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I'm a 21 year old blonde who loves to read and occasionally write stories (I may at some point post one...). Feel free to message me, as I love to chat! I'm currently attending college. I'm occasionally interested in things that are taboo, such as student/teacher etc. I tend to like things that are a bit rougher Don't be shy, I'm quite naughty myself. (But if my profile is set to "away" please don't try to message me...)

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Topic: Who is your favorite Avenger?
Posted: 06 Apr 2014 13:13


Definitely Chris Evans....oops, I mean Captain America! ;)

Topic: Not ready to give up sex
Posted: 15 Mar 2014 20:49

Hello,
I am sure I am not the only man on the site that has experienced this, but I am struggling with this situation. My wife lost interest in sex years ago after our kids were born. We have read books, tried all the relationship improvement...bring the romance back things, but she has not responded. She occasionally goes through the motions but that has become more and more infrequent. Almost not existent. In fact, when we do have sex now, she says it is painful for her. Her doctor says that her vagina has atrophied. (Use it or lose it folks) So I am now on the once or twice a year program. No foreplay, just get it over with. Not exactly romantic or even erotic.

So, I find myself in a very awkward situation. I love this woman. I intend to spend the rest of my life with her. In every other aspect of our lives, she is my perfect partner. I took a vow to not be with anyone else and intend to honor that promise. This leaves me quite sexually frustrated. I am not ready to stop having sex, but I really have no choice in the matter. It makes me angry that one partner can just decide that sex is over for both. She sees a therapist and we have tried couples counseling, but there has been no progress in the area of sex. She seems to just be working out her mother issues. (Incidently, her mother did the same thing to her father. They did not even sleep in the same room for the last 30 years of his life.)

Masturbation is really my only option at this point and she usually expresses annoyance if I do this when she is around. She says it makes her feel guilty. So, apparently, I am responsible for her feelings in addition to my own. Of course, I could continue while she is there, but it is hard to be aroused when you are being glared at or she huffs out of the room. So now I feel like I have to sneak around like a teenager hoping his parents don't catch him. Not feeling very manly here.

I seriously have run out of ideas here. Since I am committed to the marriage, I just don't see any way around this. I doubt that you will have any suggestions other than couples counseling, which we have tried.

So there it is Aunt Olivia. Any suggestions?

I guess I'm not very qualified to give you any advice, haha, but I do have some thoughts.
Have you ever tried anything that doesn't involve actual penetration? (because you said it's painful for her...) I know you said she doesn't really want foreplay, but I feel like that could really help... Would she be okay with you giving her oral sex?
I don't mean to sound like I'm insinuating that you're not, but maybe try being a bit more selfless in bed. Maybe you have a night that's just for her, and you can try to get her to orgasm, even if it's just her experimenting to see what she still likes and doesn't like. Then you can go from there??

I mean, maybe if she's more into it, then having sex would be easier. (And I mean, it's kind of wrong that she makes you feel bad about masturbating, but I can see how it might make her feel bad too... but I mean, is it hard to masturbate in secret, or at a time that you know she won't find you??) Or even give her the option to help you out when you masturbate...maybe she can do it for you . I mean, I don't really know how much she is open to...

Another option, if she's willing, you can probably find some type of lotion or gel (like ky or something...) that stimulates her? Or even, if it's something that she wants to work on, she could take some type of hormone(pill?) that increases her sex drive...?


Anyway, I think that at the end of the day you have to think about it, and see that sex isn't everything. If you love her, like you say you do, and if sex is something that's painful for her, it just doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things.

Well, I hope this helps, like I said, I'm not really qualified to give any advice, but I hope something here sounds helpful.

Topic: Best and Worst pick up lines (Game)
Posted: 23 Feb 2014 18:04

Is there a mirror in your pants? because I can see myself in them. Lol!

Topic: Is it appropriate to PM sexual images to people you don't even know on LUSH?
Posted: 22 Feb 2014 07:20

It gets pretty annoying sometimes, and if I've never talked to you before, there's no way I'm going to respond anyway. It's sometimes more funny than anything, especially when the pictures don't look real at all and they claim that it's them. Also, people who post Gifs on my wall and I sometimes delete the ones I don't want there, and then think they can message me "Why did you delete my picture on your wall??" Uhm....why do you think? Because I didn't like it... not to mention that I don't need to explain myself to this person that I don't even know! That's another thing, some people on this site don't get that you might not like something, or you might not want to talk to them, simply because you just don't want to talk to them. If you're going to send me pics, wait until I ask for them or at least until we've had a decent conversation. (more than a one sided "Damn, you're hot.")

Topic: What food are you craving right now?
Posted: 19 Feb 2014 10:30

Mmm, reading some of these answers has made me extremely hungry!! But I'm really craving a chocolate cupcake with vanilla frosting...

Topic: Are you hornier before or after your period?
Posted: 19 Feb 2014 10:15

Usually a couple days before.

Topic: Ladies: What’s your take on thongs?
Posted: 02 Feb 2014 17:27

I like them. I like lacy ones the best. When I want to feel sexy, it's one of my top favorite types of underwear. I wouldn't say it's my favorite style though, I fell the sexiest in lacy cheeky panties.

Topic: What gets you noticed?
Posted: 25 Jan 2014 15:07

Probably my Curves, I usually notice some eyes following me as I walk by. I've also been told I have very nice lips and eyes. (And Obviously my boobs...but everyone's saying that, so..haha)

Topic: Are you a screamer or a moaner?
Posted: 11 Jan 2014 21:27

I can moan pretty loud... but it is also usually a lot of shaky, heavy breathing....

Topic: Skinny dipping with the lush member above
Posted: 05 Jan 2014 13:42

I don't know about the actual person....but the model in their profile pic, yes please!!

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Late Night Visitor

I was watching TV that night, it had been a normal day, just as plain as the recent days before. I remember that I was tired, falling asleep right there on the couch, and ready to call it a night. The television light flickered throughout the much too large house, or at least it felt too large with just me in it. As the television lights filled the room, I heard a slight knocking on the...

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Late Night Visitor-2

The minute I open my eyes and see Nathan's sleeping face, a smile plays on my lips. Memories from last night come flooding back. His legs are intertwined with mine, and his large arm is thrown over my waist. I smile, looking at him sound asleep. This all still seems too good to be true. Nathan. His name is Nathan and I haven't seen him in almost a year. We met in High school, and ended...

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Posted: 22 Oct 2013 16:09
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