Forum posts made by anon47

Topic anal
Posted 28 Aug 2012 05:03

Your boyfriend has issues. There's nothing weird about any sexual activity, there's simply, safe, unsafe or downright dangerous.

Don't worry about him and find guys who are turned on by what turns you on, lovely lady!

Topic Have you ever had your heart broken but still needed them?
Posted 26 Aug 2012 11:03

Perhaps the question you need to ask yourself is why your heart is unable to heal and needs to continue believing what will never be?

Sometimes you have to face up to other experiences in life which are what is behind your current predicament.....

I took 18 months to get over something once. Really, if there hadn't been something in the background, it was the sort of situation you could get over in days, certainly weeks.

Something else took a decade. That was guilt associated, not hurt associated, though.

Maybe a question you should ask yourself is this: is there a reason I am falling in love with the wrong women? What are my actions telling me about where I am in life and what will I have to do to bring myself to the place where I will be attracted to the right women for me????

Topic Guys, what if ...
Posted 26 Aug 2012 10:57

Wouldn't the answer depend on entirely on whether your sex with her was currently off the scale unbelievable or diminishing in both frequency and satisfaction levels??!!

Topic why do young guys like older chicks?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 10:21

Perhaps because older chicks are more likely to take charge, get their dicks out and give them a mindblowing blowjob?? AND accept that with young guys, jerking them off up front is a prelude to an enjoyable evening, rather than a reason to tut, tut in disgust and leave them feeling useless, weird and nerdy????

Topic Virgin Girls
Posted 23 Aug 2012 10:19

To be honest, MandyCandy, it probably depends how much experience they have and where they are in their own sexual journey.

There is a stage for quite a few men when they need to fuck brazenly, often and with women wanting the same. Clearly, that's not right for the vast majority of virgins.

Some men are natural teachers and may be attracted to virgins for precisely that reason.

A few simply want to marry one, perhaps because they are scared of how they would stack up against the other men who have slept with those who are not.

Even then, there are shy virgins and those who can't wait to lose their virginity. Hardly likely to attract the same audiences, are they?!

Topic How do men feel about red headed women?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 10:13

My lifetime audit of redheads?

Some of them are really horny.

A few of them are c**ts.

The odd one was a bit of both.

Topic Is intelligence intimidating?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 10:10

Intelligence is difficult if you are constantly finding fault with a man. Men are most turned on if they are seen to be doing their job well, which in the case of sex is blowing their woman's brains out with lust. Quite frankly, if they do that well, they'd rather have a blonde bimbo who appreciates them and blows their rocks off too than a 180 IQ woman who wants to analyse whether their in-out-in-out was 60 or 75 beats to the minute. We're not pornstars, you know!

On the other hand, the longer a relationship lasts, the more important emotional and intellectual compatibility becomes. If you are besotted with Shakespeare and their idea of culture is rock music and sports, you may have a bit of a challenge. If you make it work for you by realising that they are brilliant at all the practical jobs in the house (see, they're more intelligent than you in that sphere of life), have good business savvy even if their business is construction rather than being a University Professor, then it may work. It's more challenging for both of you though.....

What won't work is you needing to impose your intellect on them to make them feel small. You might be intellectual, but you'd be emotionally immature, which is a far more heinous crime. Men need to be switched on first in their dick, then in their heart and then in their brain. Never forget that.......

The ultimate turn on for an intelligent man is a woman he can talk to in the restaurant as an equal but who fucks the living daylights out of him in the bedroom. It's not always a co-segregating pair of characteristics, you know........

Topic wet dreams
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:58

If you had one, your body thought it was a good thing.

Screw what everyone else's body said.

I don't think it's that unheard of, mind you. Horniest dream I ever had was just around my 33rd birthday........

Topic Do men really prefer older women?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:55

There are some guys who don't get turned on just looking at a young girls body. They get turned on by a woman who knows how to press their buttons.


Often, but not always, the women most able to do that have more experience and, therefore, are more likely to be older.

Men also find women who aren't still neurotic about their bodies more attractive: women in their mid 30s often know what they want and are happy with themselves, which is a huge aphrodisiac for some men.

Topic The sexiest part of a woman's body
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:52

Varies from woman to woman I guess.

It's included:

Back of the neck; hair; arms; belly.

All the traditional erogenous zones too of course.........

Topic Sucking on breasts/nipples
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:48

Maybe he never got to suck his mother's?

Topic Foreplay or straight to it?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:41

With guys, the more experience the get, the more they can cope with foreplay, ergo the more they can pleasure their women too.

My theory is that every horny inexperienced teenager should have a session with a mature 25-35 year old horny woman who may very well revel in their youthful exuberance rather more than inexperienced teenage girls will. After a few sessions with experts, they'll be ready to show more patience with the inexperienced young girls.

Topic Scorpio women
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:33

PersonalAssistants's zodiac signs and sex characteristics:

Based on my non-statistical life experience, I'd say:

1. Leo description is SPOT ON. Particularly the bit about 'your pleasure being their secondary concern'.
2. Libra description is SPOT ON. The best woman I've ever known is a Libra and she is a courtesan without compare.
3. Aquarius: certainly met Aquarian women for whom that is true.
4. Taurus: SPOT ON.
5. Cancer: SPOT ON.

Can't speak for the rest, but there's certainly something to it. These women came from many, many different countries, so it's not a sample of English women I'm talking about.

I know Scorpio men are sex mad, even if it's channeling that energy into sport. Can't speak for women.......

Topic How short or tall is too much difference for a lover?
Posted 23 Aug 2012 09:18

My comedian's theory is that women prefer men they can kiss a lot on the face and lips, whereas men are quite happy with a midget giving them head!

