Forum posts made by curlygirly

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 08 Jul 2013 16:38


Topic Cam Fun Competition Winners
Posted 07 Jul 2013 17:12

Congratulations to the winners. Definitely a fierce competition!

Topic Why so few for the guys?
Posted 07 Jul 2013 16:53

I was browsing the forums, as I do so often when I am at home and bored, and I decided to go to the "ask the guys" section to see if I could answer a few questions. What I found was mostly out-dated questions. Now how should I eat up my spare time? (not my actual question)

So my question for you all is, "Why so few inquiries for the men?". dontknow

I expect some solid answers ladies.

Honestly, I'm not really interested in the opinion of a bunch of random guys, so I don't post questions. I'm only interested in the opinion of the man in my life. I actually will ask him a lot of the questions posted on Lush. He'll usually groan when I tell him I want to ask him something I read here. evil4

There are a lot of questions in Ask the Girls, but it's usually the same questions being asked repeatedly including: the great pubic hair debate (landing strip), do you prefer cut or uncut cocks (only been with cut), do women really prefer large cocks (I don't), and spitter/swallower (swallower). A lot of the questions asked seemed to be voyeuristic and something to get the guy off or a fishing expedition to see if he can find women who will cyber, send nude pics, or meet for a hookup. Definitely a case of quantity over quality. My 2 cents

Topic Am i really that unattractive?
Posted 07 Jul 2013 07:47

One thing that might help in talking to lasses is being positive.

Take a look back through your blogs on here. Overall, what is the lasting impression that you get from them? Read them at face value, as if they were my blogs on my profile. How do they make you feel? What do they say about me as a person? Could you seek to change any of those statements, for better or worse? Do you think that I would be a person with whom you could find instant amusement and shared happiness?

Blogs often tend to be overthought, or spur of the moment. But they all reflect a part of our inner self. Looking back at our history and statements is sometimes a good way to find out what sort of impression we give people, or how they might read us.

As soon as I notice myself moaning (not in the fun way) about the state of my inner being, where anybody and everybody can read it (sadly, I do it all the time), I know I have to stop and take positive action.

Sometimes, an issue is not about getting people to fancy us and want to be with us. Sometimes, it's about learning to look at how we show which parts of ourselves. don't mean hide the pain, loneliness and frustration. I mean look at and share the better parts of ourselves in not just our words, but our attitudes too. Because our attitude to life really does come across. This in itself can have an enormous impact on how others see us.

It doesn't matter how you try to behave or flirt or treat women, in my opinion. If your attitude is similar to mine, then that will come across in your very atmosphere. You can be the most wonderful man in the world, but if most of what you display is a poor ol' me mentality, then that will have an effect on your "aura", even unconciously.

What makes you feel good? What do you enjoy? What makes you want to share the fun in your life? What is great about the person that you are? If you can begin to find those things, it will come across in your words and personality. As I said before, try to stop worrying about the reactions of other people to you. Try to think about the effects of yourself on them. And the first way to do that is to honestly look at yourself from outside.

I'm not saying that this is easy; far from it. But perhaps this might be a key to you finding some confidence in currently being single, and later, confidence in sharing a growing relationship with somebody.


I really hesitated posting here, because I don't know you well, but you've been sweet the few times we've spoken. However, I think Shy hit the nail on the head with her post.

To be perfectly blunt, Jay, you have a chicken little air about you, and the "sky is falling" in almost every one of your blogs. As Shy posted, look back through your blogs and read them out loud. Would you want to get involved with this guy whose life is constantly "falling apart?" Between that and your "goodbye cruel Lush" blogs, because your friends here are disappointing you, it makes people run in the other direction. You come across as needy, whiny, desperate, and attention mongering. (I did say I was going to be blunt, right) confused1

I will just assume this is the same vibe you give off in real life and it has a lot more to do with your inability to attract women more than your weight, receding hair line, and acne.

I hope you got some answers to your questions, Jay. Sorry if they're not the answers you wanted. Good luck!

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 05 Jul 2013 16:08

Lessons starting tonight. Ole!

Topic Wild First Pitch!
Posted 05 Jul 2013 14:48

She definitely has some skills. Hey, is that a Furry at 50 seconds? Embarassed

Damn! I've been on Lush too long. evil4

Topic What Are You Wearing?
Posted 05 Jul 2013 10:43

bikini bottoms and tank top. Need to get a bit of sun.

Topic I was caught by my girl friends, friends coming out of the shower naked
Posted 05 Jul 2013 08:02

The other day I was taking a shower at my girl friends house. I thought we we alone so I walked to the kitchen naked I was caught by my girl friends 2 friends, they said something like holly crap or shit. I got an instant erection that curves up rigid fully erect they where shocked they said dam dude your cocks really big and hard. Then my girl friend walked in the kitchen I was embarrassed standing there with an erection. My girl friend asked them if they liked what they were seeing they said they did and told her she was one lucky girl I was asked how big is your cock I told them 9& 1/2 inches long 6 inches around, they said that big before or curve up like that so hard. My girl friend asked if they wanted to watch her give me a hand job they sure did watch. I STOOD THERE WITH MY GIRL FRIEND RUBBING MY COCK AS THEY WATCHED LAUGHED and said stuff I held back for close to a half hour before I ejaculated I shot 4 times then ran to the bathroom until they left. What would you lady's have done if you were there? Alo what do you think about my size and the way my erection curves up? what do you think about me getting a had job?

