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Topic: trust after affairs
Posted: 01 May 2013 06:51

Regaining the trust that is lost when one partner cheats on the other in a relationship is harder for some people than others. I'm not sure that total trust can ever be regained. I've known couples who split up the first time one of them cheated, and I've known others who have stayed together and worked it out. It's hard to just give up on a relationship because of one incident of cheating. There is always the thought that maybe we can work it out.

For the people who are talking about mate swapping and threesomes, etc., I don't think that is quite the same thing as cheating. If both partners in a relationship want the same thing and agree on it, then there is no trust issue involved. What I mean by cheating is to betray the trust of the person you love. If you really love them, then you shouldn't even think about betraying them. It hurts to be the one being cheated on.
It's not just the sex, it's the deception and lying that go along with it. If cheating was just a sexual act, like masturbating, it wouldn't be nearly as painful. It's the emotional damage that's hard to overcome.

Well Said Ruthie. Well said.
It is all about the deception, lying & betrayal, not the sex.


Topic: trust after affairs
Posted: 01 May 2013 06:46

So she's justifying her cheating by making it your fault somehow? As if it's your fault you were born with a penis? As if she didn't know you had a penis going into the relationship? As if she weren't aware of the limited (no offense) abilities of said penis? Seems like she's just trying to get into your head and make you blame yourself, which is one of the most vile forms of manipulation. If she can feel justified in her cheating, then you should know where you stand. She wants to have her cake and eat it too. Know your worth, and do what you need to do in order for you to be happy, because it seems as if her only concern is herself.

My thoughts exactly. I know from experience. Having been one who was "blamed" for their lovers cheating.
The lowest blow someone can take is to have the person they trusted in the most, say something like " well it really wasn't my fault because, you wern't there for me". or ie... "they can do something for me you can't do".

I can tell you this truthfully. Had my cheating lover come to me before her forray and expressed her desire for something different, I'd been far more willing to accept it, and perhaps even took the lead in making her fantasy an awesome reality!

Just my opinion. It's like an asshole (everybody's got one).


Topic: Is a ass play or no ass play??
Posted: 15 Apr 2013 14:23

It's a big yes from me on recieving it.

I just love a girl who knows what she likes, and isn't afraid to say it!
Mmm, and as for that position you're in in your Avatar kylie?
Very Enticing!



Topic: Is a ass play or no ass play??
Posted: 15 Apr 2013 14:20

They are guys who like it, and they are those think Embarassed is wrong... What do u say??

It get's a big thumbs up, from me, and all of those with who I play with!


Topic: comfortable butt plug?
Posted: 15 Apr 2013 14:17

I'm wondering if anyone here can recommend a comfortable butt plug. I have a small silicone one and I absolutely hate it. It's uncomfortable while it's in and I have difficulty getting it out. I'm quite petite and cannot consider anything large. Any recommendations or advice would be appreciated. Thank you.

Their are several I might suggest, dependant upon ones personal preferences & goals.

Give a (PM) and we can discus it in a bit more detail.


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