About Benjamin59

What do i say? I have been separated for 2 yrs after marrying my "sole mate, I thought. we were swingers in the late 80's and 90's. we loved it!. We had some great times. We had three wonderful kids together 2 of which have moved on to become very successful. One a nuclear engineer and the other a business man. My youngest is in college. In case you can't tell i am very proud of them all. Nothing in life has been more important to me than my family, and especially my kids when we decided to have children we slowly backed out of the swinging lifestyle, and raised our family. I am a small business owner. I enjoy it very much. It has been up and down since the crash but it still allows me to travel quite a bit, so i keep at it. even after a debilitating back injury and a bout with cancer.which also happened to be when my wife left.It was a slap in the face to see what mattered to her in the end,Money!! I am an eternal optimist tho, doing better every day. Living now in a very small town. ( boring) but i am stuck here for a few more years. Its a country setting and it is beautiful but with my daughter off to college( she was the last to leave)aside from our Horse,dogs, cats, chickens. I am getting very lonely. I have been out of the game for over 30 yrs. I am not a very forward or aggressive person, in fact im painfully shy. . So i was reaching out a bit on the web for a chat friend. And found Lush. Omg some of the stories are incredible! As i read one author, i was amazed at the parallels in our lives it brought back some wonderful memories As time provides and i become more familiar with lush i intend to share some of them i have never written anything but thought i would give it a try, someday soon i hope. Benjamin

Benjamin Kivett
Date Joined:
04 Feb 2013
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family,hunting,camping,gold mining,photography,designing and building things,traveling,deep conversations,learning,i cant seem to learn fast enoughI love life, What a gift it has been!
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the notebook, somewhere in time,indiana jones,
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i love music!
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Posted: 31 Oct 2013 00:20
Happy Birthday from the Lush team.
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