Forum posts made by ellenjames

Interesting to ask this question at a time when those who insist that homosexuality is a choice are now seriously in retreat. Of course, when I told a longtime female friend that I'd concluded that I'm bisexual, she opined that based on her experience (marriage, divorce, 30 years plus of nursing) that when it comes to sex just about all guys are sexual omnivores - open to sex with just about anyone and maybe anything! For me, it was a choice not to act upon the indications that I might be bi - actually remember concluding that trying to figure out one gender - women - and how to relate to them was enough of a challenge for one lifetime.

oral sex is extremely intimate because of the vulnerability attached to our genitals - very hot for me to have or give oral sex and to be able to watch, whoever is doing it.

Today, Friday, did seem particularly bad and a long outage - okay now though.

I think i'd like to try it. and maybe try it again with a male version of my self

Had the same idea though perhaps a threesome with a male and a female version of me -

I think my wife may be ready to hear at least a little bit about what I've been doing on Lush - if I carefully choose the right moment and keep it a bit general at first - going to try anyway

Hot - totally hot - only had it happen with two women - still married to the one!

"My" redhead is the one that got away. In High School she went with my best friend - later explaining she wanted to go to the Prom and he had a car while I didn't - but she helped me out with my high school crush (after her). She also later admitted that when we all three rode in my best friend's two seat British sports car and she sat on my lap, she really did regret her choice and was deliberately teasing me like mad! We actually dated while in college (different schools) but work took us different directions. Life kept getting in the way afterwards as we each married, divorced, and I remarried - never getting the timing right. Over the years I learned that she was even more complicated and far sexier than I ever imagined way back in High School - we still exchange email some time and she can get my motor running so easily. Ah, well.

really only once I can remember - none of my teachers until college were the stuff of fantasies you might say - did have an Economics professor who reportedly gave out grades for 'extra' work! I wouldn't have turned it down.

Yes and I have - we have. I bought her a vibrating dildo she later bought us a vibrator, we've both enjoyed playing with both of them.

Yes - of course, I was married at the time and her father was making a hard pass at my wife at the same time!

I prefer whatever makes her feel sexy - which in fact is VS and even others, usually not Fredericks -

Not even the slightest interest in either giving or receiving.

I've been fucked by my wife with a dildo but not yet with a strap-on - though she said she'd be willing to get one - really love using a butt plug first and am looking to get one that I could wear around under my clothes -

I've been fucked by my wife with a dildo but not yet with a strap-on - though she said she'd be willing to get one - really love using a butt plug first and am looking to get one that I could wear around under my clothes -

A bit evolutionary actually - working in theatre in college around gays opened my mind up but it was really only a few years ago that I began to admit it to myself, first with fantasies of a mmf three way with my wife - but it really hit me when I looked up one day in a museum and saw a pair of young men together - and realized that I would happily have done almost anything they asked me - they didn't ask but the realization stayed.

I love having my cock sucked and would be happy to do the same - hasn't happened yet

smile - lively eyes - overall figure - her outfit (especially the shoes) -

Having tried some anal play with a vibrator and dildo - I'd love to try it with my wife - she hasn't picked a strap on yet

Yes, dildo, vibrator - like to try a fleshlight -

shower this morning after visiting lush!

briefs (or panties when I underdress)

Frankly, I think the real answer has to be that it all depends and whatever you decide it's likely to be complicated.

I only slept once with my ex-wife after our divorce - she came to visit me at an overseas job site and I put here up in the huge house that came with the job. It was unclear to me why she was visiting, while it had been as close to a friendly divorce as I think you can get (no kids, preunups, or support demands) - the wound was still raw. Which may have been her reason for visiting because no sooner had she dropped her luggage in the guest room, she appeared in the doorway to my bedroom starkers. Today I wonder what it must have taken her to risk this - at the time I only marveled at her nerve - and the fact that she still looked pretty good and I remembered how good the sex could be. However, what happened was a lot closer to forcible sex than we'd ever had before as I took her offering pretty roughly, minimal to no foreplay and little attention to whether she was enjoying it. Put simply and crudely, I fucked her and that was all it was.

Curiously, the only fuckbuddy I ever had was her best friend - and we linked up after I got back from this same overseas job. We lived in the same small complex and were almost literally on call for each other - only a phone call away and almost always said yes. The sex was great, but there was almost no emotional content and it ended for me when she wouldn't commit to something more and for her when my ex-wife began asking about whether or not the two of us were an item.

So that's why I say it's likely to be complicated and your mileage will vary.

Best of luck what ever you do!

I found it reading stories on another site -

Every chance I get

my rock and roll mixtape - all vintages, classic, 60s, 70s, 80s, etc. on a random playlist

I was 22 - I had had a fiancee in college but also took her "no" for an answer which took up two years and the other years in college in high school before didn't include anyone interested or interesting enough to go beyond some pretty heavy petting including the first time I brought a girl to orgasm just by using my hands on her pussy and finger fucking her). But on my first date with a woman a year younger (21) at my first real workplace ended up at her place. Wasn't sure this was going anywhere and finally got up to leave, but that goodnight kiss kept going on and on, and almost before I knew it we were both on the floor with our jeans pulled down and shirts and, blouse all open and I was slipping my cock into her. We eventually got married after some ups and downs though it didn't take and we got divorced 5 years later - both more interested in careers than keeping the marriage together. We had sex one more time after that when she visited me for a last time, dropped her bags in the guest room and walked into my bedroom stark naked. This last time wasn't as gentle or romantic as the first time though there were no punches or force involved, just rough physical fucking.

What's the CSNY tune say? Love the one you're with?

Started regularly shaving it a few years ago in my 50s hoping that if I did my wife would - shed didn't but I like it though I now leave a patch above my cock

Sometimes, also like black lace pjs

We've actually bought them for each other now - a couple of vibrators and a cock ring, still waiting for the strapon she was promising