Forum posts made by dancing_doll

Ladies, I heard Anton say that his devotion to serving you all is so complete, that he's even willing to give you the shirt off his back. Don't forget to spoil him with him with big tips tonight! Let's get him into the 30K millionaire status sooner than later, ok?!


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In the meantime, I'm going to sit back, recline and relax. My feet are aching and its time to let the Bordeaux take away the pains and strains of the day....




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I've brought some Godiva and fine Port for all the goddesses of Lush that are ready to indulge in a little sin with me... Although I can't help but wonder... where are the all the men of Lush? Have they abandoned us already? We don't want to overwhelm Anton with our need for testosterone...


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This is probably an unusual one for most, but I really got into Albert Camus in my first year of University.

Two of his novels, The Stranger (or L'Etranger) and The Fall, are still favourites of mine.

Love Camus, including The Stranger and The Fall. Have you read The Plague? I read a fair amount of Camus in an Existentialism class in college.

Yes, I read the Plague... I didn't like it as much though. I also read some Sartre, but those two books I mentioned are still my stand-out favourites.

This is probably an unusual one for most, but I really got into Albert Camus in my first year of University.

Two of his novels, The Stranger (or L'Etranger) and The Fall, are still favourites of mine.

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I love situations like this too! The fear of getting caught, or the fear associated with some of my darker fantasies definitely heightens the excitement level! Lack of control puts us in touch with our most base (and debased) desires, and that can be very hot!

I think there are a few psychological studies that showed that anxiety/fear can lead to intensified feelings of attraction/lust.

I've have done a few things in my past where I have been a bit of a sexual adrenaline junkie that way!

I will admit, I have faked it when I was younger. The times that I did was usually related to hooking up with someone where alcohol was involved, and I knew I wasn't going to come and just wanted to end the night...

It only backfired once, when one guy thought he was such a sexual lothario after my faking-techniques, that he kept GOING to see how many orgasms I could have. It was the funniest night ever... I think I faked it 5 times, before I finally just told him to stop. He thought he was quite the man the next morning... bragged to his friends all weekend.

I don't fake it anymore. I can't be bothered. I have spoken up and tried to help instruct a few guys on what would help get me off, but not everyone takes instruction successfully.

If I found out a guy faked it, I don't think I'd be particularly devastated. I don't think faking orgasms is really needed by either men or women, but in some cases, people feel the need to have a formal ending to sex.

There are many cases where someone is drunk or on recreational drugs and having an orgasm just isn't going to happen.

It's not the end the world. That's what morning sex is for!

Absolutely there is a difference...

I think a lot of people use the word "love" or making "love" or being "in love" too easily. I have friends that sprinkle the word liberally throughout every relationship they have.

In the end, being in love is truly a rare thing, and it does give a certain depth of feeling and emotion and vulnerability to the sexual experience. There is a much deeper connection to the person. It's much more intense than having sex.

Having sex, is just fulfilling a physical need... and occasionally a passing psychological desire to be physical with another person. Its fun, but different from making love. One is based in the physical realm of tangible pleasure and the other is based on the emotional/physical realm of experiencing pleasure with a specific person.

The only thing I would say is that 'making love' doesn't have to be about candles, and bubble-baths, and romantic sex. It can also be dirty, rough, kinky, or some kind of alternative sexual experience. The difference is there is a depth of feeling/desire for the person, rather than just for the act itself.

February 1st - Lisa Marie Presley


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Wow.. that's a lot of threads rolled into one, my friend!

I really like to know weather you lady's prefer a bad boy or a nice boy ? I have a real weakness for reformed bad boys, or 'complex guys' as I prefer to call them. Nobody wants to date an asshole. But he definitely has to have some 'edge'...

Who do you prefer to take the lead in bedroom, you or the man ? I like to vary it up, because sometimes I like to really seduce and worship a guy with me calling the shots. On a whole though, I really do enjoy being sub.

Does size really matter ? If I can't feel it, then its too small. There is also such a thing as too big though. Anything in between that threshold is fine.

Are looks important ? Yes.

Does body shape (fat,slim etc) really matter ? Yes.

What really turns you gals on ? Read through the Lush story genres and read things written by females. You'll have a better idea of what we like, because it definitely varies.

