Topic Prostate Cancer chances high - I guess I should get mine removed now?
Posted 21 May 2013 19:37
She made the right decision for her own peace of mind. Her risks were very high with that genetic profile. Breasts are not essential organs once you are done nursing kids. The impact can't be compared to prostate removal. She is wealthy enough to get them reconstructed. Her husband and kids would surely rather have her around without the original breasts than in the ground with them.
Why second guess her decision? I am not a big fan (I did like Mr. and Mrs. Smith) but I think letting the public know is helpful for other women facing these risks.
Topic For the more experienced ladies
Posted 12 Mar 2013 20:32
Huh? Those don't have much in common with boobs. They don't weigh enough to get pulled down much with gravity. What you start with is pretty much what you end with. I'm trying not to think about what kind of weird sex play would change them significantly...
Topic What's Your Story Pet Peeve?
Posted 12 Mar 2013 20:21
It seems weird and disconcerting when the gorgeous 18 year old chick throws herself at the middle-aged ordinary guy without much explanation just because she's inexplicably horny. If he's George Clooney it would make sense. I suppose that's a "targeted" fantasy for a particular sex/age bracket not aimed at a general audience.
Topic For those with real avatars
Posted 08 Jan 2013 19:28
My Avatar is me (well, me last year) but like others, it's cropped enough to be unrecognizable. I did hear from another Lushie who has the same bikini, though.
Topic Ever masturbate to fall asleep?
Posted 07 Jan 2013 20:28
It's a last resort, but it usually works! Only problem is if he wakes up because the bed is shaking a bit. Then all bets are off as to how much longer we're up..
Topic Who is your missed opportunity fantasy?
Posted 12 Dec 2012 17:34
I could have lost my virginity two or three times before I actually did way back when. I should have done it! I could have used the experience and the fellows were cute. Youth is wasted on the young.
Topic Petitions to secede from the United States after the election
Posted 11 Dec 2012 20:37
This is silly. Most of those states couldn't make it economically without all the federal taxes from the richer coastal "blue" states to subsidize them. Yes, the blue states are the "makers", and the red states are the "takers" despite what they think.
Topic Underwear
Posted 03 Jul 2012 20:23
I like to match, especially when dressed up. However as long as the undies are nice and not orange I will wear non-matching. I have something against pumpkin-colored underwear.
Topic I am Bi-Polar/Manic Depressive. (I suffer from a mental illness called Cyclothymia.)
Posted 19 Jun 2012 20:38
I'm also very late to this thread but I wanted chime in with a supportive 2c.
I have a lot of experience with BP II and depression in my family.
Work with your doctors to get the meds right and keep your friends close. Getting the right medicine and therapy can take months, years.. And then your body changes and it can all go to pot. But.. we keep on trying.
Have you seen the musical "Next to Normal"? I'd like to see it myself. It's supposed to be painfully funny.
Thanks for being brave and honest. Every time someone talks about mental health in public, it reduces the stigma for someone else.
Topic Interest in You v. Your Writing
Posted 19 Jun 2012 20:21
My characters lead a much more exciting life than I do.
However, there are pieces of my personality in them. In order to make a story feel alive to a reader, I think the characters have to be accessible to the writer. The writer needs to be able to put herself in the place of the characters, whether it be through personal experience or the intuition that comes from observation.
Topic Should creationism be taught in schools?
Posted 13 Jun 2012 19:33
Sure Creationism can be taught in schools. But not in Science classes. It should only be taught in in Comparative Religion classes.
Topic girls and guys
Posted 13 Jun 2012 19:19
In the U.S. it's a cultural habit that baby boys get circumcised. A lot of women in the U.S. are just used to seeing them that way, so that fosters a preference. With the exception of religious groups, the rest of the world doesn't share that preference.
Research says: There may be some (minor) sanitary and disease-resistance advantages for a circumcised cock, but if you keep yourself clean that advantage probably zeros out. There is speculation that there is some advantage in sensation for an uncircumcised cock, but the circumcised guys overwhelmingly say they don't have a problem with sensation.
Topic Why are you covering up your keister?
Posted 13 Jun 2012 19:09
Some women think it is too big. A long shirt can also be flattering if you don't have an hourglass figure.
I tend to cover my ass when I forget to check the rear view and discover that I have panty lines. (Wore my workout underwear instead of my nice ones..)
Topic Ladies, a word of advice
Posted 05 Jun 2012 20:14
I rubbed it onto his stomach once. He did not appreciate. It's supposed to be good for your skin, right?
Topic whats your favorite type of story?
Posted 31 May 2012 20:34
I like a bit of plot with my sex. Characters that read like people rather than rubber dolls. Some interior monologue and motivation. Details that work to put you in the scene.
The reluctance category is fun because it provides built-in conflict, which is exciting.
Topic How important is a man's height?
Posted 31 May 2012 19:41
Short guys can certainly be sexy, but being short really is a disadvantage. I'm a short girl, but I am still initially more attracted to guys of average height or taller. There's something viscerally appealing about looking up and feeling rather enveloped by a guy.
My advice for short guys looking to attract women is
1) Be very fit (noticeably trim and cut) and well groomed.
2) Develop your confidence
3) Look for women in places other than clubs and bars. You're more likely to get together with a woman who perceives some personality and shared interests. Clubs and bars are shallow places and tend to attract those with shallower criteria. If you do go to clubs and bars, go with the outlook that you are just going to have a good time with your pals (guys or girls) and don't expect to pick anyone up. That way if you happen to beat the odds it will be a pleasant surprise.
Topic Your Screen Name
Posted 10 May 2012 20:32
A Charlotte Russe is a dessert. I thought it sounded tasty.
Topic how many guys like a bigger girl
Posted 01 May 2012 20:35
Thanks for the pictures. I am much thinner than the "chubby" girl but I think she looks rather nice. The "athletic" girl is athletic but looks rather the type of a long distance runner (quite thin). I think there's a more attractive athletic type without so many bones showing. I'll look for some pictures.
Anyway, there are a lot of men that like bigger girls. They are not all unattractive men. That asumption is quite silly. In some cultures only chubbier women are considered attractive.
Topic Prison; revenge or rehabilitation?
Posted 01 May 2012 20:04
Sorry you won't get many takers on Imposing Sharia law here...
We need to get rid of for-profit prison outsourcing. It doesn't save money and it invites corruption.