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Does it turn you on if a man is forceful with you in the bedroom?

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Lol, yes! Like loads! It just feels great for him to be such a gentleman and then turn forceful when no one else is around.
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Somewhat yeah but not to intense I have to admit I get freaked out when someone holds me down so that side of it i don't like
Bonnet Flaunter
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Nope! Total turn off for me! But sure we're all different; variety being the spice of life! ;)
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immensely arousing if the person knows what he is she is doing...
Active Ink Slinger
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I love it. My husband has had it his way from the beginning and I loved it at first and love it still.
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YES A!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Definitely hot, but I do not want to hurt or have any marks the next day
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Sometimes. Most times I prefer soft and loving sex. Just occasionally it's fantastic when he forcefully bends me over a chair or settee and does it to me with the wild gusto of an animal.
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yes exactly what my girl friend likes. Not all the time but the once a month surpise session over the ironing board
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Love it, Love it, Love it


Quote by Buz
I have discovered that if we are out somewhere, especially at a dress up social function, that I find the right opportunity to sneak in a very discrete feel and tell her (very aggressively) that I am going to fuck the hell out of her when we get home, that by the time we get home she is so horny and worked up that she is like an obsessed tigress. Awesome!



Buz you have it exactly right.
I love when my man does this, spending the evening waiting in anticipation, knowing he wants me, that he is thinking of pushing me up against the wall and having his way..... well thats foreplay at its finest
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Ohhh love it!!!!!!!


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Yes and yes. I do get in the mood for rough sex and being handled and controlled but sometimes I do want to do the controlling as well. Hehe just depends on my mood.
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Yes, it definitely has it's place. The occassional blouse and pantie ripping can be an extraordinary turn on.
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I'm really into S&M so HELL YEAH!!!

Sticks and stone may break my bones but whips and chains excite me! So hold me down and fuck me hard, to show me that you like me!!!!!!
Active Ink Slinger
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I love a strong pair of hands gripping me firmly, holding me down, spanking me, pulling my hair, a firm tone of voice, no doubt whatsoever over who is in charge *shivers*

So yes, it turns me on.
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mmmm...i love a good hard....
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YES!!! Though it's actually harder than you'd think to find a nice guy who'll get rough with you. Plenty of jerks out there that want to treat you like shit ALL of the time. But only so many that will treat you like a princess and then when they want also smack you around a bit during sex. I actually had to bring it up with my current boyfriend who was very hesitant at first. But he's slowly gotten to where he enjoys it and doesn't play too soft.
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A big, Yes. Nothing gets my heart racing faster.
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Yes....but there's a limit to everything. It takes me quite a lot to go 'ow' when I have a guy being rough with me, so I'm never impressed if they overstep that pain threshold.

I also dislike having any kind of pain the next day....marks I can deal with if need be, but pain? No thanks! Currently I have a sore neck from it being bitten too much and too hard yesterday (about to get up and assess the bruise/s in the mirror)...not cool.
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YES....Take control, don't ask, just DO!!!!
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My wife loves it!
Not just in the bedroom.
She knows the look in my eye seconds before I take her, literally!

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Oh yes! I like a man to be a man. Since I enjoy getting a little spanky before sex I'd say a forceful man is a def MUST
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I love it. Not everytime cos that would be boring. I love the look in his eyes when you know he just has to have you. I don't think you can fake it either. I used to have a lover who tried to be but I knew it wasn't really him and it didn't turn me on at all.
Forceful doesnt have to hurt either, it's hot when you know you simply have no say in it. Like you're trying to do the washing up or some thing and he just fucks you right then and there.
My boyfriend popped round recently to see if I was ok cos I was off sick with a cold. I was in bed in a little nightie probably not looking sooo hot with my red nose and puffy eyes but he got turn on and even though he kinda knew he shouldn't he had me anyway. It was quick and forceful and I will never forget it.
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Hot. Definitely.

I like it quite a bit rougher than what you described and if the guy knows what he's doing, it's incredible.

You definitely have to tell the guy how intense/dominant you want him to get though, otherwise they will always underplay. I think a lot of guys aren't that comfortable with rough sex or don't know what level to take it to, so communication is key. When you find a guy that's got some skills with this, I swear it becomes like an addiction that you need to feed.


My wife might disagree with you. I don't think I have ever underplayed it. Finally found her limit and take it right to that every time I can.
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Very hot!!!
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Yes, it's by someone you really want like to be by. Which isn't really but it's still fucking hot
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Quote by freakycactus
I love a strong pair of hands gripping me firmly, holding me down, spanking me, pulling my hair, a firm tone of voice, no doubt whatsoever over who is in charge *shivers*

So yes, it turns me on.


Yes this here. Not every time but it is so very nice to be done this way occasionally.
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Note to self: TXhoney likes it when a strong pair of hands grips her firmly, holding her down, spanking her, pulling her hair, a firm tone of voice, no doubt whatsoever over who is in charge,