Do you girls enjoy watching or even participating in porn video's ? Yes, regularly. I haven't made a sex tape yet (I'm more of a mirror watcher), but its definitely on my list of things to do. And yes, I will be the only one keeping a copy of that tape. Or we just erase and rewind.

What do you really like in the bedroom( ie do you like sucking dick,getting fucked in the arse,titty fucked,rough,gentle etc etc) ? For me... all of the above.

What a brilliant idea!

Wonder how many flavours they will come up with?

It might make a blow job feel like a trip to Baskin Robbins!

I'm back ladies, what did I miss?

So many delicious offerings... first chocolate covered strawberries from LushPrincess, and now a shirtless Anton from LadyX?!

What a fabulous wine bar!

I already got my pearl necklace for the day (ehem..)... now, I'm ready for a glass of bubbly... and yes, a cohiba esplendido por favor...


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I think it's time for some champagne in the OJ now- I'll leave the vodka for another day- or later in this one.

I agree... Don't you find it strange that we are in the wine-bar drinking first thing on a Monday morning?
Is that a bad sign?!

So where I live, they have what we call $30,000 Millionaires- or at least thats what lots of people call them. Do they have them everywhere else I wonder.

What's a $30,000 Millionaire? He's usually in his 20s or 30s, has an expensive haircut, wears $300 leather shoes, designer jeans, shirt, and sunglasses, drives a mid-level BMW or Benz, and hangs out in trendy bars, clubs, and restaurants. That's where they are thick on any given night.

The thing about them is, that they either work the front counter at the tanning salon, or maybe at a Jamba Juice. If they are lucky, they work at Dillards or something, but they spend every cent on clothes, and Dad pays the lease on the car, plus the insurance that the 30K Millionaire can't afford either. They can barely afford the $12 Drink they just bought you, but if it gets you home with them, then the objective has been met.

The $30K Millionaire is a lot of fun, just don't expect him to come through in any way beyond that one-night stand. He's kryptonite for the golddigger! I met a dude at work that knows a director who is working on a script for a movie about the $30K Millionaire, a comedy of course.

Yes, they are kryptonite. They usually have business cards that say "President of", or "VP of" some random company they created themselves that sounds really fancy until you realize they are their own boss and staff. Most of these guys have a lot of swagger but very little bank-roll. They tempt you with tales of partying on yachts in Saint-Tropez and exciting getaways to Monte Carlo. There is nothing subtle about this kind of allure. But to the unskilled eye, the idea of it can be far more exciting than a rich older guy walking you through a spending spree at Chanel.

They are fun for the moment, and they certainly know how to work the illusion of "security" for a 3-6 month period of time. But in the end, you need to find yourself a genuine multi-millionaire (is 1 million even enough these days? I think... not). The best gold-digging is done via the older gray-haired men in Armani that send over a bottle of Brut or Cristal to your table before even considering approaching. In my part of the urban jungle, we call them the "Silverbacks". Next thing you know you are giddy off overpriced champagne, and drunk with visions of yourself shopping with him in New York and cuddling up in the latest Prada snow-gear at his ski-chalet, hob-nobbing with other frosty-haired wives of important powerhouses of industry. But of course, then you get bored, and either have an affair or get divorced. Careful of the pre-nup he may suggest. Tears are usually an effective way out of this, based on some of the successful gold-diggers I know.

Good luck LadyX! Unfortunately my luck has yet to materialize (no pun intended). You see, despite having this brilliant skill-set at my disposal, I still end up going for the tortured/complicated hot guys with no cash. I guess I'm not a gold-digger after all. I'm merely at the stage of being superficial when it comes to looks, height and genetic offspring potential.

Oh well... I'm sure I'll grow into it.

Tah-tah for now dahling!

Thanks for the mimosas!....

I think the question is more along the lines of after 5 minutes, can someone come to the conclusion that:
a) "I would have sex with this person if things play out right"
....OR
b) "there is no way I will ever have sex with this person"...

I don't think anyone is saying that 5 minutes are all that is required to make a decision to have sex (ok, at least not for most women, and probably most men as well).

But as a woman, when I first meet a man and have a conversation, sexual attraction does flash through my mind. That's not to say that if the green-light is on for me, that it's a guarantee I will want to have sex with him a half hour later (or even a week later) after spending more time talking to him. But I think this Q is more about first impressions.

