Forum posts made by annmssb

A 1966 Mustang fast back, 2+2, 289ci, all original.

Yesterday morning with two young men.

This is an interesting topic. It's difficult to separate the two for me. To have sex was the same as being in love with someone and loving that person. I know it is due to the way I was brought up. My husband has taught me that they can be separated and I have eperienced that separation. Sex for the physical pleaure of sex and sex for both pleasure and LOVE. It still is difficult and I am not totally there yet. It's a journey.

My husband encourages me to be with other men. He does like to watch. He says he loves to hear and see me enjoy myself. I have a tendancy to be very vocal. But, until my husband told me that I alwasy held back fearing he would be jealous. I love my husband dearly. I would be just as happy if we spent the night on the couch cuddling in front of the tv.

I have had "one night stands". But, I always knew the men. It was always at my hsuband's encouragement. And, they were pretty much only one night.

I have never stopped having sex because I was to tired or anything like that. Maybe tempted because I was sore. Usually the man makes that decision. I have fallen asleep during sex being very tired from something else, not becasue of sex. I remember being very "loose" very accepting of the thrusting but NEVER stopped having the sex.

Most men are ok. But there are some definite turnoffs for me that some men do.
- Most important to me are insensitive remarks, men who are insensitive
- Telling me I am beautiful or hot when I know I am not
- Being TOO nice to me, I hate that

I have recently found that, for me, it doesn't matter what time of the day it is, how busy I am with other things or even if I am "not in the mood" and reluctant. As soon as lips touch my neck I get "warm" and when fingers touch my between my legs, well, that's that. It could be several times a day, middle of the night, etc., doesn't matter. I have only been this way the last few years.

My husband is extremely sensitive after whether it is oral or inside me. But, he likes to keep it in me after for a while and as his sensitivity goes down he pulls out of me. I have been with few men and the sensitivity varies. I was with a young man, his first time, and he never left my vagina for almost an hour. he never lost his erection and never complaine dof sensitivity. He was still hard after he withdrew.

Wow, that's thought provoking. I was in Hawaii, on the Big Island, near Waimea at a really nice inn.

In the office of my church Deacon. He watched from behind his desk while I lifted up my skirt and did it in front of his desk.

Wow. I have had some really good experiences here and a few, very few, bad ones. Meeting a person from here is a consideration.

On my back with my legs up really high and my rear just a little raised so an erection can go straight down.

No, I have not. Nevr done that. I didn't date before I met my husband. Then I married and always went nome with my husband. However, I can see that happening now with my hsubnds presnt interest in sharing me with another. I am pretty sure it is a matter of time.

I am married. Everyman that has made adevances to me knows that. The men I have hd contact with are after sexual conquest or gratification. If I was single I think it wold change a bit.

The first time it happened to me I was on top and sitting down on his penis. It was on older man and not my husband. It was the first man I had ever been with other than my husband. I have to say that it was a long something that had been building up for a very long time and I basically lost it and initiated the intercourse. I was on top and moving my pelvis to get the most pleasure and was doing it uncouncioulsly - jsut reacting to what my body wanted. Then, without waring of anykind I started to feel a "flow" of liquid out of me and onto the man's belly. I watched it flow out of me in waves over him and there was a lot of it. Pulses of a clear liquid like waves washing up on a beach. I thought I was uncontrolably urinating on the man and was appologetic and sayign I was sorry but I COULD NOT STOP MOVING MY HIPS and trusting into him. he immedaitaly began to tell me that it was a good thing and that I had "ejaculated". I let it subside and fell off of him. and later he explained to me what had happened and that I was one of the very few women that could do that and I should be very proud of myslef. I had never heard of that kind of thing before. I was just glad I hadn't peed on him.

I have never really liked swollowing my husbands semen. I had not had much experience with sex untill we were married. When my husband started to "share" me I discovered that I liked OTHER men's semen. I don't know why as it tastes basically the same.

I was in a musical for charity in February. It's a lot of work and very tiring. After the third night and the appropriate cast party afterwards a freind of my husbands took me home my husband was traveling due to business). My husband let it be known tohim that "he could if he wanted". He did. In bed, I was lying there accepting his erection and it was SOOO knice and relaxing that I actually fell asleep. His thrusts kept going and I woke up off and on several times, each time feeling him absooutely filling me up over and over. It was the most delicious feeling, being in "dream land", in that inbetween state, not awake not asleep kind of hanging there in some kind of blissful delierium and his erection and the sound were the ONLY thngs in my universe. When he ejaculated I orgasmed. Wonderful. I have never been able to duplicate it.

I have been told I whimper a lot and moan. I seem to also quietly "grunt" when I am being thurst into. I am also told that when I orgasm I scrunch up my face and close my eyes tight and tense up muscles and let out a gasp when i go over the top.

My hsuband seems to like this. A lot. I don't understand it but there it is. He has eaten me after and then had sex with me. There has never been more than one man at a time but sometimes they will ejaculate more than once. For me, at that stage I am extremely sensitive almost to the point of pain.

I don't think there is really a "gap" where sex is concerned.

My husband does.

Nerd.

It comes at different times. It could be anything that sends me over the top and I am his, I surrender and there is no turning back. It could be while kissing touching my nipples, licking my clitoris, even kissing my lower back. Anything, anywhere, at any time.

My husband has encouraged me to be with other men, sexually. I has happened now a few times. Those were not "dates" as such. After doing that, he wanted/encouraged me to actually accept and go on a date with a man who was "after" me at work. This has happened twice now with different men and both times ended in sex. The first time it was just a freindly date and I had no expectaions of anything else. The second was with a man who let me know in subtle ways that it was for sex. Both men knew I was married and initiated it. the fact that I was VERY married seemed important to them.

I have to say that I can only tell you how I feel about it from a before and after standpoint. I had never done anything like this before all alone. It felt wierd. I personally felt used by my husband and then used by the man I was with. Afterwards, I felt guilty for some reason and when i got home and was greeted by my husband and experienced his reaction, it was better, maybe more than better. I'm still thinking about it.

I understand. It did hapen to me after a heated discussion with my husband that left me in tears and very depressed. A neighbor which I didn't know all that well showed up at my door later that day. He comforted me. It wasn't a matter of letting him comfort me sexually. It just happened. One minute he was hugging me and I was hugging him back and crying and the next he was thrusting into me while kissing my eyes. It was a lapse on my part which left me feeling better only momentarily. Afterwards, I felt worse and even more depressed. I remained that way until my hsuband and I made up.

Yes, of course I remember. It was my husbands on our third date before we were married.

I can't handle heavy drinking. Not at all. I can have a nice glass of wine and I am happy. I have two and I get quiet. I have three, which is very rare, and I get sleepy and don't remember much although I have been told that I am comunicative, although slurry, laugh and giggle and become kind fo cuddly. But, I don't remember much afterwards at that point. I also have ben told that I become easily aroused and do remember parts of that, lol. Ann

The first time with a man other than my husband was with a man in his late 50s. It was wonderful.

When my husband first started to urge me ot have sex with other men it was always with clothes still on or partially on. But, that was due to the circumstances. Those instances were pretty much spur of the momment and passion or time did not permit it. After, when things like that were more planned, it was always with clothes off, totally. Each certainly has it's own excitment and arousal, different but just as exciting. Ann