Forum posts made by bslain

Topic Foreplay or straight to it?
Posted 17 Mar 2014 19:38

If I'm already hot and bothered because someone has played mind games with me all day, I can fuck them right there and then, but if I've had my head in the clouds all day, I need some foreplay to help me out. :) Just depends on the situation.

Topic How did you first discover you liked reading sex stories?
Posted 15 Feb 2014 21:17

I was never the type to watch porn very often and more often needed a more mental stimulus and so I started reading 'lemon' romances and then it turned into erotica.

Topic Slapping the cunt
Posted 31 Jan 2014 21:30

Either is fine with me. Just don't be too gentle ;D

Topic O.K. Ladies, let us know, would you lick your pussy if you could?
Posted 31 Jan 2014 21:28

Not sure I would do so. I mean, I love pleasuring myself, but I don't enjoy the idea of my own juices being all over my face.

Topic How kinky are you? TEST
Posted 31 Jan 2014 21:26

Pretty kinky! 69% ;D

Topic Pepsi or Coke
Posted 12 Aug 2013 22:23

I'm a big fan of pepsi, although they taste pretty similar.

Topic what grabs your attention when reading profiles?
Posted 06 Aug 2013 17:00

Normally when I read their information, if it's very literate I get attracted. Also, humour is greatly appreciated.

Topic what grabs your attention when reading profiles?
Posted 06 Aug 2013 17:00

Normally when I read their information, if it's very literate I get attracted. Also, humour is greatly appreciated.

Topic How often are you horny?
Posted 29 Jul 2013 01:10

I'm horny every day. Most of the time it's a dull roar in the back of my head, but sometimes it'll turn into a fierce shout and I won't be able to ignore it anymore. I used to masturbate almost everyday, but I've been trying to cut back because I feel like I'm relying on it too much *sheepish smile*

Topic How often do you girls like anal?
Posted 29 Jul 2013 01:06

I know the first time I didn't have a very pleasant experience. But afterwards I was like yearning for it... so I believe if you're not used to it, you should do it very little. Maybe once a week. But if you're used to the idea and feeling, go ahead and go crazy. Just stay clean and safe (:

Topic When giving a BJ are you the kind of woman to suck until he's finished or
Posted 29 Jul 2013 00:57

I give a bj to make him feel good. If I happen to start getting wet, then so what. Unless he asks me to get on top of him, or not to let him finish than I will continue until he does finish. It doesn't bother me. I just hope that he plans to do something with my wet pussy.

Topic What's your opinion on abortion?
Posted 29 Jul 2013 00:49

I have always been pro-choice.

This is not because I am on the fence. I would never give my own up. I could not abort myself. But some people do not have a choice, or know they cannot provide for the baby, and choose to deal with it by aborting. That is not my choice. They have their own values, morals, opinion, experience, situational problems, etc. That I do not know about. And it is not my fate, but their own. I will not hate someone for doing so, but I will be disappointed.

Topic Do you believe in psychics?
Posted 29 Jul 2013 00:41

I believe in the idea of clairvoyance to a point. I'd like to think that when someone is "psychic" they're just a victim of lucid dreaming too often, in which case their dreams start coming true because their subconscious already put it together. But in the case of knowing things about others, etc. I feel like people who are like that are generally just good at reading body language, taking information and assuming, as well as making people "accidentally" give information to point them in the right direction. But, you never know. I believe in supernatural, so why wouldn't clairvoyance be real too?

Topic Bacon how do you like it?
Posted 04 Jul 2013 00:27

Crispy and crunchy. But not burnt. And in anything.

Topic Ahem* Advice Ladies?
Posted 04 Jul 2013 00:21

Okay so. My lover and I got really drunk last weekend and I don't know why, but things escalated to ass play and it normally does not do that. I have told him that I find asses gross and therefore it is generally left untouched, but he started to finger my anus and then told me he had a vibrator and brought it out. This is did not surprise me *much* because he is bisexual, it just put me off guard because I figured he'd keep that from me. I did not stop him doing this however because I was drunk, and it did feel nice until I felt the ripping.

I will say that he did not get lube out for a bit and thus the vibrator, and his penis rammed me a few times without any help. I'm a rather tight girl. I tense my ass a lot and I do squats, so I can see my I would bleed and be ripped. However, my question is not why it happened.

My question is this:

I would like to experiment with this idea, but I do not know how to make anal a less painful experience nearing the beginning (other than lube, which kind of helped but not really) and should I also be concerned that he misses fooling around with other males?

Thanks.

