Topic what are you drinking?
17 Feb 2014 16:04
Red wine of an unknown variety. Taste is adequate. Alcohol content will be adequate soon.
Topic What do you plan for Valentine's Day?
13 Feb 2014 20:23
I'm surprising my sweetie with a cooking class all about chocolate. Then a quick trip to Tiffany's where she will refuse anything, but I may still "make" her pick out something. After that ... I have hopes but no plans.
Topic Road Head
26 Jan 2014 21:39
The right car makes a big difference. At lease for me.
Topic Rimming, yes or no?
17 Jan 2014 11:46
When I play, everything on the playground is fair game.
Topic wakeing up horny
03 Jan 2014 21:13
Sometimes I wake up horny.
Sometimes I just let her sleep.
Topic Emotional vs Physical Cheating - what upsets you more?
03 Jan 2014 21:06
A drunken one night stand could be a lapse in judgement. If it has only happened once, and they did confess and show the proper amount of remorse, then I think I could forgive it. I'm assuming of course that my partner has displayed great character up to that point.
Scenario two: Um, that is dishonesty for a prolonged period. It is not a lapse in judgment. It has become a character choice. Your partner now wants to be the kind of person that decieves and continues the deception. This would be much harder for me to forgive. Not impossible, but much, much more difficult.
Trust can be broken in an instant. It take a long time to rebuild. Love goes on past reason, past circumstance, past sanity.
Topic Men love sexy lingerie and the women who wear it? Fuck (fact) or Fiction?
03 Jan 2014 20:43
I don't feel objectified when I clean the kitchen, take out the trash, or fix the toilet, ... or any of the hundred other ways that I serve my wife and say in a way that she understands and feels "I love you."
It's the way she most feels as if I "get" her and want to be with her. I know, it doesn't completely make sense to me either, but I assure you it works. It makes her feel closer to me emotionally and want to be closer to me physically.
Now - lingerie is like a place setting for a fine meal. It doesn't REALLY make the steak taste better, but I sometimes think it does. When she puts on lingerie for me, it is a gift, and a wonderful gesture of her love for me.
She honestly doesn't like lingerie. I've had lovers who did. They wore it for both of us (or so I'd like to think).
The one rule I think is most important for women - BE COMFORTABLE! If it doesn't make you feel good, don't wear it. If you aren't having a good time, then I probably won't have a good time either. If you're wearing my shirt and tie - that can qualify for some sexy lingerie. If you feel comfy in an NFL jersey and a thong - YEAH! we can work with that. If you want to go with the garter belt and corset, now we're in the big leagues! But whatever you choose, make sure it appeals to you on some level.
Topic Nude Pics
27 Dec 2013 07:46
Well, I am highly offended. How dare you come on to the lush stories site and use it to post naked pictures of yourself! What kind of place do you think this is? The next thing you know people will be coming in here to talk about their sexual exploits, using vulgar terms, and implying that they are having wild experiences.
Do not make me take you across my knee young lady.
Oh, ... wait.
Topic Guys in panties
10 Dec 2013 19:35
It's okay. I'm a doctor.
Topic Golden Showers?
05 Dec 2013 20:49
1. Not sure that I actually do becuase I've never experienced it.
2. I like the thought of someone being so open with me to let me experience a very initmate act.
3. The thought of someone physically letting me be with them as they play out a fantasy, or act they're thinking is a turn on for them - win.
Topic Would you go to an orgy?
01 Dec 2013 10:24
I love the fantasy. But as a reality ... ungh! Probably not. Think of all the "thank you" notes you'd have to write.
Topic Guys - do you have any problem with her getting rough and physical with you - such as smacking your
01 Dec 2013 09:43
I'm not into sub behavior. Or really dom stuff either. I'm a dedicated hedonist - pleasure all around!
That said, I enjoy MOST of the things you mentioned if the situation merits it. I've never had my mouth taped (seems needlessly limiting to me), and I'd never go for the testical squishing (just no).
Once I was with a gorgeous girl that I'd had an interest in for some time. She asked my friend what I liked, and he told her I'd enjoy having some nails run up my back. Well, she took him quite seriously and I ended up with some stripes. It was a surprise, and I ended up with some stripes for about a week, but fun. However, I immediatly let her know that kind of digging into my flesh was not my desire as a steady practice. We found many other ways to stimulate each other that didn't involve me scaring my neighbors at 3 am.
Topic what if I can't orgasm.
28 Nov 2013 16:38
I had a girlfriend who had never orgasmed. No matter what position, activity, or amount of time, she simply could not physically or psychologically get to that point. She was unable to mastrubate to orgasm. I have to say, it was a hit to my machismo. I love giving pleasure. I felt like I was stopping short of the mark. She never seemed to share that feeling. It was a fact of life to her and she was a very fun and giving lover.
Topic Do Tattoo'd women turn you on?
18 Nov 2013 21:03
I change the art on my walls fairly often. I change the background on my laptop and the home screen of my phone.
As a point of interest, yes, I can find some tats attractive on a woman. But I don't feel like they would hold long term allure.
Granted, if they had some meaning or wit to them, I'm sure I'd love to know the story. But remember, brevity is the sould of wit.
17 Nov 2013 22:59
It's not a turn on for me, but it's certainly not a reason to not be intimate. If we are getting ready to exchange bodily fluids, then why would I begin drawing lines at which ones were acceptable or not?
Topic Would you?
08 Nov 2013 16:44
Yes. But I'm make him promise to only be thinking of me at the time.
26 Oct 2013 19:40
The one I own is circumcised. I don't remember it happening. Although, I have always had a sneaking suspicion that they took an extra inch off.