Forum posts made by ellenjames

Topic What did you have for breakfast?
Posted 27 Jul 2014 14:03

late Sunday breakfast after checking in on lush, taking a bubble bath (and shaving!) and checking out of the motel to head home - french toast, sausage patties, oj, coffee - skipped lunch! -

Topic Ladies (& bi/gay men) what underwear should your man wear?
Posted 26 Jul 2014 15:26

If he was wearing them especially for me - the skimpiest red or black silk with a pouch that held and showed off his cock!

Topic Are you a true pussy eater?
Posted 24 Jul 2014 10:47

always enjoyed giving oral - and regret a few times when I didn't for whatever reason

Topic What is it about older women that attracts younger men?
Posted 24 Jul 2014 10:45

When I was young I almost always found that older women knew what they wanted and didn't mess around letting you know that that was. They also almost always had the benefit of experience to share!

Topic What kinds of underwear do you wear?
Posted 11 Jul 2014 11:00

men's briefs, silk thongs, cotton panties - both French cut and others, silk, satin, and commando

Topic how many of you want to have sex outdoor
Posted 06 Jun 2014 11:07

wife has mentioned it, trying to work out how - perhaps our back porch

Topic What's your opinion on abortion?
Posted 06 Jun 2014 11:04

I support a woman's right to make decisions about her own body - but from experience I don't like abortion. Pro-choice.

Topic Do you like women skinny, slim, or curvy
Posted 06 Jun 2014 11:03

When I was young and shallow before I learned to appreciate women fully, I had strong preferences. Experience taught me to know better. Wish I had been as smart then.

Topic Nipple play for guys?
Posted 20 May 2014 07:35

absolutely love it - wish my partner would do more!

Topic Guys, be honest: can breasts get too big?
Posted 29 Apr 2014 04:40

I do think so, prefer women who have a proportioned figure whether generous or slender or even skinny

Topic Do you love to finger a woman?
Posted 29 Apr 2014 04:39

oh very much - though the wife doesn't enjoy it as much as some of my former girlfriends - earliest real sexual experience was fingering a high school girl friend to orgasm - I was left with blue balls but it was really hot watching her nude body respond to what I was doing -

Topic Screwing an older teacher
Posted 15 Apr 2014 10:41

My High School, way back when, had one teacher who was marred to one of his students after she graduated - and then a couple of years later, had another teacher in deep trouble because he was dating one of his students (all the girls knew about it) but the school only found out when the mother of another girl he had dated and dumped complained to the school. A couple of years after I graduated and was at college, I learned from friends that he had changed schools and married the second girl.

Topic what's your masturbation fantasy?
Posted 08 Apr 2014 05:55

It varies - sometimes thinking of old partners - kinky things we didn't get around to doing - a threesome with my wife - it's a matter of mood as much as anything

Topic Have you ever Secretly played with yourself on the phone with someone?
Posted 23 Mar 2014 18:28

intriguing idea which I've never acted on except in actual phone sex (with everybody knowing)

Topic Crossdressing
Posted 16 Mar 2014 13:07

I only finally admitted to being a crossdresser a few years ago, after going through all the background steps - raiding my mother's panty drawers and trying on nylons, etc - and then occasionally doing the same with wives and girlfriends. At this point, sexy is probably out of the question and passable at a distance my also be. That said, I regularly underdress with panties, stockings and hose, as well as wearing tops and jeans sometimes. Only go all the way when the wife is away as she is aware and tolerant but within limits. Dressing can have a sexual thrill for me sometimes but generally only if I'm already horny - otherwise it's just nice exercising my feminine side by dressing (also bisexual). Would I like to explore the sexual side of dressing with both men and women - yes, with the right persons and without losing what I already have.

Topic Your secret fantasy
Posted 15 Mar 2014 11:37

wait, I'm only supposed to have one?

Topic Oral Sex......for ladies or men (if you're bi)
Posted 15 Mar 2014 04:58

First experience with oral sex was a girl in college going down on my cock - sadly, she wasn't very good at it yet but I did appreciate it - didn't get a chance to return the favor until several years later with my first girlfriend after college -in both cases I'd have to say that the ladies were a bit more experienced than I was - but I quickly learned to enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex - haven't had a chance to experiment with a cock yet though I'd like to with the right one

Topic What are you wearing right now?
Posted 12 Mar 2014 12:26

Today - pink panties under pink tights, pink t shirt under "boyfriend's" shirt - 2 and 1/2 inch heels - making up for a lot of guy time last week

Topic married crossdressing?
Posted 11 Mar 2014 14:32

I told my wife a couple of years ago after finally facing up to it myself. I don't fully dress when she's around but she does accept my underdressing frequently, panties, stockings, etc but no breasts, wigs, makeup. We have had sex with me partially dressed and once even wearing matching thongs.

Topic Have you ever cum in your pants?
Posted 13 Feb 2014 10:20

Yes - on purpose a couple of times in college with a girl friend who was saving herself for what I hoped would be our wedding - dry humping isn't really dry if you're doing it right!

Topic Do guys really imagine having sex with all of their female friends?
Posted 13 Feb 2014 04:09

Yes, pretty much in my experience, any woman with whom he spends time with - in some instances more than in others in that the thought eventually enters his mind but not all of them get carried through to the point of fantasy. Of course, that doesn't mean that these fantasies are acted on.

Topic What's your opinion on abortion?
Posted 10 Feb 2014 16:47

I am opposed to abortion having once been party to a decision about an abortion BUT I am even more opposed to limiting a woman's right to make medical decisions about her own body.

Topic Does your girlfriend, or wife like to masturbate?
Posted 11 Jan 2014 09:45

It's a frequent part of our play and I love watching her - but usually she has me takeover unless I've persuaded her to use on of our toys to finish.

Topic What kinds of underwear do you wear?
Posted 11 Jan 2014 04:37

men's briefs, silk boxers, French-cut cotton panties, lacy panties, silk thong, satin hi-cut,

Topic Have you ever cum in your pants?
Posted 07 Jan 2014 19:39

yes, while dryhumping the college girlfriend I thought I would marry - and didn't - and being teased by the woman I did marry while out and around one day, using her hands and body to drive me absolutely crazy -

Topic For $1million, would you go against your sexual preference for a weekend?
Posted 10 Dec 2013 15:58

darn it - how am I going to find anything outside my sexual preferences? that aren't completely illegal -

Topic Have you come out to family/parents?
Posted 08 Dec 2013 11:29

I told my wife that I'm bi - and monogamous (except on lush!) - decided that if anyone else asked (especially family) I would tell the truth, otherwise it's not necessary to go around advertising it -

Topic Putting yourself in your stories,and re using the same charater's in some of your stories.
Posted 08 Dec 2013 10:56

There's a mixture of me and other figures in my stories which are often inspired by either something that actually happened to me or that I might wish had happened to me, or that I would still like to try for myself. But sometimes it's easier to write about it happening to someone else.

Topic The over 50 guys. R u finding it hard to find women your age to chat.
Posted 07 Dec 2013 04:51

Have paid less attention to age and gender than to interests, though interacting mostly with men - do find that the over 50 women are often the most fun and interesting when I do encounter them! just like in real life

Topic Coffee or Energy drink for morning fix.
Posted 07 Dec 2013 04:48

coffee always - tea in a pinch - best coffee ever, campfire coffee outdoors -