Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Yeah, I thought he was in his 30s too... The dirty thirties are a man's sexiest decade, in my opinion.

A few more pics... just cause...

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lol - now i have this vision of you skipping through the woods naked, a roll of TP in each hand, flowing out behind you like streamers.

If you put me in a white leotard, that could double as a tampon commercial too. :p

and even pre cat, TP NEED TO BE OVER!! that's just how it is. you're just plain weird, sometimes, Ash.

Ima just a free-spirited toilet paperer! I like ta get crazy like dat.

anyone who says otherwise is not only wrong, but they're aliens (and probably don't own cats). :)

I don't have a method. I just throw the toilet paper roll on - whether it's over or under is totally up to chance. I'm always surprised that people care one way or another (well, I guess the cat thing is a legit reason).

I'm also a hyper-meticulous - probably a triple or quad wiper. Often I'll finish with a cleansing hygiene wipe too for that sparkling fresh feel.

My major pet peeve (way more than toilet seats left up) are men who don't replace toilet paper on the roll. I HATE this. Even worse when I don't live there and have to go searching under the sink or asking for toilet paper because it's gone. Keep it up for the guests in your bathrooms, boys... Don't make me use your bathtowel.

There's more to it than her getting over you being bisexual. It also involves you telling her that you want to have sex with another person. If you've always been monogamous and she sees that as an important part of marriage, this is the bit that has the potential to be more hurtful and upsetting than you saying that you crave cock.

Imagine telling her that lately you have the strong desire to sample new pussy. It has the potential to evoke that same knee-jerk reaction that spirals into insecurity, doubt and suspicion as she now starts wondering what you're doing on the side and whether you're pursuing extra-marital activities.

Yes, the bisexual aspect of it is huge, but don't discount the impact of her potentially feeling that she's no 'enough' for you sexually and that you want other sexual partners. I know it's not exactly the same as hetero-cheating since she doesn't have the sex parts you are interested in but if she views sex as intimacy and fidelity as a key part of your commitment, then it's going to have an effect on her.

As some others have mentioned, you might want to start with just the fantasy of it or the idea of you both being involved in a MMF threesome but initially state that you're not planning on acting on it - you just like the kinky idea of it as a fantasy. You might also want to bring this up during the heat of the moment so that if she doesn't react favourably you can just blame it on you getting carried away while having been extremely turned on. Sitting her down in a serious way and confessing it will probably be more apt to freak her out. Feel out the situation first before you jump.

I'm a scruncher but I use way more toilet paper than I should per use. Plus in my opinion, folders are going for thickness rather than surface area. I like to fluff it out like a toiletpaper-rose.

So you girls prefer him at his boyish best then? :)

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Yes!

Sometimes he gets a bad pic but overall he's still looking fine.


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Nice thread translation hijack btw ladies.

Latinfoxy - she's a doll. crazy as it is down there, she still makes time to translate stories. :)

Since Cabo hits around the 9K word mark, she is practically an erotica saint, in my opinion.

I think you just called somebody a turnip, but I'm not really sure...

Yeah, you'll have fun over there...as you've already noticed, people will send you messages in Spanish...next will be the friend request from Spanish speaking members over on Facebook...after that you'll find yourself being the only non-Spanish speaking member of various Facebook groups...

Trust me on this one...been there, done that...

How do you reply back to them? Google translate? Or do you just stay silent and mysterious? :p

Hola amigo! Muchas gracias for the shout-out. Uhmm... ok, yeah, that's about where my spanish skills end. I have all my thanks to give to an español angel (she knows who she is) who very graciously gave her time to translate The Cabo Connection into spanish for the Historias site. It was a huge honour for me to get to feature it in two different languages.

Incidentally, I may be the first to set this trend, but I won't be the last. The talent pool is thick around here! Or in other words... El talento es gruesa por aquí! (ps. if that didn't sound right, blame google translate).

Happy Birthday to Miss Java!

She's classy, sexy, and all kinds of mischief...

Hope your day is hot, hot, hot!

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This thread made me remember those old MadTV skits on Abercrombie. They were always hilarious.

http://www.youtube.com/embed/qaendBOenFg

I've only had circumcised as well and prefer it that way for the reasons mentioned in this thread, especially the aesthetics of it.

I doubt it would be a deal breaker if I came across an uncircumcised one but you know that moment when you're reaching for it or first lay eyes on it, yeah, it's always briefly going through my mind, 'god, please let it be cut'.

I have, but very rarely. When it comes to NSA stuff, I'm more of a mini-fling girl than a one-niter, unless the performance wasn't up to par or it was a random vacation thing. In my mind - if it was good - keep the digits in the phone and repeat (at least a few times).

This was another good one that left me with a 'what the fuck' sad feeling at the end.


