I can't really recall there ever being any pain for me when I haven't wanked or had sex in a while. Up until just recently I didn't have ANY sexual activity for almost 4 years (something happened, I completely just lost my 'sexdrive' - didn't sleep with anyone or have a wank during that period).
But then again, as someone have pointed out already, all males are different - some might feel some pain, or a stinging sensation - but I'm not one of those.
If I go for long enough without sex I lose the desire to come entirely. Only thing is, if I then get turned on in a major way without ejaculating, my balls ache like hell afterwards. (someone once called it blue balls, not sure if that's a common expression)
If you're going through hell, keep going. - Winston Churchill
"My balls will explode!" BAD line to get a woman to have sex with you. I can't imagine someone buying that. For me it's sometimes more pleasurable to go a few days between sexual encounters - masturbation excepted.
I think your bf is a smart man! lol
There is a really great pressure, and I get a hard on that won't go away until I deal with it. Also, if I haven't cum in a while, I get really irritable.
Ferte in noctem animam meam, Illustre stelle viam meam. Aspectu illo glorior, Dum capit nox diem. Cantate vitae canticu, Sine dolore acte, Dicite eis quos amabam, Numquam obliviscar.
My head almost exploded Thursday afternoon...fortunately, I had a little assistance on Friday night, so a catastrophe was averted this weekend.
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
That went away when I kicked a certain habit. Having a woman 17 years younger than myself really helps a great deal also.
I'd agree with an earlier post, if I havent cum in a while its ok, but if I then get turned on and dont do anything about it - ouch!
I don't find it painful, just very frustrating. When you do finally come, it is a mind blowing explosion, my balls and shaft really errupt and you can really feel the cum unleashing.
Having said that, it's been years since I went a day or two without cumming.
I actually think about sex less if I haven't cum in awhile. Once you finally do cum the release is amazing!
i found it almost feels like im full between the bottom of my stomach and the start of my cock. Not the same feeling as when u need to pee but just like there is a huge build up of pressure. Does feel heavenly to release it all
No pain for me...but then again I hardly go a day without cumming!
It's not physically painful, just emotionally! And I'll say - just for myself - that the second cum, after a period of abstinence, is tremendously more powerful than the first one. I suspect his telling you it hurt was just desperation.
I like to wait a week sometimes then edge myself for a couple of hours. The feeing is unbelievable!!!
It hurts a lot if you have a boner for a long period of time not just having not cum for three days. I boner if kept constant for a hour could cause the pain of blue balls.
Physically, it does not make a difference how long you haven't had an orgasm. Our testicles constantly create new spermcells, but they're not stored forever in an ever expanding reservoir. After a while the sperms deteriorate and are broken down again, to be absorbed in the bloodstream, where some components may be reused and the rest is disposed of by our liver and kidneys. Stories of overflowing balls and scrotums that hurt because they are filled to the brink are fables, and their only purpose is to convince a (potential) partner to perform some sexual act, if only out of pity.
Mentally it's a different story of course. Just like anything that makes you feel good, you're likely to crave it more, the longer you have to miss it.
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Hey... pssst.... that's an l (as in luscious) at the end of my name, not an i It hurts and burns as I cum so hard. Kinda like edging over and over for me. But oh so goooood!
Not having sex or coming for days at a time I don't think is physically painful. However there are circumstances that can produce the "blue balls syndrome" such as when she takes him to the edge, manually, orally, etc. repeatedly and he does not come for whatever reason. I think the boyfriend's comment was mean to make you feel sorry for him and have sex.
Have managed without for a month before ... Through circumstance not choice.
Certainly didn't turn blue. But they did start feeling very insistent that I remedy the situation forthwith... Didn't take long when I did, and wasn't particularly satisfying.
You get a low aching in your balls. If some chick has given you a good teasing and you've been aroused for a while without cumming, you'll get blue balls. Those really ache and drive you crazy. The only cure is to cum.
no real feeling to it. hurts more if i get hit in the nuts.
