Forum posts made by ellenjames

Topic Screwing an older teacher
Posted 15 Apr 2014 10:41

My High School, way back when, had one teacher who was marred to one of his students after she graduated - and then a couple of years later, had another teacher in deep trouble because he was dating one of his students (all the girls knew about it) but the school only found out when the mother of another girl he had dated and dumped complained to the school. A couple of years after I graduated and was at college, I learned from friends that he had changed schools and married the second girl.

Topic what's your masturbation fantasy?
Posted 08 Apr 2014 05:55

It varies - sometimes thinking of old partners - kinky things we didn't get around to doing - a threesome with my wife - it's a matter of mood as much as anything

Topic Have you ever Secretly played with yourself on the phone with someone?
Posted 23 Mar 2014 18:28

intriguing idea which I've never acted on except in actual phone sex (with everybody knowing)

Topic Crossdressing
Posted 16 Mar 2014 13:07

I only finally admitted to being a crossdresser a few years ago, after going through all the background steps - raiding my mother's panty drawers and trying on nylons, etc - and then occasionally doing the same with wives and girlfriends. At this point, sexy is probably out of the question and passable at a distance my also be. That said, I regularly underdress with panties, stockings and hose, as well as wearing tops and jeans sometimes. Only go all the way when the wife is away as she is aware and tolerant but within limits. Dressing can have a sexual thrill for me sometimes but generally only if I'm already horny - otherwise it's just nice exercising my feminine side by dressing (also bisexual). Would I like to explore the sexual side of dressing with both men and women - yes, with the right persons and without losing what I already have.

Topic Your secret fantasy
Posted 15 Mar 2014 11:37

wait, I'm only supposed to have one?

Topic Oral Sex......for ladies or men (if you're bi)
Posted 15 Mar 2014 04:58

First experience with oral sex was a girl in college going down on my cock - sadly, she wasn't very good at it yet but I did appreciate it - didn't get a chance to return the favor until several years later with my first girlfriend after college -in both cases I'd have to say that the ladies were a bit more experienced than I was - but I quickly learned to enjoy both giving and receiving oral sex - haven't had a chance to experiment with a cock yet though I'd like to with the right one

Topic What are you wearing right now?
Posted 12 Mar 2014 12:26

Today - pink panties under pink tights, pink t shirt under "boyfriend's" shirt - 2 and 1/2 inch heels - making up for a lot of guy time last week

Topic married crossdressing?
Posted 11 Mar 2014 14:32

I told my wife a couple of years ago after finally facing up to it myself. I don't fully dress when she's around but she does accept my underdressing frequently, panties, stockings, etc but no breasts, wigs, makeup. We have had sex with me partially dressed and once even wearing matching thongs.

Topic Have you ever cum in your pants?
Posted 13 Feb 2014 10:20

Yes - on purpose a couple of times in college with a girl friend who was saving herself for what I hoped would be our wedding - dry humping isn't really dry if you're doing it right!

Topic Do guys really imagine having sex with all of their female friends?
Posted 13 Feb 2014 04:09

Yes, pretty much in my experience, any woman with whom he spends time with - in some instances more than in others in that the thought eventually enters his mind but not all of them get carried through to the point of fantasy. Of course, that doesn't mean that these fantasies are acted on.

Topic What's your opinion on abortion?
Posted 10 Feb 2014 16:47

I am opposed to abortion having once been party to a decision about an abortion BUT I am even more opposed to limiting a woman's right to make medical decisions about her own body.

Topic Does your girlfriend, or wife like to masturbate?
Posted 11 Jan 2014 09:45

It's a frequent part of our play and I love watching her - but usually she has me takeover unless I've persuaded her to use on of our toys to finish.

