Apologies for the delay in getting back - got caught up with life! Thanks to everyone who has posted. The night I put this up my girlfriend was at a hen night and won a goodie bag - guess what was in the bag? Yeah, a wee bullet and some durex play, along with some other wee bits and pieces.

Anyway she came home that night very bubbly after all the champers and, well, lets just say I got an answer as to how into the whole toys thing she is ;)

Hey, recently I've been toying(no pun intended....ok a little bit intended) with the the thought of buying my girlfriend a vibrator or bullet that we could use together - the thought of it really turns me on. She doesn't use anything at the moment - as far as I'm aware she doesn't even masturbate so my question is two fold I guess

a) Should I talk about it with her first and get her involved in picking the toy?

b) Should I go out and make my own decision then introduce it mid play unannounced?

Usually at home although on 2 occassions I had the overwhelming horn and had to have a quick session at work.

Scotland, just outside Glasgow

Had a period where I attracted a lot of gay men, wont say I wasn't flattered at the time(and a little tempted by a couple) but not any more. My first real relationship was with a girl who was a bit abusive but thankfully that didn't set the tone for the rest of them to follow a similar pattern

No one, this is some where I can escape in a way

Scotland, just outside Glasgow in fact