Forum posts made by dontholien

Topic How silly of me
Posted 08 Nov 2009 06:01

I have had a perfectly good story in my mind for a while and i have stared to type it up and its coming along great apart from one thing..... Part of the story is baised on true events so i have real people and names in my mind but not being one to use real names i feel the need to change them but no matter what names i use i never seem to be happy with the choices. I know this is extremly silly but nothing fits right!!!! lol.

Has anyone else ever had a silly thought or reason not to be able to finish a story?

Topic Describe your worst, lamest or funniest sexual experience
Posted 08 Nov 2009 05:09

For me my lame experience was my whole sex life with an ex!!! after the initial year sex just dwindled to nothing and his idea of foreplay was "are we having it tonight?". Got to the point where i just thought if you cant be arsed making the effort then neither can i and we actually went without for about 2 years!! Now im with my new partner and i dont know how on earth i did it!! lol.

I have also had it in the eye..... stings crybaby

Topic Best Memory
Posted 08 Nov 2009 04:36

I dont draw on memories when having sex, im far too involved in whats happening at that particular moment. Its more thinking how sexy he looks, how good it feels, what hes saying or him groaning that help me along.

When im on my own i tend to think about the most recent & enjoyable sex iv had. I like thinking back to what we did a few nights ago or the other morning. TBH my current partner is by far the best iv ever had so thinking about something from years ago is pointless really as its never as sexy as what he does.

Topic Okay Ladies... What really makes you cry?
Posted 08 Nov 2009 04:23

My man being away from me for more than a night.
The child abuse awareness adverts on tv.
The cancer resech adverts on British tv (the one where whe woman in the wedding dess goes "my mum should be here...")
My little boy being hurt/ upset.
Seeing my little man asleep in my arms so peaceful and perfect.
When i read a book and someone dies.
Seeing new borns.
Someone shouting at me.
Stubbing my toe.
Sad films.
One episode of Scrubs (the one where someone dies and her organs are used in transplants to save 6 other patients but it turns out she had rabies so they all die and it really effects Dr Cox)
My over active and sometimes paranoid imagination.
When i dont see my man for a few days and then i come across an item of clothing that still smells of him.



I think i might actually spend slightly more time than that crying.....

Topic What are we reading right now?
Posted 05 Nov 2009 13:32

I have just finished reading The Time Travelers Wife, it was very good once i got into it and it made me cry like a baby at the end!! Lol!

Im currently reading My Sisters Keeper. Iv heard its been made a film but im not too fond of films after the books, they are never as good as the book.

Topic Care what he does for a living?
Posted 05 Nov 2009 13:28

Lol, you would think the Americans use a different language from us Brits sometimes Chefkathleen!!

A joiner is someone who works with wood in building, like making frames and stuff (or something along those lines!) and a "high vis" is short for High Visibility Jacket here, its those bright yellow jackets that you see people wear on building sites and in warehouses.

Topic Music Lyrics
Posted 04 Nov 2009 12:42

And I wonder
When I sing along with you
If everything could ever feel this real forever
If anything could ever be this good again

The only thing I'll ever ask of you
You've got to promise not to stop when I say when
She sang


Breathe out
So I could breathe you in
Hold you in

And now
I know you've always been
Out of your head, out of my head I sang

Everlong - Foo Fighters

Topic Could you take a stranger's life for a Million dollars?
Posted 04 Nov 2009 12:34

Gosh this thread is dark......

Topic Non sexual things that actually are quite sexy!
Posted 04 Nov 2009 12:32

Oh my god, Gypsymoth, thats the most beautiful description of photography ive ever heard!!!

Chefkathleen - the paycheck bit- priceless!!! lol!!

Topic Non sexual things that actually are quite sexy!
Posted 04 Nov 2009 07:06

Im currently sat curled up in my bed (see my guilty pleasures post lol) and im lovely and tosty warm but outside the rain is pouring. Now, obviously the rain is non sexual but watching it pour and hearing it pound against the window frame is actually quite sexy.

So i wanna know, what normal, everyday or non sexual stuff do you think is actually a little bit sexy??

Topic Guilty Pleasures
Posted 04 Nov 2009 06:55

Hmmm, i think mine are:

Take That, the older stuff of course - im more of a rock, indie, type chick
Fizzy Haribo - even tho they hurt my teeth
Port and sherry - Im only 22!! Thats stuffs for granddads!!
And most importantly.......

Going back to bed for most if not all of the day when its my day off without my little 'un and my partner goes work lol

Topic Watching Women
Posted 04 Nov 2009 05:57

I think its a very sexy and intamate thing to let a partner watch.
Its kinda a fantasy to be caught doing it (by my partner of course) and then having him watch me while he touches himself so we\end up watching each other. Im not too sure we could though without it turning into more... he is very hard to resist lol!

