Forum posts made by bslain

Extroverted (E) 57.14% Introverted (I) 42.86%
Intuitive (N) 70.59% Sensing (S) 29.41%
Feeling (F) 69.7% Thinking (T) 30.3%
Perceiving (P) 62.96% Judging (J) 37.04%

ENFP - "Journalist". Uncanny sense of the motivations of others. Life is an exciting drama. 8.1% of total population.

Well then.

I just think her head and heart were in the wrong place. She has a misconstrued idea of what is "normal" and what the behaviour is that follows. Someone should have brought her up with a more open mind is all.

I just think her head and heart were in the wrong place. She has a misconstrued idea of what is "normal" and what the behaviour is that follows. Someone should have brought her up with a more open mind is all.

Apple juice (:

Responded.

Might hurt him, to be honest.

It sounds to me like bondage is probably the most apropos way for you to express your dominance.

I'm a dominant heterosexual male, so this is a bit of a mental stretch for me, but I suggest you try to tie him up and try to control his orgasm. Stimulate him, but order him not to come and keep him on the edge of an orgasm without letting him actually get there for as long as you can. Or get him close, then make him please you before you let him come.

You don't have to play pain games with him to dominate him. And if you can immobilize him, then his physical superiority will be a moot point. And as for confidence, if you are his mistress, then he should (MUST!) do as he's told.

One caution... you mentioned handcuffs. The kind the cops use are actually really bad for BDSM. They are narrow, unyielding (in the sense that they do not conform well to the shape of the limb to which they are attached), and they can spontaneously tighten. You would do much better to get cuffs intended for BDSM. They tend to be leather, wide, and their inner circumference remains fixed when they're locked.

The only exception is when doing police related role playing. Then, authenticity is key, but other than that, they're not good toys.


Wow, I didn't even think about that. The kind of cuffs we used are BDSM cuffs. Not to worry. I should get some restraints. It's just too band he doesn't have a bedframe. Thank you for the suggestion. You as well JohnC. Much appreciated.

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have recently expanded our sex lifestyle into that of BDSM, I suppose. He loves when I'm in control, but the problem is that I'm tiny, not very strong and he doesn't have as big a pain tolerance as he thinks he does. I'm just unsure what to do when he asks me to punish him? We have handcuffs and a blindfold. I generally slap him up, and bite him, make him eat me out (which he loves), but I don't know what else to do, especially if I can't throw him around? I need suggestions... or a better imagination. I think I'm just not very confident in my abilities, in which case, how do I become more confident?

Generally I just want to please my man. It's not disgusting, it's just ... not very hot until he starts groaning and calling my name. It is bitter sweet sometimes.

I'm sad to say it but I ended up in a Wendy's and regretted it right after eating. I stay away from fast food for a reason.

I love being completely bare & do it myself (shaving) but from a "medical" standpoint it is recommended that you have hair at the "entrance" area to basically catch bacteria. The science of it makes sense but I do not practice what I teach ;)

Interesting quip.

But yes, I didn't shave for a while and then began to because I did not find it attractive if I didn't.

I changed the brightness in them, but that would be about it. I'm a photoshop goddess, but why change my picture to the point of unrecognizable state when I could just as easily use a picture off google? No point.n

Without a doubt.

I try to. Sometimes it gets too cold. Even with three duvets on. I just feel more comfortable in the nude sleeping.

Not entirely a fan. I would think it gets in the way.

For some reason i love missionary. It's not just because of the intimacy, it's because I slightly feel in control when I'm on top. ANd when he's on top I can pull him closer and feel the warmth of his body. I don't know. Sometimes original is better.

Vanilla chai tea with some cinnamon on top (:

I get to paint for an auction and I'm happy to get my art out there!

I had one. We had dated before but things ended poorly. A few years later we met up again and all the sexual tension was released. He's not the most sane person in the world though so we ended up not meeting any more.. I was later told that he had been diagnosed with schizophrenia.

I'm still afraid of ketchup, for whatever irrational reason.

My day? Slow but productive. I felt the need to sew, and I managed to nearly finish a dress, so that's good.

I don't believe I've fallen in love, or even know what love is yet, but there's been a time where I felt miserable because I could not be with someone.

Eyes, eyes, eyes.
I know it's cheesy, but if your eyes smile and seem a tad naughty then I'm all over you.

I think I'd like to try it, but it'd have to be slow and steady? I don't enjoy too much tension down there.

Problem being that if you're too nice, you get in the "friend zone" and sometimes that's a good thing but depending on the girl they may not want to take you out of the friend zone. Also what is dependent is the girl interests, a nice guy can be good for someone who isn't use to being treated nicely, other times a girl just feels as though you're not a challenge. So perhaps be nice but don't be an open book? That way there's an air of mystery about you ;D

I believe that creativity is a good tool to be taught but it should not be mandatory. I think that people should be taught how to compromise, problem solve and think critically. Also being capable of making a career goal earlier on is a good thing. Something that should be advanced in schools is guidance. More and more teens are graduating high school without any idea or little to no idea as to where they're going, or they drop out of university realising that wasn't what they wanted to do. It's becoming a problem.

I find that uniforms turn me off. I'm not entirely sure why, but I do believe that I'd prefer someone in casual clothing. Transfers the idea that they're easy-going and like to have fun.

Nails = signs of hygiene. I agree, if someone has horrible nails that are not maintained or taken care of then it's a sign as to how the rest of their body is cared for. There are going to be some instances where there's an exception but a lot of the time I'd prefer cleanliness and hygienic bangs than ones I know are dirty.

It's a well known fact that Canada will save the world one day.

While all the other countries have been whittling down their armies and military arsenal with meaningless wars, Canada has been stockpiling, training and saving up for the only one that really matters: the Zombie Invasion.

Yep, we're covered. :)

I agree wholeheartedly :D

I would really like some chocolate mousse right now.