I more or less agree with Sprite. A lot of the alleged offences coming to light now happened 30/40 years ago. There were no special police officers trained to handle these situations and the victims were too ashamed to tell the authorities. Those who did were not believed or taken seriously. Now those women and men who were abused sexually or otherwise have the courage to come forward in the knowledge that stories will be investigated. Also the abusers were,in a lot of cases, figures of authority. Just a few weeks ago the most senior Cardinal in the UK resigned amid allegations of sexual misconduct.

On a plane during a night flight to Cyprus and in a cinema watching "9 songs"

At least once a day, usually in the morning. If I am chatting with a special person on here then at least another once/

I agree with most of what Sprite says except that cream that densitizes is expensive, some don't work, and they can, as Sprite says, desensitize your partner. Durex have a condom in the UK that makes you less sensitive. My gf and I had fun with the stop and start method. In my opinion masturbating first is one of the best ways.

I am doing it right now, and can feel it is going to be a good one.

It depends on my mood, who I think about, when did I last cum etc. I guess anything from a few minutes to an hour.

Help!! I had never really been interested in BDSM until recently. I had been going out with a new girlfriend for just over a month. I though our sex life was pretty good until one night she introduced nipple clamps to our foreplay. Then she asked me to use a whip on her, I was reluctant but I used in on her then she asked me to let her do it to me. I agreed and I was surprised that I enjoyed it and the sex that night was fantastic. She does not seem to be interested in any other aspect of BDSM except the inflicting of pain on each other. Now she wants to take things further and I am concerned it will go to far. I do enjoy it, something that I never thought I would. Is this normal in BDSM and how far should I take it. What should I do?

I find it sad that you can debate wether the weapon used was a hand gun or a assault rifle, wether more people are killed by car or guns, as if somehow that makes it ok. The innocents again are the victims now, were in the past and will be in the future until America changes the laws on gun control.

I know this is a generalisation but it would seem that Americans just cannot be trusted with any sort of weapon How many British and other soldiers were killed during the Iraq war by "friendly fire" by their American allies. It would seem that if you give some americans a gun the just feel forced to shoot somebody to prove how big and tough they are.

1996, in the small town of Dunblane, Scotland a man called Thomas Harrison walked into the primary school and slaughtered 16 children aged about 5/6yrs old and their teacher before turning the gun on himself. The reaction from residents and the people of the UK was a campaign to tighten the already strict gun laws. In 1997 it was made illegal for a private citizen to own or attempt to buy a firearm.

This was in stark contrast to the majority of contributors to this forum, whose solution seems to be more guns, even arm the teachers says one person. It is a shame that when the first school shooting happened in America people took the same action as we did in Scotland. If they had a lot of innocent children would be alive today.

I am proud of the way my country reacted to an appalling massacre and loss of life. The eyes of the civilised world will be on America in the weeks to come but I am afraid that the people who can only recite the mantra "guns don't kill people, people do" as if it is repeated often enough it will somehow become true. They will win again and more innocent people will be killed.

Yes, I have the same problem uploading pics

    I stood at the hotel bar sipping a welcome cool beer as I scanned the entrance eagerly.   Then I saw her,my first thought was that she was even more attractive and sexy looking than in her pictures.   She smiled as our eyes met across the room and she came toward me. I felt the blood rush to my penis as I recalled our conversations on line. The stories she had written describing...

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This is what happened after our encounter by the lake. After our encounter by the lake side Beth and I made our way back to the bothy and soon everyone was awake. After brewing coffee we started to discuss the plan for the day. From someone whom I had only vaguely known a few hours ago Beth was suddenly all I could think about. I noticed the way she walked and sat, the shy way she looked...

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With summer ending I remembered the start of a great one just a few years ago. There was a group of us that loved to spend our weekends hill walking. Sometimes up to about a dozen, other times there were only two or three. This hot weekend there were seven, three girls and four guys. Beth was a relative newcomer to our group having been introduced by her older brother; she was quiet...

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  You're beautiful,” he murmured standing behind her as she stood naked at the balcony doors of her hotel room looking out over the mountains. His hands cupped her small breasts, his thumbs playing with her stiffening nipples. She could feel his arousal against her buttocks and turned round smiling as she reached for his erection. "You're not so bad yourself." She looked down pulling...

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