Topic own refelctions.. ones own nudity?
08 Dec 2013 14:46
This question seems to from the point of the beholder, rather the owner of the body. We don't get the same view of pussy, unless from a carefully positioned mirror, and from practice that falls over every two minutes... ;)
Topic How kinky are you? TEST
07 Dec 2013 13:22
Can't remember if I've taken this before but I got 51%, which was a nice surprise!! However I got sidetracked into taking The Greek Mythology Personality Test. It rocks!!!
Topic I, me or myself?
05 Dec 2013 14:34
It was indeed Danny! Interesting how correct grammar can sound clumsy or artificial especially while writing conversation in the context of fiction; especially in erotica, when the writer is trying to build sexual tension without his/her characters sounding like 1950's newsreaders!!
Topic what is your favorite movie quote
02 Dec 2013 13:45
"Infamy! Infamy! They've all got it In-for-me!"
Death of Julius Caesar as interpreted by Kenneth Williams in Carry on Cleo....
Topic Yoga for better sex
29 Nov 2013 15:40
I've been doing yoga for 25 years...and it's all true! ;)
Topic What kind of PORN you like to watch?
23 Nov 2013 14:00
Not mainstream. Total turn-off. Independent female-centric directors/producers do some very interesting stuff. I love Petra Joy's work in particular.
Topic Age,does it matter?
16 Nov 2013 14:30
Its valuable that this topic recurs on the forum as its obviously a topic that matters to people. What's so interesting is the different responses and opinions based on life experience and personality. As I get older I tend to drawn to younger men, as I feel we have more in common, but am always happy to be surprised...
Topic Size Matters....
16 Nov 2013 14:06
Yes, this exactly. Girth matters much more to women, yet we only hear about length.
Well said! As a woman I've always found the whole size issue matters a whole lot more to guys. Its really not a big deal to me. Girth and shape matter more, and a man whose main mission is to please a women whatever God-given equipment he has will always be more of a winner than some guy who expects praise for simply having an enormous salami. *shrugs*
Topic Deal breakers:Fashion wise
10 Nov 2013 14:00
Mwah! To whoever dreamt up this thread. Haven't laughed so much in weeks!!!! :D
04 Oct 2013 15:10
My partner is fine with it. I don't think my family would grasp the entire concept...
Topic Can women tell when a man fakes it? I say no.
06 Sep 2013 15:57
As always Lady X makes a very good point above about this thread topic, when mentioning this in an "especially in a one-off situation". However, this "fail to cum" has only happened with a guy when I've been considered a trusted partner, so there's been no awkwardness just understanding that ejaculation is difficult for whatever reason. So no need for faking.
Topic drunk sex
06 Sep 2013 15:26
Drunk sex not a lot of fun. Mildly tipsy sex can be a giggle though! :)
Topic What is your experience with affairs?
05 Sep 2013 10:32
This is a very interesting thread, as it is provoking very strong emotional reactions from many readers. Thus "cheating" seems to be very personal in its definition, and I felt that Nikki's point about her fling with a married woman (whose husband was comfortably in the know about it) was very helpful, in that this defines the difference between an open and an exclusive relationship. To further that point one could argue that "cheating" isn't just about the sex, but about one partner lying to the other, the betrayal being at least as much emotional as sexual. So in a mutually agreed open relationship, there may be lots of sex with different people but no betrayal, depending on what has been agreed between the partnership which brings us back to that great point someone was making about communication.
In my personal experience, whenever I have been approached by a man in an exclusive relationship who wanted an affair with me, the main thing that has struck me was the lack of thinking ahead of any consequences of such actions; as though it was perfectly possible to keep an on going secret, and live two separate lives without them leaking into each other and imploding simply through an act of will; followed by the blankly dismissive look when I pointed out that this wasn't realistic (possibly not thinking with their brains at the time!)
Life is complicated, and this is a very grey area and each person's experience is varied and can't be judged. Its been really enlightening to read such honest responses.