Topic Initiating Oral Sex ?
13 Sep 2012 15:06
It's usually all of the above, but sometimes just A and/or B. Other times it's just because I know my partner wants some attention. Occasionally, it's because I want to entertain myself while we're doing something I find less interesting than my partner.
Topic Which is hotter.. first kiss or first fuck?
12 Sep 2012 00:21
An age old question...
I tend to go with the kiss, if only because it's first. If for some reason it's not, then the fuck is probably either really fantastic, or REALLY not, so my answer (in general) stands.
Topic Are you Romantic?
11 Sep 2012 14:48
I actually like your definition quite well. Utilizing that notion I'm quite the romantic. I'm romantically floored by my girlfriend, of course, but I like that your phrasing expands it beyond that. The way a pilot, or somebody who wants to become one might be deeply connected to the romance of flight, I'm attached to the romance of the theater, or the written word.
Topic Someone For Everyone?
08 Sep 2012 20:45
I got so sick of dating, romance, sex and the whole scene that I recused myself, as it were, for about sixteen or seventeen months. I had a couple of ill-advised companionate flings afterward, and then another six months of solitude. After that, my current girlfriend (and love of my life) and I were introduced. It took us about five or six weeks and one complete fluke of a drunk threesome to realize we were perfect for each other, and here we are. If there's somebody for someone as crazy as me, there's definitely somebody for everybody. Just being patient and accepting that the world will put you together eventually seems to be the key.
08 Sep 2012 20:24
If you actually want to be with this girl long term, I wouldn't keep it from her. The definition of sex can stretch quite a bit though. Especially to include oral sex. I think you're worrying too much about it.
Topic How long can you guys bang a girl for?
08 Sep 2012 20:00
Really? This thread is still living? I still say four hours of continuous fucking is too much for whomever is on either end, but whatever.
Topic Do guys like being controlling or controlled more during sex?
08 Sep 2012 19:47
This is a complex question. In a similar thread Kimasa was telling us about the physiopsychology of sexual hormones. Apparently being "controlled" ups the levels of oxytocin in the body which (in general) increases the sexual experience in women, whereas "controlling" somebody tends to up the testosterone levels, which obviously is more of a male thing. Biologically speaking, I'm kind of an exception to the rule (assuming I'm not in possession of some small intersex organ I'm not aware of - as could any of us be!) in that I like to be controlled.
Topic Do you think a guy could make a gal cum without having sexual intercourse
08 Sep 2012 19:21
This seems like a really, really odd question for woman to be asking. Moreover, a 25 year old woman. I don't say that because I'm judging you, but because I'm curious as to how this situation came to be.
It seems like you would know what you do to make yourself cum. He can do that too. If he doesn't know how, you can teach him. If he's into you, he'll definitely pursue that option, unless he's a jerk. Again, if he's not a jerk, he can and should go down on you. You'll know what feels good, and so you'll know how to guide him. To a certain extent, at least.
He should also be able to help guide you in making him "feel good" as you put it...
Now for the big question: You're 25... and don't want to have intercourse? This again is ABSOLUTELY NOT A JUDGMENT , but it is a curiosity to me. I don't quite understand. I do, in as much as I didn't want to have sex for years after it's normal to experiment, but that's primarily because when I lost my virginity - way too young - it was involuntary and needless to say there was some psychological trauma involved. If I've struck too close to home, I apologize, but I'm curious why you don't want to? Also, as a side note, most women don't usually orgasm simply from vaginal intercourse with no other stimulation.
Anyway, I hope that's a little bit useful.
Topic What happened to just being nice?
08 Sep 2012 18:59
I'm not sure what's up with that. I have a lot of friends from L.A, New York, London, etc. who have moved to my little corner of the world and they collectively nicknamed it "the land of the terminally polite", and even I think the world is made up of jerks. What must it be like outside this little valley?
Topic Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
08 Sep 2012 16:32
See you all over the forums, you're usually insightful, and you've never said anything which really pissed me off. I raise my glass to your accomplishment. Or at least I would if it were not bad luck to toast with water.
Topic Ass Play
08 Sep 2012 12:14
Yes. Of course it's a good thing. It definitely intensifies things, and my partner and I both love it.
Topic Has anyone ever found your sex toys?
08 Sep 2012 12:11
Yep. In high school and the early parts of college (when I lived at home) I kept my sex toys in front of the secret compartment I built in my desk for hiding my varying party supplies - booze and... whatnot - just in case they got too close. Funny enough, I never got caught with a single party related object... unless you count the toys themselves, but I doubt that part was too self-explanatory.
Topic Bad Habits
08 Sep 2012 12:07
...talk with my mouth open? Surely you mean chew, good sir.
Topic Cock sucking
08 Sep 2012 12:06
How many times has this been posted? Yes. Like it. Thoroughly enjoy it. Search function, people!
Topic be honest girls
08 Sep 2012 12:03
I'm curious, though. Were you suggesting that those two characteristics are mutually exclusive?
Topic i have surgical scars. is it a turn off?
08 Sep 2012 11:56
For anybody worth your interest, that should just not be a problem. I'm speaking as a man on this rare, rare occasion, and I can say definitively that any man who is actively bothered by it or can't see your beauty beyond that, was never going to be able to see your beauty, and that makes him kind of a jerk. That's what I think, anyway.
Topic Fast cummer.. does it really matter?
08 Sep 2012 11:50
Yeah, if you're getting hard again, it definitely doesn't matter. If you're making her cum with your tongue and fingers and whatever else, it probably wouldn't anyway. Good for you, man.
Topic Simultaneous Orgasms
08 Sep 2012 11:45
Sorry for the double post, but it occurs to me I'm an idiot.
Of course the timing matters. It just doesn't have to be exactly the same all the time. Different can be great.
Topic Simultaneous Orgasms
08 Sep 2012 11:45
I don't think it's something to worry about too hard. As long as both of you wind up satisfied, does the timing really matter?
Topic WARNING!!! POLITICAL!!!! DNC changes rule for party position against delegates votes!
07 Sep 2012 17:40
Sure. I was just saying.
And I would challenge your premise about what you can and cannot expect with regards to calling out politicians based on party, but maybe it's a regional issue. I'm in a pretty balanced area, even though the democrats here like to think of it as super-liberal. I'm pretty aggravated by everybody. All the time. In truth though, I've been too distracted to pay much attention this cycle. I'm not out there volunteering like I used to, and I don't feel as bad about it as I thought I would.
Topic Why Are So Many Girls Lesbian or Bisexual?
07 Sep 2012 17:34
I still question the general premise of this post. I think we've validated (as a culture) the idea of girls kissing on other girls, or playing with each other more than the other way around, but a great deal of that is not due actually to a sexual inclination, so much as a social circumstance. I think it's probably not as skewed as you seem to think.