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I often write on my laptop while laying flat on the floor, propped up on a little pillow with a bottle of blue gatorade by my side.

With certain guys - getting emotionally attached.

As others have said - it could be that she's just enjoying the flirt leading up to it and the idea of just knowing that she 'could' cheat if she wanted to. I have a female friend or two that are married and enjoy this kind of chase. Of course, eventually one gave in and actually fucked one a guy or two (but that's another story).

Really it's up to you. Obviously it's not a great idea to be 'that guy' but you probably know that already. Things could get messy - especially if she's a neighbour. If you get caught or things come to light - there's nowhere for you to run if hubby comes looking for you. Proximity really isn't in your favour on that one.

I don't *think* I've been with bisexual men, but then - sometimes you never can tell. I would think if a guy is bi, it would probably take him longer to admit this to a GF or wife compared to the more socially acceptable allowances made for female/female experimentation. I'm not judgmental and on rare occasions I've asked guys I've been involved with for a while ('hey - have you ever...') just out of curiosity but it's always been a strong 'no' so far.

I've watched some gay porn from time to time but only enjoy certain types (usually the hot 'straight' guy experimenting or being persuaded type story lines). I guess my main issue with having a relationship with a strongly bi guy (like a 50/50 split attraction) is that he would never be totally fulfilled by monogamy with a female and as far as regular threesomes or letting him play on the side - it enters some murkier gray waters that I don't think I'd be comfortable with over the long-term. A shorter term thing would be fine and a bit of experimentation or open mindedness over the long-term isn't a turn-off. As always - it really depends on the guy.

Are there any girls that are down to have a chat on skype? Mine is okabe.takizawa

The forums are more of a slow burn as far as intros and hookups go. You'll probably have more success in the chatrooms or something like chatroulette etc for quickie skype convos with like-minded types.

Well... I have actually donated some Abercrombie stuff to Goodwill/Salvation Army. The homeless comment was ridiculous.

As for the sizing - most designer/boutique/brand sizes are much smaller than the mass-marketed basic brand stuff at Walmart, Target etc. Abercrombie's sizes aren't out of the norm on that one and they aren't outrageously small either. A&F has always been about selling a 'cool kids' brand though - from the store lighting/music/noxious-fragrance shopping experience to their advertising look and the models they use. Admittedly I used to wear a lot of it in my teens and early twenties. I still like some of their basics. They're nice clothes, well made (their vintagey sportswear/sweats in particular *are* amazing quality) and I like the fit.

The CEO is obviously a bit douchey, but it's probably the unspoken sentiment of a lot luxury brands, so it is what it is. A brand of clothing is just that - a brand. It's up to them to decide the styles, sizes, look. If you like it, buy it, if you don't, then don't. Same as bars with dress codes and velvet ropes. Yes, they'd probably make more money if they catered to every single demographic but the idea of 'exclusivity' is obviously making them a pretty penny. It's just a different business strategy.

If he offers to 'give up Lush', nothing stops him from dutifully deleting his current profile and creating another one without you knowing. If trust is an issue (and it obviously is here) then don't even think of getting too emotionally involved. Enjoy it for what it is (if you are enjoying it) and don't place expectations on it.

Ill go get some weed shall I? ;-)

Actually it was ecstasy that time...

Was it not weird the first time it was suggested? Or the first time you did it?

Maybe a little. I was pretty high though, the first time I did it.


As others have already said - it's about turning on the guy and feeling like a dirty girl. Not everything has to be reciprocal when it comes to sex, but I don't see why this shouldn't be.

I actually like the blue-check - it's clean and simple (and one of my fave shades of blue!). More importantly it also conveys a 'recommended read' to me without giving it the same level fanfare of a yellow ribbon. It shouldn't look on par with an EP award ribbon. It shouldn't be a medal or something too fancy that looks overtly similar to the EP, so for that reason I like the differential colour palette and simple design.

The red book icon is really cute but to be honest when it's up next to an EP ribbon it looks so similar it's hard to tell which one symbolizes the more important honour, especially to someone who is new to the site.

Just thought I'd throw my thoughts into the mix, as a person seeing them fresh. I wasn't involved in the original decision-making process but I was perfectly happy with the blue box when I saw it appear.

part of the issue here, is the personality. for some reason, people HATE Ms Jolie. they still blame her for 'breaking up America's perfect marriage of Brad and Jen'. I bet real money that, if Jennifer Aniston had come out and had the same thing done, people would be 100% behind her, but because it's Angie, it's a different reaction.

I totally agree and I just don't get it. I've always been Team Angelina. She does so much as far as Hollywood stars go with her UN humanitarian services, financial donations to various causes and disasters. She said once that she recognizes that she makes 'stupid amounts of money' for what she does and she's the first celeb to step up to the plate and dish out tens of millions of dollars for relief/charity causes and gets directly involved with her time and efforts. She raises her family quietly - tries to stay out of the general limelight. She is one of the few in Hollywood that will always get my total respect. If you look at this track record of what she's accomplished I don't understand how anyone can hate on her, other than just random jealousy.

