Topic What is the funnest thing you have done naked???
22 Sep 2012 15:05
...I'm lost. I can think of things that are both much more fun, and much funnier that I've done naked. I think the grammar and use of a made-up word are confusing me.
Topic A womans perspective would really help me out here
22 Sep 2012 15:03
My advice could be very complicated, but instead, I'll just say the following:
A strap-on is not a finger. It's larger, and less forgiving. It's also less forgiving than a penis, because it isn't attached to the person using it, so they don't feel what's going on as directly. It's fun, but it is hard to find a harness that will fit a tool of the right size- at least for starting out. Use a small dildo, butt-plug, or vibrator at first (I recommend a vibrator, they feel amazing, and over prolonged usage will provide a helpful numbing affect). Also, use lube. Don't be afraid of the lube.
20 Sep 2012 14:58
I don't do a lot of legitimate conversing on Lush, but when I do, it's not usually that sex-tastic.
Topic Your Opinion.
19 Sep 2012 21:31
I would probably not. Have not. The idea does not do much for me. If there's just text, to me it feels like it should be an amazing story. Maybe if there were some intense role-playing, or if my partner was far, far away for too long.
19 Sep 2012 21:28
It matters for guys too.
What that doesn't say though, is that just like there's a "too small", there's a "too big". Those sizes are relative and completely different for every woman or man.
18 Sep 2012 21:50
What an interesting question. How delightfully original and creative. Well phrased too, I must add.
Apparently I'm feeling a bit crochety and bitchy after all. Good evening, Lush.
Topic Uneven booobs!
18 Sep 2012 21:43
It is indeed totally normal. As an aside, it's the same with testicles. Also, nipples, eyes, nostrils, and big toes. That's without getting into musculature, organs or the skeleton. The body isn't perfectly even. We notice our own quirks, but the mind adjusts for it when we look at others. Reliable studies show that we see individuals extremely differently than they see themselves, or for that matter, the way other people see them.
Topic Women coming in public
18 Sep 2012 21:39
I'm curious who would think it's hot for a guy to do it discreetly (more difficult perhaps, but certainly possible), and who would think it's wildly inappropriate. Moreover, if there's overlap between those who think it's hot for women to do thinking it's hot for men, and who thinks it's inappropriate for just one gender. What started as a grouchy rant about double standards is now just an honest curiosity, because I realize there's no reason to be grouchy. Nobody's said anything to make me think that, it was just my preconceptions. I feel a little better now. Thanks, Lush.
Topic Don't You Get Tired?
18 Sep 2012 13:48
I acknowledge upfront that I have no vagina, but yes.
It's incredibly annoying. I really, really would love it if it stopped sometime soon. Not counting on it, though.
Topic What is the sexiest thing a girl can wear to bed?
18 Sep 2012 13:45
...depends, as with many of my answers to vague questions.
Not much for shoes of any kind, but sometimes I think a single understated necklace is absolutely stunning.
Topic What makes you cum?
18 Sep 2012 13:43
...that's a complex question. In my case, unlike many men, It's about eighty or eighty-five percent psychological, so it's quite varied.
Topic what's the difference of making love with just fucking?
18 Sep 2012 13:42
I think there is no defined/definable difference, and that it's in the moment. You can be in the middle of "making love", and hear your partner say "Fuck me!". That doesn't invalidate the emotional aspects of the experience, nor does it necessarily mean the experience is non-emotional for your partner. It's ephemeral.
Topic Would you be able to tell?
18 Sep 2012 13:39
To be fair, I have a lot of physiological traits and quirks that tend toward female biology. I theorize it's a hormonal thing, considering how trans I am, but as a bio-male, I feel qualified to answer.
I would definitely be able to tell. I know what my mate smells like, and for the most part, I know what all my friends smell like. When I lived in a communal house, I used to be able to identify if somebody had been in my room, how long ago, and who it was. I'm kind of a freak when it comes to my olfactory senses, though.
