About dpw

The avatar is my favourite porn star who sadly took his own life 2 years ago, what a waste of a life!
I'm a gay guy that won't die curious! I've been with guys mainly but I've had my moments with girls. I rarely go into the chatrooms, but might take a sneaky peek to see who's in there, so never say never. I am active in the forums, some might think too active, lol. I can be a bit acerbic but just because I don't agree with you it doesn't mean I don't like you. I do try to keep in contact with friends and can be fiercely loyal to them. Any gay guy that I spot I will usually request friendship but my friends are from across the spectrum.
I have lived the highs and lows in relationsips. Then I turned into the king of anonymous sex, slut extraordinaire. Now single but should have worked harder on the one that got away! I have had a go at writing some fiction, I don't know if it is any good, I'll let others be the judge of that. Don't expect too many happy endings from my stories, I am quite a fan of unrequited love and tearjerkers. There is nothing like a good weepy, hence my film list.
Too many "insignificant others" to write a true stories about them, in any case they have all blurred together. The ones with a significant other aren't for publication, they will probably stay unwritten.

Relationship Status:
Liverpool, Merseyside, United Kingdom
Men, gardening, gardeners, builders, plumbers, workmen, firemen, policemen...... Get the drift!
Favorite Books:
The Unbearable Lightness of Being
Catcher in the Rye
Tales of the City series
A Streetcat Called Bob
L'Amante Anglaise
Favorite Authors:
Robert Ludlum
John Grisham
George Orwell
Favorite Movies:
One Flew Over The Cuckoo's Nest
Imitation of Life
Now Voyager
Favorite Music:
1970's New Romantic
1980's High Energy
1990's Garage & Tribal
Date Joined:
15 Sep 2013
Last Visit:
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Topic: What does it feel like?
Posted: 01 Aug 2014 05:19

The last thing on my mind is analysing it. My thoughts are elsewhere.

Topic: Looking for a sexy guy to chat with
Posted: 01 Aug 2014 04:38

Yes, this has been explained to me several times over by several different people.

In regards to the whole 'this bird' thing, I was mistaken. In America we say 'chick' in the UK they say 'bird'. I totally missed that connection. Embarassed

To be honest, it isn't a term that an educated British gentleman should or would use.

Topic: Looking for a sexy guy to chat with
Posted: 01 Aug 2014 04:30

It can be depending on it's use. Like a lot of other terms, it can be very insulting to different people. I have been called a bird and felt it very demeaning.
I have never used the word "bird" to refer to a female, it wouldn't sit right with me. I do think it's slightly demeaning but not neccessarily derogatory.

Topic: Sexual identity crisis or just time to move on?
Posted: 01 Aug 2014 00:20

Whew! That was a close one. I ended up hooking up with my other partner and had a great time. No hesitation doing oral. I'm officially back in the middle of the road.

Scary. For a minute there I was afraid I might be turning straight. Instead, it's just clear that I need to move on from a partner that just doesn't turn me on anymore.
I can't believe that I missed the first post! Not like me to miss a question here. I'm glad that you've sorted it out.
The age gap can be a problem when you can't keep up with the young guys any more, lol. He might have got over his daddy fetish.
I wouldn't call you middle of the road though. More like, just stepped off the kerb. The thing that I like about kissing a guy is the "scruffiness", the raw masculinity of it. I'm not into soft skinned twinks, I like men.
I regard you as 80-90% straight. Open enough to have explored the other part of their sexuality. I think that most bisexual men fall into the 70-90% range of straightness.
It seems to me that there are very few gay bisexual men. Maybe after all the problems of coming out, they won't admit to still liking women.

Topic: how many people from uk
Posted: 31 Jul 2014 14:56

Liverpool up in the North West!
Nice to see another scouser here.

Topic: Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
Posted: 30 Jul 2014 05:25

And one was a Native American and there are no gay Native Americans. Its been proven. They were all viral heterosexual men, they just happened to look good in feathers and loved to dance.

Ill give you the Cowboy, the Leather guy and the Cop!
Well the Native American seemed gay enough when he had hold of my cock! True!

Topic: Who is the most famous person you have ever met?
Posted: 29 Jul 2014 12:57

Lucky fucking you...

xx SF

(When Beautiful Freddie's death was announced, (and he WAS) I had the following exchange with a gay BF of mine...

Me: "JESUS! AIDS! I had No Idea he was bent!!!"

My Friend: "Stephen his fucking BAND was called Queen..."
A bit like the US navy not realising that the Village People were gay!

I was chatted up by Sylvester as well!
JP Gaultier was fun but a bit of a cottage queen.

Topic: Does the latest Lush contest feel a bit forced, or is it just me?
Posted: 27 Jul 2014 09:23

you haven't read all of his posts to me.

always the same. nothing but hatred.

No, he wasn't.

Well I'll post again as the original one magically disappeared. Surely it wouldn't be deleted without letting me know, would it?
Anyway, read the post again, I was supporting your opinion, I agreed with you. Don't be too surprised.
As for the rest of your posts, they show your worst side. I have no idea where you get the thought that I hate women, I don't. I may not want to sleep with women but I certainly don't hate them, not even you!
As regards your posts, if anyone behaves like a spoilt brat, male or female, I will deride them.
Look back at our pm's, you where grateful to me, as I recall. This would have been in a pm as well, only you've blocked me.
I think you need to do a little growing up!

Topic: Why are civilians being killed in Gaza?
Posted: 27 Jul 2014 07:40

In my opinion the real fault lies with the UK and the US for not better dealing with the Jewish refugees after WWII.

If you really want to look for a root cause, you can lay this at Hitler's feet along with his other crimes. Without his final solution, the Jews are not displaced (and slaughtered) from their European homes and this entire problem never happens.

This situation has nothing to do with the UK at all. This is just another consequence of wonderful American interventionism! That's why the USA gives its unconditional support to Israel.
The Zionist lobby in US wanted Palestine and the holocaust gave them the ammunition. The UK wanted to give them a state in Uganda but that was rejected.
Now Israel is larger in area than at any stage in its history and Palestine is on the verge of disappearing!
I don't recall the US condemning the French resistance during WW11. Remember one mans terrorist is another mans freedom fighter.

Topic: Say something nice about the profile of the person above you
Posted: 26 Jul 2014 17:55

Well he's a brylcream boy. I'm grateful that he spent time defending our country.
I suspect he's got a quirky sense of humour.

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I've just got home from one of the most interesting encounters I've ever had, so I thought I'd share it with you. I'm Paul by the way, a 35 year old gay guy, 6', slim with short brown hair and blue eyes. It's my eyes that get me noticed, not that I know why, they've always just been my eyes but other people seem to like them. I'm thankful for that because otherwise I'd be just your average Joe. ...

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Killing Curiosity Part 3

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Thank you for the well wishes!
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