Well I guess I'm just your average joe, I came to Lush for the reading and really didn't expect the social media which I guess is kinda cool. So I'm feeling my way around (pun intended) for a bit and will add as I go. I'm a huge fan of stockings and garters, and a lot of the reading I do is to learn more about how to become better in bed and to add a little spice to our love life, the stories I enjoy the most are "awakening stories" if you will were the woman (or man but I haven't seen many of those yet) moves out of their comfort zone and discovers this whole other person.
When I was younger it was all about the video, now I seem to have graduated to reading. I visualize the scenes I'm reading to get started then go with the flow.
OK so who wants a beer, or a glass of wine ?.....I'm buyin....
I think Naughty Nurse hit the nail on the head!! "YEE HAW"!!
Some folks really need to learn their history ( not the revisionist crap they teach in schools these days) The Civil War started over states rights slavery didn't become the main issue until Lincoln issued the Emaciation Proclamation I think tying the Confederate flag to just that issue is an over simplification, a good comparison might be the " Don't tread on me" flag which stood for the same thing. Please don't misunderstand I'm not advocating any agenda just that some times we need to know more of the "why's" for things. Didn't mean to step on any ones toes.
I'm really surprised I expected to hear about things like clitoral alignment and long strokes or short strokes, rubbing the head on your g spot on the in stroke or out stroke. Maybe I'm on the forward side of the curve? Oh yes and you can write your name in the snow too!
For the longest time I had some issues with premature ejaculation and found that a desensitizing condom (Trojan makes one its called Extended pleasure) worked well for me. I found it as much a mental issue as a physical one and the condom helped me break the "self fulfilling prophecy". I have also been using a testosterone booster and found it to be a help as well. You may also try some kegal exercises ( I know I spelled it wrong ) to tighten you up a bit and help with your enjoyment. I see that you have tried lots of toys, have you tried a penis sleeve also called an extension it can add some length and girth to your hubby as well as keep him from becoming over stimulated, I hope you find a solution a great emotional relationship is really hard to find, you are obviously committed to each other and love each other very much. As a side note my wife had a hysterectomy 10 weeks ago and over the past 2 weeks we have been trying unsuccessfully to have intercourse, so I can understand some of your frustration (you have dealt with it far longer than I) and the anguish of seeing the one you love in emotional pain. GOOD LUCK and keep us posted!!
I'd been reading the "length or width" thread and a recurring theme seemed to be "how to use it". So how do you want it to be used? Besides just in out repeat (although that can be fun as well)
Thanks I know the hardest part is the first step, I'm not sure I could handle her rejection or having her be disgusted with me but if I don't try I wont know.
I saw this topic on before and have searched but was unable to find it, My question is I have things on my bucket list that I know my wife will never go for, anal, mmf, ffm, to name a couple. Do I pursue them outside of my marriage or resign myself to the fact that they will never happen, what say you?
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