Forum posts made by aldenbradley

Topic Watching your partner have sex
Posted 21 Mar 2014 18:46

Have you had sex with other men? It can be a physical pursuit as well but you wouldn't want to pursue it!
What you say may well hold some credence if one fantasized about it. However, we aren't all turned on by the same thing! This has nothing to do with insecurities, it's purely a matter of sexual tastes.
Using your analogy, surely you would be willing to play men's doubles.
I think you need to do a lot more research and try to look at it in an objective manner. You seem to want to find the results that suit you.

I speak only in terms of hetero relationships. Methinks thou protesteth too much! LOL!

Topic Watching your partner have sex
Posted 21 Mar 2014 10:12

This has been the topic of many of my stories. In researching, I've discovered that those who are adamantly opposed are generally possessive and insecure. The primary ingredient for this to succeed has to be TRUST. My personal experience is that the partners know that their relationship is solid and is based on mutual respect, and they possess a desire for the partner to experience the elation of an expanded sexuality. I've compared it to playing tennis (especially doubles). The partner gets all hot and sweaty from playing with another and experiences the thrill. At the end of the game, though, he or she returns to the original partner because what they have is bigger, stronger, and more emotionally satisfying than the momentary exultation of the game. It's fun to participate and to watch, to cheer on the participants in their pursuit of joy and delight, secure in the knowledge that the relationship endures. Sex is a physical pursuit that can be devoid of emotional attachment. Love is an emotional endeavor in which sex is an element.

Topic Cam Fun Competition Winners
Posted 07 Jul 2013 04:11

Congratulations to the winners. Really high quality competitors. Lots of excellent submissions. We've got some really exceptional writers pounding out some top quality material. Pleased to have been among those competing.

Topic Sensuality
Posted 19 Jun 2013 05:02 your story.jpg

Topic Need a mans point of view, (football and concussions)
Posted 13 Jun 2013 11:52

Another consideration is the position. Most of these injuries occur in running backs, receivers, linebacker, safeties, cornerbacks and return specialists. The chances are greatly reduced among interior linemen, guards, tackles, centers, etc. Any player CAN get concussed tackling a running player, but the chances are much reduced for those in the so-called "grunt" positions. Perhaps he can be allowed to continue if he will accept a move to one of the less glamorous positions on the team. In general, though, I tend to agree that a 17-year-old is not going to take a long-term view. That's what parents do.

Topic Describe your Ideal partner for one night....
Posted 13 Jun 2013 06:44

One nighter? One night is a beginning. Ideal partner is one who is willing to explore the possibility of a longer-term relationship; one who has an interest in establishing a relationship with my SO and me based on caring, mutual respect, and desire.

Topic Post groundless lies about the person above
Posted 09 Jun 2013 05:03

Angie actually read a story that was posted on Lush!

Topic The throwing of random objects at the person above you
Posted 05 Jun 2013 12:54

An invite to our next swap meet for he and his bride!

Topic Three Word Story
Posted 05 Jun 2013 12:44

Trinket prefers foursomes?

Topic Agree/disagree
Posted 05 Jun 2013 05:57

Heartily disagree.

Porn is unrealistic. It makes you think you can get a plumber to respond quicker than you can IRL.

Topic Do You Have Any Unsual Turn-ons?
Posted 04 Jun 2013 05:58

Eyes. Olivia Wilde has the most beautiful eyes in creation.
Eyebrows. Angie Harmon. Just a marvel of form.
Eyelashes. Natural, curled, long and dark. With green eyes, preferably.
Intelligence. At some point we have to have a conversation. "Nice car!" just doesn't make it. Which is why I love my Lush-ladies. So many of them can THINK!

Topic Why is the person above you locked in your bedroom?
Posted 03 Jun 2013 17:13

When the moon comes out, I grow fangs and excessive body hair!

Topic Your Favorite Celebrity Crush
Posted 03 Jun 2013 17:01

Kaley Cuoco.

Topic Agree/disagree
Posted 03 Jun 2013 16:57

Disagree. Do you prefer to be understand or simple agreement?

Seek to understand rather than to be understood?

Topic Why is the person above you locked in your bedroom?
Posted 02 Jun 2013 19:45

The speaker on my iPod isn't loud enough and I need somebody to sing and play sad, romantic, songs while I write steamy dialogue.

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 02 Jun 2013 19:34

A stream of consciousness that flows quickly, unimpeded by punctuation. ;)

Topic Which improvements or features would you like to see added?
Posted 31 May 2013 07:06

New here. I have trouble pushing the word limit.
I use the word counter in MS Word, but it's accuracy is --- well, you know.
I've not been able to find a word counter on the submission page.
Am I missing it or is it a possible addition worth considering?
Have no desire to become infamous among the moderators as "The Wordy One".

Topic The throwing of random objects at the person above you
Posted 30 May 2013 14:12

Cash enough to purchase a cd of her singing.

Topic Three Word Story
Posted 30 May 2013 14:09

the image appeared

Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted 23 May 2013 20:47

A woman of exquisite mystery and desires with impeccable taste in photo signatures.

Topic Fuck off ~
Posted 23 May 2013 20:31

Y'all need to tend to all whats yerins (pronounced "urines").

Topic Things To Do In The Bedroom To Ruin The Mood (ABC Style)
Posted 19 May 2013 12:19

Vomit - the load of cum just swallowed.

Topic Barefoot or heels in the kitchen?
Posted 17 May 2013 08:21

Fantasy, right?

Topic Am I slutty or sexy?
Posted 14 May 2013 20:16

Back on the topic -- if you don't mind, Maz! -- It really isn't about you Cheryl. See, there are folks with real hang-ups; jealous types who wish they were you, all hot and slim and sexy. But they're not. So, must be YOUR fault. They label you, mostly out of jealousy. I say, if you got it, flaunt it. Make sure you pack in a bunch of synonyms for skank, slut, ho, etc., like hottie, babe, and dish. You go girl!

Topic Use My Last Word First - in a 5 word sentence..
Posted 13 May 2013 11:42

sun warmed hair smells delightful

Topic Post something NICE about the person above you.
Posted 13 May 2013 11:11

Is exotic and alluring. Once again, I've fallen for the lesbian! What is it with me?

Topic Post something NICE about the person above you.
Posted 11 May 2013 19:25

Has the name of my childhood crush -- you know -- Wendy -- From "Peter Pan"?