Forum posts made by agarutomo

Topic How long should you wait to say I love you
Posted 16 Jul 2009 11:18

It completely depends on the relationship. My boyfriend and I knew each other for six months previous to becoming a couple, and it didn't really take very long for both of us to feel comfortable with saying something like that. There are all kinds of love, and even though the saying is tossed around like a foot ball these days, when I find that I care about a person so much that I don't have to guard myself at all around them... that's when I feel that I can say it...

Topic those with partners that were virgins
Posted 06 Jul 2009 10:35

Okay guys, I've come up with a question.

If your partner is a virgin, and has an intact hymen, what do you do to make sure that things go well for her other than lube? I'm curious as to what others do. My first time didn't hurt much at all, but I was wondering what you other guys have done.

Topic lube in condoms
Posted 05 Jul 2009 18:02

The manufacturers have made great strides in condoms over the years, but even so, I do lose sensitivity when I wear one.



Lose sensitivity somewhat, sure, but wouldn't you agree that the guys who say "It ruins it" are full of horseshit?

he never said that at all. He's okay with it, I'm just not.

Wait a minute... he hasn't said anything, but you're worried about it? Why?

he never said a condom ruins it is what I meant.

Topic Question about piercings
Posted 05 Jul 2009 15:40

I have a question, and I swear it's a legit question. I only ask because I honestly do not know the answer.

What's with multiple piercings?

I mean, an earlobe, yeah, common enough; a bellybutton? Well, okay. But lips,tongues, noses? Clits and nipples?

I'm not talking about the all-metal-everywhere crowd; just some of the pictures I see on Usenet and around.

Don't be offended; I'm not criticizing. I'm only curious. dontknow

Well actually, it's very rare for the actual clit to get pierced. Usually it's the clitoral hood, and a small bead on the end rests just over the clitoris, adding stimulation.

Topic About positions...
Posted 05 Jul 2009 15:38

Him lying down or sitting, with me in his lap... I can rub him against my g-spot just right.... Mmm.

I also like doggy style as well, hee hee

Topic lube in condoms
Posted 05 Jul 2009 15:09

The manufacturers have made great strides in condoms over the years, but even so, I do lose sensitivity when I wear one.



Lose sensitivity somewhat, sure, but wouldn't you agree that the guys who say "It ruins it" are full of horseshit?

he never said that at all. He's okay with it, I'm just not.

Topic Pubes
Posted 05 Jul 2009 11:43

I don't trim a shape, but I trim them down to a relatively short length. easier to keep clean and without the razor burn.

Topic lube in condoms
Posted 05 Jul 2009 11:41

well, I know that condoms can take away from some of the sensation during sex for guys, but I'm not taking any chances. I was wondering if what I heard was true.

Does putting some lube inside the condom help things feel a bit more natural? I don't want to be the only one getting anything out of the actual sex so, an answer would be helpful.