Topic Lush Photographers, Post "Your" Photos Here
Posted 03 Jul 2013 11:31

http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8325/8414510818_33ce1c55d7_c.jpg

Love taking images of candles. They're so mesmerizing.

http://farm9.staticflickr.com/8231/8483622410_0474f62fea_c.jpg

Old car abandoned.

https://fbcdn-sphotos-h-a.akamaihd.net/hphotos-ak-frc1/554396_10152503327535722_282624884_n.jpg

Beautiful bike.

http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7316/9203334554_a70c5dbdcf_c.jpg

Crazy night.

http://farm8.staticflickr.com/7366/9200527423_066ba01146_c.jpg

Just for fun, Aladdin Sane cover copy cat.

Topic Ever wanted to know your personality type?
Posted 25 Apr 2013 22:37

Extroverted (E) 57.14% Introverted (I) 42.86%
Intuitive (N) 70.59% Sensing (S) 29.41%
Feeling (F) 69.7% Thinking (T) 30.3%
Perceiving (P) 62.96% Judging (J) 37.04%

ENFP - "Journalist". Uncanny sense of the motivations of others. Life is an exciting drama. 8.1% of total population.

Well then.

Topic Delta Gamma sorority member threatens to "cunt punt". Haha
Posted 25 Apr 2013 22:28

I just think her head and heart were in the wrong place. She has a misconstrued idea of what is "normal" and what the behaviour is that follows. Someone should have brought her up with a more open mind is all.

Topic Delta Gamma sorority member threatens to "cunt punt". Haha
Posted 25 Apr 2013 22:28

I just think her head and heart were in the wrong place. She has a misconstrued idea of what is "normal" and what the behaviour is that follows. Someone should have brought her up with a more open mind is all.

Topic what are you drinking?
Posted 25 Apr 2013 22:20

Apple juice (:

Topic What To Do?
Posted 21 Mar 2013 00:30

Responded.

Topic What To Do?
Posted 20 Mar 2013 22:32

Might hurt him, to be honest.

Topic What To Do?
Posted 20 Mar 2013 19:43

It sounds to me like bondage is probably the most apropos way for you to express your dominance.

I'm a dominant heterosexual male, so this is a bit of a mental stretch for me, but I suggest you try to tie him up and try to control his orgasm. Stimulate him, but order him not to come and keep him on the edge of an orgasm without letting him actually get there for as long as you can. Or get him close, then make him please you before you let him come.

You don't have to play pain games with him to dominate him. And if you can immobilize him, then his physical superiority will be a moot point. And as for confidence, if you are his mistress, then he should (MUST!) do as he's told.

One caution... you mentioned handcuffs. The kind the cops use are actually really bad for BDSM. They are narrow, unyielding (in the sense that they do not conform well to the shape of the limb to which they are attached), and they can spontaneously tighten. You would do much better to get cuffs intended for BDSM. They tend to be leather, wide, and their inner circumference remains fixed when they're locked.

The only exception is when doing police related role playing. Then, authenticity is key, but other than that, they're not good toys.


Wow, I didn't even think about that. The kind of cuffs we used are BDSM cuffs. Not to worry. I should get some restraints. It's just too band he doesn't have a bedframe. Thank you for the suggestion. You as well JohnC. Much appreciated.

Topic What To Do?
Posted 20 Mar 2013 18:14

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have recently expanded our sex lifestyle into that of BDSM, I suppose. He loves when I'm in control, but the problem is that I'm tiny, not very strong and he doesn't have as big a pain tolerance as he thinks he does. I'm just unsure what to do when he asks me to punish him? We have handcuffs and a blindfold. I generally slap him up, and bite him, make him eat me out (which he loves), but I don't know what else to do, especially if I can't throw him around? I need suggestions... or a better imagination. I think I'm just not very confident in my abilities, in which case, how do I become more confident?

Topic When you suck a man's cock, is it because you are horny or do you just want to make him happy?
Posted 20 Mar 2013 17:55

Generally I just want to please my man. It's not disgusting, it's just ... not very hot until he starts groaning and calling my name. It is bitter sweet sometimes.

Topic What's for dinner tonight?
Posted 20 Mar 2013 17:53

I'm sad to say it but I ended up in a Wendy's and regretted it right after eating. I stay away from fast food for a reason.

Topic perfect amount of pussy hair
Posted 20 Mar 2013 17:51

I love being completely bare & do it myself (shaving) but from a "medical" standpoint it is recommended that you have hair at the "entrance" area to basically catch bacteria. The science of it makes sense but I do not practice what I teach ;)

Interesting quip.

But yes, I didn't shave for a while and then began to because I did not find it attractive if I didn't.

Topic How many pictures on your profile altered?
Posted 20 Mar 2013 17:49

I changed the brightness in them, but that would be about it. I'm a photoshop goddess, but why change my picture to the point of unrecognizable state when I could just as easily use a picture off google? No point.n

Topic Would you have sex with the avatar below you?
Posted 15 Mar 2013 21:00

Without a doubt.

Topic Do you like to sleep naked?
Posted 15 Mar 2013 20:55

I try to. Sometimes it gets too cold. Even with three duvets on. I just feel more comfortable in the nude sleeping.