So she broke up Brad and Jen. Big deal. That marriage was doomed way before Angelina showed up on the scene. If Jen hadn't been the uber-likeable golden girl from Friends, nobody would have cared either way.

Her mom died of cancer, but what was her mom's lifestyle? Did she smoke, have a bad diet?


Her mother, Marcheline Bertrand, was an actress/model and seemed to lead a reasonably healthy lifestyle. She struggled with ovarian cancer for 8 yrs before she finally died at age 56. Angelina's grandmother died at 45. AND... she has the BRCA gene. That's a lot of things against her chances to remain cancer free for life. Sure she could have taken a 'wait and see' approach until she's actually got cancer cells growing within her and then go for rounds of chemo, hope to go into remission and continue to be hypervigilant if she manages to catch it early but the stressors that come with all that are very real.

There's also the chance of something going misdiagnosed - especially if she has dense fibrous breasts that make mammograms more difficult to read. At least this gives her some peace of mind and that can be worth a lot on its own - to not have to worry - to not have to contemplate the accuracy of mammograms or whether this year is "the year" that she'll need to have chemo and deal with a serious health battle. Sure, other health issues can arise in anyone - but, damn - 87% is a scary stat.

Obviously she's not suggesting women rush out to get this done just because there's breast cancer in the family. But hey - it's her choice to have it done. Christina Applegate did the same thing a few yrs ago but with less media fanfare than this. It's obviously a personal choice, just as any elective surgery is - whether it's for cosmetic of preventative health reasons. In Angie's case she's watched the agony of seeing family members die and doesn't want to put her own family through the same thing.

I'm surprised people have issues with it. It's not like this is a bill to force all women with BRCA or familial histories to do this - she made the choice and then shared it with the public. No big deal. I doubt women will be storming their surgeons' office to get the same thing done on a whim. We're not children - we can take responsibility for our lifestyles and choices, and yes, even those options that we maybe can't afford, without indulging victimized tantrum-throwing lapses of logic because of it.

I applaud her decision, I know it couldn't be easy to do something like that, but it makes a lot of sense. I have to say though, while it's the right decision for her, we shouldn't draw the conclusion that it's right for everyone. I mean, she's really wealthy, and therefore is thoroughly unconcerned with insurance coverage or the cost of treatment. But what about those of us who are? Besides the fact that I'm sure such a preventative procedure wouldn't be covered by most insurance policies, I wonder if getting tested for that gene might cause an insurance company to jack up the premium (or deny coverage altogether) if and when they find out you're positive for it.

Testing for the BRCA genes is extremely expensive right now because one company holds the patent on it - which is ridiculous. I get that they wanna make their due cash, but it's a potentially life-saving test that should be made available to more than just the uber rich. I believe it's currently in Supreme Court to have this changed. That would bring the testing costs way down and could become an option for insurance coverage.


Edit - this makes you appreciate when Banting sold the formula for insulin for $1 instead of cashing in on it by selling to one high bidder pharma company who could have then had a monopoly on it's production. He wanted it to be available to everyone who needed it. I wish philosophies like this were more of the norm when it comes to science and medicine.

I think she made a courageous decision. An 87% chance is extremely high and that gene mutation is very rare - even among familial high risk groups. I heard she's also planning to have her ovaries removed as well as a preventative precaution. Losing her mother when she was only in her '50's was really traumatic for her and I can totally understand her decision to be proactive in a case like this.

Might be a bit different for prostate cancer since it affects one's sex life etc. But Angie's obviously done with having her kids. And breasts and ovaries aren't going to make a difference to her quality of life. Why should she take that chance of something getting missed along the way when chances are abnormally high that she's going to develop this and then require chemo and other difficult treatments. Why have it playing in the back of your mind constantly? Taking your risk from 87% down to less than 5% makes all kinds of sense to me. I'd probably do the same.

I'm a big Angelina fan and her decision really just makes me even more impressed with her inner strength and life outlook.

It's up to you - nobody here is going to be able to tell you yes or no.

If he's doing it, I agree it's only fair if you get the same privileges.

I was friends with a couple that did this (although neither traveled as much as you're describing) - it was basically the no-tell policy for out-of-town fun. It started out well but blew up about a year later and they split. Inevitably she ended up having feelings for one of her fuck-buddies.

Every couple and every situation is different though. If you're in an open relationship (re him having his fun), then I don't see any legit argument about why you shouldn't get to do the same. If that's the question - then yeah, I think it's fair.

The rest of the matter on whether it will ultimately hurt the marriage or not is just rolling the dice. It's impossible to predict.