Seriously, though, the most obvious issue is that if there is any correlation between baby size and father size, then if you were a small girl and you married a giant, you might have been signing your own death warrant before Caesarian sections came along a few decades ago.

My cousin is short and married a tall beanpole, had three children all over 8lbs and needed 3 C-sections. As you're not allowed more than three, that meant no more kids (as it happened, she didn't want more).

Topic What's making you happy right at this moment???
Posted 23 Aug 2012 07:27

The sun is shining.

The first girl I asked to be friends with me on this site said yes and we exchanged 3 flirty emails yesterday.

Despite a poor summer, the tomato crop is yielding well.

I have no need to emulate my family any more, nor consider them wiser than me without justifiable proof. I can just be me.

I have completed a 9 year cycle in life concerning creative writing and am really happy with the output I produced. Really happy.


Topic Just wondering - can relationships begun through Lush last?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 03:02

No reason why not.

All you are doing is changing the order in which you share things.......

Topic Advice on depressed girlfriend
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:59

The most obvious reason for this depression is the transition from college to the life of work.

1. Is she unhappy in work?
2. Is her career not what she thought it would be like?
3. Does she feel unable to admit that for reasons of pride?
4. Are there deeper issues to do with childhood which means she is not emotionally comfortable being an independent adult?
5. Is the new situation you find yourselves in teaching you more about your relationship (trust me I've seen some where 'perfect couples' move overseas and rapidly split).
6. Are there things she needs from you which you don't realise?
7. If there are feelings of unworthiness, what is causing them?

What is absolutely key is recognising whether she is able to talk to you about these issues or not. If she can't, then you may need to speak to her parents about this. Not judgementally, but because you care. But before you do that, you need to tell her you're thinking of that: if there's a strong negative reaction, there may be challenges ahead.

If this makes you feel scared and unprepared: you will need help handling this too.

I don't know what the answer is, but depression is usually associated with loss. Loss of a dream, an idealised fantasy world which doesn't exist, loss of self-belief, self-worth. It's the emotion of not yet accepting that something is that way, cannot be that way, will never be that way.

It's important that these things are sorted, because a depression lasting a few months is curable. One which lasts 5 years often isn't.

I hope you can help your girlfriend but don't be afraid to accept all the help you can get: if you really care for her, the more help and support of the right kind she can get, the better.

Topic Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:50

Yes, got the t-shirt there.

Wrote the conclusion of first novel to stop topping myself, sold up and moved 200 miles away, got on with life without them.

Topic Someone For Everyone?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:47

In theory there's someone for everyone, but the imperfections of life means that not everyone gets to meet that someone.

Topic What do you think of my pics?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:44

You look like a horny girl who likes to tease the guys!

Topic Waking up to a blow job - yay or nay?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:40

Just do it!

I've not consented but few men feel the need to consent to being given a blow job, if truth be told........

Topic Waking up to a blow job - yay or nay?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:39

Just do it!

I've not consented but few men feel the need to consent to being given a blow job, if truth be told........

Topic Boobs - Can you answer honestly?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:38

Absolutely not the case: sure, many men prefer a sizable cleavage to none, but for every size of breasts, rest assured that there are men out there who love them.

To me, without ever having got a tape measure out, you can sense whether the size of a woman's boobs fit the rest of her body. In general, women with bigger boobs have bigger hips, which may not be what all men want either.

I personally love women with medium sized boobs. I actually find women with really, really large boobs a bit gross but that's just me. They'd probably find my body pretty unappetising too.

Topic Why do men cheat?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:33

Men's biological heritage is spreading their seed as far and wide as they can: it maximises the chances of their continued lineage.

Women's biological heritage is to choose carefully which man should sire her children and then to stop him screwing around once they have had them.

I'm not condoning men cheating, just saying that all man's ancestors fought for the right to screw the female: just look at male stags in the rutting season for chrissakes!

In a more pragmatic way, my observations in life say that men who marry too early (which is before they have got the mindless screwing bit out of their minds) tends to predicate more screwing around after marriage. Those who got laid a lot and gloriously before settling down are less likely to need to stray.

Topic If your Girlfriend asked you to have a threesome would you and who would be the other person?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:26

Depends whether it was two girls or two guys I guess!

Topic if a exgf sent this how would you respond?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:25

If I bothered to answer (I doubt I would) I'd say: 'this email explains why we are no longer together. Goodbye, good luck and die happy!'

Topic Relatonship Issues...
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:23

Most obvious thing is; he needs a short break from you. Not breaking up, but to remember what he's missing.

If that doesn't work, try flirting with other guys when you're out with him. See if it arouses his jealousy and his dick at the same time.

If that doesn't work, ask him what's wrong, tell him that this has to get sorted or it's over. Emphasise you don't want it to be over but it will be over if this doesn't get sorted.

If that doesn't work, move out.

Topic The Noisy or the Discreet?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:20

Quiet girls who silently shake when filled with lust are fine by me!

Topic Are all men unsatisfied with the size of their penis?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:19

Unfortunately, boys growing up can use dick size as part of the social hierarchy at school. Those who grow late or who have small flaccid penises (however big they may get erect) are usually the ones who have miserable teenage years.

If your husband is obsessed, he's either got hang-ups from before he met you or he thinks, deep down, that you want men with bigger dicks.

If the latter isn't true, he needs to see you really enjoying sex with him. Telling him his dick is big enough isn't the answer if you have unfulfilled needs. Telling him what you need, or maybe showing him without telling him first, is a better solution.

Topic Is squirting gross or hot?
Posted 22 Aug 2012 02:15

If that's the female equivalent to male sperm juice, what do you have to be ashamed of???