Love and happiness

Yes - don't do that to yourself . . . don't ask questions on this site and honestly try to apply it to your wife and your relationship with her. If she's fine - she's fine. The number-one killer of a good, solid relationship is lack of communication - followed up by a lack of trust.

In all due honesty - I don't think any of us have ever been in a situation through which we'd have to find out how it would really be.

Oh no Metilda... I ask just out of curiosity for the subject - and will not let the women of Lush be a leading star in my life.

I decide to believe my wife, and enjoy the good life we have together is so many ways.

Those of you who have read my stories, might guess that this question holds a certain personal edge to it.



And in truth: impotent men and women have less interest in said activities purely because they lack the ability to reap full enjoyment.

Aside that - I don't get the same amount of pleasure out of an experience if my husband doesn't reach his own orgasm . . . that's the whole point for me - both of us to benefit, not just one. Of course, I don't suffer from a lack of orgasms.

It is possible to get aroused and get partial erections without the power to penetrate, but beeing able to orgasm nicely from other stimulation.

I agree with the nice Lush ladies, that penetration, the joining of bodies, is the ultimate experience in sex. I want it, and search for it with every possible pharmaceutical and mechanical way. When you cannot get what you want, you must try til love what you can have. And I do. Sex with my wife is vere nice. She has her 5-6 orgasms, sometimes with ejaculation, I get mine, and it brings us close together. But still I search for this firm erection enabling penetration.

And my wife says I am stupid, that she is perfectly happy, that it is me having an issue on this, that I read to many Lush stories. She says that she has never had vaginal orgasm, she never had orgasm at all before she met my fingers and mouth, and that penetration is not important to her.

And I wonder; does she really mean that she is happy? Is she just being nice and comforting (she is a lovable and nice women)? Judged by the responses from the Lush women, she would by serving me a white gentle lie. But then again she is not a Lush women, and maybe Lushites are more preoccupied with sex than the rest of the population?????

But I know I will never try to hit on any of you beautiful sexy women, just coffe, chat and friendship.

An american feminist once wrote "Thank God for impotent men" meaning that they had sex mor attentive to their partners need and satisfaction stimulating them with oither means (hands, tounge, toys) instead of only chasing their own satisfacion through the intercourse.

But most stories written by women on Lush focus and yearns towords the penetration, the physical connection.

Would you want to have sex with a man who could give you lots of orgasms, but no penetration?

Beautiful, sweet and impulsive.

First let me say I do not believe in cheating in any form (sex with married people when the other is OK with it is not cheating to me).

But I can see LM's point. If you are in a sexless/loveless marriage and divorce is not an option for whatever reason, then maybe I can see why you would want to cheat. We all need to feel loved and wanted. But to be a single man or woman, and to knowingly have sex with married person and not care that you may be destroying a family just for a qick thrill, well that just doesnt sit right with me.


Yes - well said!

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Sorry Elling, not my style to seek others whilst in a relationship good or bad. I've written several posts about this topic and how my ex-hubby gave me 'permission' to go out and have an affair as long as I came home to him. He said that to me during a very difficult time in our marriage sexually speaking and although I had plenty of opportunities to cheat on him and even thought about it again more seriously when he extended his supposed blessing, I realized I am just not that kind of woman. I don't think I could have lived with myself and wasn't sure I could trust my emotions especially because I still loved my hubby very much. That wasn't who I was nor who I wanted to become. As a result, I did end up ending my marriage shortly thereafter but have managed to remain the best of friends with my ex in spite of it all.

I think your position on this is what is most people`s view; that sex and love shall be connected, and reserved for each other. Interesting to note that his permission for you to be with others, drove you further apart - even though you did not act on it.

But many people on Lush (and elsewhere) describe how they live in these kind of relationship and says that their love is quite as strong (even stronger?). Is this just another example of the diversity of human sexuality, that we are different in sexual preferences, wants and emotions?

I must admit that swapping and adventourous wives intrigue me. If my wife was interested, she would have the permission - and preferable we would explore together. But she is not, and I do not cheat, so I continue to keep my sexlife together with my one and only love for the rest of my life - I hope. And perhaps it is for the best anyway.

Hell yes! Being Tattooed is a HUGE turn on! Of course I have a few myself ;)

Your tattoos are beatutiful

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This is a sequel to ”I was so careful” where my wife discovered my reading erotica and watching ”dirty” pictures on the Internet. I had been so afraid. I thought that this discovery would make her mad at me, or even worse – despise me. But instead it opened up a communication around our sex life that we had never had before. We had sex more often, and she took initiative, which had...

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I was so careful to cover my tracks. On my iMac I used Safari as my default browser, and it was Safari I had on my dock. But I had also hidden away a Chrome browser, not sticking to the dock. I activated stealth mode. On my Chrome I had open stories from Lush, pictures and even small videos from xhamster, pages with information on swinging. Stuff I did not want my wife to know that I read...

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