Topic What kinds of underwear do you wear?
Posted 11 Jan 2014 04:37

men's briefs, silk boxers, French-cut cotton panties, lacy panties, silk thong, satin hi-cut,

Topic Have you ever cum in your pants?
Posted 07 Jan 2014 19:39

yes, while dryhumping the college girlfriend I thought I would marry - and didn't - and being teased by the woman I did marry while out and around one day, using her hands and body to drive me absolutely crazy -

Topic For $1million, would you go against your sexual preference for a weekend?
Posted 10 Dec 2013 15:58

darn it - how am I going to find anything outside my sexual preferences? that aren't completely illegal -

Topic Have you come out to family/parents?
Posted 08 Dec 2013 11:29

I told my wife that I'm bi - and monogamous (except on lush!) - decided that if anyone else asked (especially family) I would tell the truth, otherwise it's not necessary to go around advertising it -

Topic Putting yourself in your stories,and re using the same charater's in some of your stories.
Posted 08 Dec 2013 10:56

There's a mixture of me and other figures in my stories which are often inspired by either something that actually happened to me or that I might wish had happened to me, or that I would still like to try for myself. But sometimes it's easier to write about it happening to someone else.

Topic The over 50 guys. R u finding it hard to find women your age to chat.
Posted 07 Dec 2013 04:51

Have paid less attention to age and gender than to interests, though interacting mostly with men - do find that the over 50 women are often the most fun and interesting when I do encounter them! just like in real life

Topic Coffee or Energy drink for morning fix.
Posted 07 Dec 2013 04:48

coffee always - tea in a pinch - best coffee ever, campfire coffee outdoors -

Topic Advice on male chastity devices?
Posted 06 Dec 2013 12:59

Not interested in a lifestyle change but thinking about adding male chastity device used by cuckolds for play sometimes - anyone want to share any pointers or advice or recommendations?

Topic Older women?
Posted 03 Dec 2013 13:42

Have had several relationships with older women who were very sexy and aware of what they liked - and wanting to please their partners

Topic have you ever had taboo sex
Posted 04 Nov 2013 11:34

no, nothing serious.

Topic If you COULD suck your own dick....?
Posted 02 Nov 2013 09:24

If I ever could do it, it's probably just as well I didn't find out!!

Topic More than one?
Posted 30 Oct 2013 06:20

My wife and I are both on our second marriage and joke about the first marriages being training marriages. And for both of us it just happened that we each grew to want different things than our first partners wanted. We met and discovered we wanted the same things - and are pretty sure that when we were younger or if we had been older we wouldn't have been each other's one at the time we met.

Topic Guys having there nipples played with.
Posted 30 Oct 2013 06:18

oh yes, we've discovered that I love it and the wife has gotten quite good at it - goes right to my cock, too - pinched, licked, sucked, tweaked, teased -

Topic Would you take off your underwear, if your other half asked you to; while wearing a skirt or dress,
Posted 26 Oct 2013 05:14

Encouraging answers, I'd already decided that if my wife meets me at the airport when I get home from this trip - if she's wearing a skirt or dress, I would ask her to remove her panties before we leave - hope she's as up for it as I am!

Topic Is squirting gross or hot?
Posted 19 Oct 2013 11:08

Very hot, loved it the first time my wife did it and I realized just how turned on she was - apparently she'd never done it before and wasn't sure at first herself what happened.

Topic What music do you listen to while you exercise?
Posted 19 Oct 2013 09:11

rock and roll, baby!!

Topic What Do You Think About Interracial Sex?
Posted 16 Oct 2013 19:07

As a pansexual, I'm in favor of consensual sex in general regardless of race, gender, etc - that said there does seem to be a fascination for many people with interracial sex from both whites and blacks, men and women - I enjoy the bbc cuckold and bbc cuckold sissy stories and am curious about the reality as well - but there is also a certain fantasy element here as well perhaps captured by what some movie critics called "the magic negro" effect - what ever is wrong with the white people in the movie can always be fixed by Morgan Freeman, Opra Winfrey, Will Smith - or whoever -