Like if you go out on a blind date with someone, do you know within 5 min, if there is any chance you might end up in bed together. Can one or the other be ruled out this quickly?

How many have you juggled Dancing_doll?

Well.... in terms of more serious sexual relationship juggling, it was 3 at one time. They were all very different types of guys, and impossible to choose who I liked most. I still had my 'get out of jail free card', meaning that I hadn't had the monogamy-talk with any of them yet, so I figured even if I got caught, "technically" I wasn't doing anything wrong. Although looking back, I suspect 2 of them did think they were the only ones.

In terms of just casual dating, it was up to 5 guys, and 1 girl during one particularly crazy summer. It was a fun summer, but really exhausting. I wouldn't do it again, as it really is more trouble than its worth. Its bad when you don't recognize voices on the phones, and have to play along until you figure it out. As well, I was having trouble sorting out what I had shared with one, versus another, and started repeating myself.

I am my best (and happiest) in a committed relationship with an open-minded non-jealous guy, where we can join forces in terms of what kind of sexual adventures we want to explore together. That doesn't mean 'monogamy' in the traditional sense of the word, but it does mean no secrecy from each other. There are still lots of kinky games to play, and other people you can involve, if the couple is confident in what they have with each other.

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Too many. I've been a bad girl. And I think I need to be punished.

This forum thread made me laugh...

All male Lushies that have 'significant others' are probably sitting a little more uncomfortably today, and starting to wonder... Hmmm.... is it "MY" wife/girlfriend? LMAO

On a more serious note, be sure you really want to know what you're trying to find out. And know how you will deal with the outcome.

If it's more of a fun thing, like "hey, I caught ya with your hand in the cookie jar", then why not?

But if you think your man is cybering or flirting with other Lush-females and you feel like this would be a deal-breaker to your relationship, then just be prepared for what you might find out.

A friend of mine did some snooping with her boyfriend, and found a bunch of email exchanges with other women that were really upsetting to her. But she felt so 'in the wrong' about looking through his emails in the first place, she didn't feel comfortable confronting him, or asking him about them. Basically, her suspicions continued to grow and fester... which led to resentment/insecurities... and eventually the relationship was ruined on its own.

This can also work both ways.

Sometimes a guy will say it too soon, or when you don't feel the same way....

And then you either have to say it back to avoid awkwardness, have "the talk" about where you see the relationship going, or just smile back and listen to the crickets ominously chirping.

This is always a tough one. I've never been one to casually use the "L" word in relationships. I do think its something special when you do say it, and if you're not sure of the other person's feelings, its probably just better to wait.

I don't borrow money from anyone, and I've never asked a guy for a loan or a financial favour (no matter if he is a male friend or a boyfriend). I do think that it has the capacity to ruin relationships or friendships.

I have loaned to others (both male and female), and I have always been the one screwed over. So I consider these lessons learned and I won't do it again. If there was a serious crisis or life or death situation, then I would always help out a friend in need regardless, but if it was just "hey I'm running short on cash this month, can you pay my bills"... ummm.. no. Been there, done that. And had friendships/relationships were ruined.

I would still do anything for close family though, regardless of whether I expected any payment back, and I know they would do the same for me.

I don't like borrowing from a guy though. I have several girlfriends that have done this over the years, and yes, implied payment of some kind was always expected. Even along the lines of closer friendship and being guilted into dropping everything at any given time to hang out with the person that gave you the loan. I have seen all kinds of scenarios go down... some worse than others. That's why, for me..? ... No thanks.

Unfortunately in this kind of situation, money is still the way to get around the one-child policy. There are always loopholes if you have the right kind of cash and connections. A friend verified that this is what wealthy or elite families are currently doing in China.

The bigger issue here is that this is a culture where female offspring are devalued and the horrific demands this is placing on women to give birth to a male child has significantly skewed the gender split in the population. Ways of enforcing the preference that the "single child" to be born to the family is a boy, are not appropriate discussion for this forum, however, there are some truly barbaric and shocking practices currently being employed in China.

