Forum posts made by been

Topic Asking a man money would be a turn off?
Posted 08 Sep 2010 22:02

I cringe at the thought of a man giving me money. I'm grown able to work and I can pay my way or if I can't I won't go simple as that. More than likely this comes from being raised by a single mother w/o the help of mine or my sisters father. My mother always reminded us that a woman does not need a man to survive and can do anything that they set thier mind to. Even in the work place.

Topic Do younger ladies like older men?
Posted 08 Sep 2010 21:39

I've never ever had a good experience with a younger guy and refuse to hook up/ date anyone younger than me. So needless to say I like older men. There is a 10yr age difference (really not a huge difference) between me and my bf. Sometimes I think that it runs in the family lol. My mother is 43 and my step father 70. There has not been one marriage in my family that has lasted where there hasn't been at least a 5yr difference. For me (i can't speak for anyone else in my family) it has never been about money. I'm a big girl I can take care of myself and I damn sure don't need a man to give me what I need. In fact that is an issue that my bf argue about on a regular basis. I do not want or need for him to pay for anything.

Topic Cheating..?
Posted 08 Sep 2010 21:22

I wasn’t sure if I should have started a new thread but it ties into it somewhat. I apologize if I’m out of line. I’m a bit embarrassed to ask this (I know strange, no one knows me). I have been a bit bi-curious and have had one experience with another woman, but was really too nervous to enjoy/digest it. I have asked my bf about a threesome and he was ok with it as long as it was with another woman. However I’m worried that I would not enjoy it. We have talked about it, and I asked him how he felt about me being with another woman without him. He was fine with it but wanted to lay down some ground rules. For one he would like to meet her and no penetrating toys (he says that’s not the point of being with another woman). For him to watch would be fine but once again I think I would too nervous to really live in the moment. He has told me before that if he where to walk in and find me with another woman “he would shit” (quoting there). My bf has always been a bit…”protective” of me but is he saying yes because it’s something I want to do? Does he possibly think if I let her do this I have more of a chance for a threesome? Given that he has laid down ground rules and is a bit “protective” could this cause problems? dontknow

Topic Cumming on a woman...?
Posted 08 Sep 2010 20:52

This may sound strange but...certian parts of my body are reserved for only a select few. I have only let 2 men cum on my face boobs or inside me. The first was my ex-husband and the second my bf. For some reason these areas have a, whats the word i'm looking for, deeper meaning for me.

Topic Your Politics: Summed Up
Posted 08 Sep 2010 12:18

I use to think of myself as a democrat, but now I realize that I do not fit into any party. I have common sense, and use it. I'm tired of the whole damn system, deciding who is least full of shit... I can't do it anymore. sad3


"What is the difference between a Democrat and a Republican? A Democrat blows, a Republican sucks." -Lewis Black

"In my lifetime, we've gone from Eisenhower to George W. Bush. We've gone from John Kennedy to Albert Gore. Now if that is evolution, I believe that in about 12 years, we're gonna be voting for plants" -Lewis Black

Topic Be Careful What You Wish For.........
Posted 27 Jul 2010 12:56

I wish i could have my fairytale

Topic Does a man's hair loss affect your sexual attraction to him?
Posted 18 Jul 2010 21:20

Until my bf I have never ever liked hairy men. He has shaved his head because of a receding hair line. I met him after he had shaved his head but i have seen pictures of him right b4 and i still think he's sexy as hell then. Now his body is a different story, he is very hairy. Even after declaring many times hairy men were not attractive to me, I wouldn't have it any other way. He has alway been sexy to me. I guess it really is about the person that attracts u to them even if they are everything thats not ur "type".

Topic Would You Attend a Lush Convention?
Posted 18 Jul 2010 21:08

i absolutely love the idea, however location is a big factor. Some (including me) have an issue with revealing thier true identities perhaps a masquerade ball type thing would serve to make those ppl more comfortable. Maybe even enough to change thier position on the idea. Just a thought.

Topic Withholding sex from your partner
Posted 18 Jul 2010 20:49

I've tried this once yet I couldn't follow thru with it. It lasted for all of about the time it took him to throw me over his shoulder, pack me to the bedroom and toss me on the bed. Needless to say we've turned it into a game. I threaten to "cut him off" and he immediately calls my bluff. We've used it many times when we've had company. Acting pissed off declaring he's cut off and storm out of the room. No one questions him following me into the bedroom because he's "in trouble". Those quickies are just a promise for a night of intense sex when everyone leaves. So in my case my boyfriend loves when I withhold sex frm him.

Topic What's your opinion on hair pulling in bed?
Posted 18 Jul 2010 15:43

I'd have to say that it is a turn on for me as well. I loved to b manhandled so to speak and that just adds to it. To know that someone is strong enough to do what they want with you is very...well it just flat does it for me