Topic Music Lyrics
Posted 04 Nov 2009 05:23

Ive got more wit, a better kiss,
a better touch, a better fuck
than any boy you'll ever meet
sweetie you had me


Lying Is the Most Fun a Girl Can Have Without Taking Her Clothes Off - Panic at the disco

Topic I heard...
Posted 03 Nov 2009 13:33

I heard that the woman 2 doors down from my mum is having an affair!!

Topic Have you ever been sexually addicted to someone?
Posted 03 Nov 2009 12:17

I think im addicted to my current partner.

I have been refered to before now as a difficult customer!! I seem to be one of those women for whom it takes quite a bit of time & effort to turn on, i have always been this way.. until now!!

The guy im with now has always been able to turn me on effortlessly (which is a nice change) and the sex has always been the best iv ever had but this past 2 months or so i seem to have become addicted to him! I want him every day even more than normal, i get aroused by the most innocent things he does, i sometimes feel like i NEED to have him and not that the sex isnt enough or not satisfying but i always want more, like i have to have him again and again.

Topic Cumming on a woman...?
Posted 03 Nov 2009 12:03

I think its really intimate when my partner cums inside me and to be honest i love the feeling of having it dribble out of me... :-"

I really enjoy swallowing it too though, mainly because he enjoys it and also because i like to be able to taste him in my throat afterwards!

And while im being honest i think id find it really sexy (and im sure he would too) if he came on me, pref on my face, boobs or over my nether reigons ahem, but im a bit too shy to just ask outright so that ones a secret lol Shhh

Topic Just wondering..
Posted 03 Nov 2009 11:54

When i posted my poem on here my partner hadnt read it or know anything about it and i wasnt really sure if i wanted him to read it but he caught me looking at the comments one day and said something along the lines of "reading filth again are we?" (this was a joke but i felt wounded) so i told him to read it himself and halfway through it he said to me "i know this is about me" I felt childishly pleased with myself lol.

I think i wouldnt mind him reading the stories i have written but the poem seemed quite personal but im now very glad hes seen it

Topic I'm the Virgin
Posted 03 Nov 2009 10:35

I am a piscean completly through and through!!

"These folks are selfless, spiritual and very focused on their inner journey. They also place great weight on what they are feeling. Feelings define Pisceans, and it's not uncommon for them to feel their own burdens as well as those of others. The intuition of the Pisces-born is highly-evolved. Many people associate Pisceans with dreams and secrets, and it's a fair association, since those born under this Sign feel comfortable in an illusory world."

"It's a pair of Fish that represents Pisceans, a symbol which prompts others to suggest that these people 'go with the flow' and 'don't make waves.' Both of these labels are true, since Pisceans are fluid and easy-going, in keeping with the Mutable Quality assigned to this Sign."



I am always in a dream world and i definatly end up having people walk over me because i dont like to "make waves", its easier to just go along with other people and i do also find i get swept away emotionally

Topic Music Lyrics
Posted 03 Nov 2009 10:22

Cool these engines
Calm these jets
I ask you how hot can it get
And as you wipe off beads of sweat
Slowly you say "I'm not there yet!"



Maroon 5 - Secret

Topic Who would you go gay for? By choice or ultimatum
Posted 03 Nov 2009 10:13

I know exactly who id go lesbian for, and id do it willingly!! lol.

Her name is Florence Welch and shes the lead singer in a British band Florence and the Machine. She is so sexy, has the most amazing voice and legs that go on forever!!! Oh and shes a sexy red head :)

Dontholien

Topic Blocking someone
Posted 01 Nov 2009 04:47

Hi, is it possible to block a user? if so how???
Thanks

Dontholien

Topic Just wondering..
Posted 25 Oct 2009 17:35

Hi all, i was just wondering, if anyone has written a story or poem that was inspired by their partner, do you let them read it?

Topic New Johnny Cash
Posted 30 Jul 2009 10:37

"but i shot a man in Wino" LOL, thats soooo cute!!

Topic Submissive ladies-
Posted 27 Jul 2009 14:08

I quite enjoy being the submissive one. I love the power my man has over me and its a big turn on. I think its more of a turn on coz i trust him so i know he would never put me out of my comfort zone so i love him being in control.

Not to say i cant take him by surprise tho if the mood takes me...

Topic Jealousy
Posted 27 Jul 2009 13:28

I trust my guy 100% so i dont get jealous, i have no need to be coz i know no matter who hes talkin 2 its me hes knockin the back out of when he gets home at night!! LOL!

Topic Female ejaculation
Posted 27 Jul 2009 13:22

I always thought this was a myth made up by guys tryin 2 impress other guys and i have never done it myself but im starting to think it could happen.

Since being with my new partner iv found that i do gush (sometimes quite a bit) which iv never done with anyone else and i think its his technique, maybe that is similar...?