Topic You call your fuck buddy but she's got..
24 Feb 2012 06:24
Of course I'd want to, but it would be up to her - if she doesn't want the closeness, let alone sex, then you have to respect her space. If she is in the mood, however, then I see no reason why not to engage in whatever strikes both of you. I'd rather if she tells me what the situation is, so I can be respectful of her desires, one way or the other.
Topic Ask the person below you any question
23 Feb 2012 11:09
Brains - they are the greatest turn-on. Brains still are beautiful even with eyes closed.
What is the one thing you most want to say to someone, but are afraid to say out loud?
Topic Have you ever had your heart broken but still needed them?
14 Feb 2012 21:12
Absolutely. Not just ripped out and stomped on, but then spat upon and worse...and yet, not a day goes by where I don't think about her and wonder "what if?" Time and distance make things better, but it never goes away completely.
Hurt worse by her than by any other person, but I say to myself that I would take her back in a heartbeat if she came to me. Crazy, huh? Love makes you want crazy things and do crazy things.
Thankfully she'll never come back, since it's not in her nature to do that. Nostalgia and love are one thing, but in reality, living with her would be hell after what happened, and it showed her true colors to me.
Topic What's on your sexual bucket list?
13 Feb 2012 09:05
wow...so many!! here are just a few and in no particular order...
1. anal - have played with myself but would love to experience it full on with a great partner
2. double penetration
3. sub/dom - where i am the sub - nothing crazy or violent but similar to "Handcuffs" and "Five Hot Stories for Her" by erika lust (my fav porn director)
4. sleeping with a young cub (hehe, enough said)
5. making my way through the kama sutra
6. making my way through one of those sexual positions book - i'm certain there are many i haven't gotten around to yet!
7. join the mile high club
8. twosome/threesome with women (just so i can say i did it)
9. more pulic sex!
10. and finally...there are several men on lush i'd love to commit all sorts of sins with ;-)
What a great list!
Topic "Down there" Hair Preferences.
08 Feb 2012 16:22
A unicorn? And I always though they were imaginary creatures, having never seen one. I guess I've been looking in the wrong places!
Topic Do you enjoy naughty chat?
07 Feb 2012 11:55
I agree with many who have said that if there is a connection, or if it is with the right person, it can be great. With the wrong person it really can be awkward, with lots of silent pauses, and usually that's the last time you chat with the person. It's hard to say what makes a good chat partner, but my guess is that it is someone who is comfortable enough with themselves that they are prepared to take chances and look foolish, simply because chat is no different than live sex / social interaction. It's not about ego or looking good - it is about listening as much as it is talking, if not more so - and it is about taking risks because you are trying to excite/arouse another person.
Topic Sex with a woman while she's on her period.
05 Feb 2012 06:11
Why not? If she is in the mood and wants to have sex, of course. I don't see any reason why not. Even going down on her - sure it can be a bit messier, but that's what a shower is for. Nothing disgusting about it. It's a natural thing.
Topic Rimming, yes or no?
05 Feb 2012 05:36
Yes. I have yet to meet a woman who does not find it pleasurable, and isn't that the whole point? Very, very intimate way of showing affection and giving pleasure.
Topic playing on cam?
05 Feb 2012 04:46
It is great fun. Have done it before and it's fun both to do it, and to watch.
Topic Blow job or baby oil handjob?
05 Feb 2012 04:45
Both...but if I had to choose, I'd go for the baby oil handjob. As good as a mouth feels surrounding a cock, there is something even more intimate about hands. Hands can be non-sexual (like a massage) or extremely sexual, at the same time. Hands have such varied ways of manipulating your cock and adjusting speed, tightness, direction, etc.
Topic 3somes... Good or Bad
04 Feb 2012 23:13
Been in a threesome only once - mmf. I was the new addition in an already established relationship. The sex was great and even though I am straight, I found it surprisingly natural to have guy on guy contact too. Great eye opener and lots of fun. It was only meant to be a one time event so there were no expectations...no pressure. Not sure what it would have been like if my own friend or partner were involved...then I could see how the aftermath could be awkward, especially if one or the other developed a stronger attachment or just the opposite, if they didn't want a repeat. Otherwise I would be open for another in a heartbeat.
Topic Boobs - Can you answer honestly?
02 Feb 2012 13:50
Size and shape...none of that should matter. Remember, they are HER boobs, and while we guys love them and enjoy them for ourselves, we should also enjoy the way we can give her pleasure through her boobs, including just appreciating them the way they are.
Topic Sexy Plus Size Ladies
25 Jan 2012 22:35
Totally inspiring. Proof that being beautiful and sexy isn't defined by size or shape.
Topic Rimming (giving or receiving)
25 Jan 2012 22:05
first time giving takes a bit of courage...but once you try it, there is nothing like it. pleases your partner and shows you are willing to put them first. receiving? still waiting to experience that.