I'm curious to find out what other guys will say, though. Good question.
Topic Bald Genitalia….
17 Sep 2012 12:43
Eh. I don't think it has much to do with anything as creepy as reverting to per-pubescence. I think it's just one more style. Like a man shaving his beard entirely. Or for that matter, a man shaving his pubic region.
Topic Guys with a foot fetish.
15 Sep 2012 23:11
They just are, to some people.
I think that people get nervous about having a foot fetish because it's the classic. Though the most common of all the sexual fetishes, it's still a fetish, and that makes a lot of men (and women) a little uncomfortable. For those of us who have other fetishes, it's not so hard to admit, but even I took several months to mention it to my partner. To be fair, I wasn't completely aware of it until fairly recently.
It also falls in a different category than fetishes like spanking, hair-pulling, choking, etc. Anything that falls in or near the categories of DS or outright BDSM, is a different thing to admit, for a lot of people.
In my case, I just find feet attractive, and enjoy their touch, but it doesn't go beyond that. I also enjoy spanking and being spanked, as well as restraints, candles and a variety of other things, but (for the moment at least) tend to approach all of those things at the lower levels. I imagine being hugely compelled toward something but never having really experienced it would be a bit frustrating and embarrassing.
Topic Ever fallen in love with someone you can't have?
15 Sep 2012 23:05
Don't we all at some point? Maybe not, but I think those few who don't are lucky, and the rest of us are the status quo. I'm now extremely happy with my partner, though.
Topic Where do you masturbate??
15 Sep 2012 23:03
Mostly at home. Elsewhere occasionally. Camping, of course. On rare occasion, while hiking I'll wander off into the woods and find a nice spot- climb a tree or something.
Topic snowballing or cum kissing
15 Sep 2012 15:27
Yeah, it's important to remember that it doesn't necessarily include the originator of that load. Sometimes it occurs in group sex too. I'm not into it really, but it's not a huge turn-off either. Since I'm here, had to answer.
Topic Common definition needed...
15 Sep 2012 15:23
I think it's a word with a floating definition, but in terms of the "marital status" line on a Lush profile, I think it's a declaration of intent.
Topic Kate Middleton Naked
15 Sep 2012 15:21
What I don't get, is why everybody cares. In my life, I've never understood the obsession with celebrities. Just because I don't think a rich, famous, noble and/or royal individual should get paid as much as they do, does not mean they should lose their rights to privacy. Many rich people (and nobility/royalty) have committed a lot of crimes in order to get that rich, and maybe they should lose some of their rights and freedoms because of that, but in general, I think the right to privacy should be much more resilient.
Topic Do you like to be solicited for casual sex by strangers in bars?
15 Sep 2012 15:18
I do not.
I can't see why I would. I know that some people do, but to me... ick.
That's not to say that I'm against casual sex. I met the love of my existence through what could have been a one-night stand. We've only seen the other dude a couple of times since then, but that's okay. His (slightly creepy) enthusiasm was the catalyst for a relationship, but that was at a party, and not a bar. Also, I knew him a little, though ironically, I hardly knew she who would become my girlfriend at all then.
Cheers to those who find love or enjoyment that way, though.
Topic She is good looking but...advice please
15 Sep 2012 15:15
I say slow down. I'm in an oddly absolutist mood today, though. You've recently met and you're talking about marriage? I assume you've had some sex then. Probably more than a little, so I guess one valid question is: "Do you enjoy it?".
Also, what exactly is the problem with her "body size"? Are you saying that she's a little outside what you look for, or are you saying she's one fried chicken dinner away from coronary arrest? There's also a lot to the difference between being heavy and being overweight. You can be big and simultaneously healthy, so it really shouldn't be a big deal as long as she's healthy. I think that the relationship is only set up for failure if you frame it that way in your mind. She makes you happy, so all you have to do is make her happy.