'm gonna say no; I don't like bacon all that much and the idea of this just makes me think that I should gag

Topic Remove the "Top Authors for the month" section?
Posted 24 Dec 2011 03:32

Keep it. Rehashing what others have said, the whiners will whine no matter what; competition is nice; it's better for some writers.
Why get rid of it just because people are whining when they don't get on?

You can't please everyone; I'm really appreciative that you try to make it enjoyable for everyone Nicola, I really do. It's amazing how you always ask us on our opinions about your site.

Topic What are you listening to right now?
Posted 22 Dec 2011 23:34

Y. U. Mad-- Birdman, Nicki Minaj, Lil Wayne

Topic do women like anal cunnilingus?
Posted 22 Dec 2011 23:32

i had a horrible experience with an then bf who gave no warning-- just went and licked; i didn't enjoy it then and i don't like the idea of it now.

I've done anal play but that comes and goes with the years, usually being ignored

Topic Name sounds that you might find comforting
Posted 19 Dec 2011 23:33

Coffee brewing
That buzz you hear from bugs when you're in the middle of a meadow
My dad singing
My friend's voice
Hypnosis video voices lol