The 'one child' policy will not work in countries where gender favouritism is still entrenched in the culture. Unfortunately this favouritism is even more deeply rooted in poor/rural communities, and these are the people who don't have the money to get around the government rules. So it's either sterilization and/or back-alley procedures.

Not a fun place to be a woman!

How many have you juggled Dancing_doll?

Well.... in terms of more serious sexual relationship juggling, it was 3 at one time. They were all very different types of guys, and impossible to choose who I liked most. I still had my 'get out of jail free card', meaning that I hadn't had the monogamy-talk with any of them yet, so I figured even if I got caught, "technically" I wasn't doing anything wrong. Although looking back, I suspect 2 of them did think they were the only ones.

In terms of just casual dating, it was up to 5 guys, and 1 girl during one particularly crazy summer. It was a fun summer, but really exhausting. I wouldn't do it again, as it really is more trouble than its worth. Its bad when you don't recognize voices on the phones, and have to play along until you figure it out. As well, I was having trouble sorting out what I had shared with one, versus another, and started repeating myself.

I am my best (and happiest) in a committed relationship with an open-minded non-jealous guy, where we can join forces in terms of what kind of sexual adventures we want to explore together. That doesn't mean 'monogamy' in the traditional sense of the word, but it does mean no secrecy from each other. There are still lots of kinky games to play, and other people you can involve, if the couple is confident in what they have with each other.

I've noticed that some people aren't very comfortable being vocal during sex, and I think that if you aren't communicating throughout, this can lead to a greater potential for bad sex.

If there hasn't been any dirty talk (or romantic talk if you prefer it that way), then it really just amounts to a lot of action, heavy breathing, and the occasional moans or grunts.

If by the end of it, you have to turn to your partner and ask "was it good for you?", or "did you enjoy that?", or even validating "that was great", then chances are you're sliding down the bad-sex scale.

If you're in doubt, it probably wasn't that good... and certainly not as good as it could have been.

Happy Birthday Charlie Brown!

XO

Happy Birthday Techgoddess! May your day be filled with magic!

Cheers Ladyx! Some nice Sunday evening chill-down tunes. Morcheeba singing in the corner. Why do I feel the sudden desire to suck on a nice fat cigar while I'm drinking my cognac now?

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Oops... I was just counting my gold, and got your call from the wine bar!

Thanks for the invitation.

So, who's buying my drinks and staying sober enough to give me a ride home in their luxury sportscar?


Damn, that's some impressive gold-digging, Doll! Tell me that's not all from one guy. If it is, then I need lessons because I am obviously doing it wrong. lol

btw, watch out for the guys in 5-series BMW's- it's a dead giveaway for 'Daddy's Money'- it might as well be on their license plate. That's todays free tip- well, that and your next drink. Cheers baby, glad you came!

Yeah, I've mastered the art of Gold-Digging to such a degree that I no longer require a shovel. I just get someone else to do the dirty work for me, while I watch. No point in getting my Louboutins dirty.

And re the 5-series Beamers - my feeling is, whether its their money or 'Daddy's Money', once I marry them it will all be MY money. And as we all know... that really is the most important thing to me.

Love and Diamonds... (and please serve me a glass of finely aged Port.. thank you!),

Gold_Digger_Doll
XO

Oops... I was just counting my gold, and got your call from the wine bar!

Thanks for the invitation.

So, who's buying my drinks and staying sober enough to give me a ride home in their luxury sportscar?


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I've always worn my hair fairly long, and I like the way it looks on women (although as a woman ages, I do think shorter hair looks more chic).

For me, long hair is sensual. I like to have my hair tugged or pulled during sex. I like the way it feels spilling over my shoulders when I'm naked, and letting it trail down a man's chest when if he's laying back and I'm sliding down to give him a blow job.

I just find longer hair more fun sexually.

As well, I like the versatility... you can put it back in a chignon and feel classy, or up in a ponytail to feel fun and sporty, or just leave it down for the ultimate vixen look.

I think there are a lot of women that can really rock a short cut, but the right bone structure (and attitude) are important. I will admit there is a sense of power and confidence about a woman with short hair if she knows how to work the look!

I used to love "choose your own adventure" stories when I was a kid...

This is a great idea, if you can make it work! Not sure how though because you'd need an online button or something to facilitate choosing one plot-direction over the other....

Interesting concept!