ahhh dont get me started on parents: my lovely well intentioned mother told me if I divorced my then husband, who had hospitalized me while choking/telling me he was going to kill me, i would be a fallen woman, burn in hell, & she would fight to take my kids away.
people have made me feel badly about who i am not so much by what they said but by disregarding me. the abuse is something i always did to myself because i felt i deserved the way they treated me....
just so you know... i am getting over this.... now i know i have something to offer that is of great value.... in the mental, physical and spiritual sense.
"I can't watch you feel guilty about playing music, and taking time from us. I am leaving you, so that you don't have to feel guilty, ever again."
Heinlein had it wrong. It isn't the moon; it's music that is a harsh mistress.
My avatar is a photograph of a self-portrait in lead by a frind of my parents, Charlie Benson.
But it could have been mine.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
i am now your mother and you will do as i say, your other mother is dead. why i call her the step mother from hell
My parents and I had some obvious disagreements, and my father could be quite cruel at times. When I was getting ready to go off to my freshman year in college, my mom asked if I had everything ready and I told her I wanted to buy a few new bras. Dad smirked and said "Do you actually need one yet?" because I wasn't exactly busty. Jeez, thanks, Dad...you asshole.
"A black cat crossing your path signifies that the animal is going somewhere." - Groucho Marx
That I was a useless whore. That's the worst thing ever said to me.
How AWFUL, Lady Swanny!!!!
(You're an EXTREMELY useful little whore!)
xx Steph
(I'm in deep shit if she doesn't 'get' this....)
'I'm happy now, I don't need you to drag me down'
hmmm think i will keep it to myself
i have been called a slut, stupid and ugly by people that mean the world to me.
"I talk a good game, and you were an easy target"... (by the guy who took my virginity).
"I Would never love a bitch like you". By a person who i loved with all my heart only to have her crush my heart.
"I am awarding these assets to the wife.....................................................," The divorce court judge.
the worst thing that was ever said to me was "I will always love you" when it was a lie.....said by the man i would have changed my whole life for.
now when i hear a man say that, and lately they all seem to be saying it, i just respond with....ppfffftt, ok jack ass.
littlemissbitch ~ professional face ripper offer, at your service..
"Oh, look, it's like a dick only smaller!"
( My high school art teacher commenting on my sketch of the genitalia of Michaelangelo's David.)
Got to be .. I dont love you anymore.
Got bullied in middle school as well, along with my circle of friends.
It's much more difficult when you grow up in a small school, because when you're not among the popular attention-seeking kids, you could instantly become the prime target of bullies. I, being the kid who had acne breakouts growing up, got called "crater face". My friends were teased with names like "101 Dalmatian", "cockroach", "forehead", "liposuction girl", etc. The name-calling and physical bullying were endless. Even got punched and shoved by boys in class.
My main solace was that I had friends who were going through the same things I was. We managed to get out of high school w/ fond memories, nevertheless. Grateful for that. Bullying could really traumatize, but it could toughen you up as well.
I think some point in our lives someone is going to say something so cruel to you. I have lost count on what people have told me.
The one phrase which haunts me to this day after 11 years when I was sixteen years old. A boy who was a real jerk came up to me and said "Sirene, you are not pretty." He laughed in my face. I shrugged it off until he went to the boys in my year and boasted whe he said and the boys laughed.
Still I get the last laugh as he was dating the most unattractive girl in my year in school and ended up marrying her (which she bought her own engagement ring after he tried to put it off).
I guess the good comments come when your partner says how sexy you are or a stranger especially with an European accident says you are gorgeous.
My "sister" (in inverted commas because I've disowned her and want nothing to do with her any more, so much so that when asked about brothers/sisters I never mention her) threatened to stab me while I slept. The scariest thing was that she meant it. I didn't sleep for months and my mum hid all the knives so that my sister wouldn't be able to carry out her threat. Nobody from my family speaks to her any more and as far as we know, she's still a deranged psycho Jekyll and Hyde type character.
I am a chef by trade and a guy told me my food tasted like shit.
it really hurt because i know it was good and they were just being an asshole.
Anyway same day someone came into the kitchen and said it was the best meal they ever had.
so it evened out.
Mine came in a letter and stated that I "would not be receiving an appointment" because I had "demonstrated a hearing impairment, therefore failing the hearing portion of the physical."
wow this thread is super depressing. People are such a$$holes
ummm my ex used to call me the most horrible horrible names... and I'm still a little too ashamed to tell anyone... and I rather not dredge up the bad memories
LMB I agree with you... I feel that the next time somebody tells me he loves me, a big part of me is not going to believe it
"You are a fucking worthless cunt, I own you bitch." My ex-husband said that before he dislocated my shoulder!
