About Dancewithme

Guess you could say I've been around the block with places like this over 9 years but like this site a lot. Great writing, some great women, and some good guys, do it for me.
I try to be fair, honest and upbeat. But my passionate, sensual and discerning nature can be a lot of fun for most, but IS intense. My intensity is caring, no question. But is challenging for a few women now and then. Why hide the truth?
I am a writer of histories now and am admittedly cerebral and often buried in research.
I have no intentional biases of gender, race, age, style. We are all people and humility with confidence is nice to have. I am in a very troubled relationship away from Lush and am doing all I can to end it. I will not hide it either. If you have a serious relationship with another member or in real life, please don't ask me to be your friend unless you know me for a long time or have clearly marked on your profile that you ARE in a relationship. If you expect the truth of me and other members as stated above, be honest enough to state the truth about yourself so we can all know who you are.
I am proud of the special circle of friends I have, and try to develop meaningful friendships with all my friends. No, that does not mean I am poly-amorous.
I can be in a relationship with someone here and still have friends, though I will show my partner special attention reserved only for them. If I am in such a relationship I will say so.
I am a mature man who enjoys good people---class is important to me, but does not rule out playfulness.
Just fair warning: I will NOT tolerate stalkers, hackers, people who spy on others, using multiple accounts or try to use other members accounts.
Please have the courage to be YOURSELF. I am very tolerant but do not like to be deceived or left in the dark about you. Sudden jolting revelations are not my cup of tea.
This may sound like I am not a fun guy to get to know but all that warning above has become necessary to state precisely because I CAN be a lot of fun, because I am kind and easy going, and have learned some very painful lessons here and elsewhere.
The people on my friend's list are ALPHABETICAL purposely to prevent ANY petty jealousies.

Daddy O
Relationship Status:
In a Relationship
I like anything with quality and class in the whole fiend of arts, sciences, sports, entertainment, etc. Reading, writing, music: singing and listening, SUDOKU, Logic puzzles, Sabrmetrics, art, sports, going to the beach, swimming, yoga, Tai Chi Chuan, QiGong, world cultures and history, and many, many more.
Tell me what you like and maybe we can find common ground. The more the better as far as I am concerned.
Favorite Books:
Most of the great classics of world literature in English or often in their original languages.
Shakespeare's Sonnets and Plays, especially Hamlet, MacBeth, Othello, Lear, etc.; The collected works of William Butler Yeats; Friedrich Hoelderlin's Hyperion; and so on.
In English: Shakespeare, Yeats, Emerson, Dickinson, Twain; in Russian: Dostoyevsky, Tolstoy, Gogol, Pushkin; Chinese: Laozi, Chuangzi, Confucious; Spanish: Cervantes, Neruda; Portuguese: Coehlo, Camoes; Greek: Plato, Homer, Aristotle; Latin: Cicero, Virgil; etc.
That list is the very tip of a huge iceberg.
Favorite Authors:
So many I could list them by language.
Favorite Movies:
Mostly classics but some recent American, English, French, Italian. If a movie has a great leading lady who is acting in it I will probably like it such as Bette Davis or Meryl Streep but there are lots of others. Ingrid Bergman, Renee Zellweger, Diane Lane (very hot), etc. I love silent movies with Chaplain and Keaton and Valentino, etc. Clint Eastwood especially in "Josey Wales." John Wayne in "The Shootist." But most of all Yul Brynner in "The King and I." Pacino and DeNiro in "Heat," Raging Bull, Brando in "On the Waterfront," and a lot of what he after that. Musicals with great dance like Astaire and Rogers, Kelly and Caron, etc.
Favourite TV Shows:
X-Files (Gilian), The Middle and the Goldbergs. I watch very little TV. Very little.
I am much more into the performing arts than TV.
Favorite Music:
Anything quality. Classical, jazz, international(!) (any culture or language).
I especially am deep into Ballet, flamenco, tango, opera and the cross over into more popular current forms.
Being part Romany and Objibwe, and have been studying our music for quite some time now, and am quite proud of my roots.
I have NOT stayed current with trends in music for about 10 years now because I am so busy with what I do pursue. I don't know if what is current is good or bad. I apologize for my ignorance.
Date Joined:
22 Oct 2013
Last Visit:
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Topic: Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
Posted: 29 Jul 2014 19:31