Great start to your story!! hello1

Maybe you can make one of the "friends" your sister, so you can throw on an incest tag. thumbup

Also, I would recommend that you have someone help you with the grammar and spelling, because the mods will reject that shit faster than you can say "curved cock." Good luck! Can't wait to read the finished product.

Topic Who is your celebrity crush?
Posted 05 Jul 2013 07:24

And since I'm such a good friend, I would share Dave with Nikki and Mazz. So a foursome it is! Embarassed

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Topic Happy Birthday, Nikki703!!
Posted 03 Jul 2013 04:37

occasion7 Happy Birthday to my favorite Rock n Roll Lushie! Hope you have a wonderful Birthday! occasion7

occasion9 occasion9 occasion9

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 02 Jul 2013 11:09

Topic Black and Whites
Posted 02 Jul 2013 10:56

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 01 Jul 2013 14:42


Topic Men owning toys?
Posted 01 Jul 2013 14:15

Old Dildos Never Die, They Just Fade Away!!

Sadly, the same can NOT be said for old vibes. crybaby crybaby crybaby

To the long gone OP: No, I wouldn't like that at all. I wouldn't want her old jewelry either. Besides, think how much fun it would be to pick out and break in new toys together.

Topic Chicago on 6/29
Posted 29 Jun 2013 09:16

I will be in town, but I already have my fun lined up. evil4

Don't forget to hit the Shedd. Love that place; all the big fishies! Always wanted to do one of the architectural tours on the Chicago River. If you go, let me know how you liked it. thumbup

Edit: Too bad the Taste is so much later this year. Always a good time to be had there.

Topic Do you prefer pictures in a story ?
Posted 29 Jun 2013 08:41

Unless it's a historic biography or something, I stopped liking pictures in my stories in about third grade. I read because I like to use my imagination. If I wanted to see pictures, I would watch porn. My 2 cents I also like very vague descriptions of the characters, which keep my imagination working. Good luck with whatever you decide to do!

Topic Have U Tried paid Sex
Posted 27 Jun 2013 10:23

That again!? Look, that was your fault. I said in the screening session that I wanted "ass to mouth", you claimed your dyslexia made you read "mouth to ass".

Bait and switch artist.

I said I was sorry. I thought you were confused. Who knew you really wanted me to take the strapon from your ass to your mouth?? Who knew??? d'oh!

Topic Have U Tried paid Sex
Posted 27 Jun 2013 09:56

When did you go to cash only! Last time you let me swipe my Green Dot Visa down your cooch slit?

When? When??? Since you tried to do that chargeback after our last session. cussing You cum, you pay!! Them's the rules, Buddy!

Last time you swipe anything down my cooch slit!!! evil4

Topic Have U Tried paid Sex
Posted 27 Jun 2013 08:22

If I weren't so afraid of being caught, I sure as hell would.

I told you, I'm very discreet! evil4

You know how to reach me. And remember, cash only!

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 26 Jun 2013 17:38

Topic Any TV shows you watch every week? Favorites? Favorite characters?
Posted 25 Jun 2013 06:12

Don't watch a lot of TV, but these are the shows I do follow.

Californication - Love the Hank Moody character
Downton Abbey

Topic What about food sex?
Posted 24 Jun 2013 10:54

I had a Lushie mention something about wanting to lick cool whip and cherries out of my bellybutton. I swear, my bellybutton is not that big. confused1

Also, someone else wanted to lick honey out of my pussy. Embarassed

A cool ice cube or two inserted by your partner under the table while you're out to dinner at a nice restaurant certainly makes for some fun teasing.

I've had fun with a sucker, chocolate, and whipped cream.

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 24 Jun 2013 10:41

It's great having Lush friends all over the world. thumbup

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 23 Jun 2013 17:58

Topic Curlygirly and Mazza's BIG sandwich!!
Posted 22 Jun 2013 07:21

Laptop finally kicked hard enough, software boiled for 5 days, extra coffee on the keyboard and,

I'm back.

Hugs Great to see you, Tell!!

Topic What Will U Do Wid A 12" Long Cock
Posted 22 Jun 2013 07:15

drunken Gals, what will u do if u find ur lover's cock 12 inches long and 6 inches in circumference? Will u allow him 2 enter ur pussy?

I wouldn't let that thing near me. I'll pass on the cervix slammer. confused1

Topic Club Zafia....
Posted 21 Jun 2013 10:08

Yesterday was definitely a bit of a surrealistic pillow. confused1

Topic what are you wearing now
Posted 21 Jun 2013 09:38

My summer uniform; sundress and flip flops. Black and white sundress and black flip flops in this case.

Topic Things that just piss you off
Posted 20 Jun 2013 13:53

People who cant follow the simple rules in the Lush Games forum. So fucking annoying!!

Fine!! FUCK!!!

Is that better??? laughing8

Topic Today in Pictures (post a picture representing your mood)
Posted 20 Jun 2013 11:00