Former Ohio Governor Ted Strickland, Les Wexner (one of several billionaires with whom my dad is acquainted), and Ann Coulter once called me a bitch at a guest lecture at Denison University about 8 years ago. lol

I have heard lots of speeches at Dennison in Granville.
You should be proud that Ms. Coulter called you what she did.
I've been called things I couldn't tell my Mama too.

At least we got a rise out of them.

Topic: Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
Posted: 29 Jul 2014 11:13

I just had to remove this. Sorry everyone.

Topic: Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
Posted: 29 Jul 2014 11:09

It is not possible for me to name the most important people I have met.
But here is the second tier: I was a man who worked in the Oval Office's professor. (Is that vague enough?)
I have taught many Miss XYZ (3 different states) WINNERS.
I have taught a Miss USA.
I was great friends with many of Steelers of 4 Superbowl WINS Fame. I was closest to Franco Harris and his family as we traveled even traveled to Europe together. I know Mean Joe Green really well. We once shared a bottle of Chateau Le Fit Rothschild over a 3-4 hour conversation. He was once of the classiest men I have ever known! I have know many, many famous athletes as I was an active member of S.A.B.R.
I have known many famous people in classical music, opera, "flamenco," Latin dance, and ballet. I doubt if many would know be interested in that.
I have known some famous singers like Bobbv Darin (my Uncles close friend) and Sammy Davis Junior and his wife Altovese.
I knew many of the famous people in French, German, Dutch, Czech existentialism and phenomenology who would proof read my papers before I delivered them.
If I told you about the other side of the coin.....that is, who puts me on their lists...nah......but there is one person I have never met in person below and it kills me.....

Topic: Number of sex partners
Posted: 27 Jul 2014 18:39

Has this question not been asked and lied about enough times already?

I didn't lie.

Topic: Number of sex partners
Posted: 27 Jul 2014 18:36

I have only had one sexual partner in my lifetime.

Thank you angel. That was a gutsy answer sweetheart. Me too. Embarassed
Why lie?
Thanks again Rach

Topic: Announcing our "Toy With Me" Story Competition, $400 Adult Store Credits up for grabs
Posted: 25 Jul 2014 01:56

I know a lovely girl who's a little shy to promote her own competition story, so I'm going to do it for her.


I think 'Busty Bianca' is a clever, sexy, funny story that's definitely worth a couple of minutes of your time to read. http://www.lushstories.com/images/emoticons/smile_regular.gif

Liz x

Thank you Liz. I will do that right now.

Topic: Picky about boobs?
Posted: 24 Jul 2014 20:46

Not bothered about the type a woman has, as long as they are the ones she was born with.
Enhancing surgery is a turn off for me.


Topic: Spoil my Wish
Posted: 23 Jul 2014 18:55

Big Hugs Thank you sweetness.

So I will wish for you a winning lottery ticket...I just want 60% of your winnings you can keep the rest binky

...ok....if that is your wish pretty lady. You know I can't help making you smile.

I wish I owned a 1960 'Vette, convertible, candy apple red and white,
bucket seats (white leather), 4 on the floor, 327 bored out to a 356,
dual quads, racing slicks, .....

Topic: Spoil my Wish
Posted: 23 Jul 2014 13:38

Gorjus u that bad?

Wish I was with My Ginger taking care of her

I wish you were too kk. I will grant you that wish as my wish.

Topic: Spoil my Wish
Posted: 23 Jul 2014 13:37

Awe! Granted. But then you miss the attention and feel forlorn!

I wish I could ditch my car and ride a horse wherever I went.

That wish can't be granted with all the inconveniences, but if you hop on one of my horses I dream we will ride together and leave the cars and cares behind Chanel!! Big Hugs

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